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Bernard Beidel Obituary

BEIDEL BERNARD BEIDEL (Age 66) Born February 12, 1950, passed away with family at his side on February 9, 2017. Bern is survived by his loving wife of nearly 42 years, Donna; daughters, Jessica (Matthew) Hinders and Cynthia (Jonn) Aitken; grandchildren Lily Hinders, Alexander Aitken, and Emmett Hinders; and siblings, Thomas (Paulette) Beidel, Barbara Beidel (Toni Miller), Lawrence (Sherry) Beidel, and Edward (Deborah) Beidel. He also leaves many nieces, nephews, cousins, and lifelong friends. He is preceded in death by his parents, Edward and Cecelia Beidel. For 26 years, Bern served as Director of the Office of Employee Assistance at the U.S. House of Representatives in Washington, DC. Prior to joining the House, he developed the Employee Assistance Program for the New Jersey State Police in 1981 and managed the service throughout the 1980's. Prior to his employee assistance career, Bern served as a Drug and Alcohol Educator with the U.S. Coast Guard during his military career in the early 1970's. He has been a Certified Employee Assistance Professional since 1987 and previously served as a Commissioner with the Employee Assistance Certification Commission, the professional body responsible for overseeing the credentialing of employee assistance professionals internationally. Bern was honored with the 2013 Lifetime Achievement Award from the Employee Assistance Professionals Association. Bern has been published and awarded for his extensive contribution in the employee assistance field and was a frequent presenter at regional and national conferences. Additionally, he was a faculty member at the Eastern and Western Management Development Centers of the federal Office of Personnel Management, where he taught in the crisis leadership program. He held a Master's degree in education from the University of Pittsburgh with a specialization in rehabilitation counseling and alcoholism studies. Bern was the 2016 recipient of the University of Pittsburgh's School of Education Departmental Alumni Award from the Department of Psychology in Education. Bern lived his life helping others and inspiring those around him. He gave the gift of humor, love, spirituality, and kindness to all he encountered. He is a true gift to life and love and his memory will live forever The family will receive friends on Wednesday, February 15, at 2 to 4 and 7 to 9 p.m., at Pierce Funeral Home, 9609 Center St, Manassas, VA 20110. A memorial service will take place on Thursday, February 16, at 10:30 a.m., at St. Timothy's Catholic Church, 13807 Poplar Tree Road, Chantilly, VA 20151. The service will be followed by a reception from 12 to 2 p.m., at Waterford at Fair Oaks, 12025 Lee Jackson Memorial Highway, Fairfax, VA 22033. Bern will be laid to rest in a private ceremony at Arlington National Cemetery at a future date. Memorial donations can be sent to The Johns Hopkins Pancreatic Cancer Research Center at The Johns Hopkins Medical Institutions, c/o Ralph H. Hruban, M.D., 600 N. Wolfe Street, Carnegie 417, Baltimore, MD 21287 (pathology.jhu.edu/pc/).Memorial donations can be sent to The Johns Hopkins Pancreatic Cancer Research Center at The Johns Hopkins Medical Institutions, c/o Ralph H. Hruban, M.D., 600 N. Wolfe Street, Carnegie 417, Baltimore, MD 21287 (pathology.jhu.edu/pc/).

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Published by The Washington Post on Feb. 13, 2017.

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Paula Bruder

February 8, 2025

Paula Bruder

February 7, 2025

Uncle Bernie- Thinking of you and loving you like we always do!!! Never forgotten

Kathleen Berman

April 19, 2017

We've lost a giant in our field and much too soon. Bern was the consummate professional and a kind, funny and supportive human being. May he rest in peace.

Kathleen Berman, LPC, CEAP
Denver, CO

Tim P.

April 7, 2017

Bern saved my iife in selfless style. He oozed compassion and professionalism. He was a gift from a loving and good God. My prayers and thoughts are yours. I will remember him at mass this weekend and carry his kindness in my heart for all my days.

Joe & Nancy Redlinger

March 3, 2017

Donna & Family:
Bern was a classmate and teammate through high school at St. Fidelis and college at Duquesne. He remained a cherished friend throughout life. You all have our deepest sympathies on his passing.
Know that he is at peace now with God, and probably playing baseball on a diamond up in heaven.

Terri Frazier Palik

February 16, 2017

Words cannot express my deepest sympathies. I am so very sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Sending my love.

