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Jon Emmerett Ostrander

1945 - 2015

Jon Emmerett Ostrander obituary, 1945-2015, Charlotte, NC

BORN

1945

DIED

2015

FUNERAL HOME

CLOSED-McEwen Funeral Home & Cremation @ Myers Park

500 Providence Road

Charlotte, North Carolina

Jon Ostrander Obituary

Jon Emerett Ostrander, of Mint Hill, NC, passed away on August 2, 2015 at Levine-Dickson Hospice at Southminster in Charlotte, NC, after a battle with lung cancer; he was 69.

Jon was born in Callicoon, NY, a son of the late Francis and Charlotte Lillian Ostrander.

Jon was a graduate of Damascus High School and Simmons School of Mortuary Science in Syracuse, NY, where he served as class president.

Jon was proud to be the manager of Harry & Bryant Co., Charlotte's oldest and finest funeral home. He served in this capacity for many years until his death. Respected by his staff and area clergy, his legacy will live on.

Jon is survived by his loving wife of 50 years, Roseann Beal Ostrander; his daughter, Sharon Welnhofer and husband David of Indian Land, SC; sons, Jon Francis Ostrander and girlfriend Shari Coburn of Mocksville, NC and Scott Ostrander and fiancée Susan Francovig of Santa Fe, NM; grandchildren, Alex and Lila Welnhofer and Kennedy Ostrander; step-grandson, Nate Welnhofer; sister, Shirley Ostrander of Honesdale, PA; brother-in-law, Stanley Beal of Clarks Summit, PA; and several nieces and nephews.

He was preceded in death by his parents; brothers, Donald and Robert Ostrander; and sisters, Kathy Ostrander and Charlotte Schellberg.

The service to honor Jon will be held at 9:00 pm on Saturday, August 8, 2015 in Harry & Bryant's "Chapel in the Oaks", 500
Providence Rd., Charlotte, NC, with Reverend R. Alton Cadenhead and Rabbi Murray Ezring officiating. The family will receive friends from 6:30 pm until the time of service at the funeral home.

The family would like to thank the staff of Levine Cancer Institute for their care, especially Dr. Anthony Crimaldi. Words cannot
express how grateful we are for his extraordinary care and compassion.

Memorial contributions may be made to St. Jude Children's Research Hospital, 262 Danny Thomas Place, Memphis, TN 38105.

Online condolences may be offered at www.HarryandBryantFuneralHome.com.

Published by Tri-County Independent on Aug. 5, 2015.
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Roseann and family I think of you and wonder how you are keeping. You and Jon have been in my prayers all along. I know he is with us as I at least smile when I think of him. God Bless and keep all of you.

Monica Du Bois

March 6, 2016

Aunt Roseann, I am very sorry to hear of Uncle Jon's passing. Thinking of you.
Love, Gretchen

Gretchen Wormuth

September 4, 2015

I will truly miss Jon. He always had a big smile and a handshake for me. He would often take the time to share a funny joke. His were always funnier than mine. My thoughts and prayers are with you and the family Roseanne.

Jeff Claud

August 14, 2015

Roseann,

Our hearts are heavy for your loss. Jon was the greatest boss I ever had! I will truly miss him. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time.
Love,
Ron & Lois Thompson

August 11, 2015

Sharon - so very sorry about your dad's passing. Though I never had the privilige of meeting him, I can tell from the beautiful photo album posted here that he was a man full of energy, zest and love for life and his friends and family - no wonder you are the positive life force that you are! The picture of his Mother's Day porch dedication is one of the most touching things I've ever seen...what a gift to love and be loved like that. Praying for your family's comfort - having lost my parents in recent years I know all too well the gaping hole that's left, but I know you will continue to embrace life all the more now, in his honor. Your Y family adores and loves you!

Kathleen Franek

August 10, 2015

I have had the wonderful opportunity to work with Jon for the last several years and want his family to know that he was the best example of a man full of understanding and compassion for those he worked with that I have ever seen. He was my boss, my mentor and a true friend. I loved him and will miss him greatly. His was a life of service to others and he was a positive force in the funeral profession.

He also had a great love for his children, grandkids and his beloved Ro! I was blessed to be able to see this and I always knew that I was in the presence of a great man. Jon you will always be thought of by so many and I will miss hearing you say "Thank you my son".

