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ELLIOT GRANT Obituary

GRANT ELLIOT THOMAS GRANT On December 24, 2017, Elliot T. Grant passed away, surrounded by his loving family and friends. Beloved by all who knew him, Elliot leaves behind his wife Anne Christine Grant; two sons, Aidan and Logan; parents Sharon (Sforzini) and Steven; and friends too numerous to count. Born in Cambridge, MA, in 1970, Elliot was an early and avid reader, a passion he maintained all his life. The family moved to the DC area in 1972. Elliot attended elementary schools in Alexandria, VA, distinguishing himself in AP classes and making school-wide PA announcements at age 5. When the family made another move, in 1982, to Moscow USSR, Elliot immersed himself entirely in Soviet Russian culture. He attended the celebrated School 45 and made many friends among his Russian classmates, some of whom have remained close to the present. While in Moscow, Elliot began taking classical guitar lessons from a local Russian teacher. Having begun piano lessons while in grade school, he also had the good fortune and great pleasure of continuing his piano studies - alongside his mother - with a former concert mistress of the Moscow Conservatory of Music. Returning to the States in 1985, Elliot entered Bethesda-Chevy Chase High School, graduating with honors. Along the way, he led the BCC "It's Academic" team to several wins and took a leading role in school plays (Harvey, Guys and Dolls, Rosencrantz and Guildenstern are Dead). He then attended Yale University, majoring in Theater and Philosophy, with hopes of a career in the theater. While interning with the Circle Rep Theater in NYC, he wrote a play that he directed and produced off-off-Broadway. At this time also he met his future wife Anne, who was pursuing graduate studies in forensic psychology. Elliot then made a career switch that proved decisive, becoming a copy editor at PC Magazine. Thus began his lifelong fascination with and love for all things electronic and computer. In 1995 Elliot and Anne returned to the DC area, where he soon started up his own firm to do web design. After a time he joined Eagle Design, which in turn was later taken over by the large contractor Westat, with whom he remained as a website manager until his passing. Elliot and Anne adopted two children: Aidan at five months of age from South Korea, and Logan at seven years of age from Vietnam. Both boys are now teenagers. A personality neither bubbly nor somber, Elliot's quiet strengths were his great sense of humor (and good humor), generosity of spirit, integrity, courage, and fortitude - all traits he displayed through his long battle with pancreatic cancer and its increasingly debilitating effects (and documented on his website, still accessible). He even embarked on a final-year tour of great DC area restaurants to show his commitment to life. Besides books, Elliot's passions included bridge (becoming a life master along with his close friend and bridge partner Jacob Davenport), crossword puzzles (especially cryptic X-words), "treasure hunts" (actively participating in the annual Washington Post hunts as well as staging his own for friends), good movies, and family history. Most of these interests are reflected in various sections of his personal website: etgdesign.com. His app for improving bridge bidding is still selling well. He developed his own computer program for the website to produce an extensive family genealogy that ran both vertically (through generations) and horizontally (to in-laws and collateral family lines by marriage). No clan gathering, in fact, seemed complete without the presence of our "family historian" taking copious notes for the website. Anne and Elliot enjoyed travel, both in-country and abroad. One of their proudest accomplishments was the purchase of a large plot of land in Derwood, MD, where they worked with a local architect to plan a beautiful, ecologically sound new home - a dream Elliot had had since high school. With his quick wit and even quicker smile, Elliot made lifelong friends wherever he went and wherever he worked. All are missing him today. In lieu of flowers, the family requests those wishing to honor Elliot make a donation in his name to the Pancreatic Cancer Action Network (pancan.org).

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Published by The Washington Post from Dec. 27 to Dec. 29, 2017.

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January 29, 2019

Dear Anne, Aidan, and Logan,
I went to school no. 45 in Moscow, Russia at the same time with Elliot. I have discovered Grant Family Photos and saw pictures of our school and friends. Thank you for sharing your life with us! You will be dearly missed.

Your schoolmate,
Dr. Elena Mikhailova
https://mikhailova.org/
Clemson University

Lisa Cooper

January 12, 2018

Elliot was my first real boyfriend (9th grade for me, 10th for him), and he always treated me with kindness and grace (I will never forget finding a Shakespeare sonnet in calligraphy in my locker). Looking back now, especially in these our troubled times, I realize that I owe him a huge debt of gratitude for setting me up to know how I deserved to be treated in a relationship, and to know better than to settle for anything less. I know that his loss must be unfathomable for his family and friends, and I send them all my very deepest condolences.

Terry Savage

January 10, 2018

I was fortunate to have worked with Elliot for the past 14 years. He was both exceptionally smart and very kind. Knowing him enriched my life, and I'm grateful to his wonderful family for sharing him with us.

Karen Brenner

January 5, 2018

Elliot will also be missed as a great teacher and accessibility advocate (for people with disabilities to use technology). Just on that topic at Westat he trained over 150 people. We all really miss him and pray the pancan org can help eliminate the disease that took Elliot.

Tom Ryan

January 3, 2018

I was friends with Elliot in high school. Sadly, like to many friends from that time we lost touch as soon as graduation came.

I remember Elliot as a a warm, funny and whip smart friend. I had wonderful memories of playing pool in his parents basement while we discussed stuff and nonsense. I'm deeply saddened that it took his passing for me to reconnect with all my memories of our time together. I'm so sorry for your loss.

January 2, 2018

Dear Anne,I am one of many people who admired Elliot's work. The obit gave me a fuller idea of the his many other talents. I am sure you will miss him a lot. I speak as one who recently lost my husband to pancreatic cancer as well. This is a club we have not elected to join. I will make a donation to pancan in his name. With much sympathy, Ronie Nieva

Charles McNeill

January 2, 2018

Speaking for all of us who worked with Elliot in our company's graphics department and web development groups: We benefited greatly from his knowledge, insights, and enthusiasm. Elliot will be missed and never forgotten, not only as a valuable professional but also just a great person.

January 1, 2018

Anne, Aidan, and Logan,

We were so sorry to hear about the passing of Elliot. You are all in our thoughts during this time.

Foundly,

Mark and Stephanie, Max and Bradley

Harriett Mittelberger

December 31, 2017

Elliott was one of the best, if not the best student I taught at BCC. He was an outstanding writer, actor and director. He had a great sense of humor and was so intelligent. He will be missed and always remembered. I kept one of his writings.

Karen Moyes

December 29, 2017

Elliot was an amazing and generous man and I learned so much working with him. His sense of humor, calm demeanor, and knack for creative solutions was second to none. He is and will continue to be sorely missed. My deepest sympathies to the entire family.

Jennifer Pleasure

December 29, 2017

I was fortunate to know Elliot in high school, and to act opposite him in several plays. He was, as so many others have noted, a unique and gentle soul, who had true grace. I know his memory will be a blessing to his family, as well as to everyone who knew him. May his family be comforted.

Jean

December 29, 2017

I am so sorry to hear of Elliot's passing. I want to extend my most sincere condolences to the family. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Take comfort in knowing that God keeps those who die in his memory because they are precious in his eyes, just as Elliot is in yours. Psalm 116:15

December 28, 2017

To the family, I am sorry to hear the news about your loss. May the God who "binds up the brokenhearted" and "comforts all who mourn" sustain your family during this challenging time. Isaiah 61:1,2

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