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Ruth James Obituary

JAMES WINSTON-SALEM - Mrs. Ruth James, 84, went to be with the Lord on Thursday, April 2, 2009, while at The Oaks at Forsyth. She was born March 12, 1925 in Iredell County to J.P. Weatherman and Amanda A. Tilley. Those left behind to cherish her memories: include her husband of 67 years, E.C. James, Jr.; daughter, Lydia James (Charles Nooe) of Greensboro; son, Skip James (Vicky) of York, S.C.; grandchildren, Trentt (Amy) and Kinsley (fianc?, Cheston); and great-grandchildren, E.C., V and Ryder James. A special offer of gratitude to Frank and Shirley James for their loving care during this time. The James family will receive friends Sunday, April 5, 2009, 6-8 p.m., at Vogler and Sons Funeral Home Clemmons Chapel. A Celebration of Life Service will be Monday, April 6, 2009, 1 p.m., at Vogler and Sons Funeral Home Clemmons Chapel with the Rev. Dave Wood and the Rev. Dr. Todd Holt officiating. Burial will follow at Farmington United Methodist Church in Farmington. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to The Kinsley James Medical Fund in care of Lydia James, 6506 Portrait Drive, Greensboro, NC 27410.

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Published by Winston-Salem Journal on Apr. 5, 2009.

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Uncle E.C., very young, very handsome in his uniform

April 6, 2009

Evona York, 2nd birthday party, when Aunt Ruth lived with us

April 6, 2009

Aunt Ruth with me, Johnny, & Lowell Reavis; Mother (Lessie York) wrote the names on the photo.

Evona York

April 6, 2009

Aunt Ruth was very special to me because she lived with us, went to high school, and took care of me while Mother worked when I was tiny. We'll miss her, but I fully expect to see her soon. As I said to my mother when she was about to move upstairs, "It's all right for you to go see Jesus, and we'll be along in a little bit." I pray God's special comfort for Uncle E.C., and all the rest of the family. P.S., I had to select a state, and Mexico was not on the list.

Beth Willingham

April 6, 2009

Uncle EC, Lydia, and Skip ~~
You are all in my thoughts and my heart at this time. Always I remember Aunt Ruth's warm and generous hospitality when we all got together at her house at Christmas. She always made us feel so very welcome when we visited. I can see Aunt Ruth's beautiful smile, which Lydia has as well!
I always enjoyed seeing you all.
Love to You from Beth

April 6, 2009

Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. May God give you comfort in your time of sorrow and surround you with his love.Our prayers are with you and your family.
Love,
Rex and Vivian Walker

Arnold & Roxanne Weatherman

April 6, 2009

Uncle E.C.& family, May God give you comfort in this time of sorrow. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. We will miss you Aunt Ruth.
Love and Prayers,
Arnold, Roxanne, John & Taylor Weatherman

Kinsley James

April 5, 2009

Nana was a woman to be reckoned with. She was a woman of intense faith in the Lord, and I know she is with him now. So many people have been blessed to be touched by this remakable woman. I know I have been blessed to have her as my Nana for the past 27 years. I love her so much, and she will be greatly missed by many people. Especially by her loving husband of 68 years, E.C. We will miss you Nana. I Love You Very Much!
Your Grandaughter,

Beverly Rowland, MSW

April 5, 2009

Please know that your family is close in my heart as you go through the next few days. Your mother was a pillar of strength and such a joy to serve while at Piedmont Dialysis. If was a privilege working with the various members of the family as arrangements for placement were arranged for your mother. I will always remember your mother's sense of self-determination and resiliency.

Patty Bierie LPN

April 5, 2009

Mrs James was a remarkably strong women of faith and love. It was truly my honor and pleasure to care for her while she was at the Oaks. May God wrap your family in his strong arms of comfort and strenth.

Brantley

April 5, 2009

We were so sorry about Aunt Ruth's passing. She has had a rough time these last few months and years. I am so glad that we were able to visit with her the last time I was in NC. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.

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