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Rita Rector
August 30, 2012
Hard to believe that a year will have passed September 4. I miss you more and more everyday. I miss our visits, talks and most of all your advise and laughter. You were my bestest friend and I miss you and love you.
Cheryl Skelton-Timm
January 24, 2012
To Gary and the Roakes/Keene families: I only recently heard of Lisa's passing. Please accept my deepest sympathies and know that my thoughts and prayers are with all of you. I knew Lisa when she and I were in the academy together. She was truly an inspiration to all who knew her. I have so many wonderful memories of our long talks and the laughs we shared.
Robin Thomas
September 14, 2011
As a close friend in high school, I remeber Lisa's smile most of all. My thoughts and prayers are with the entire family during this time. Heaven is richer for her presence.
Robin Archer Thomas
Sonny Nipper
September 9, 2011
I will always remember Lisa teaching me in Officer Survival. As many know, she was very tough, I only later realized it was because she cared so much. I guess it was only fitting that I had to instruct at Officer Survival the week of her funeral. As much as I wanted to pay my respect, I know she would rather me do so by teaching this week. Thank you Lisa for having such an affect on my life and career, I only hope I can do the same for some young officers. Also, thanks for taking care of Cooper.
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Karen Nipper
September 9, 2011
Gary,
I am very sorry for your loss. I feel so honored to have known Lesa for the many years that I did. Lesa was a strong beautiful lady and she will be greatly missed. I will keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers.
John & Joella Bryant
September 9, 2011
Dear Gary, John & I were sorry to learn of Lisa's passing. Our prayers are with you and all the family at this time and know that you have the strength that Lisa had to fight her battle until the end.
May you and your family find comfort in knowing that she is now in no pain and singing in heaven with God and his angels.
Lisa Mullinax
September 9, 2011
Dear Mr. Gary, I know you probably don't remember me but my name is Lisa Mullinax and you and Lesa came to our Relay for Life event in Smyth County in 2006 and Lesa at the time was a survivor! We have all lost a dear soul and such an inspiration to us all to keep fighting until we win this battle against CANCER! Thank GOD that she is no longer suffering! You have been and will continue to be in my prayers. Lisa
Eddie Speer
September 9, 2011
I knew Lesa from our youth group in Marion.She was a very good woman.God bless her family
J.J. Stapleton
September 8, 2011
Area Law Enforcement is better for having had Lisa in it. She was a true lady and professional. She will be missed and often remembered.
Donna Waters
September 8, 2011
I remember the first time I met Lisa and how impressed I was. I was a new civilian employee and she was giving myself & others a tour of the State Police Academy. I later had the pleasure of having her as my immediate Supervisor when I worked at the Academy. She was a true friend and treated me like gold. In 2007 I was diagnosed with breast cancer myself and Lisa gave me a book to help me. This is just another story of her kindness & love to others. I love her & will miss her greatly. I am so sorry for your loss. She is now in Heaven & not in anymore pain.
Nancy (Lang) Melkerson
September 8, 2011
Gary,
I'm so sorry to hear about Lisa. I know so many people affected by breast cancer, and I know she & you fought a hard battle. You're in my prayers.
September 8, 2011
DearestGary,
Our most sincere and deepest sympathy in the loss of your wonderful wife, a wonderful person, an inspiration to us all. We all are blessed to have had known Lisa. May God bless and comfort you and the family and put his loving arms around you . We love you and are thinking of you...........Love, Belinda and Billy Camm
Doris Bryant
September 8, 2011
Gary - You are in my thoughts and prayers. My deepest sympathies to you and your family.
Doris
September 8, 2011
I met Lisa once and found her to be a nice lady and definitely a credit to the VSP. May God bless her and her family and friends.
Harry Warrick, D.C. Police Dept(ret.)
Paula Poston
September 8, 2011
Gary - our thoughts are with you and your family.
Paula Poston
American Red Cross
Doug Eggleston
September 8, 2011
Gary: Just wanted you to know that our entire Disaster Services staff have you in our thoughts and prayers.
Donna Sirocco Guthrie
September 7, 2011
Heaven has another beautiful angel watching over us. It was a pleasure to get to know Lisa. She fought this fight with the utmost strength. She is at peace now. Sending my love to Lisa's family.
Betty Miller
September 7, 2011
Mike, Linda, and all of Lisa's family: I didn't know Lisa personally but know she must have been a wonderful lady. Though her life was short, it must have been a full, rewarding and giving life that she so freely shared with all her friends, family and
co-workers. May God bess each of you and bring comfort. My prayers are with you.
