Benjamin A. Groves

1930 - 2017

BORN

1930

DIED

2017

Benjamin Groves Obituary

Benjamin Allen Groves, 1930 - 2017, of Harwich Port, MA, formerly of New York City, passed away peacefully at home on July 12, 2017. Born in Chicago, IL to Marjorie Allen and Hugh Wilson, Ben grew up in England with his mother and step-father, Group Captain (RAF) Hugh M. Groves and was educated at Winchester College and Cambridge University. He spent his early career at Standard Oil of New Jersey (now Exxon Mobil), which, in 1958, transferred him to the US where he later worked in the securities business. Ben was committed to Miss Halls School and led its Board of Trustees from the mid-1970s through the 1980s. Ben was devoted to his family and is survived by Elizabeth, his beloved wife of 46 years, his daughters, Philippa Groves Gerard (Robert) and Amanda Groves Outerbridge (Patrick) and his grandchildren, Ashley, Nina and Robin Outerbridge, Wylie and Ben Johnston, and great-grandson, Michael. He was a loving step-father to Elizabeths children Christopher, Eliza and Douglas, and his step-grandchildren, Zoe, Cooper, Hayley, Campbell, Emma, Norman and Dougie. It was Bens wish that there be no memorial service and that those wishing to commemorate his life do so with a simple act of kindness.

Published by The Cape Codder from Jul. 20 to Aug. 4, 2017.
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Doug and I send our deepest love and sadness of the passing of a absoluley wonderful man who we had the privilege of knowing and had many wonderful times with over the years , Liz we are here for you and the family love Debbie and Doug Barnes

Deborah Barnes

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August 12, 2017

I send my sympathy to all the family and want you to know how much I, both personally and professionally, appreciated Ben's support as we developed the academic support program at MHS. His calm and positive nature were a source of inspiration for us. I also recall dear Barbara Kenefick getting a big kick out of him, a charming man. Best to all, especially Robin and family.

Vaunie Graulty

August 6, 2017

My deepest condolences to the entire family on the passing of a remarkable man.

Sincerely, Diane Wortis
Miss Halls' School

July 29, 2017

Heartfelt condolences are extended to your family at this difficult time. Seek the love and support God provides to help you cope during this time - Psalms 29:11

July 20, 2017

Ben was a loving and dedicated father, husband, step-father, grandfather, and friend. Such a warm and entertaining companion. I remember with great affection the good times we had in New York and in Bermuda. I only wish that I could have seen more of him towards the end of his life. My condolences to Liz and to the family.

Nick Clements

July 19, 2017

Such a loving GENTLE man !! Love Prill (Nan's Sister)

Priscilla Bradshaw Page

July 16, 2017

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