Bill Kippley

February 15, 2017

Dear Donna,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and and your family.
I loved Bern and will be eternally grateful for his friendship. He had a profound influence on me, both personally and professionally. I know I'm better for having known him. I'll never forget Berns serious dedication to his work and the love he had for his family. He touched so many people in such a positive way.
Then, of course, was Bern's infectious laugh! That, along with wonderful memories of our times together at professional conferences will be in my heart forever!
With condolences and Love,
Bill Kippley

February 15, 2017

Donna, family and friends: I am saddened and heartbroken by Bern's passing. Words are never adequate at a time like this. He will be truly missed. Dodie Gill

February 15, 2017

TO THE BEIDEL FAMILY MY DEEPEST SYMPATHY TAKE COMFORT IN READING MATT. 5:4

Tribute to an honorable dedicated professional

Wes Sanchez

February 14, 2017

Always loved the dedication, good will and love that Bern freely gave to our DC EAPA Chapter and his charismatic manner in which he touched everyone that was fortunate to know him. Love and prayers to family. He will be truly missed.

February 13, 2017

As a former bicameral congressional staffer, Bern was instrumental in helping me transition from the House to the Senate. I will truly miss his warm, sincere, and giving heart.

O.E.

Dorothy Blum

February 13, 2017

Donna, family, friends. My deepest thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. Bern gave so much to us all. He cared, he shared and he led in the Employee Assistance field. I will miss him so much and always think of him fondly and with great respect.
Dotty Blum

Julia Gaines

February 13, 2017

Bern Beidel was quite simply an extraordinary man. He was a beloved friend and coworker and I will always remember his exceptional gift with people. His memory will live on for his great contributions to both the CAO Organization and those lucky enough to be counseled by this sage and compassionate man.

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N H

February 13, 2017

Donna, my condolences for the loss of your dear husband Bernard. May loving memories, love from family and friends surround you during this very sorrowful time. God's words will comfort, strengthen and give you peace to endure the difficult days ahead (Isa. 41:10).

February 13, 2017

My sincere condolences to the Beidel family for the loss of their loved one, may God strengthen you all during this difficult time and may you find comfort through his son Jesus Christ's words found in John 6:40.

February 13, 2017

You have my deepest sympathy. May the God of loyal love comfort the family during your time of sorrow. Psalms 119:7

Joseph Scheib

February 13, 2017

The Bernie Beidel I knew at Duquesne University and St. Paul's was already the kind of man depicted in his obituary. He was a man of high ideals, committed to service with a balanced perspective that was revealed in his sense of humor.

I will celebrate a Mass for his repose and the consolation of his family.


Father Joseph C. Scheib

Bill, Paula, Jake, Zachary Bruder

February 12, 2017

Aunt Donna, Jessica, and Cindy,
No words can explain how much we love and will miss Uncle Bernie. We will celebrate his life and we consider ourselves so lucky to have been a part of it. All our love to you!

Paula and Bill Bruder

February 12, 2017

Paula and Bill Bruder

February 12, 2017

Paula and Bill Bruder

February 12, 2017

Paula and Bill Bruder

February 12, 2017

Louis LaLonde

February 12, 2017

Donna and family,
God bless and hold you in his arms at this time of sorry. Prayers to you and your children. Lou and Lala LaLonde

Rick Vargo

February 12, 2017

Seeing Bernie's was always an addition to whatever the occasion might be. The warmth of his smile was only matched by his every gesture & action. His family, friends and acquaintances all cherish the example he set. His loss is felt in magnitudes reflective of his impact on those he touched.
Blessing and comfort to the Beidels.

Tom Graziani

February 12, 2017

Donna and Children, Tom, Barb, Larry and Ed,
I am deeply saddened to hear of Bernie's passing, he's been in my prayers since Betty told me. I will never forget him or the great times we all shared way back when. May he Rest Peacefully, and may you all be able to smile through your tears remembering him .

Terry Rowe

February 12, 2017

Bern will be sorely missed, he was a rare man of heart and compassion.

I've known Bern for his entire career at the House & worked closely with him on the Communications team during the House's anthrax evacuation following 9-11. It was a rough time but his gentle kindness and humor, his sincere care for others, made a hard job easier & the long days bearable.

I am truly sorry for your loss, you are not alone in your sorrow.

February 12, 2017

Donna and Family
May God Bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Gerri Mankowski, Judi's Mother.

Bruder

February 12, 2017

I have always thought of Bernie as being one of those people that you meet and they are just larger than life. We will never forget that beautiful smile and that awsome laugh. Always an inspiration!! It was an honor and a blessing to have known him. - John, Judi and Michael.

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