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Thomas Patton Obituary

Thomas R. Patton III, died unexpectedly on April 1, 2015 while traveling with his wife Pam in Australia. He was a long-time resident of Chatham, and formerly lived in Sudbury, MA. He was 75 years old. Tom was born in Philadelphia, PA and was a graduate of Wesleyan University, in Middletown, CT. He served as an officer in the United States Navy and started his career as a registered representative at F.S. Moseley & Co. in Boston. After leaving F.S. Moseley, Tom joined a real estate development company and eventually formed his own real estate management company, The Alden Group, in Burlington, MA. Tom was a resident and engaged community member in Sudbury from 1969 to 1993. He was active in the Sudbury United Methodist Church, the Lincoln-Sudbury Boosters Club, the Greenwood Club, and in his spare time enjoyed running road races, coaching his childrens sports teams, and camping with family and friends. Seeking adventure and a change of pace, Tom and his family moved to Chatham in 1993 and opened the Carriage House Inn, which he and Pam sold in 1997. He was a Realtor with Kinlin Grover Real Estate until his retirement in 2014. He was active in community affairs, including the Chatham Chamber of Commerce, serving as President for several years, First Night Chatham, and Nauset Neighbors. He was a member of Chatham Platform Tennis Association, Monomoy Yacht Club, and Cranberry Valley Golf Club. Whether he was dressed up as a shark at the First Night road race or corralling volunteers at the Chatham town picture with his bullhorn, he brought energy and enthusiasm to life. Tom enjoyed his retirement with daily walks with his golden retriever Annie, reading, and visiting his grandchildren. He enjoyed traveling and had adventures with Pam in Alaska, Costa Rica, China and Africa. Tom continued to stay active by riding his bike and playing paddle tennis and golf. He was particularly proud of raising money for charity through the annual Sandwich to Provincetown Last Gasp Bike Ride. His 2015 ride would have been his 15th year. He leaves his wife, Pamela, his son Christopher and his wife Hylah, of Charlotte, VT and his daughter Kate Eliot and her husband Peter, of Ipswich, MA. He is also survived by his sister Elizabeth Beam of Sherrills Ford, NC, and her two children, Thomas Beam and Elizabeth Pirone. He is also survived by four grandchildren, Binney and William Patton and Sarah and Emma Eliot, and his beloved dog, Annie. A Memorial Service will be held at the First Congregational Church of Chatham onMonday, April 13, 2015, at 1:00 pm. All family and friends are welcome. In lieu of flowers, the family requests that donations be made to Cape Cod Charitable FunRaisers - capecodcharitablefunraisers.com/funraiser/lastgasp or mail to CCCF, Po.Box 362 Centerville, MA 02632.

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Published by The Cape Codder from Apr. 7 to Apr. 14, 2015.

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Joe and Alix Furey

April 1, 2023

We remember Tom as not only our fabulous real estate broker - we bought & sold two homes through him between 1997 & 2012. And he was also a friend that we still miss today. Joe and Alix Furey

rruth Phil 4:6,7

April 16, 2015

I was sorry to read of the sudden passing of your loved one. May you find comfort from your cherished memories and from our Creator's promise to give you the strength you need to get through this difficult time.

Joe and Alix Furey

April 14, 2015

Tom was the first person we met on our first visit to Chatham in 1996. We were looking at real estate pictures on Main St across from the Village Cafe when Tom came running across the street & introduced himself. It was the start of a 15 year friendship during which Tom helped us buy and sell our two homes in Chatham. Always the professional, he often went the extra mile to help us, whether it was moving furniture, anticipating & installing smoke detectors, whatever needed doing. Many times we'd just stop by his office and chat or exchange stories and always that smile of his. We're glad he lived such a full life, however somehow Chatham won't be the same without Tom Patto. Our condolences to Pam and his family on their loss. Joe and Alix Furey

Amanda Charmaine

April 14, 2015

Hello, I don't know you or anybody related to you. I just went online and decided to find a random obituary so I could honor somebody's life today. Because life is so beautiful and so important. Thomas, I'm glad you lived such a fulfilling and adventurous 75 years. You did so many things and I am sure you have had a profound influence on the lives of others. I am sure everybody will miss you, but you have not left anybody in vain. People have lived differently because you had been in it. Rest in peace!

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