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HOLDEN Captain Tim Holden, USN (Ret.) On August 28, 2015, Captain Tim Holden, USN (Ret.), loving husband of Pam, devoted father of five beautiful girls: Kelsey Holden, Lindsey O'Brien (Eric), Christina Quinn (Bill), Elizabeth Holden, and Katherine Holden; and three grandchildren: Reilly and Trevor O'Brien, and Olivia Quinn. Tim was born in Washington, DC and grew up in Wheaton, MD. He was the eldest son of Cornelius and Mary Holden with eight siblings: Rosemary, Cornelius (Trish), Dennis (Eileen), Brian, Christopher (Lynne), Colin (Marta), Raymond (Charles), and Peter (Nancy). He attended St. Catherine Laboure School in Wheaton, MD and Cathedral Latin High School in Washington, DC. Tim graduated from the U.S Naval Academy in 1972 with a BS degree in Electrical Engineering. He entered Basic Underwater Demolition/SEAL Training and graduated in November 1973. Tim earned an Engineer Degree in Ocean Engineering and a Masters Degree in Management Science from the Massachusetts Institute of Technology, Boston MA. During his military career, Tim served as Commanding Officer of SEAL Team ONE in San Diego CA. He deployed as Deputy Commander, Naval Special Warfare Task Group Central, in support of Operation DESERT SHIELD and as Commander of Naval Special Warfare Task Unit MIKE for Operation DESERT STORM. Captain Holden also served as Commodore Special Warfare Group ONE, San Diego, CA. He retired in 2001. Since joining the business world, Tim held several corporate leadership positions, most recently as Chief Strategy Officer at IOMAXIS in Alexandria, VA. An active member of the Church of the Little Flower in Bethesda, Tim was on the Parish Council and served as a Sacristan and Arimithean. Tim is survived by his wife, his daughters, and his mothers-in-law Ann Stogdale and Juanita White. Predeceased by his parents Cornelius and Mary Holden, his father-in-law Jim White, his sister Mary, and his son James Cornelius. Relatives and friends are invited to call at Joseph Gawler's Sons, 5130 Wisconsin Avenue NW (corner of Harrison Street) Washington, DC on Tuesday, September 1, 2015 from 1:30 p.m. until 3:30 p.m. and from 5 p.m. until 8 p.m. A Funeral Mass will be held at Church of the Little Flower, 5607 Massachusetts Avenue, Bethesda, Maryland on Wednesday, September 2, 2015 at 12 noon. Interment will be at a later date in Arlington National Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, please consider a donation to two of Tim's favorite charities: the Navy SEAL Foundation, 1619 D Street, Virginia Beach, VA 23459; and Catholic Charities 924 G St., NW, Washington, DC 20001. Family and friends are invited to visit www.josephgawlers.com for additional information.Family and friends are invited to visit www.josephgawlers.com for additional information.
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for TIM HOLDEN
Mark Bell
July 2, 2016
To the Holden family, I was stunned today while coming home from work and I heard about bike safety changes that were set in motion by Navy Seal Tim Holden's fatal bike accident. I was Tim's massage therapist at the POAC between 1996 and 2005. Pam, I only met you once in your townhouse in Arlington when I worked on you and your friend after a race. During my visit I was touched by how naturally comfortable Tim was while interacting with your youngest daughter. Seeing Tim's priorities with family, work and country make me realize how fortunate I am to have helped him when he came to me.
Kevin McKenna
December 1, 2015
We sleep safely at night because rough men stand ready to visit violence on those who would harm us. Churchill.
With only knowing Tim for a short time I believe this quote truly embodies his persona. RIP brother.
Colleen Wilkins
September 24, 2015
I was able to attend the Papal Mass yesterday at the Shrine of the Immaculate Conception. A thought came to me during a quiet moment & that thought was -- Tim should be here! I closed my eyes and knew --- in that moment --- he was!! I could hear his words playing over and over in my head --- 'Colleen, I've been preparing my whole life for this'! And I knew Tim had a 'front row seat'!
