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Alanna Connors Obituary

Alanna Connor, 56, of Arlington, Massachusetts, died on February 2, 2013 at home in the arms of her family. Beloved wife of Phillip Alan Veatch, loving mother of Roy Micah Veatch, Alanna filled all of her life exploring the wonders of the world and sharing smile and caring with friends, relatives, colleagues, and strangers. Born in Hong Kong, where her father, Richard Connors, was based as a pilot for Pan American Airlines, Alanna strived to bring the lyrical patterns of her young Chinese speaking to her later writing and speaking. Her mother, Sonia Connors, raised her children with a wide freedom of artistic expression that was often expressed in dragon murals and song writing. After getting her undergraduate physics degree at the Massachusetts Institute of Technology and a Doctorate in Astrophysics at the University of Maryland, Alanna went on to make significant contributions to the Compton Gamma Ray Observatory. As a longtime advocate of rigorous data analysis, she introduced many people to the joys of Bayesian statistics. Alanna began attending meetings of the Religious Society of Friends (Quakers) in 1982, dragging along her then reluctant partner and leading to a deep commitment to the principles of simplicity, peace, integrity, and justice that enriched both of their lives. Alanna is survived by her mother Sonia Connors of Arlington, Massachusetts, sister Cynthia Connors of Brooklyn, New York, sister Kathleen Connors of Hau'ula, Oahu, Hawaii, sister Noirin Connors of London, England, and brother Patrick Connors of New York, New York. A celebration of her life will be held at Wellesley Friends Meeting, Wellesley, MA on Saturday, March 2, at 2 pm. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in Alannas name to the American Friends Service Committee, 1501 Cherry Street, Philadelphia, PA 19102.

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Published by The Arlington Advocate from Feb. 19 to Feb. 26, 2013.

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March 24, 2013

My memories are of a beautiful and gentle yet strong spirit. I am proud to have had her as a friend, classmate and one of the few women at MIT at that time.

Tesi & Tom Goodwillie

March 2, 2013

Dear Phil and Roy,

Tom and I have just learned of Alanna's passing. We remember her as a uniquely present, calm and wise woman. We are glad to have known her and you in years past, and send hugs.

Denise Hart & Michael Moroukian

March 1, 2013

Dear Phil and Roy,
We are so sad to learn of Alanna's passing from this life. Her gentle smile and passion for life's wonders will be missed. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Karen Fassuliotis

February 27, 2013

I am so sorry to hear about the loss of my high school friend. We had many adventures together, camping with the Girl Scots and sailing in Long Island Sound. Although we weren't in touch much after high school she was always in my thoughts. May her memory be eternal.

February 26, 2013

Dear Phil and Roy,
We are so sorry for your loss. We fondly remember our times with Alanna at the boy's soccer games. Our thoughts are with you. With warmest wishes, The Gascoigne family

The MIT Sailing Pavillion 1978 or 1979

Julie Keller Pease

February 25, 2013

What a lovely farewell to a wonderful person and loving wife and mom. I have fond memories of moments with Alanna at MIT

February 25, 2013

I am so sorry for the loss of your loved one. Please find peace and comfort in Psalms 65:2.

John Bach

February 25, 2013

Many of us will miss you on Wednesday mornings at Mid-Week Worship.

Elizabeth Cavicchi

February 20, 2013

You inspire our lives with
heartfelt joy
fascinations of nature
being with peace in the world
always Love

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