Erik Johnson

August 10, 2015

I was sad to hear the news of Jon's death. As pastor of Little Church on the Lane we were neighbors who shared parking and a common concern for people. We helped each other. I enjoyed Jon's warmth and his eagerness to help us as a church . Jon was a professional and saw to it that things were done right. He was so happy to be back in Charlotte serving as manager. I will miss his smile and the times we had talking together about life and family. He will be missed by many and has left a legacy to remember.

Steve Wilson

August 10, 2015

When I think about Jon's influence on my life, many things come to mind but two come to the forefront.

First of all, Jon had a gift for making you feel special and important. Someone said I've learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel. He was a fiercely loyal friend whose encouragement brought out the best in those he knew. He was truly The Godfather over his circle of friends a title he loved and deserved!

Second, I was always touched by the love he and Roseann shared. I worked with them on a daily basis and witnessed the newlywed devotion they still shared after fifty years of marriage. They were a perfect match! I will miss his deep voice calling RO and then laughing with some sort of joke.

Jon, your influence will definitely continue to live in our hearts. You have set a fine example. We are all better people for your having passed our way.

Brandon Cook

August 8, 2015

Dear Roseanne and family,
Our deepest sympathy to each of you.
Jon was a true friend to the end. He will be sorely missed by all his classmates and friends.
He was a wonderful man that loved his family so very much. He was one in a million.
Sincerely,
Dot and Herman Esselman

August 8, 2015

Roseann, Jon was a man of integrity. A true leader and professional. When I first moved to Charlotte and met Jon he took me under his wing and taught me what I needed to know working in Charlotte. More then a co-worker I consider Jon my friend. You and your family are in our prayers. Tom & Claire Glynn

Tom Glynn

August 7, 2015

Sincere sympathy

Barbara Long

August 7, 2015

Sincere sympathy to Rosann and family. Remember the days babysitting Sharon and Jonny. Also Jon was so very nice to Steve and I when we lost our son in 1972. He took care of all the arrangements for us. I was always eternally grateful. Now Jon and Steve can have coffee in Heaven and share memories. Rest in Peace Jon.

Barbara Long

August 7, 2015

Roseann, I will do my very best to be there Saturday evening, but will probably not be able to attend the service. Both you and Jon always brightened my day whenever I saw you guys at Lowes. He was truly a special man, and Godsend- a man that went out of his way to take time and appreciate you in any capacity that you encountered him. He will be missed. David Clark.

David Clark

August 7, 2015

Dear Roseanne, As Kevin already said, we were crying all the way through the funeral last Monday after we heard the news and I still am catching myself with tearing eyes. Jon will always have a very special place in my heart. Not only was he a kind and integer person but he truly cared. I loved seeing him, getting a hug and look into his sparkling, smiling eyes. He was especially caring during the time I was sick; never leaving out an encounter without asking how I was doing? I will truly miss Jon, his words of wisdom and his infectious smile.

Sandra Goldman

August 7, 2015

My funeral experience began 28 years ago at Harry and Bryant Company. I can truly say Jon was one of the best funeral directors to ever grace the halls of 500 Providence.

Scott Williams

August 7, 2015

Roseann, My thoughts and prayers are with you. God bless.

Scoggin Jones

August 7, 2015

Roseann,
Steve happened to check Honesdale obits and was so surprised to learn of Jon's passing.Sending prayers to you and the family. Photos were a beautiful tribute to Jon... God bless

Steve & Mary Ostrander

August 6, 2015

All my love, thoughts, and prayers to you all. May God walk with you to help your suffering and grief. I am so very sorry. I know you will miss him terribly.

Angie Everhart

August 6, 2015

Roseann
So sorry to hear of Jon passing. May you feel God's presence through this trying time.

Howard Rutledge

August 6, 2015

I am so sorry to hear of Jon's passing. I remember him fondly from my time on Kirkholm Dr. Please accept my sincere, heartfelt condolences.

Tanya (Willis) Pharr

August 6, 2015

The pictures and video were beautiful. Always love you both.
Stan

Stan Beal

August 6, 2015

Roseann - we are so sorry to hear of Jon's death. We will all miss him terribly; 'specially that zany sense of humor! Our best to Sammy Sosa, too. Stephanie & Pete

August 6, 2015

Roseann,
I am so sorry for our loss. Sandra and I were at a funeral Monday and cried the whole service thinking about Jon. I was honored to know and work with Jon and will miss him badly. He was a man of immense dignity, humbleness, and peace. I learned much from him and truly valued our talks. Please accept my condolences and know that I am deeply sadden by his loss and grateful for knowing him. Love to you and your family.

