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Leslie Weaver
January 18, 2010
Dear Jane & Ron,
I will never understand why bad things happen to good people. I hope your memories can sustain you through these difficult times.
Norman Holland
January 5, 2010
On behalf of the School of Humanities, Arts and Cultural Studies, I would like to express my condolences on the death of Beto. Although I did not work with him in the classroom, I had the pleasure of meeting him at various social functions. He had a vivacious personality.When classes resume I am sure others will share their memories.
Sincerely,
Norm Holland
Dean of HACU
Anton Vassiliev
January 5, 2010
Dear Jane and family: I am extremely saddened to learn of the death of your son. Please accept my deepest condolences. You are in my prayers and I wish you all possible comfort at this difficult time.
Joey Teets
January 4, 2010
Dear Jane & Ron,
May you be blessed with many wonderful remembrances of Beto shared by friends and family that quickly fade the pain of your loss leaving only room for joyous happy memories.
Florinda Rosen
January 2, 2010
Dear Jane and Ron,
My sincere condolences on Beto's passing. Your family is blessed that he was a truly wonderful person who touched many hearts in his short life on earth. May you find comfort in the love and support of family and friends, and may you find strength to endure this trying moment. Que Dios lo tenga en la gloria y descanse en paz.
Sheryl Granzow
January 1, 2010
Dear Jane and Ron,
My heart aches for you both. No words I can write can give you much comfort now. I know Beto will live on in your memories and you will cherish them all the days of your lives. Please know there are many who love you both and will keep you in our prayers.
Jim Girardi
December 31, 2009
Jane and Ron,
Beto reminds us of the sacredness and swiftness of life. No guarantees. Make everyday count and be thankful for what we have while we have it. He lived to help us all see and understand that.
Queen Johnson
December 30, 2009
My condolences to the Cruz family. I worked with Beto in Richmond, he was a beautiful person. May the peace of the Lord comfort you in your time of grief.

Beto in Perú, having the time of his life
jane cruz
December 29, 2009
Theresa West
December 29, 2009
Dear Jane,
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I can only imagine the pain you are going through and hope that your memories will sustain you and yoru family during this most difficult time. Take good care.
Love,
December 29, 2009
Dearest Jane & Ron,
May all the love, thoughts, and support of all your friends and loved ones give you some peace in your time of need. Take Care, Lorraine
December 28, 2009
It hurts me to see such beautiful people as you and Ron suffer such a great loss. May God's presence uphold you during this time.
David Williamson
December 28, 2009
Dear Jane and Ron,
Our hearts hurt for you all. May your wonderful memories of Beto help to ease your pain. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Love, Dolly and David Whelan
December 28, 2009
We carry his light within us.
Mauricio Valle
December 28, 2009
My deepest condolences! You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers!
December 28, 2009
Dear Jane and Family, I am sorry to hear loss of your love one. My prayer is with you and your family.
Rochelle Hulett (Intern)
The Plum Center
December 28, 2009
Jane,
Our prayers are with you and your family. May God sustain you and comfort you.
Our Sympathy,
Michael and Elizabeth West
Angie Jones
December 28, 2009
Dear Jane and family, my deepest condolences to you and your family over the loss of your son. My prayers are with you, Sincerely,
Gwen McLaughlin
December 28, 2009
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Aice Holman
December 28, 2009
Jane and family,
My heart aches for your loss. Please know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Alice Holman
December 28, 2009
Jane,Ron and Family,
Words seem insignificant at a time such as this. To say I am sorry for Beto's leaving does not even begin to express my heartfelt sorrow for those he has left behind. You are all in my prayers as is Beto.
Lee Shafer, Centreville, VA
December 28, 2009
Dear Jane and Ron, I am so sorry to hear of Beto's passing. May happy family memories take the place of the grief. I am praying for you and all of your family. Mary Ray
Marti Giese
December 28, 2009
“Ah, the souls of those that die
Are but sunbeams lifted higher.”
Longfellow’s words remind us that Beto’s gentle soul will continue to radiate loving warmth. The world was privileged to have this compassionate being, if even for a short time. His light will shine on.