Jarrett Justice
September 23, 2015
I am a senior in high school who had the privilege of being able to talk to Mr. Holden about attending the Naval Academy. He gave me valuable advice on what to say and how to go about getting into the Naval Academy. He was an enormous help and I'm very grateful. I could tell from the short amount of time that I talked to him that he was truly a great man. I am sorry for his loss. Thinking of his family at this time.
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Teresa (Laidley) Burton
September 22, 2015
Dear Holden Family, I never had the opportunity to meet many of you, but Tim and his siblings are our second cousins. I have such fond memories of visits with the Holdens. Tim's dad was one of my mother's favorite cousins. They are a special family and we loved being able to visit them. Our thoughts and prayers have been with each and every one of you during this difficult time. My brother Matt, sister Marian, and my mother Loretta Ford Laidley, were able to attend Tim's memorial service. Even though I've never met many of you, I feel such a love for you and share in your loss. I pray that through your pain, you will feel Tim's presence in your lives and know that he continues to watch over you, from the other side. And that you will find comfort and peace in knowing that you will have the opportunity to be with him again, someday. We love you.
Scott & Nancy Hill
September 22, 2015
To Pam and the Holden family, we are shocked and saddened by Tim's sudden passing. He was a great team mate, but even a better friend. More importantly he was a wonderful father who always put his family first. Our thoughts and prayers go out to you and the family in this time of sorrow. We hope you can find comfort in the wonderful memories that you had together. RIP Tim! Our deepest sympathy, Scott and Nancy Hill
Courtney Spaeth
September 21, 2015
I was shocked and saddened by Tim's passing. I am very sorry for your family's horrific loss. He was a fine man and will be missed.
Tom Loftus
September 20, 2015
Lucy and I were so saddened to hear of Tim's passing. We were grateful for the opportunity to see Tim and my other classmates at last year's reunion. So many memories. Tim never took the easy route. He relished challenges and always overcame them. But he always had time to help others. He was a friend, a leader, and a role model. People were naturally drawn to Tim. He combined a wry sense of humor with a focus on accomplishment that inspired people to give more of themselves, because that's what Tim did. Lucy and I extend our deepest condolences to Tim's family and trust that they will find comfort in friends, family, and faith.
Tom & Lucy Loftus
Hampton Dowling
September 14, 2015
I just learned of his passing today. Tim and I became friends in 2003 while at SAIC and have had a great relationship continuously thereafter. We were both Naval Officers. I wish I had been privileged to serve with him on active duty but I am proud and honored to have had him as my friend and colleague. Tim was one of the finest and most outstanding men I've ever known or known of. Such a patriot, devout Christian, top notch naval officer and leader, and kind, genuine human being. I will miss him all of my remaining days. May God rest his soul and protect his family...
mike simmons
September 11, 2015
To the Holden family, I worked with Tim on many projects over the years together in the teams. the first time was on the Dry Deck Shelter (DDS) in 1982-83, also during Dessert Shield and Desert Storm, when he was at Group 1 and final when he was the deputy commander at WARCOM. Tim was an inspiration to me and I was very proud to call him a team mate, he will be missed by everyone, I will miss him. Tim and the Holden family are in our prayers, God Bless and rest in peace Brother. EMCM Ret class 106
Mary / Miles Gray
September 9, 2015
No words - shock maybe - it is unfathomable.
September 5, 2015
Our family is deeply sorry for your loss.
St.C's and the Holdens...wonderful people; God bless you all.
Rose Mary McAleer
Gary Hicks
September 4, 2015
I met Tim while he was still on active duty at in the USN. I liked him right away and we had running and biking in common so we hit it off pretty good. Fortunately, I never did either with him or he would have demolished me.
After he retired we were fortunate to bring him into SAIC where we worked together for several years including on some challenging international projects. He was a tremendous guy to work with and always brought the can- do SEAL attitude to our efforts as well as a sense of humor. Later, after he left the company we kept in touch and had dinner a few times. Tim always made you feel like you were one of his best friends, even if you had not seen him in a year. That was just how he was.
