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Mary Downing Obituary

Mary (Maiz) Elizabeth Downing (d. March 22, 2012). Mary died as she lived, with tremendous grace, surrounded by family and friends, peacefully at home. She was 49. Born October 4, 1962 and raised in Watertown, MA, Mary studied theater arts at the University of Massachusetts and Hampshire College and theater directing at the California Institute of the Arts. She later taught at The Learning Community Charter School (LCCS) in Jersey City, New Jersey, and the Brooklyn School for Collaborative Studies (BCS) in New York. Mary had a tremendous appreciation for life, and she filled it with kindness, laughter, and generosity. Ever curious, she was keenly interested in other's passions and saw potential in everyone, especially her students. Mary was the daughter of the late Walter and Diane Downing. She is survived by her loving, and much loved, husband Thomas Bossert, her brothers Walter and Michael Downing, sisters Catherine Downing and Elizabeth Bogusz, her in-laws Kelly Koniz-Downing, Peter Collins, Stephen Bogusz, and her nieces Katie, Molly, and Eva. Mary also leaves behind ardent friends, dedicated colleagues, inspirational students, and one very heart broken dog, Ginger. A viewing will be held on Saturday, March 24, 2012, 2-5pm and 7-9pm at Provenzano Lanza Funeral Home, 43 Second Ave, NYC, NY. In lieu of flowers donations may be made to the following schools and/or organizations: National: First Book. www.firstbook.org 826 National. www.826national.org Local: The Brooklyn School for Collaborative Studies (BCS). Click bcs448.org and the "Giving" tab or by check to Friends of BNS/BCS - 610 Henry Street, Brooklyn, NY 11231. Please designate your gift to the "Mary Downing Fund". Learning Community Charter School (LCCS). Checks to: Friends of LCCS (Mary Dowing/Library Fund), 2495 Kennedy Boulevard, Jersey City, NJ 07304. On-line: Click on the "Donations" tab and follow the instructions to make a tribute donation, www.lccsnj.org

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Published by The Watertown Tab & Press from Mar. 24 to Mar. 31, 2012.

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Dee (Dashanelle)

July 5, 2025

2025 and still thinking of you, Ms. Downing...
You are forever loved

April 5, 2013

I am so sorry to hear about Mary, God Bless and rest her soul. Please accept my heartfelt condolences...Tish (Anita's Sister)

Peter Nadeau

October 30, 2012

My thought and prayers go out to the Downing family. My family grew up with the Downing family on Berkely street. I will never forget the big grey house they lived in. It is very sad that Mary has passsed away at a young age. My thoughts and prayers will always be with Walter and his sisters may Mary rest in peace.

Love Always

Peter Nadeau Jr and Family

Paul Devine

July 5, 2012

I just heard that Mary passed away. I will remember Mary as a sweet, intelligent, gentle woman, who did not judge others harshly. My deepest sympathies to all of her family & friends.

June 12, 2012

I miss you, but love you very much Ms. Downing. Your teachings will always live within me:)
- Jade Perez(Jersey City,NJ)

Margaret McDonald

May 19, 2012

Mary was a lovely person. I'm so sorry for your loss. I know that her joy lives on through her students.

Patti Sampson

April 19, 2012

It is with great sadness to read of your sister's passing. I have many fond memories of Mary and her family (Catherine, Lizzie, Walter & Michael) on Berkeley Street. My thoughts are with you - Patti Sampson

mona zaki

April 5, 2012

we miss you Ms. Downing!!.. we love you soo much! r.i.p.. gone but never ever forgotten

katy Downey

March 29, 2012

I am so sorry to hear about your loss. Sending my thoughts and love to the Downing family.

shaquia jones

March 28, 2012

MARY I WILL ALWAYS LOVE AND MISS YOU I WILL ALWAYS CONSIDER YOU AS MY SECOND MOM

Sandy Shea

March 27, 2012

Michael, Walter, Katherine & Lizzie,
I am so sorry to hear about Mary. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Juliet Ariel

March 27, 2012

I love Mary so much! She was the best teacher I ever had in my whole life! I trusted her and she was the only person I would let read ANY of my writing! I will miss her so much! I pray for her everyday and hope that her heaven is EXACTLY the way she wanted it to be! I will see you again one day Mary. I love you!