Andrea Jones
December 28, 2009
Dear Cruz family,
I am so sorry. Your family is so wonderful and loving and it hurts me to know that you are in pain. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Eletta Morse
December 27, 2009
I have known Beto since he and Alex became friends freshman year at Lake Braddock High School. I will always think of him as he was in those years--quiet, friendly, into music in a big way and a good friend to my son Alex. I am so saddend at the loss of Beto and I can imagine how terrible this loss is for his family. My thoughts are with you in your grieving the loss of your well loved son and brother
Jennifer Fadden
December 27, 2009
Jane, I am very sorry to hear about your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Judy Hood
December 27, 2009
Jane and Ron,
It is with a very heavy heart that I offer my condolences for your loss. You and your family are in my prayers.
December 27, 2009
Jane, Ron, and Elie,
I was in Tampa with Kevin when we learned of Beto's passing. We are all so very sorry and know that your hearts are full of grief. I hope that you can find some solace in all the wonderful memories you've had over the years with such a wonderful son. Our heartfelt sympathy. We love you.
Joyce
The Stoneham Family
Kate Morse
December 27, 2009
I met Beto through my brother Alex while they were close friends during high school, college, New York, and beyond. Although I didn't live in the area so only saw Beto now and then on family visits, I liked him tremendously and am terribly sad to hear the world is without him. He struck me as a deeply kind, sensitive, gentle person with humour, intelligence and an artistic soul who was passionate about music. It made me feel happy to know my brother was good friends with such a person, and I know my parents were fond of Beto also. I want his family to know he had a positive ripple effect on lives he touched, like mine, whom they may not even know! I am grateful our paths crossed and that I knew him. Kathryn (Kate) Morse
Norbert y Irma Guzman
December 27, 2009
We were so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.
Daniel Warner
December 27, 2009
Beto was an undergraduate at Hampshire College where I have taught Music for over twenty years. In my many years of teaching, I have encountered very students of
Beto’s caliber: he was bright, talented, sensitive, and engaged in the activities of the Music Program. He did this in an extraordinarily consistent and even modest way, given his abilities. He was a terrific guitarist and a wonderful person. News of his untimely death grieves me deeply.
I want to extend my condolences on behalf of myself, my family, my musical colleagues, and the College to his family and to all his friends. I send this with great respect and affection.
dian parrotta
December 27, 2009
"Dear Jane and family: My prayers are with you and your family at this time. You have my deepest sympathy. I am so sorry to hear of your great loss." Dian Parrotta (Falls Church City, VA)
Lijen Hwang
December 26, 2009
Dear Jane and family:
I am so sorry to hear Beto's sudden passing. I know it's such a difficult time for your family. My prays are with you and your family.
December 26, 2009
Jane and family,
I am deeply sorry to hear of your loss. May you find comfort in your fond memories of Beto and may God grant you peace in the days ahead.
Sincerely, Kathy Goobic
Tran Kratzke
December 26, 2009
Beto was gracious to share a Thanskgiving meal and his parents with me in 2008. Through his mother, I know him to be a gentle soul who loves to take care of others. Peace be with Beto and his family and friends.
Daniel Warner
December 26, 2009
Beto was an undergraduate at Hampshire College where I have taught music for over twenty years. In my many years of teaching, I have encountered very few students of Beto’s caliber: he was bright, talented, sensitive, and engaged in the activities of the Music Program. He did this in an extraordinarily consistent and modest way, given his abilities. He was a terrific guitarist and a wonderful person. News of his untimely death grieves me deeply.
I want to extend my condolences on behalf of myself, my family, my colleagues, and the College to his family and to all his friends. I send this with great respect and affection.
Dr. Stanley P. Jones
December 26, 2009
Dear Cruz Family,
You have my deepest sympathy. May God give you strength now and in the days ahead.
Karen Lukeman
December 26, 2009
Jane,
I am so sorry to hear of your sons passing. My thoughts are with you and your entire family.
Ellen Carlos
December 25, 2009
I am so sorry to hear of Beto's passing. He always made me smile. He took great care of our cats when we were away; I always felt that they were safe with him. The world will miss him.
May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived, even though much too short.
mark nagy
December 24, 2009
Beto was a crazy cat. He is loved.
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