I never got to meet you Pam or the girls but Tim talked about you all the time so I knew he was a great family man. I am so sorry for your loss.
I was shocked and saddened by this tragic accident and ask that you and your family please accept my sincere condolences on your loss.
September 4, 2015
Holden family, I am deeply saddened by your loss. Tim was a wonderful man and will truly be missed. He is looking down and smiling to see how many lives he has touched. God be with you all at this time. Aileen (Witchie) Stottlemyer
Donna Hughes
September 4, 2015
I met Tim at a Washington Business Journal event in DC. He came up to me and introduced himself and inquired about career opportunities for his daughter Christina.
From that point on we became friends, and I considered him a mentor. He always had time to give advice, or help with anything. He was a proud loving father, husband, and grandfather! He was so delighted to be a grandfather! I was blessed to have had him as a friend and mentor. I will miss him and I my heart and prayers go out out to his family and friends. We have lost a tremendously amazing person.
Love the Pappalardo Family Rick,Beth ,Eric,Keri,and Jay
September 3, 2015
Lindsey,Eric, and family,
There are no words that we could say that would make you feel better. You are in our thoughts and prayers. So sorry for your tragic loss.
.
Louise Ross
September 2, 2015
Dear Rosemary, I was so sorry to hear about Tim. Know that I am thinking of you and your family at this time.
Tom Campbell
September 2, 2015
Tim was a great friend and significant career mentor to me and many others. He always met everyone with a strong handshake, a smile, and most likely a good laugh. He was the consummate professional and a good, good man. Tim left this world too soon, but he left it a better place. His influence in the lives of those who knew him will carry on for ages. He will be missed. May God Bless the Holden family.
Ron Hawkins
September 2, 2015
I was so saddened to hear of Tim's passing. I served with Tim at the Naval Headquarters in London in the 80s. He was a Commander, I was a Lieutenant. He was a natural leader, charismatic, confident. He rode his bike to work every day he wasn't traveling (rain, shine, snow) and got me into it too. We enjoyed many lunchtime runs around Hyde Park. I always think of Tim when I reflect back on those days. I hope his loved ones can take some solace in knowing that Tim clearly made a difference in the lives of many, including my own.
Andy Wehrle
September 2, 2015
Tried and true.
Jack McGarry
September 2, 2015
Pam - I did not know Tim, but upon hearing the news, I immediately felt a strong kinship with him: I am also a retired Captain, the same age, and an avid cyclist in the DC area. I was both stunned and saddened by this tragic accident and ask that you and your family and friends please accept my sincere sympathies on your loss.
September 2, 2015
My heart weeps for this great loss. I had the privilege of teaching this great man at St.. Catherine's in the 60s. He was a star then and I believe is shining now among all the brilliance of the heavens. ELIZABETH ANN
Denis O'Connor
September 2, 2015
Thank You and God Bless You Captain Tim Holden for your loyal and faithful service to our country in peacetime and in war. You, your family and your friends are in my prayers. Requiescat in pace, Amen.
Guy Lee
September 2, 2015
I just received the news and am still in shock. I had the honor of working for Tim when he was Commodore of Group 1, and he had an indelible impact on me. As many others will say, he was one the very finest people I've had the privilege of knowing. I stayed in touch with him over the years, and he was gracious enough to personally promote me to Commander in 2004 and to Captain in 2009. My intent was to have him retire me next year...
As you know, he is the kind of person that simply inspires loyalty - not ever because he demanded it, but simply because you had so much respect and admiration for him.
Different memories of Tim have percolated into my mind over the past 36 hours since hearing of his loss. Of all of them, the most enduring was a casual reflection he shared with me 2 or 3 years ago. He told me that while his faith in Christ had always been important, he was now striving to make his relationship with God the centerpiece or focal point of his life. When a man who modeled wisdom, strength, and grace under pressure makes a statement like that, it sticks with you. As someone who is vocationally called to tell others about their need to follow Jesus wholeheartedly, that was a powerful message that continues to reverberate in me. It's just another example of his influence and impact in my life, and I know others will tell you the same.