September 7, 2011
Gary my thoughts and prayers are with you and the family. I did not know her but know she has touched so many. When I heard of her passing I was wearing my t-shirt from the benefit - which was one of the best benefits I have been too. Remember she is gone today but we will all see her again on the other side. Take care of yourself.
Angie Harvey
David Allison
September 7, 2011
Lisa's funeral today was one of the most moving services I have attended. Gary, what an outstanding job you did and how proud Lisa would have been of you. Those of us that know where we will spend eternity share Lisa's passion for her Lord and Saviour. What a testament to the life she lived to have so many raise their hands, according to the pastor, and allow Jesus Christ into their hearts as their Saviour. And what a great testament to Lisa for the VSP to bestow the honor on her with the service they supported. And there were LLEA and emergency services agencies from everywhere. You should be so proud. Thanks for the times you two shared with Gary, Faye, Kaye and I when you visited us camping or at the river. I didn't get a chance to speak today because there were so many people. Let me know if I can help in any way. God bless. We will see her again one day! DCA, B&W PD
Bruce Shepard
September 7, 2011
Gary,
Please know you and your family are in my sincere thoughts and prayers.
Your Friend Bruce Shepard
September 7, 2011
Gary,
We are saddened at your loss and know at this time there are no words that mere men can speak that can bring you comfort. Try to find some solace in the knowledge that the same One who knows what eternity holds, is with you right now
Danny and Sharon Connelly
Joann Shipp
September 7, 2011
Lisa was one of the first people I met when I started working at VSP in 2003. She had such spirit and a fun sense of humor. She was very kind to me, and I always looked forward to when she visited. Her journey has been long and she had such a positive attitude despite her condition. She is no longer in pain and will be remembered eternally. It's been raining all day and all of a sudden the sun is out. I would like to think that is her shining down on us. My thoughts are with the all of her family and friends in this time remembrance.
September 7, 2011
Gary and Nancy
We are so sorry for your loss. She is truly an angel in heaven. We will keep you in our prayers.
Dorothy and Robin Tyree
Sheila Wilson
September 7, 2011
Gary,
Please know you and your family are in my sincere thoughts and prayers.
May Lisa rest in peace and rise in glory.
Kim Wood
September 7, 2011
Gary, Lesa touched so many lives here on earth and was such an inspiration to so many. She fought so long and hard against this horrible disease but now is finally at peace. May you find comfort in all your memories together and the support of your family and friends during this difficult time.
Bobby and Kim Wood
Dean Taylor
September 7, 2011
Even though I never met your wife, or knew her, I can tell that her testimony was to her Lord & Savior. May you have peace by knowing that she has preceded you and the rest of the family to her eternal home, where there will be no more pain, disease, or seperation. Praise The Lord for this promise. Amen
September 7, 2011
Gary,God will give you strength to understand yesterday, face today and embrace tomorrow.
We love you.
Clarence and Clementine Franklin,Amherst
Sandee Mattox
September 7, 2011
To Lesa and her family and friends,
Lesa was one of the most wonderful people I've ever known. She knew no strangers, only friends she hadn't met. Her convictions were strong, and her heart determined, and her smile never left her face. Her battle is over now and she may rest in peace in a much better place. My heartfelt thoughts and prayers are with you all at this time. May God comfort you in her passing as He welcomes Her to His side. With deepest sympathies.....
Gary and Amanda Ramsey
September 7, 2011
Gary and Family,
We were so sorry to hear of the loss of your wife. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. My God Bless you!
September 7, 2011
Gary,
We were saddened to hear of Lisa's passing. Please know our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Gene and Marge Stiemly
September 7, 2011
While I did not know Lisa personally, I still consider her part of all who ever wore the uniform. May God bless her and her family.
Jesse F. Miller, Trooper, Virginia State Police, 1970 to 1977
Pam Jarman
September 7, 2011
We are praying for your family. Please let us know if we can do anything for you.
Karen Keene,Hollandsworth
September 7, 2011
Agnes
so sorry for your lost but after reading what everybody had to say about lisa,I know she was well repected and loved.and that say's alot about a persons life. I believe you are very proud of her.and i believe that can help you in this time of lost.the thoughts i have of Lisa go back to the summer i stayed with her and the fun we had. i hope to come to see you soon. i will keep you in my pray's.
September 7, 2011
Agnes, Mike and Gary My prayers and heart felt thoughts are with you. Lesa left such an inspiring testimony and what a great life she lived. May the blessed memories keep your faith in the God that kept Lesa through the hard times. Darlene Speer Marion, Va
Judy Martin
September 7, 2011
Mr. Roakes, Mike,Linda & Agnes Keene & Family:
I did not know Lisa personally but I attend church with Mike & Linda & we have prayed for her a long time. My heart goes out to all of you. Time will help. May you remember she is out of pain & with God. I will pray for all of you & also pray for God to give you peace soon. Remember, God is holding you up now & you're not alone.
