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OBERMAYER HERMAN OBERMAYER "Obe" Loving husband, father, grandfather, great-grandfather, and friend, died peacefully in his sleep on May 11, 2016 at his home in Arlington, VA. He was 91. He was married for 58 years to the love of his life, Betty Nan L. Obermayer, who passed away in 2013. Mr. Obermayer''s rich life spanned the worlds of journalism, publishing, and politics in both the United States and abroad. He was owner and publisher of the Long Branch (NJ) Daily Record from 1957 to 1971 and of the Northern Virginia Sun from 1963 to 1989, and he lived in the Washington area since 1971. He counseled newspapers in emerging democracies for the U.S. State Department from 1990 to 2002 in Hungary, Poland, Lithuania, Latvia, Estonia, Ukraine, Moldova, Slovenia, Macedonia, Russia, Croatia, and Serbia. He also wrote several significant books: Soldiering for Freedom: A GI''s Account of World War II about his experiences as a U.S. Army soldier in the European Theatre, published in 2005; Rehnquist: A Personal Portrait of the Distinguished Chief Justice of the U.S. about his friendship with the renowned justice, a 2009 work that was translated into Chinese and became a best seller in China; and Jews in the News: British and American Newspaper Articles about Jews 1665 through 1800. Additionally, he donated his collection of 3,100 original newspaper articles to the Folger Shakespeare Library in Washington. While publisher of the Northern Virginia Sun, he wrote a weekly column about his life, politics, and philosophy. In 1983 and 1984, he served as a judge for the prestigious Pulitzer Prize. Obe Obermayer was born in Philadelphia, PA on September 19, 1924 where he graduated from Central High School. He graduated cum laude from Dartmouth College in 1946 and was an English major, studying under the poet Robert Frost. His college years were interrupted by World War II, during which he served as a Staff Sergeant in the European Theatre from 1943-1946 and was awarded the Rhineland Campaign Star. He attended the Nuremberg Trials. As a teen, he became an Eagle Scout and as an adult, he was a member of the Executive Council of the Monmouth County (N.J.) Boy Scout Council from 1958 - 1971 and on the Executive Committee of the National Capital Council of the Boy Scouts of America from 1971 - 1979. He also worked with the Jewish Policy Center and served on the National Board of the Jewish Institute for National Security Affairs (JINSA) since 1996 and the National Council of the American Jewish Committee (AJC). From 1989 to 2006, he was on the board of Commentary, a monthly magazine focused on religion, Judaism, politics, social and cultural issues. Mr. Obermayer was an active member of many other clubs and organizations, including Temple Rodef Shalom, (Falls Church, VA), the Washington Golf & Country Club (Arlington, VA), Cosmos Club (Washington, DC), Mont Pelerin Society, National Press Club (Washington, DC), Dartmouth Club (New York City, NY), Rotary Club, and Sigma Chi. He is survived by his four daughters, Helen Levy-Myers of Reston, VA, Veronica Atnipp of Houston, TX, Adele Malpass of New York City, NY and Elizabeth Weintraub of Rockville, MD; 11 grandchildren and one great-granddaughter. A Memorial Service will take place at Temple Rodef Shalom, 2100 Westmoreland St., Falls Church, VA on Tuesday, May 17 at 10:30 a.m. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to Temple Rodef Shalom or the Folger Shakespeare Library.

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Published by The Washington Post from May 13 to May 16, 2016.

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Ilona Fox

May 27, 2016

Adele and Liz,
We send our love, and deep sympathy. Your father continued to charm us all.
Love, Tom and Ilona Fox

Roberta Faxstein Handel

May 22, 2016

Obe and Betty Nan extended gracious hospitality to me when I was in graduate school and was a close friend of his brother, Arthur. I admired and remember him over the decades and was sorry to learn of his death.