I'll never forget him, and will be in prayer for you as an entire family, especially in the coming weeks and months. I'm grieved that I could not be there for the his memorial mass, but I will definitely come to pay my respects soon.
Skip Gibson
September 2, 2015
Pam
Tim was one of those rare individuals who everyone wanted to be around. He led by example and from the front; instilled confidence in individuals at all levels by his actions, words, and quiet humor; was the go to guy when things needed to be accomplished in the military and the business world; and was a true American Hero. Tim had those traits which we most value leadership, ethics, devotion to country, and love of family. He would often speak of you, his daughters, and grand kids, and when he did he would be beaming. His family was the center of everything for him.
I don't have the words to adequately express the feelings for your loss. We will keep you and your family in our thoughts and prayers. My sincerest condolences to your family and you.
Ozzie Perez
September 2, 2015
We are so sorry for your family's loss. I may have only had the honor of knowing Tim for a few months, but it was easy to see how positive and caring of an individual he was. His energy and presence will be sorely missed in the office. Our thoughts and prayers go out to the Holden family.
Chuck Chaldekas
September 1, 2015
Working hard for Tim was easy. He shared the job and pointed in the right direction. Tim always took pleasure in greeting families on duty nights. Our young children made him chuckle about the osprey and the rabbits playing in our back yard. Thanks Boss. Our condolences to all in the Holden family. We will miss him and that great smiling face. Chuck and Jeri
Matt and Karin Dolan
September 1, 2015
Our thoughts and prayers go out to the Holden family. We loved and appreciated Tim's positive energy and enthusiasm. He will be missed. He was a mentor and a teacher to me on how to be a great father, husband, catholic, and a positive leader. We pray for the Holdens,
Colleen Hickson - Wilkins
September 1, 2015
Tim's death has left a void that will never be filled --- not because of his tragic accident, but because of the way he lived his life. His caring, his friendship, his faith, and his love and devotion to his God, his family and his country will always be cherished and fondly remembered. I am proud to be able to call him a friend for over 50 years! Fair Winds and Following Seas, Tim - Thanks for the Memories
Sylvie Putnam
September 1, 2015
Dearest Pam,
Mike and I are so sorry for your devastating loss. Please accept our most heartfelt condolences. Tim was such an extraordinary man and he will be sorely missed. We send you and the girls our love and prayers during this difficult time.
The Putnams, Mike, Sylvie, Sean and Jack
Jeffrey Herndon
September 1, 2015
Tim was simply one of the finest men I have ever met. I don't think I ever heard him say no, and he always greeted me with that great smile. Peace and smooth seas to you Tim. My prayers are with the Holden family, may God comfort you all in His peace.
Dela and Sammy Ng
September 1, 2015
Pam and Family,
We are so sorry to hear of Tim's passing. We offer you our deepest condolences.
We do not know if you remember us, but Dela was Elizabeth's Second Grade CCD Teacher at St. Agnes in Arlington. Dela still remembers the wonderful First Communion Party that you invited her to after you had just recently moved to Maryland. She was very blessed to be invited and be part of the celebration.
We will keep Tim and your family in our prayers.
Brian Lippe
September 1, 2015
To the Holdens, we are so saddened by the loss of Tim. He was one of our dearest friends for so many years now. I had the great pleasure of serving with Tim during my career as well with the SEALs. He was a great man and a true gentleman! He will be missed! Brian Lippe and Pamela Murphy
Frank & Josette Stanton
September 1, 2015
Dear Pam,
Josette and I are devastated and have been in shock since Saturday.
Tim and I worked together and I cherished our time together.
God bless you and your family in this time of great sorrow.
