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Elizabeth Argo

1922 - 2016

Elizabeth Argo obituary, 1922-2016, Orleans, MA

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Elizabeth Argo Obituary

Curtain call for local theaters leading lady, Betsy Argo. At 93, the founder and director of Orleans Arena Theater (now the Academy Playhouse) has taken her final bow. Unique, inventive and spirited, Betsy was destined to leave an indelible mark on our community. Born Elizabeth Brunk on July 22, 1922 in Richmond VA, Betsy graduated from Converse College. Her work as a young journalist carried her to Chapel Hill, NC, where she met Gordon Argo. In 1949 Gordon was hired by a small theater in Brewster, and the newlyweds moved to Cape Cod. When the theater disbanded, the couple began searching for a place to house a theater of their own. In 1951 the Orleans town selectmen offered to rent the second floor of the old Town Hall to the Argos for $100 a summer. When the town moved its offices, Betsy managed to raise the funds to purchase the old Town Hall. With blood, sweat and tears, the Orleans Arena Theater was born. Each summer a small resident company produced 10 plays. The actors came from all over, some established but most notyet. As producer, publicist, director and at times, leading lady, Betsy helped nurture new talent and gave veteran actors a place to work out. Live theater quickly became a vital part of summer life in Orleans. Her marriage to Gordon ended in 1963, but this single mother of three continued to run the theater each summer. During the winters she often held three jobs, running a nursery school, teaching high school drama | even driving a school bus. Amidst it all, she returned to school to earn a Masters degree. For nearly a decade, she taught at the Wheeler School in Providence, RI, and then at Roger Williams University in Bristol, RI, where she ran their study abroad program, taking drama students to London each winter. She was also a founding member of Trinity Repertory Theater in Providence. Her boundless energy, ingenuity and determination have been an inspiration to both young and old. The Orleans theater still stands on the hill overlooking Main Street, a lasting reminder of her creativity and commitment to a community she loved. With a great wit and relentless optimism, Betsy Argo managed to overcome nearly every obstacle, but on February 23rd, 2016 she succumbed to cancer. Surrounded by her children, she passed away peacefully in the family home, on the hill above her beloved theater. She will live on as a local legend and an inspiration to all. She is survived by children Liz, Allison and Walter Argo and their spouses George Babcock, Jim Holland and Kathleen Argo. She is also survived by her grandchildren John and Lacy Clark, and Tony and Robyn Argo. In place of flowers, Betsy asks to remember those in need. Please consider a donation to the Lower Cape Outreach Council. A memorial service will be held this spring to celebrate her remarkable life. For online condolences, please visit www.nickerson funerals.com.

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Published by The Cape Codder from Mar. 1 to Mar. 11, 2016.

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Craig Coelho

July 29, 2019

Alas, I met Betsy doing children's theater, and it madcap and merriment every day I spent with her. Sadly we fell out of touch when I left RI, and I've just found her obit now. I missed her so many days, talked about her often, and will have her in my heart forever.

September 2, 2016

I love you forever mom!
- Wally

March 21, 2016

A best friend in Bristol for over thirty years, Betsy was one of the nicest, funniest, smartest, most optimistic and resourceful women we ever knew. She definitely made the world a better place during her time here. She cured me of my fear of public speaking and in its place gave me a lasting friendship. She and Scooter were our frequent visitors and playmates before she moved back to the Cape. Always upbeat and up to date on the world at large, Betsy's joie de vivre brightened any day. Among her numerous causes and passions, one that stands out was her wish to make Bristol litter free. Sometime in the early 80's she convinced me to walk the shoreline along what is now the East Bay Bike Path and we had the best time picking up old bottles and junk. Two Bristol Betsys sharing a community improvement project!

We miss her and will always remember her as a lady with a heart filled with sunshine and love.

