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Jay MacGilvary Obituary

Jay Ellsworth MacGilvary, 67, beloved husband of Sally (Porter) MacGilvary, with whom he shared 44 years of marriage, passed away on Sunday, October 28th at his home. Born in Ipswich, he was the son of the late Forrest and Ruth (Bodman) MacGilvary. Jay grew up in Ipswich and graduated from Ipswich High School. He attended and graduated from Brewster Academy in Wolfboro, NH. He also attended and graduated from Parsons College in Fairfield, Iowa. For eleven years, Jay taught physical education at Ipswich High School and coached football, wrestling and baseball. He was involved in the inter town baseball league and is a member of its hall of fame. He also was a volunteer coach in Hamilton-Wenham little league and babe ruth league baseball program. Jay was also a member of the Ipswich High School Hall of Fame committee. In addition to his wife, Jay is survived by two sons: J.P. Mac-Gilvary of Ipswich, Casey MacGilvary of Denver, Colorado; two daughters: Megan Sukduang and her husband Suriyon of Houston and Sarah Falkanger of Ipswich; one brother: Ronald MacGilvery and his wife Susan of Venice, Florida; and four grandchildren: Marisa and Jake MacGilvary and Trin and Tola Sukduang. Services for Jay will be held privately. In lieu of flowers, Memorial donations may be made in Jays Memory to the Jimmy Fund, C/O Dana-Farber Cancer Institute, P.O. Box 849168, Boston, MA 02284-9168. Arrangements by the Campbell-Lee, Moody Russell Funeral Home, 525 Cabot Street, Beverly. Condolences at www.campbellfuneral.com.

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Published by Hamilton-Wenham Chronicle from Nov. 6 to Nov. 13, 2012.

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Penny Winfrey Bernard

November 26, 2012

Sally I am so sorry to read about the passing of Jay. My heart is with you.

November 18, 2012

Cub scouts together..team mates on South Sox..team mates in Pony league;my catcher in high school..my longtime friend

November 13, 2012

"Bo" was an outstanding teacher and coach at IHS... sincere sympathy to his wife and family. Terrible loss.

Tom Esperson
Bellevue, WA

Jan Widdowson

November 13, 2012

Dear Sally- I rarely read the Chronicle but did today and was so sorry to read about your husband. The last time I saw you and met him was at your wedding. After all these years, I still remember how much fun it was. Take good care of yourself and write when you have the chance.

Fondly,
Jan

Mike Parker

November 12, 2012

Dear Sally;
I wish you strength and hope in this time of loss. Every time I am back in Hamilton I say your name as I remember the neighbors and I always turn around on Oak Street. May your memories sustain you and I am sorry for your loss.

Ted & Shirley Pickul

November 9, 2012

We, and our children will always remember Jay.
Please accept our Deepest Sympathies. R.I.P. Jay.

Kevin McElhinney

November 7, 2012

A great PE teacher at IHS, it was always a pleasure to be in his class. He will be missed and I will pray that his family remembers all the good things.

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