All of our love Frank and Josette
Shannon Horstmann
September 1, 2015
Hi Holden Family,
I'm a friend of Lynn and Chris. We adore Chris (and consider him family). Knowing Chris' love for his family and country, I can imagine how amazing his brother Tim was. In reading the articles about him, it seems he exemplified such amazing characteristics. Let us honor him in the way he honored his family and country.
Peace and prayers to your family. May you be showered with comfort and God's peace during this time.
With Love,
Shannon M. Horstmann
Lisa Breen
September 1, 2015
Dear Lindsey, Eric, Reilly, Trevor and family, We are so sorry to hear about your Dad and Grandfather. Are thoughts and prayers are with you. Please let us know if you need anything. Love Lisa Breen and Steve "Wojo" Woidyla and our families.
Bob & Debbie Whitehead
September 1, 2015
To The Holden Family. We are heartbroken that your father, grandfather, brother, uncle and American Hero is no longer with you.
May God hold Tim in the hollow of His hand.
Theresa
September 1, 2015
Dear Kelsey and family,
I am sorry for your loss. You are all in my thoughts and I wish you strength and peace through this difficult time.
Zack Wilhoit
September 1, 2015
I had the honor of serving with Tim on a few occasions. He IS the TOTAL package: athlete, brains, family man, servant and spiritual leader. I know I'll see him in Heaven some day. He's a gift from God ... :) !
September 1, 2015
Regards to family and friends.
Patrick Burke
September 1, 2015
My heart has been heavy since I heard the news of Tim's passing. I know that he was a man of profound faith, who loved his family very much. The last time I saw Tim, he was riding his bike on the Capital Crescent trail in the Palisades and I was running in the opposite direction. We stopped and talked for about half an hour and shared a few laughs about friends, family and faith. It comforts me to know that because of his faith, he is in a better place - and when I question myself, I remember the words of St. Thomas Aquinas, who said "To one who has faith, no explanation is necessary. To one without faith, no explanation is possible." Pam, know that you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers - and may the Lord hold you in the palm of His hand.
With deepest sympathy, Patrick, Nora, Bridie, Molly, Breandan and Claire Burke
Janel Michaelis
September 1, 2015
I am so sorry for your family's loss. I truly enjoyed working with and learning from him over the last 4 years. He was a great example for all of us. Your family will be in my prayers.
September 1, 2015
Dear Pam,
We are so sadden to hear of the sudden loss of Tim. He stood out from the very first day I met him at Cathedral Latin 51 yrs. ago. He was good friend, classmate, shipmate and leader. I remember our recent conversation where he sounded so happy with his life and family. He will sincerely be missed.
I am sure that Tim resides with Our Lord and belongs to another elite group we call Saints. His energy and spirit will always reside within all of us.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Stephen Bury, Captain USN (ret)
CLS class of 68
Ted Pytlik
August 31, 2015
Pam, our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Tim was a wonderful man and great inspiration to all who ever had the privilege of knowing him. In the Navy we had a saying that you had shipmates by chance and shipmates by choice. Tim would always be a shipmate by choice. He was our company warrior and will be sorely missed. He was one of my heroes.
Ted and Susie Pytlik
August 31, 2015
Pam, our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Tim was a wonderful man and great inspiration to all who ever had the privilege of knowing him. In the Navy we had a saying that you had shipmates by chance and shipmates by choice. Tim would always be a shipmate by choice. He was our company warrior and will be sorely missed. He was one of my heroes.
Ted and Susie Pytlik
Chuck Yengst
August 31, 2015
I had the tremendous pleasure of meeting Tim at SAIC when we worked together on the Athens-2004 Olympic security program. A softer speaking, more dedicated professional you will never meet. In my former Navy days, I had worked alongside the SEALs in a support role, and my impression of them was already good. Meeting and working with Tim only increased that respect. I remember Tim telling me was once invited to accompany a senior U.S Special Operations Flag Officer to Russia for a International Special Operations event. Jump qualified, he was invited to jump with their Spetnaz troops. That night at a banquet, a senior Russian officer presented Tim with a set of Russian jump wings, with the comment, "For your first jump over Russia!" Tim said he raised more than a few Russian eyebrows with the response, "As far as you know..." Tim was a true mans-man and will be missed. RIP Tim....
karen and tillman freeman
August 31, 2015
Our prayers are with you during this difficult time . Timothy was a honorable man. The world was blessed to have him.
