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FARMER THOMAS LAURENCE FARMER Thomas Laurence Farmer, whose Washington career in public service and private law practice spanned 63 years, died February 5, 2015 at his home in Cleveland Park surrounded by his family. He was 91 years old. The cause was neurodegenerative illness. Thomas Farmer combined private law practice with a passion for politics and international affairs. He first came to Washington in 1951 where he worked for the CIA for three years as a Covert Operations Officer. He returned to Washington in 1958 as an Associate of the New York law firm of Simpson, Thacher and Bartlett and to work in John Kennedy's presidential campaign. Appointed by President Kennedy as Chairman of the Advisory Board of the National Capital Transportation Agency from 1961 to 1964, he helped lead a crucial battle that prevented interstate highways from bisecting Washington. From 1964 to 1968 he worked as the General Counsel for the State Department's U.S. Agency for International Development, and contributed to the establishment of the Asian Development Bank. From 1977 to 1981 he served as Chairman of the Intelligence Oversight Board during the Carter administration. From 1970 to 1994 he was partner in the law firm Prather, Seeger, Doolittle and Farmer. Born in 1923 in Berlin, to an American father and a German Jewish mother, Tom Farmer came with his parents to New York City in 1933. He graduated from Great Neck High School in 1940 and from Harvard College (A.B. 1943), where he was a member of the Editorial Board of the Harvard Crimson. He served in the U.S. Army from 1943 to 1946 and worked as a member of the Military Intelligence Division of the Combined Chiefs of Staff, Washington. He then read Law at Brasenose College, Oxford (LL.B. 1948) and at Harvard Law School (LL.M. 1950). Tom Farmer was deeply involved in developing relations between the United States and Germany in the Postwar era. In 1983 he helped found the American Institute for Contemporary German Studies as a Director and Secretary-Treasurer, and was a Trustee until his death. In 1994, with Henry Kissinger and German President Richard von Weizs??cker, he helped found the American Academy in Berlin, served as its Founding Chairman until succeeded by Richard Holbrooke, and continued as a Trustee until his death. In 1993 he became the only non-German appointed to the Treuhandanstalt, the "Trust agency" of the Federal Republic of Germany after reunification in 1990, and helped implement privatization of the state-owned coal industry in the former East Germany. He received the Commander's Cross of the Order of Merit of the Federal Republic of Germany in 1997. He is survived by his wife, Wanda Walton, his three children: Daniel, Sarah and Elspeth, and five grandchildren. A prior marriage to Elizabeth Midgley ended in divorce. A memorial service is being planned for April.

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Published by The Washington Post from Feb. 14 to Feb. 18, 2015.

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Daniel Drachman

April 1, 2015

It was both a privilege and a sad duty to help care for Tom during his illness. I appreciated both his remarkable capacities, and the tragedy of his terminal illness.

February 18, 2015

I am sorry for your loss. May your fond memories of the happy times you shared help to ease the sorrow of your hearts. Thomas will be missed by all. May you find comfort at the 121st Psalm.

February 17, 2015

Thomas lived a full and satisfying life, surrounded by many who loved and cared about him. He will be missed by all. May the Most High God remember him fondly.

Roger and Doral Cooper

February 17, 2015

Dear Wanda,

We just returned from a lengthy overseas trip and were so sorry to hear that Tom died. Tom certainly lived a full and highly accomplished life and was blessed with a loving and devoted wife. We cannot imagine a more wonderful neighbor than Tom was for the past 30 years. We will miss him

Our thoughts are with you.

Roger and Doral Cooper

Psalm 65:2

February 17, 2015

My sympathy goes out to the Farmer family during this time of great sorrow. May the hearer of prayer comfort and keep you.

Jim Perna

February 16, 2015

My condolences to Wanda, Daniel, Elspeth, and Sarah. It was always a pleasure and an honor working with Tom. His wit, his smile, and his intelligence always shone.

February 16, 2015

You have my deepest sympathy. May the God of loyal love comfort the family during your time of sorrow. Psalm 119:76

2 Corinthians 1:3-4

February 16, 2015

To the Family of Thomas Farmer,
You have my deepest sympathy on the loss of your loved one. I hope you can find some comfort from God to sustain you during this most difficult time.

Chris Condeelis

February 15, 2015

Dear Wanda - I was so sad to learn about Tom's passing. He was a wonderful support to so many. My thoughts are with you and all his family.

J&M Fisher

February 15, 2015

To the family and friends, please accept our sincere condolences. May your family find comfort in happy memories and in knowing that your loved one is safe in God's memory. (Luke 20:38)

Susanne Thevenet

February 15, 2015

I had the privilege of working with Thomas Farmer and enjoyed his stories, some about people I had only read about. A remarkable man who I will always remember with fondness and pride to have known him. My deepest sympathy to his family.

Popsy Kanagaratnam

February 14, 2015

Danny, Elspie, and Sarah, I was so sorry to read this, and glad that you were together with your father. Thinking of all of you.

Anne McGihon

February 14, 2015

Elspeth, Sarah and Dan - my thoughts with you now. Am so glad you were able to be with your father. He had a wonderful and full life. much love, Annie

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