Virginia Mary Hart-Leppala

May 20, 2016

Mr. Obermayer pursued his wish to inform well and fullly a subject of interest. Identified, he shared effectively to achieve a new or fuller insight for the reader. 'Working it forward,' he's cared to share beyond today with a legacy of volumes important in constructing a solid story, built with effective communication. His family, his friends may be lighter of heart in their time of missing, recalling he did what he found important to him and he did it well. I'm recalling Mr. Obermayer as I met him as an 18-year old high school grad. He'd permitted an interview and allowed there was enough there to join his Long Branch Daily record in Jersey. I'd learn journalism there in '59, and eventually became its Women's Page editor. Later, I went on to Network television. Thanks Mr. Obermayer, granting me hands-on schooling in my field. It has been an avenue to critical, thoughtfully interpretive investigation of subject. In life. writing continues, and, as learned there too, a more than cursory view of what is dished by persons vis a vis the tele or in print continues too. It was a great gift to learn, Mr. Obermayer, it was of great import to that 18-year-old's life. Thank you sir, and if we are indeed here to learn, to learn to share, to love each other as we would wish to be cared about while here , you've fulfilled the Creator's expressed wish. It must have been a 'Wonderful' Life.'

May 17, 2016

I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. My deepest sympathy and condolences to the family during this time of sorrow. Psalms 55 : 22.

P H

May 16, 2016

I happened to see this in the Post and thought to write. I am one of the staff from the Northern Virginia Sun on North Ivy Street Arlington. Remember those times well! Condolences to the family. Paulette

T. Christian

May 16, 2016

He will be missed by all.

May 16, 2016

My deepest condolonces to the family. In this time of grieving I encourage all to look to God and his word for hope. John 5:25 gives us hope that we will see Herman again.

Bill Peyser

May 15, 2016

Obe was a good friend to all the Peysers. He was there for Mom after Dad died and then again for me when Mom passed away last September. I met him at the Cosmos Club where we enjoyed a wonderful meal and discussed everything from family, to politics, to publishing, and everything in between. One of the brightest men I've known, I respected him as an accomplished author, editor, and family man. I particularly admired his ongoing zeal to live a busy and fulfilling life even after losing his lifelong partner, Betty Nan. I will miss him.

Anita Wilson

May 14, 2016

Roni, I will keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers. After reading your father's legacy, I understand where your drive, talent and compassion come from. May the peace of the Lord be with you.

May 14, 2016

Dearest Roni:
I am so sad to hear about your loss. I wish you much strength at this hard time in your life. You are in my prayers and I would love to see you when you get back. Love you.

Paul Skocz

May 13, 2016

I had the good fortune to work for Mr. Obermayer at the Northern Virginia Sun in 1973-74. While saddened by his passing, I am heartened by my memories of his mentorship. My deepest sympathies are with his family.

Passover 2016

Rosalind Levy Baitel - Panama

May 13, 2016

And to think we were all together just 3 weeks ago for Passover. He lives on in our hearts and minds forever and leaves a lasting legacy for generations to come.

K. Rush

May 13, 2016

My sincere condolences to the family, may God provide you with peace and strength during this difficult time Psalms 29:11.

May 13, 2016

Dear Obermayer Family:
Many of us who have lived in the Washington DC Area knew of him, but did not know he was a Sigma Chi, as he was not an active alumnus.
On behalf of the Sigma Chi Community in our Nation's Capital, I send deepest sympathy on his passing. We wish there had been an opportunity for us to know this extraordinary man.
--Bruce Morgan Casner
President,
Washington Alumni Chapter
Sigma Chi Fraternity

May 13, 2016

May you find comfort, knowing that our heavenly Father will answer your cry for help. "...And you will call me and come and pray to me, and I will listen to you." Jeremiah 29:11,12

Alice Twining

May 13, 2016

Dear Helen and Family,
Don and I send our deepest sympathy to you all on the death of your father. I vividly
remember our conversations at Asher's event. Love Alice

Betty & Al Solbjor

May 13, 2016

We're so sorry to hear the news of Obe's passing! Our sincere condolences to the family!

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