August 31, 2015
Although we are so deeply saddened by this loss, we feel truly honored to have known Tim and we continue to be inspired by the person he was and the legacy he leaves. Please know that you are all in our constant thoughts and prayers.
The Yeager family
(Jodi, Skip, Callie, Bridget, Annabel, Shea)
Ken McKay
August 31, 2015
Tim IS my classmate....our last conversation: Of course the Seabees were more important than the seals......We Fight, We Build.......you guys just blow (stuff) up!!!
But to my Shipmate:
Sunset and evening star,
and one clear call for me!
And may there be no moaning of the bar when I put to sea.....
I hope to see my Pilot face to face when I have gone across the bar.
Tennyson, Crossing The Bar
The Scallans, Karen, Kevin, Keara, Alaina, & Laura
August 31, 2015
Pam, we send our deepest sympathy to you and all of your family. We'll remember Tim fondly as one of the friends we met at Rock Creek.
August 31, 2015
We will keep you in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. The Ciatto Family
August 31, 2015
To Pam, "the girls" and the Holden clan, we offer our sincerest condolences for everyone's loss. Whenever the occasion arose we were always made to feel like a part of the family. We were truly lucky to have a very special friend, Tim, in our lives.
Love to you all "Uncle Al and " Aunt Marianne"
August 31, 2015
Regards to family and friends.
August 31, 2015
May the love of family, friends and prayers comfort you in the days ahead.
Psalm 145:18.
Wayne Parks
August 31, 2015
Our condolences to Tim's family, friends, and mates. His friendship and mentoring will be missed by many. Our country loses yet another patriot and defender of our freedoms but his spirit lives in us all to carry on in the name of Tim.
Charlotte and Mark Wise
August 31, 2015
Pam, you and family are in our thoughts and prayers, always.
Bruce/Stroot Family
August 31, 2015
Always the caring friend. Thank you for your love and presence in our lives.
John Johnston
August 31, 2015
Tim was a company mate at USNA and a close friend. My life is better for having known him. I will miss him dearly.
gordon Forbes
August 31, 2015
Tim Holden was my friend and ally. When I was working with the Teams and filming them, he decided the glass was half full, not half empty. He helped support the project and in that process, he became my friend. Tim was a SEAL guy who helped influence me...when he said meet him at 8:00 AM, I learned quickly he meant 7:45 AM !! always supportive, always positive, he showed me how to let go and move forward. "Never ring the bell" followed by that smile and laugh. "Gordy," he said, " thanks for your work." Thanks for my work?? I got more out of all of that than I could ever describe, including some good friends. Tim Holden was a good friend.
Loss is never about the departed. It is about those of us who are left behind. My support goes to his family.
There are three times a person dies: when his eyes close, when he is buried, and when he is forgotten. Tim Holden literally pulled me through some fires and brought joy and maturity into my life. I love you, dude. You never rang the bell.
Bob Shields
August 31, 2015
Tim was a great man, a great friend and a super classmate. Just had lunch with him last Wednesday and he was full of life - focused on the future and his family.
--Bob Shields, USNA '72
Hank Molinengo
August 31, 2015
Tim Holden was a great man - a true warrior and patriot. I had occasion to chat with him a few times and was impressed by his strength and kindness. Pam, my condolences to you and your family.
Melissa Gilliard
August 31, 2015
Our thoughts and prayers go out to the family. It was a pleasure to work for Tim at his company Penumbri.
Rik Dilgren
August 31, 2015
Corny, your brother was a real warrior and a good classmate.
