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Martin Heisler
June 2, 2011
Fay was a life-long and extraordinarily effective advocate for Africa. She gained the respect of those who cared for its people and the respect of Africanists everywhere. She will not be replaced.
Martin O. Heisler, Professor Emeritus, University of Maryland
Dorothuy Anderson
November 1, 2010
Fay was a colleague, and we became friends after our first meeting in Washington, DC,in 1981, when she was a scholar-in-residence on loan from Northwestern University at the United States Information Agency (USIA). She became a special friend after staying in our home in Monrovia, Liberia while on a short working visit. The relationship continued after our return to DC and even after our retirement and move from the DC area. Fay and Art were two of the most wonderful people I've ever known. They treated me like family when my husband was overseas and I was in DC alone. I'm still in denial re her death, thinking I've had a bad dream and will wake up and find that it isn't true. I do know for sure that Fay will be sorely missed by all of us who had the pleasure of knowing her.
Sondie Frus
October 21, 2010
Fay greeted me into the visitor exchange family through fond memories she had of my board president, Joan McGinley, during their introduction to each other years ago. There was a story about some wonderful food served by Joan to the new Foreign Services guests she hosted. It became funny when I regularly confused whether it was creamed peas or creamed onions. Our laughter over that was part of the carmaderie shared with Fay across the phone and internet with occasional hugs during national conferences. She is missed, already.
Judy Weinstein
October 15, 2010
It was always a joy to work with Fay on an IVLP project. Her humor and positive spirit was part of every conversation. Stopping by her office to chat during the NCIV annual meetings was a special treat.
Joanne Clark
October 15, 2010
Fay was mentor, teacher, friend, convenor and humorist to us all, and devoted and loving partner to Art. Her reach is great and her impact significant. Fay, things are not the same since you left us, but you will forever be remembered as we lunch at Fay's Cafe.
Kim Ngoc Le
October 14, 2010
Fay, Los Angeles will miss you dearly!
Jennifer Grandinetti
October 14, 2010
I have special memories of having delightful, intelligent, interesting, and funny conversations with Fay during our lunch at Meridian. You will be dearly missed, Fay.
Tom Baldridge
October 14, 2010
The IV Program, Meridian, and international diplomacy have lost a great advocate. Please accept my sincere condolances.
Pam Mohamed
October 14, 2010
I will miss programming for Fay and her wonderful positive spirit. She always made us feel part of the team. On behalf of the International Hospitality Council of Austin I express our condolences to her family and to her colleagues at Meridian. She is deeply missed.
Todd Culpepper
October 14, 2010
Fay was a wonderful person, rich in life experiences and so passionate about Africa and her work to promote the good of humanity. We will miss her.
Jena Melancon
October 14, 2010
Sometimes you meet someone and right away you know that you are the more fortunate for it. Fay was one of those people.
She was fun to work with and her emails reflected the dynamic combination of her humor and charm.
Rest in peace, Fay.
In sympathy, Jena Melancon, Gulf Coast Citizen Diplomacy Council
October 5, 2010
Fay, you were hostess, organizer, convener, friend, colleague, and one of the Meridian family. It's impossible to believe that you won't be having us to Fay's cafe (although I was a very unrealiable participant), but we will think of you every time we sit out there in that place that is now forever yours. Art, I told you that the love between the two of you was something to behold, and I agree with another friend who has written here: Fay is with you, there is no way she would ever leave you altogether. What a gift you both shared! Joanne Clark
Beth Melofchik
October 5, 2010
Dear Fay,
Strong, independent, smart, resilient & generous of spirit are qualities that come to mind when I think of you. Your devotion to Art and his to you was a delight to behold. You set a great example, Madame.
It was a privilege to work with you, great fun to spar with you, an honor to be your friend.
Cynthia Farrell Johnson
October 4, 2010
There are no word to describe the void that has been created by Fay's passing. She was a devoted and loyal friend for 30 years. Fay will live on in our hearts and collective memory.
milly terry
October 4, 2010
My dear, dear Fay, getting to know you and Art was awesome. I can remember those days when I will just come by and chat and sometime have dinner. Your were soleeee mates, the friendship I saw all these years and the love and dedication was so admirable. Art, I know your sister, friend, lover and your wholesome woman is watching over you. I bet she has a lot to tell Terence and they are both laughing this min. Take heart my brother His Excellency, It will be well with you.
gilbert raiford
October 4, 2010
I shall miss Fay very much. I had known her for more than 20 years and would never go to Meridian without stopping by to chat with her. She was among the most wonderful people that I have ever known. May she rest in peace. Gil Raiford
Joanne Huskey
October 4, 2010
Dear Fay,
May you rest in peace and convene wonderful discussion groups whereever you may be. You brought intellectual stimulation to our work at Meridian, and mentored many of us who came after you. You guidance was much appreciated, your friendship cherished, and your spirit shall be missed at Meridian and around the world.
In sympathy, Joanne Grady Huskey, Meridian International Center
Pamela and Emanuel Payton
October 4, 2010
Jonquil Street will never be the same without Fay. We will miss your community spirit and keeping us all on task. Thank you for always being such a great neighbor.
Amelia Broderick
October 4, 2010
Fay: we appreciated your complete devotion to Art, as well as your respect for Africa and its people, a continent we all love. It was comforting to know you were nearby for a friendly chat and so grateful that in recent years you and Art got to explore more beautiful parts of our world on your annual cruises. “You done do well.” May God continue to bless your spirit and keep it in perfect peace.
Amelia Fitzjohn Broderick (from Lome) and S. Modupe Broderick (from Monrovia)
Cherry Mair
October 3, 2010
I only met Fay once at her husband's birthday celebration, after which, I was welcomed into their home before my return to my hometown. We communicated mostly by email in which her humor was very evident. She encouraged me in my passion to share Jesus here and overseas and was concerned for my safety when I travelled. It was evident that Art and Fay were very devoted to each other and also enjoyed their many travels.
Fay never mentioned her accomplishments, and I am just learning the details now!
Peter and Kay Kaplan-Hanson
October 3, 2010
No summary of Fay's life can capture how wonderful a woman, how dear and cherished a friend and neighbor, and how special a human being she was. She has left her unique mark on the lives of hundreds of people through her work, but also through her personal reach. She was an intelligent and passionate person, who demanded honesty and integrity from those around her and who gave unstintingly to so many. We will never forget her and will carry her with us always.
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