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HELEN CAREY Obituary


  
HELEN W. CAREY (Age 89)  
A doyenne of Capitol Hill (a real estate broker, property manager, landlord and mentor to a generation of young real estate professionals, house-renovators, and newcomers to DC; a true aficionado of the Hill's denizens and cityscape), died November 14, 2012, at home in Alexandria, VA. Born June 21, 1923, in Pittsfield, MA, she was the daughter of Elmer J. and Myrtle F. (Jack) Wade, who were natives of the Bath, Maine, region. A 1945 graduate of Duke Women's College, she lived in New York's Greenwich Village for several years before marrying John W. Carey on September 11, 1948. They first met while at Duke and were reunited after the war in a chance encounter on the street in New York. They moved to the Washington area to pursue further studies, soon settled in Georgetown and began to raise a family there before moving to Virginia in 1955. Helen and her husband were active in the Fairlington Players and Little Theatre of Alexandria. An early supporter of Arena Stage, she remained a subscriber to a number of local theaters. In the late 50s and early 60s, serving as a volunteer with the League of Women Voters, she rose to positions of regional prominence and lobbied Congress to promote clean water and public transportation. In 1964, she began working in real estate, initially in Foggy Bottom. Within several years, she established her own business as a broker near Eastern Market on Capitol Hill. Helen remained active for four decades in the business and civic life of the Hill. An amateur photographer who learned darkroom skills from her father and a watercolorist of both still-life and landscape subjects, she often chose as her subject Capitol Island, Maine, where she spent summers since girlhood. After her husband died in 1990, she traveled widely with adventuresome friends. She is survived by two sons, John (Wade) Jr. (and his husband, Edward Coltman) of Capitol Hill and David B. (and his wife, Neill Crawford) of Richmond, VA; and a daughter, Jean Louise Gudaitis (and her husband, Richard Gudaitis, and son, Charles Wade Gudaitis), of Falls Church, VA. A memorial will be on Saturday, December 1, at 3 p.m., Everly-Wheatley Funeral Home, 1500 West Braddock Road, Alexandria, VA 22302 In lieu of flowers or other tributes, the family suggests donations to the Capitol Hill Arts Workshop, 545 7th Street SE, Washington, DC. Flowers and a guest register may be found at www.everlyfuneralhomes.com   

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Published by The Washington Post on Nov. 20, 2012.

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Aunt Jean

Cathy Yancey

December 2, 2012

Tom Carey

Cathy Yancey

December 2, 2012

Uncle Tom & Aunt Jean Carey

Cathy Yancey

December 2, 2012

Cathy Yancey

December 2, 2012

Aunt Jean and Family,
Please accept our sincere sympathy during this very difficult time for you and your family. May the family cherish all of your special memories close to your heart and mind. And may our Heavenly Father give you the comfort that you need at this time. He is the God of all comfort. Heavenly Father I ask you to wrap your loving arms around the Carey family during this time. God Bless You and Your Family; Love Cathy Yancey ( Niece)

Helen with Wade and Ted in Bariloche, Argentina

Roxi Slemp

November 30, 2012

She shared her wisdom and laughter with so many. When I think of Helen I think of travel, photography, flowers and much, much more.

Bob Williams

November 21, 2012

I am one of those agents that looked up to Helen as a mentor, a truly honest & competent professional. I met Helen back in the late 1970's & immediately liked her as she became one of my favorite brokers on Cap. Hill. I attended many of her annual Christmas parties in her building at 7th & E Sts. SE. I will miss Helen as she had a presence which is very hard to replicate in our ever so changing world we live in today. Rest in peace Helen, you are & were a very special person. Bob

November 20, 2012

My condolences on the loss of your dear love one. Psalm 18:1-3 reminds us that God is the source of our strength and a secure stronghold in times of distress. Continue to treasure all the memories that you all shared together.

TC Williams Class of 1973

November 20, 2012

Jean and Family,
We were so sorry to hear of your Mom's passing. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

November 20, 2012

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Emily T.

November 20, 2012

May the family keep joyful memories close to your heart and mind. And may our Heavenly Father give you the comfort that you need at this time. He is the God of all comfort. Please accept my sincere sympathy.

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