Sincerely,
Judy Martin
Zelma Keithley
September 7, 2011
Very sorry to hear of Lisa's death.
I am Zelma Keithley. We shared the same room in the Marion Hospital where our son, Mark was born on July 28, 1963.
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Sweet Briar College, Department of Safety
September 7, 2011
Our thoughts & prayers are with you.
September 7, 2011
You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.
Bobbie & Bo Campbell
Darrell Tibbs
September 7, 2011
My heart is broken as I know all of yours are. Lisa was like my little sister when we were growing up. I can't be there but my thoughts and prayers are with you.
Ethel sMITH
September 7, 2011
Gary and family, my heartfelt sympathy to you at this sad time. You are in my prayers.
Ethel Smith, MHBC
Chuck & Melissa Parsons
September 6, 2011
Our thoughts and prayers are with you during such a difficult time. Lisa was such a wonderful woman on earth and oh what an Angel she is in Heaven. She was loved by all and will be greatly missed.
Chris Thomas
September 6, 2011
To Gary and Family, I am so sorry for your loss. Lesa was a fighter and an inspiration to many and will be greatly missed. You all are in our thoughts and prayers. God Bless You!!
Kim Speer Blevins
September 6, 2011
I have known Lisa for several years. We had a lot of fun times in our youth group at the Marion Nazarene Church. I know she has fought a long hard battle & she is enjoying her reward now. I hope to see her again one day. My thoughts & prayers are with her family.
Bill & Sheila Cash
September 6, 2011
Our hearts go out to you at this time and in the days ahead.
Linda Roakes Crist
September 6, 2011
Gary, Agnes, and Mike - it was my privilege to share this long and difficult journey with Lisa. She was so brave and taught all of us so much about faith, hope, and love in the face of adversity. She was my hero. My prayer for each of you is that in the difficult days ahead, you will find within you the courage that she knew you possessed and that her love for you and the memories you made together will help fill the emptiness. All my love to you. - Linda
Lisa Blankenship
September 6, 2011
I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with the family. -Lisa Blankenship
Helen Compton
September 6, 2011
Gary
I am so sorry to hear about Lisa. She will be missed by so many people. Lisa was a wonderful person. She was a great leader and mentor to me during my time with VSP. She taught me so much. The friendship and the lessons learned from her will be cherished by me. My thoughts and prayers are with you. We know she will be watching over everyone of us from heaven and that she is resting from her pain and suffering.
Your friend,
Helen Compton
(VSP-Medic 9702)
David Allison
September 6, 2011
Gary, I know you will miss your beloved Lisa. She was sure a trooper in all senses of the word. She will be surely missed by everyone that knew and loved her. She has made such a mark on all she touched and what a great example she has been. May God bless you and your family through this difficult time. With love and sympathy, David Allison, B&W PD.
megan harlow
September 6, 2011
i'm deeply sorry to hear about your loss. my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family in this time of grief. i will miss seeing mrs. roakes smiling face in the pharmacy.
Tammy Jackson
September 6, 2011
Agnes and Family
Lisa was an amazing woman and an inspiration to many.She fought a long battle and a good fight.She was a person of Honor and Respect.She blazed the trail for many to follow her.Lisa made a difference in the world in the time God gave her.She will be missed , remember her fondly.Our Prayers and thoughts are with you and your family.
Terry Austin
September 6, 2011
Gary, I am so sorry for your loss. Lesa was such a wonderful, brave person and inspiration to us all. We all have so many wonderful memories of her and she will be in our hearts for all time. Now is the time to grieve but soon we will only remember the great times we shared, such as the memory of her flagging traffic in New York City from the back of the motorcycle and many, many more.
This world is a better place because of her, and that is what it is all about. Her job is done. We can only hope we all could have that impact on this world. Take care.
Mike & Joan Smoot
September 6, 2011
Gary
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in this difficult time. Lisa was a fighter to the end and a wonderful lady. She will be truly missed.
BJ Wymer
September 6, 2011
Lesa and I were the best of friends during high school and college. There is not a memory that I have that doesn't include her, and even though we traveled down separate roads in life she continued to remain one of the best friends I have had. My heart breaks for our loss but I know she wouldn't want to leave the comfort and love of Gods arms. Agnes I love you,you will always be my second mom...
