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Alain Zilkha
June 28, 2025
In 1987 I was the Gryphon at Hillside House at Lehigh University. Other schools call Gryphons resident assistants. I remember when I first met Sterling. I believe his mom and his sisters dropped him off. I saw how loved he was. My first impression of Sterling was that he was a great young man.
As the year went on, I got to know him more and more. Sterling was kind hearted, gentle, driven, soft spoken intelligent and serious. He was the type of friend that everyone should have.
For some reason, 36 years after I graduated from Lehigh and last saw Sterling, he popped into my mind today. I said to myself let me look him up. I bet he did great things. I was shocked to learn that he was called to heaven so early. I am not sure if he ever became a dad, but I hope he did. Can you imagine the futures of children raised by Sterling? Children raised with love, encouragement, patience, by an unparalleled role model become phenomenal human beings.
As for his accomplishments, I knew he would be great. He had great personal success and he worked hard to make sure other people could succeed as well. I am glad our paths crossed.
Roberta
November 26, 2021
Always in my thoughts.... Xxx
Mother
December 31, 2017
Sterling such a very good Son and Brother.
Love you for always.
Jim C
December 13, 2017
You always had a great outlook on everything and you were a good classmate at MHS. Such a calm cool and collective guy, yet an animal on the wrestling mat! You have touched so many people, we will meet again someday my friend.
Roberta Cinque
December 8, 2017
Shared a very lovely day with you in Italy. You promised me you would have come back!!!!!!!! And now I read this.... my heart is in pieces..... i will always have you in my heart.
Leroy(sugarbear) Walker
December 6, 2017
My prayers go out to the family,sorry I couldn't make it.Mike always talked about him,I feel like he was my nephew also.peace and love to the family
Denise Brown
December 6, 2017
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Victoria Kahn
December 6, 2017
I'm so sorry to hear this sad news.
Sterling and I met at Skadden when I was a librarian there. We re-connected on LinkedIn. Such an impressive, smart, thoughtful man! This world is a lesser place without him. May your memories comfort you.
Cheryl & Del Wright
December 6, 2017
Our deepest condolences.
December 5, 2017
My deepest sympathy goes out to the family. May you find much comfort from our God of comfort during this difficult time (Act 24:15)
Saranah Walden
December 4, 2017
I am so sorry to learn of Sterling's passing. We reconnected in 2014 when he convinced me to get office space in WeWork. I moved to NC last year and I was just thinking about reaching out to him to do some legal work.
Gone way too soon. May your memories be of comfort during this time.
bruce samuels
December 4, 2017
what a joy to have sterling in our lives all these years.rest in peace....
Elizabeth
December 4, 2017
Sterling, my dear friend you've transitioned into heaven and will live forever. You are loved, appreciated and incredibly missed. Thank you for the lessons, laughs & words of encouragement. It has been quite the honor to be your friend. Rest In Peace, Big Man knowing you made this world better. Family & Friends lifting you in prayer, love & light.
Robert Bacon
December 3, 2017
Sincerest condolences to the Ashby family and friends. Wishing you strength and comfort during this difficult time.
Charlene Wiltshire
December 3, 2017
I am saddened to hear of your loss. My thoughts are with the family as I pray that God's mercy and grace will bring you peace and comfort.
December 2, 2017
There are no words that can ease the pain of losing someones beloved. May you find comfort and peace in knowing that your loved one is in God's memory because those who passed are precious in his eyes. Psalms 116:5. You and your family have my deepest condolences.
Dee
December 2, 2017
My condolences to your family. May god give you the strength to endure your sorrow. My thoughts are with you.
DS
December 2, 2017
Sorry for your loss. May God give your family peace and comfort during this difficult time. Jer 29:11,12
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