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John Hickey Obituary

Hickey, John Patrick of Carmel Terrace, Framingham, MA , formerly of Wellesley Hills and Dover, passed away peacefully in the company of his family at Metro West Medical Center in Framingham on Sunday, February 24 at the age of 90. John was born in South Bend, IN on May 24, 1922 to the late Thomas Louis Hickey and Kathryn Barbara Hiss. He was the sixth of eight children. At the age of five he and his brothers played football with the iconic Notre Dame football coach, Knute Rockne, who was the familys next-door neighbor, and the godson of Johns parents. He received his Boy Scouts Eagle Badge in 1937. He attended South Bend Central High School where he excelled at sports and academics, and was senior class president, graduating at the top of his 1940 class. He also played basketball and baseball for the legendary Coach John Wooden at Central High. John attended the University of Notre Dame (class of 44). He played baseball for the school and won his varsity monogram in addition to the annual 1943 Byron V. Kanaley Award, recognizing the student who excelled at scholarship and athletics. World War II interrupted his studies. John enlisted in the Navy in 1943 and went to Boston, MA for training in the Naval Supply Corps. It is there he met his future wife, Mary Virginia Hennigan. He served as a naval paymaster in Pearl Harbor, HI from 1944 to 1946, and was honorably discharged as a Lieutenant J.G. On September 7, 1946 John and Mary Hennigan were married in Jamaica Plain, MA. They returned to South Bend to allow John to complete his studies at Notre Dame where he graduated in 1947 with a B.S.C. in Accounting, Summa Cum Laude. He was one of five Hickey sons to graduate from the university and one of twenty-nine descendants of his parents to graduate from the school. John and Mary then moved to Boston so that he could enroll at Harvard Business School where he earned his M.B.A. in Retailing in1949. John began his business career at Jordan Marsh Company department store in Boston that year and retired from the company in 1987 as the Vice President and General Manager of the Framingham store. John continued to be active athletically during his life. He was the tennis partner of the late Dr. Joseph E. Murray, Nobel Laureate, for over 35 years. Having graduated from Notre Dame, John had a fervent devotion to Our Lady. He and Mary made ten pilgrimages to Our Ladys shrine in Fatima, Portugal. John distributed over 1,300 chaplets (miniature rosaries) that had been blessed in Fatima, to friends and family across the country, John was predeceased by four brothers (Tom Jr., Lou, Don, and Jerry) and by a sister Kathleen. He is survived by: his wife of 66 years, Mary, a brother Joe Hickey of Niles, MI, and a sister Patricia Hickey Sarb of Dearborn, MI; five children: John P. Hickey, Jr. (Kathleen) of Milwaukee, WI, Katherine Anne Hickey Parcels (the late Burt Parcels, his children and grandchildren) of Centerville, MA, Kevin Thomas Hickey (the late Claire Leonard Hickey) of Braintree, MA, Brian James Hickey (Janet) of Bridgewater, NJ, and Marie Therese Terry Hickey of Framingham, MA; eleven grandchildren: Meghan K. Hickey (James Totten), John P. Hickey, III (Tanya), Robert L Hickey, Michael G. Fulham (Christine Santackas), Katherine O. Fulham Kelley (Jon), John B. Jay Fulham (Shama), Sarah B. J. Fulham, Daniel P. Fulham (Daniella Cruz), Brian J. Hickey, Jr., Justin A. Hickey and Elizabeth K. Hickey; eight great grandchildren: Goldie L. Hickey, Samson L. Hickey, Geronimo Q. Kelley, Claire J. Kelley, Lilah M. Fulham, Kaylin A. Fulham, Marcus R. Fulham and Maddison Tyler. Funeral was held from the George F. Doherty & Sons Funeral Home, 477 Washington St (Rte 16), Wellesley, on Saturday at 9 A.M. In lieu of flowers the family has requested gifts be made to Casa Alta Fatima Retreat House, Castelo de Ourem, 2490 Ourem, Portugal. For directions and online condolences, www.gfdoherty.com. Funeral Arrangements by George F. Doherty & Sons, Wellesley.

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Published by The Wellesley Townsman from Feb. 27 to Mar. 6, 2013.

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Kathy McDermott

March 10, 2013

Dear Mary and Family
My deepest sympathies at John's passing. I always loved seeing you both coming in to the 4 PM Saturday Mass at St. Paul's. I feel so privileged and blessed to have received one of your chaplets, and it is with me always. John is with God and will always watch over you all. You're in my prayers,

Kathy McDermott

Edward Ruetz

March 1, 2013

February 28, 2013

Dear Members of the John Hickey Family:

Our sympathy goes out to you on the occasion of the death of your dear husband, father and grandfather,John.

John was a classmate of my deceased brother, Ray, at St. Joseph Grade School and the University of Notre Dame. Our family lived at 1121 N. St. Peter Street, three blocks from the Hickey Home. My brother, Joe, was a classmate of John's brother, Louis, at Central High School and at Notre Dame. They were football teammates at both schools.

Our faith in God reminds us that John now lives in the peace and love of the Heavenly Community with his beloved God and all of his deceased family members.

May Jesus be a source of solace, comfort and strength at this time of deep grief and loss!

Peace and Love!

Ed Ruetz
for
Joseph and Margaret Ruetz Family

Michael Spano

February 27, 2013

Our hearts go out to you and your family Brian.

Marie and Don Foley

February 27, 2013

Mary et al:
There never was a time when we didn't enjoy the warmth
of his company. And we will carry those memories in our hearts as we pray for him.

Marie and Don Foley

CHERYL BROWN

February 27, 2013

MAY GOD BLESS MARY AND FAMILY.JOHN WILL BE MISSED AT CARMEL TERRACE,

Jacquie (Swift) & Vince Ross

February 27, 2013

Vince and I are greatly saddened with this news and pray that Mary and the family rely on God for the strength to accept His will. John's devotion to the Blessed Mother has earned him entrance into heaven and a personal hug from Blessed Mary. With love and prayers, Vince and Jacquie

Heather A, McDonald

February 27, 2013

May peace be with all of your family-
John & his strong devotion to Our Lady brought unity & love to all - such a special person
Spreading the message of the "Eternal Lighthouse" - truly an honor to have known him
Heather A McDonald
Carmel Terrace former employee

Mike Snyder

February 27, 2013

JOE, Cathy and I are sincerely sorry for your loss.we pray that our Lord gives you and Mary the strength and peace that you will need at this time.
MIKE AND CATHY SNYDER

Steve Nolfi

February 27, 2013

My thoughts our with the Hickey family. Although I did not know Mr. Hickey personally his obituary offers a tribute to a life fully lived with a devotion to God, family and friends.

Marcia and Kent Velde

February 26, 2013

Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this sad time.

February 26, 2013

John,Kathleen and family we are sorry for your loss-The Sullivan Clan

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