Kara Lamb, Nurse Navigator
September 6, 2011
Gary, I was so sorry to hear of Lisa's passing. Everytime I saw her, she always had such a positive attitude regardless of how bad she felt. She was such an inspiration to me! Her memory and sweet spirit will live on forever!!
September 6, 2011
Gary,
Dawne and I want to express how deeply sorry we are that Lesa passed. She was a wonderful person and our lives were most definately enriched for having the pleasure of knowing her. Heaven has gained an angel and we lost one here on earth. Rest in peace Lesa.
Keller and Dawne Haag
Carolyn Howard Bush
September 6, 2011
Gary,
I am so sorry to hear of your wife's passing. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Twanna Jackson
September 6, 2011
Agnes and Family, Our heartfelt sympathies to you and your family. May God give you comfort and strength during this time. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Love Twanna, Nick, and Bettina
Ruthann Schmitt
September 6, 2011
Gary, I am so sorry for your loss. May God bring peace to you and all who love her.
Pastor Walter Yancey
September 6, 2011
Dear Gary and Family, Just a note to let you know our prayers will continue for you and your family. Thank God for Jesus gift of Eternal life that gives us eternal hope. Virginia
Sharon Sirocco
September 6, 2011
Gary,
I am so sorry for your loss. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers at this difficult time.
Love, Sharon Sirocco
lee Felts
September 6, 2011
It was a very special to me to have know F/sgt Roakes. Going through the state police academy was an experience, but with her strong dedication, kindness, and words everyone passed She is at peace know and i am sorry for your loss.... Lee Felts, Former state police academy graduate
September 6, 2011
What a bright light we lost in Lisa .
Connie Purvis
Teresa Hudson
September 6, 2011
We were lucky enought to share Valentine's Day dinner right beside Gary and Lisa at The Crown...what a sweet, sweet couple! Lisa always had a smile and Gary, there are so many times throughout my high school years that you brightened my day! May your memories of all that Lisa meant to you and all that you shared with her over the past 23 years comfort you and bring you joy amidst your grief! With heartfelt love, prayers and hugs to you and your extended family....
Linda
September 6, 2011
Lisa will be missed. My prayers are with her family. It was a honor to work with her. Linda
Steve & Gloria Coleman
September 6, 2011
Gary
So sorry to hear about Lisa .She was such a strong fighter. Our prayers are with you and the family. God Bless You and Your Family.
Steve & Susan Coffey
September 6, 2011
Gary,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Lisa was an amazing person and an inspiration. God bless you and may you find peace in knowing she is ok now.
Our Deepest Sympathy,
Beth Howell-Brown
September 6, 2011
Gary,
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Please take comfort in knowing Lesa is no longer in pain and in God's arms. God Bless all of you. RIP Lesa
Bob Hopkins
September 6, 2011
You are a bright candle today and tomorrow for eternity.
September 6, 2011
Rest easy now...God bless, you will be missed.
Ben Slider, VSP 104th basic
September 6, 2011
Gary and Family,
My deepest condolences...do not hestitate to call if there is anything we can do for you.
Howard & Marcia Lagomarsino
Albemarle County FM Office
September 6, 2011
Gary,
It is a sad day for all who knew your beautiful and courageous wife. It was a privilege to have worked with her years ago. She was always willing to help others. Now she's home with her Savior, no more pain, no more tears - halleluiah!
You are in my prayers,
Lee Ann Powers
Shannon Davis
September 6, 2011
One of the most amazing women that I was blessed to call my friend and mentor! I will miss her always!
Eddie Gay
September 6, 2011
Gary, may the love of friends and family carry you through your grief. Our thoughts are with you and your family.
Eddie & Anne Gay
C&F Mortgage Corporation
September 6, 2011
May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.
Roni Caron
September 6, 2011
Gary,
I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your special wife. I will keep you and your family in my prayers.
Blake & Lisa Robertson
September 6, 2011
Gary, our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. May God strengthen you with His peace and comfort with each passing day.
Bob and Janice Adcock
September 6, 2011
Gary, our heartfelt love and prayers go out to you and your family in the home going of your sweet Lisa. Please take comfort in knowing she is no longer in pain and is now full of joy in God's arms and keep the memories close. May God comfort you and all your family.
Greg Major
September 6, 2011
Gary you and your family are in our prayer. Lisa was a wonderful lady and will always be remembered for her service in our community. RIP Lisa.
September 6, 2011
Lisa,
A job well done, a life too short, an ever-lasting memory. May God Bless your family. Rest in Peace.
