FUNERAL HOME

Demaine Funeral Home – Fairfax

10565 Main St

Fairfax, Virginia

Nathan Smiler Obituary



SMILER NATHAN NORMAN SMILER, II "DIRK" With an open heart and a passionate thirst for the energy of life and sacred camaraderie, Dirk passed from this existence to the next on February 15, 2010. He is survived by his mother, Vivi Smiler Arnett, brother Wesley Smiler, daughters Rhiannon Akl and Callan, and step-father David Arnett. His father, Wesley B. Smiler, died in 1989. Dirk is also survived by a band of hundreds of like-minded brothers and sisters to whom he dedicated his life as a source of inspiration and human richness. Formal funeral services will be held on Wednesday, February 24, at 11 a.m. at Everly Funeral Home, 10565 Main St., Fairfax, VA 22030. Interment will follow in Fairfax Memorial Park. www.everlyfuneralhomes.com

Published by The Washington Post on Feb. 22, 2010.
34465541-95D0-45B0-BEEB-B9E0361A315A

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Memories and Condolences
for Nathan Smiler

Not sure what to say?





5 Entries

Miss and love you always...

Sondra B

February 24, 2012

Your light still shines for those who can see.

Charles Moore

February 16, 2012

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2010

Love, Pat & Steve

February 24, 2010

Such a marvelous and gifted human being that ever graced this earth. He touched the lives of many and will continue to live in their hearts. Our most sincere condolences to his family and to his legion of devoted friends that he treated as family.

Sherry Mom Altazar Dude

February 23, 2010

Kerry Moss

February 22, 2010

Showing 1 - 5 of 5 results

Make a Donation
in Nathan Smiler's name

Memorial Events
for Nathan Smiler

To offer your sympathy during this difficult time, you can now have memorial trees planted in a National Forest in memory of your loved one.

Funeral services provided by:

Demaine Funeral Home – Fairfax

10565 Main St, Fairfax, VA 22030

How to support Nathan's loved ones
Commemorate a cherished Veteran with a special tribute of Taps at the National WWI Memorial in Washington, D.C.

The nightly ceremony in Washington, D.C. will be dedicated in honor of your loved one on the day of your choosing.

Read more
Attending a Funeral: What to Know

You have funeral questions, we have answers.

Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?

What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?

Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?

We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.

Read more
Resources to help you cope with loss
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Estate Settlement Guide

If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.

Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast

Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.

Read more
The Five Stages of Grief

They're not a map to follow, but simply a description of what people commonly feel.

Read more
Ways to honor Nathan Smiler's life and legacy
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituary Templates

These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.

Read more
Obituary Examples

You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.

Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?

Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.

Read more