The Oses( Betsy, Stan, Dexter and Riley)
Bristol,RI

Scott Yonan

March 14, 2016

Betsy was a purple whirlwind whose enthusiasm and zest for life were infectious. She was an original. We will not meet another person like Betsy Argo and she will be greatly missed!

March 13, 2016

My heart goes out to you for your deep loss you must be feeling for your beloved Elizabeth. How sad to lose someone so loved and so needed. May you find comfort in prayer and in one another. (Jeremiah 29:12,13)

Carol Murray

March 12, 2016

So sorry for your loss. I had the pleasure of knowing her when I was in college. A wonderful wit, wonderful talent and inspiration.

SH

March 10, 2016

I am so sorry for your loss. May you find comfort in prayer. At 1 Thessalonians 5:17 we are told to "Pray constantly.".

April Selley

March 9, 2016

Thirty-five years ago, I took an "Introduction to Acting" course with Betsy at Roger Williams (then) College. Later, I played Mrs. Potts in a production of _Picnic_ that she directed, and I was in two other productions that she directed for the Bristol Historical Society. I continued to see her for many years at the Historical Society meetings. I am immensely grateful for what I learned from her and for the wonderful time that I had in her class and the productions. She was a great--and giving-- lady. My dad, John, who was the locksmith at RWC, also knew her (and, in fact, recommended that I take her section of Acting 1), and my brother Jody, who was also a student at RWC, remembers her and told me about her obituary in the _Providence Journal_. We send our deepest condolences to all of you, but we celebrate a life very well-lived. Peace, April, John, and Jody Selley (Rotterdam, New York and Bristol, RI).

Mary Flair Bogan

March 9, 2016

I met Betsy Argo about ten years ago at the Wharf Tavern with my former neighbor, Leta Anderson. What fun we had talking about summer theatre and Gordon Argo's Circle Summer Theatre! They were both pioneers of theatre-in- the-round! I had played a "young lady from East Chester Finishing school" in "Little Mary Sunshine" for Gordon - my first professional theatre. He always said Betsy was cute as a button, and she was that and more!

Will Pettengill

March 7, 2016

Myself, and all the Pettengills and extended clan, extend hugs to the all the Argos and their extended clan. Betsy, we miss you! My goodness, all the summers we spent together, all of us, practically living at the theater: Betsy was always a bright and unique spark!

DeWolf Fulton

March 6, 2016

Betsy was a force of nature come to the stage, pulling others with her. It was always delightful working with her to bring the drama program to greatness at Roger Williams Univ. A tireless worker, she was never shy about a new idea and always so proud of Alison's film work. Gorillas didn't frighten her in the least. Sympathies go out to Alison and the rest of her family. But take heart. Betsy lived a full and beautiful life.

March 6, 2016

Our Condolences from the Caliri family in East Orleans. Many, Many Many wonderful memories and endless stories our family has shared at the Arena Theatre! Parking cars, selling sodas, ushering, acting, lighting, clean up, distributing flyers all over the lower cape, ticket office, picking up food for the "house on the hill" and much more!! What a treasure those experiences were, especially your beautiful, loving family. Betsy was the first person I ever met with a Southern Accent" I loved to listen to her (even when she might be a little mad). We lost our mom one year ago last January at 97, so we have all been lucky to have their gift with us for so long. Most of the Caliri clan is still on the Cape. My brother Mark and I live in Hawaii (Kailua/Oahu) and the youngest, Joseph, just moved to Montana. Our moms were Absolutely "One of Kind" We were blessed. Aloha, Frank Caliri

Carolyn Dowd

March 6, 2016

My heartfelt condolences on your mother's passing.

David Fellman

March 6, 2016

Wally,
Remember you from St. Dunstan's (1969-70). Also met your mom in early 1965 as a Dramatics teacher at Congregation B'Nai Israel in Woonsocket.
My heartfelt condolences on your mom's passing

Karen Jessup

March 6, 2016

Betsy was a warm-hearted, empathetic and delightful friend who brightened my days at Roger Williams University. Hers was a life well lived. I think of her often and with such fondness.