Jay Styles, VSP 1452, Retired
Roger Craig
September 6, 2011
Sorry to hear about Lisa. I knew her from working at Lynchburg Sheriff Office she was a very kind and loving person our prayers are with you and the family.
Roger Craig
lynchburg Sheriff Retired
Sharon Hunter
September 6, 2011
Gary, We are so very sorry to hear about Lesa. She fought a long courageous battle. She was a truly amazing woman, and an inspiration to all who knew her. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. God bless you all.
David & Tammy Batkins
September 6, 2011
Gary,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and Lisa's entire family as you mourn your loss. May your wonderful memories sustain you and offer you peace during this difficult time. Lisa was a fighter and an inspiration to all. God rest her loving soul.
All of our love,
David and Tammy
September 6, 2011
Gary -
Please accept my heartfelt condolences on the passing of your beloved wife Lisa. May the memories of the good times together sustain you and your family during this time. You are in my thoughts. -- Laurie F. Szczutkowski
Dennis & Jackie Prince
September 6, 2011
Gary
We are keeping you in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.
Bill & Paula Carrico
September 6, 2011
The Lord has blessed each of us who knew Lisa with her smile, her kindness and her witness as she endure the race that was set before her here on earth. Now may the Lord comfort all of the family and friends with his graceous peace by knowing Lisa will never suffer again. Lisa is in the arms of Jesus and has received her rewards for the race she ran. To the family may the Lord Bless and keep you, may his face shine upon you and be graceous to you; may the Lord lift his countenance upon you and give you peace.
September 6, 2011
Gary continuing to lift you and the extended family up in prayer. So sorry we are out of town and will not be able to attend Lisa's service. She has been such a fighter, showing such courage. She has been an inspiration to the whole community and touched so many people with her life. She will continue to inspire for a long, long time. May God surround you and support you throughout the days ahead.
Ellen and Rick Saunders
Tammy Austin
September 6, 2011
I am truly saddened by Lesa’s death. She fought long and hard against this vicious disease .We attended high school together and she was an amazing person.
Her passing will not only leave a void in our lives, but in the hearts of everyone who knew her.
May it comfort you to know that, your loved one is safe in God's care now, and that friends are praying for you and your family in your time of sorrow.
With deepest sympathy,
Wayne Huggins
September 6, 2011
My deepest sympathy to Gary, and Lisa's entire family. She was the consumate professional and a wonderful person. Her contributions to the Virginia State Police will last forever. What an inspirational role model for all! God Bless!!
Cecil & Elaine Handy
September 6, 2011
Our deepest sympathy to Lesa's family and friends. She is an inspiration to us all.
Becky McFall
September 6, 2011
My prayers are with you. If you need any help please call me.
Tammy Austin
September 6, 2011
I am truly saddened by Lesa’s death. She fought long and hard against this vicious disease .
We attended high school together and she was an amazing person. Her passing will not only leave a void in our lives, but in the hearts of everyone who knew her.
May it comfort you to know that, your loved one is safe in God's care now, and that friends are praying for you and your family in your time of sorrow.
With deepest sympathy,
September 6, 2011
Gary, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Gail Kenny
Greg & Sandra Pollard
September 6, 2011
Gary, our hearts and prayers go out to you and your family. Lisa was a wonderful person and will be missed by so many. Every time you look at the sky and see the stars, you will know that she is looking down on you. Greg & Sandra
MJ Dunavan
September 6, 2011
So many memories came flooding back last night when I found out about this. So many tears falling now when I think about it. May God wrap his arms around each and every one of you and comfort your hearts. I love all of you and will see you when you get back.
Diane Normand
September 6, 2011
Dear Gary....I was so sorry to hear of the the loss of your beautiful Lisa....although it has been many years since I last have seen you both....I have fond memories of working with you and meeting Lisa who I was always in awe of....she was a pioneer who forged a path for women in Law Enforcement and did it with such admiration.... I will keep you in my thoughs and prayers in the coming days......Sincerely - Diane Normand
Larry Whorley
September 6, 2011
Gary,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this time in your life. May God be with you, comfort you, and strengthen you.
Larry L Whorley
Captain 2
Big Island Emergency Crew
Howard Hammett
September 6, 2011
Gary, Judi and I are so sorry to hear of Lisa's passing....she has fault a long and courageous battle and now Lisa is at peace and free of pain.....she is in heaven with the Lord Jesus....Our thoughts and prayers are with you and family......Please call if you need anything.....May God bless you and family...Butch & Judi
Ray Uttaro
September 6, 2011
Gary,
May God be with you today and every day, You are blessed to have had Lisa in your life as she was also blessed to have had you. My prayers and thoughts are with you always
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