Frank Gibson
August 31, 2015
My best wishes to Tim's family. Please know that I share your sorrow at his tragic loss. It's been many years, but still and always a classmate.
John Reed
August 31, 2015
Tim Holden was the consummate SEAL, he was instrumental in the design and development of the submarine deck mounted 2, 4 and 8 man NSW mini subs. He was highly praised by Adm. Charles Le Moyne for his leadership and knowledge. He was an outstanding individual and he is truly missed. Bless him and his Family.
John Reed Atlanta, Georgia
Ken Kimble
August 31, 2015
My deepest sympathy to the family. I knew Tim many years ago as a classmate at USNA. A great guy, always upbeat and positive, a true friend and so hardworking. Seems such a loss for family, friends and country, but we have to know that God does have a plan in Tim's life and example.
Kevin Newmeyer
August 31, 2015
Capt. Holden and I served together on the Navy Staff. He was a true gentleman and an outstanding officer. My deepest sympathies to your family.
edward wallace
August 31, 2015
Tim was a Naval Academy classmate and good friend...from all of those of us who knew him, his family is in our thoughts and prayers during this time of deep sorrow. Ed Wallace '72
Bill Largess
August 31, 2015
I went to Cathedral Latin School with Tim's brothers Neil, Dennis, and Brian, and had a good talk with him at the last CLS reunion. Praying for the repose of his soul, and comfort for his family. Requiem aeternam dona ei, Domine, et lux perpetua luceat ei. Requiescat in pace.
Joe Adelizzi
August 31, 2015
You were an Ironman before being an Ironman was popular. I'll always remember our rides up the coast to San Clemente.
Joe Adelizzi
August 31, 2015
You were an Ironman before being an Ironman was popular. I'll always remember our rides up the coast to San Clemente.
Rebecca, Tanner and Victor Medrano
August 30, 2015
Fair winds and following seas, Tim. Praying for peace and serenity for the Holden family.
Jeff Conners
August 30, 2015
Tim and I struggled through MIT together, and trained up to do the Boston Marathon together back in 1976. We spent many hours doing 20 mi training runs around the Boston area, and grew as close as brothers. We stayed connected all these years in spite of our careers and families taking us in different directions. I can hardly believe he is gone. He will always have a special place in my heart.
A warrior has come home
Susan Musumeci
August 30, 2015
Though He leadeth me through darkness, I will fear no evil. Tim, you are now in the Light of the world and while family and friends mourn your loss, we know you are with us in mind, heart and spirit. God bless and keep your family comforted.
Beth and Doug Brown
August 30, 2015
Ray, our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time..
Lise Beske
August 30, 2015
We are so very sorry for your loss. Pam taught my daughter's CCD class, and Tim helped coach her rec basketball team. Mourning the sudden and devastating loss of a hero, a father, a grandfather, a husband, and a person who put his hand up and helped those in his community.
August 30, 2015
I was deeply saddened when I learned about Tim's passing. Please accept my sincere and heartfelt sympathies. My prayers to the Holden family. May God's Grace strengthens you during this difficult time. Tim was my commanding officer and he was really a great guy.
Eternal rest grant unto him O Lord, and let the perpetual light shine upon him. Have mercy on his soul. Amen.
Sincerely,
Keith Al Lincke / buds137
Mac Clark
August 30, 2015
RIP Tim, you were always one of our best and brightest.
VR, Mac
August 30, 2015
Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Tim was a good friend and neighbor. Our sincere condolences.
-The Lohr Family
August 30, 2015
Rosemary, my heart goes out to you at the loss of your brother so tragically. Know that you and your family are in my prayers.
Sr. Margaret Mary Scally DC
August 30, 2015
Tim was a fine man. May his soul find Deep Calm Harbors.
My prayers to the family. God's Blessings and Peace to you all.
Kelly Webb BMCM (SW/CC) Ret.