March 5, 2016

So sorry for your loss. What a good long life Liz enjoyed. So many cannot say the same. She was one of those the Bible call especially strong. Ps. 90:10

Elaine Fasano

March 4, 2016

She was a great lady, that words can not express. So sorry that she went to continue her final journey. I will miss our great conversations and her eternal optimism.

Elaine Fsano

Steven Krintzman

March 4, 2016

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Anne Caldarella

March 4, 2016

Betsy is my Best Forever Friend! We first met 37 yrs. ago when she was on the faculty of Roger Williams College and I was director of Public Relations. We also lived right next door to each other in the same apartment complex. There was never a dull moment being around Betsy! Over the years I came to know her unique and wonderful family and she mine. Betsy was instrumental in getting my great nephew Tommy into the Young Actors Summer Institute at Trinity Rep, which he says, "changed his life." On one of my last visits with Betsy as she was lying in her hospital bed (at her home) she kept looking up towards the ceiling. I asked her what she saw? She said, "So Many Things." She seemed amazed! I envision Betsy having a joyful time in heaven and raising a little hell at the same time!!!

Carol Drewes

March 3, 2016

I knew Betsy first as a family friend when I lived on Cape Cod. We became better acquainted later through my work at Trinity Repertory Company, where she and her family were tremendously active in the 1960s and remained constantly in touch through the decades. She was extremely proud of her daughters and grandchildren and the family legacy of the theater in Orleans. Bravo, Betsy! You will be missed.

March 3, 2016

I am sorry for your loss. May prayer comfort you.

1 Thessalonians 5:17 "Pray constantly."

Rick Cummins

March 2, 2016

Since the day I met Betsy in 1972, as Musical Director at the Orleans Arena Theater, my new "boss" soon became my dear friend. Because of Betsy, my own life proceeded with a new angle, with a growing circle of wonderful new friends to visit here every single summer after, and with the realization that Cape Cod is my favorite place to be. I simply loved watching her live her life, loving her dogs, and sharing her pride in her children. She has become for me a guiding light for living and has always been the personification of the word "ageless".

Michael English

March 2, 2016

Betsy's enthusiasm was contagious. Her adventurous spirit infectious.
She was an inspiration.

March 2, 2016

I met Betsy at my sister Pauline Ridge's home. Betsy was such a delightful person. It was wonderful to listen to stories especially about the early years of theater in Orleans. The stories about raising children with the assistance of other theater people. I deeply feel your loss. My sincere sympathy to Liz, Allison and Wally and all Betsy's many friends and family. Janice Ogasian

Dennis Demessianos

March 2, 2016

I can't count the many careers in the Theatre Arts she helped launch. Not only acting, but also in the technical theatre arts!

William Grandgeorge

March 2, 2016

What a loss to all of us! Betsy was an inspiration to many students at RWU, both as a director and professor. She will be missed by many.

Larry Marsland

March 2, 2016

The end of an era.

89th Birthday!

February 27, 2016

Allison Argo

February 27, 2016

Cindy Koehler

February 26, 2016

My heart goes out to all of you Liz, Allison and Wally. Sending you and your families prayers for peace, Her light will never dim, as you all reflect her brilliance. With sympathy,

Mary McDermott

February 25, 2016

God broke the mold after He made Betsy. She was unique in her creative energy, her strength and determination, her work ethic, and most of all, her kindness. She brought live theatre to Orleans and encouraged countless aspiring and established actors. She always had a smile and a great sense of humor. I have happy memories of attending the Orleans Arena Theatre. What a privilege it was to know Betsy.

February 25, 2016

' I so sorry for your loss. I am sending my most heartfelt sympathy during this difficult time. Please know that GOD cares about you PSALMS 29:11

The Staff of Nickerson Funeral Home

February 24, 2016

We wish to extend our deepest sympathies at this difficult time.

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