Heidi DiMatteo

March 27, 2012

I am so sorry for your loss!!!!!! I will keep all of you in my thoughts and prayers

Clair Cronia

March 27, 2012

We here on Hornby Island are sending our thoughts and prayers to Thomas and Mary's family and friends. Heartbroken is what we are but full of wonderful memories of her time here directing our motley crew to rave reviews in not one but two major theatre productions. She was simply the best. Take heart, dear ones, she will direct us all again one fine day. Blessed Be our Mary.

Lynne Bond

March 27, 2012

Mary was a mentor. I met her when I was 19, and the influence she had on my life was profound. More than any one single person I have ever known, she had the ability to help one see one's own potential and believe in it. She truly embodied grace and passion, a rare combination. I will miss her deeply. And remember her always.
--Lynne Elizabeth Bond

Sheniya Griffith

March 26, 2012

Mary was my ELA teacher. she was kind to all her students and loved them all equally. each day when the students came into her class she made our day. Mary loved to right and shared her writing to her class. she was good friends with all the teachers and had a good spirit. people who never knew her just instinctively clung to her like a magnet. Mary is the person people look up too. all the student and staff who knew her miss her and will always hold her dear. Mary i hope to see you again one day in heaven

Jennifer Contogeorgos

March 26, 2012

Going to miss you, Mar. I know that I'll see you in heaven, beautiful lady.

Michael Knell

March 26, 2012

Walter,

Please accept our heartfelt condolences to and your family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you with the passing of Mary.

May her spirit shine eternally through you & your family and through your actions.

God bless

The Knell Brothers

Valentina Ulloa

March 25, 2012

I'm going to miss Mary. I love the fact that she thought that the students at bcs were her children.

Christina Meluso

March 24, 2012

You will be sorely missed, but your beautiful spirit and legacy will live on in the many, and I mean many, lives you've touched. Your selflessness towards your colleagues and students will forever echo in my mind. I extend my sincere condolences to all who love Mary.

Jennifer Baez

March 24, 2012

Mary was the best teacher i've had. I'm truly going to miss her. She helped me understand the meaning of words and I apreciate her for
it. Just thinking of the memories I have of her make me want to cry.

Diana Saavedra

March 24, 2012

Mary inspired everyone and me. She inspired me to write a book. Mary and I created the first chapter of the book. I told her that she would be the first to read it. Now if i ever get the chance, I will personally go to her and read it to her.

Pat Hayes

March 24, 2012

Wish I could be there with all of you. I am with you in my heart. Love to all of you.
Nana Pat

Kathryne Andujar

March 24, 2012

Mary was my 6th grade english teacher, being in her class and her presence was always a delight , she had nothing but positive thoughts to share with us , my condolences to anyone dealing with her loss

Rhonda Blair

March 24, 2012

I was a teacher of Mary's at Hampshire, and have such warm memories of her. She was a true light in the universe. May you find peace in this difficult time.

Peg Pisani

March 24, 2012

Our sincerest condolences to Mary's family. Our son was one of her students in the last class she taught at Learning Community. He loved her dearly and admired her completely. We thank you, Mary, for your dedication to our childrens' minds and souls. You remain always in our hearts.
Peg Pisani (mother of Jody Giani)

Alice Conlin

March 24, 2012

Mary Downing lives on in the memories of her classmates who will not forget her spark and joy.

E. A.

March 24, 2012

My sincere condolence to the family and friends of Mary Downing. May your life be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived. Ecclesiastes 7:1

March 24, 2012

Walter,

Hope you find peace in your moment of grief old friend. Be Well. Your fiend Victor Canino

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