Esme Dwyer Frensilli
August 30, 2015
Our sincere condolences to the Holden family at this time of great sorrow. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
August 30, 2015
Our deepest sympathies and prayers for your family. Tim was a great leader and example to us all. Ellen and Don Stanton (OP-61 '81-'83) Alexandria, VA.
Dean Cummings
August 30, 2015
It was such sad news to hear of Tim's passing. Our condolences to Tim's family and friends; it is a tremendous loss and much too early. He was a great man and he will truly be missed by those he touched. RIP, Skipper!
Erasmo "Doc" Riojas
August 30, 2015
It always saddens us in the "Frog Family" when one of our brothers passes on. May Tim R.I.P. in heaven.
HooYah!
Doc Riojas
Sara Beth & David Quinn
August 30, 2015
May memories bring you gifts that soothe your soul...with much love to the entire Holden family.
August 30, 2015
Thoughts and prayers are with Tim's family
Barbara (Bryant) Vermillion SCL classmate
Georgia
Larry LaBonte
August 30, 2015
I am so sorry to hear of the passing of my old classmate from St. Catherine's, Rest in Eternal Peace Tim.
August 30, 2015
Dear Christina and family,
We are truly and deeply sorry for your loss. Your father leaves behind a beautiful family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Love,
Bernie, Bethany and Somer
Karen Kline Parker
August 30, 2015
My thoughts and prayers are with the entire Holden family in these trying times~May the Lord be with you!
Martin Costello
August 30, 2015
The thread goes back . I remember serving as an altar boy with Tim at St Catherine's. "Timmy" was always paired up with us older "veterans" but he gave no ground. Even back then, Tim set high standards for himself. ( "Timmy - you got to relax LOL".)Tim Holden served his God
Christine Long
August 30, 2015
As he showed many the way through darkness as a beacon of light, skill and extraordinary commitment to God, family and military, may his path now be filled with light and love and the peace which passes all understanding. My condolences to his family, colleagues and friends.
Donald / Don Prol / Wessel
August 30, 2015
Our thoughts and prayers are with the Holden family and all who loved Tim.
Alan Kraft
August 30, 2015
I am deeply saddened by Tim's passing. While at the Naval Academy, we were good friends. He was the drummer in our rock group and a good one at that. Tim always had a smile that was uplifting and made you feel glad to be around him. I will miss him.
LT Holden far right. Ops Officer, Plankowner UDT 22, 1979
Chris Carey
August 30, 2015
Fellow Team Mate UDT22, marathon companion, extraordinary character and leadership...honored to serve with you, Tim. Farewell brother.
My prayers are with you and your family.
Ellie Marie and John Begg with Father Joe Ranieri
JOHN BEGG
August 30, 2015
Ellie Marie and I are very sad about the loss of Tim and we have Tim and his entire family in our prayers.
John Daniel Begg
Joseph Alana Quincannon
August 30, 2015
Tim is in God's loving hands
He lived a holy happy life
His caring for others was great
We are praying for all of you!
Hooyah!
John Moorman
August 30, 2015
My family extends our deepest condolences to the Holden family at your time of tragic loss. Captain Holden was a brilliant military commander, mentor and remarkable person who once taught me that "This is a thinking man's game". Fair winds and following seas my Captain.
Maribel Contreras
August 30, 2015
We are so sad and sorry, so far away from you... And it can only be because he left his mark everywhere he went and in everyone he met. we will always remember the days we spent together in Granada and keep them in our hearts. We send you all our love, from all the Contreras family
Susan O'Brien
August 30, 2015
I am so saddened by the passing of Tim. But I can smile with my heart and soul because I had the chance to meet such a wonderful, spiritual, loving person. A family man. An unbelievable Grampa. An American hero in every respect. God graced this world with Tims presence. Maybe not long enough for those who knew him and loved him. Now he will grace God our Heavenly Father with his love, bravery, honor and respect. The heavens will become stronger because Tim is there. God bless you Tim. God bless Pam and your beautiful daughters with strength to make it through this sad time. If they are anything like you Tim,they will because of the strength and love you have always given them.
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