Kevin Levine

August 5, 2015

Roseann, I am so sorry for your loss. Jon was one of the best men I have ever known and he will be greatly missed by all. I am praying for you and your family. Take care my friend. Libby Adams

August 5, 2015

"Rosie", Kenny and I are so very sorry. We four had some good times together back in the "Vogler" days. Jon was a great man and I know he will be terribly missed by all. It all seemed so fast! You are certainly in our hearts and prayers. Carol & Kenny Shott (Winston-Salem, NC)

August 5, 2015

Dear Roseann, I was so very sorry to hear of Jon's passing. Erin and I both thought the world of Jon and you when you were in Conover and truly appreciated your kindness. He was a great man. Our prayers are with you and your family.

Linda Parsons

August 5, 2015

Dear Roseanne,

Sigh. I was reading through the obits as you know we all do, and actually, looking for another was stunned to see this one. So sad. Wonderful fellow. I remember a new employee of ours mentioned he was working with Jon whom he hadn't yet met. Jon introduced himself and asked "are you new here?" The new man on board answered yes. Jon's response, and I have mentioned this wonderful reply so many times since was " well, we all were at one time, you'll be just fine."

Please know my heart goes out to you and your family.

Steve Hairfield

Steve Hairfield

August 5, 2015

Roseanne, I am so sorry to hear about Jon. He was a huge asset to our company for many years and to this day we have families ask about the "Jon" with no h. I will always remember Jon for his honesty and wonderful sense of humor. His insight on many things was always spot on. On behalf of my parents, Julie, Madeline and Alex, please accept our deepest sympathy.

Greg Terry

August 5, 2015

Roseanne, I am keeping you and the rest of your family in my prayers as I know the loss of Jon leaves a huge void in each of your hearts. He was a man of integrity, honesty and compassion when serving the families he so greatly did in our profession. I enjoyed working with him for many years and enjoyed his insight when I looked to him for knowledge and expertise when handling specific issues. His humor, his quiet laughs and his nods of approval will be forever in my memory. Karen Reardon

Karen Reardon

August 5, 2015

Roseanee and family, what a great loss of a great man. I became instant friends with Jon when he (along with Roseanne) cared from the heart for our family at the loss of my brother in 07. I felt like I had known Jon for years. His spirit of giving and caring is unequaled. I enjoyed helping you both find the home that Jon loved so much and made even better with his incredible skills and work ethic. Through this relationship i have been blessed to have met your family and see the effect your loving relationship has had on them. Great folks indeed. Draw on their love and care and know that we have been praying for you and Jon and the family and will continue to do so. The attitude Jon exhibited through all of this was remarkable. I will miss my friend until that day when I will see him again in God's perfect Heaven. "Go rest high on that mountain my friend."

Brian & Beckie Stickley

August 5, 2015

Roseanne, I am so sorry to hear of Jon's passing. He was a great mentor during my time working in Charlotte and I enjoyed his words of wisdom to me. I remember when he told me his prognosis in his office. He showed a resilient spirit and faced news that most would stress over with joy and faith. He looked at the positives of seeing all of the love and support of family and colleagues. I will forever remember him and the personal level of service he shared with me. God bless you all.

A.J. Bracy

August 4, 2015

Roseanne, I learned of Jon's passing from my father, Doug Knight, to whom Jon was a remarkable friend and colleague. I will forever be grateful to Jon for the concern, compassion and professionalism he provided at my mother's funeral. He asked that we put it in his hands and no detail was overlooked. We are deeply sorry for your loss and offer to you our heartfelt condolences.

Debbie (Knight) Rooney

August 4, 2015

Roseanne, I will always remember the friendship I had with you and Jon. I have missed that since you left Hickory even though Jon has stayed in touch. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family

Loretta Kuhn

August 4, 2015

Jon was a true friend to me. I will always remember his kind nature and mostly his honesty. The humor he shared during every phone conversation we had was so uplifting. I will never forget him, he will truly be missed. Rosanne, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Vickie Downing-Repass

August 4, 2015

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