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Henson Cargill Obituary

Henson Cargill, age 66, national country music recording artist, died in Oklahoma City Saturday, March 24, 2007 from complications following surgery earlier in the week. Henson was born at in Oklahoma City, February 5, 1941. He was born into a prominent Oklahoma family, as his grandfather O.A. Cargill was a longtime attorney and former Mayor of Oklahoma City. His father was O.A. Cargill Jr., also a longtime attorney, and his mother was Nadine Henson. Both preceded him in death. Henson went to Lynwood Elementary, Taft Junior High, and graduated from NW Classen High School. Henson married his high school sweetheart, Marta DuPree in 1959 and soon after, they moved together to Fort Collins, Colorado where Henson attended Colorado State University where he planned to study Veterinary Medicine. He was a member of the nationally acclaimed rodeo team as a calf roper. While in school, he sang at many of the local dances and became a very popular act with the college crowd. His rediscovered joy of performing before people and his longing for the family and ranch back in Oklahoma, made him decide to leave his studies and come back home. After arriving back home in 1962, the young couple had their first son, Cash who Henson named after one of his heroes in the music business, Johnny Cash who would later become his good friend, advisor, and godfather to his son. Henson worked for the Oklahoma County court clerk's office, was a private investigator and eventually ended up working for the sheriff's department. Although he enjoyed his work, performing was his real love. A high school friend and musician Johnny Johnson introduced him to a musical group called the Kimberleys who were playing nightclubs and television around the country. Henson went on the road with them and eventually formed his own group to tour with. He became wildly popular in the northwest part of the country and soon was offered and accepted a hosting job for a nationally syndicated television show called 'The Country Hayride'. Although making a good living for his now growing family with second son, Clayton and daughter, Nicole, born in 1966 and 1967, he was told by his friend Johnny Cash to go to Nashville and record. After several disheartening trips to Nashville, Henson met a veteran producer named Don Law who believed in him and vowed to find him some good material to record. In 1968, Henson recorded 'Skip The Rope' which became a smash hit quickly selling over 1 million copies and being the first song to ever cross over from country to pop charts. His career skyrocketed and he became a real national music figure. He was nominated most promising male vocalist, was a Grammy award nominee and won numerous ASCAP achievement awards. For the next decade, Henson was everywhere from being the spokesman for the original 7-up the 'Uncola' campaign to headlining in Las Vegas where critic Joe Delaney said 'Henson Cargill may be one of the best entertainers ever to set foot on a Las Vegas stage' and the NY Times said 'Henson is sensational! His superb stage presence and down home humor has made him a show stopper! 'In 1981, Henson told his family he was coming off the road and going to build a county music showplace in Oklahoma City. The night club called HENSONS was a fabulous first class show place. He would be proud to ask top entertainers to perform in. Fans could see him as well as all the major country acts of the day. Some of the artists that performed there included Ray Charles, Johnny Cash, Merle Haggard, Roy Orbison, Glenn Campbell, Waylon Jennings, and many more. Henson Cargill's career spanned some 35 years with some 15 national chart records, 9 LP's, 12 National TV appearances, Reno Nevada's Entertainer of the Year and his own record label. He is survived by his son, Cash Cargill, of Edmond; son, Clayton K. Cargill, of Eagle Rock, MO; daughter, Nicole Duran and her husband Johnny of Edmond; four sisters, Carol Lash of Oklahoma City, Christy Best of Santa Cruz, CA, Angela St. John of Montrose, CO, Jennifer Cargill of Chicago, IL and Kima Cargill of Seatle, WA; one brother, John R. Cargill of Santa Cruz, CA. He has four grandchildren, Henson Christopher Duran, Savannah Nicole Cargill, Calli Nicole Duran and Katie Renee Cargill, all of Edmond, OK and many nieces and nephews. He was preceded in death by his older brother, O.A. Cargill III. Funeral services will be held 2:00 p.m. Thursday, March 29, 2007 at Highland Hills Baptist Church at 7900 Devore (just north of NW Expressway on Council) with interment at Memorial Park Cemetery. Services are under the direction of the Matthews Funeral Home, Edmond, OK.

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Published by Oklahoman on Mar. 27, 2007.

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John Selk

July 25, 2020

I played guitar with Henson on his TV show in Oklahoma City. He was fun to work with and a nice guy. Last saw him in OKC when I was there for The International Areobatic Championships in the late 1990s. Didn’t know you had passed. Thinkin about you Henson.

Joyce Williams

April 9, 2007

I am so sorry. I have only just heard about Henson. Allan loved him very much. Deepest sympathy.

Joyce Williams

Jack and Cindy Gray

April 5, 2007

To The Cargill Family,
Sending our deepest sympathies.
So sorry to hear about Henson. He was always a super entertainer,and friend, A fond memory was when we played in okc at a local pizza parlor. Henson,Marda and the kids came for a visit,this was in the early 70`s.God blesss you all.
Cousin Jack and Cindy Gray

Neil Rice

April 5, 2007

I am very sorry to hear of the death of Henson. SKIP A ROPE was a masterpiece. I bought the single 45 RPM record when I was a freshman in high school in 1968. That was a year of great social upheaval in the country and the song was very relevant for the time. Thanks Henson for all your contributions to music.
Rest in Peace
Neil Rice

Tori Hamill

April 1, 2007

I was so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.

Tori Hamill & Jeff Tschannen

Johnny Johnson

March 31, 2007

Gonna miss ya!

Johnny Johnson and wife Lyndsey

Jana Bickel

March 30, 2007

Nikki,Clay and Cash,
Matthew 5:4
Blessed are those who mourn, for they shall be comforted.
You are in our prayers daily.
Love,
Todd,Jana,Tyler,Hannah and Jake Bickel

Ronnie King

March 30, 2007

I was a freshman at the University of Oklahoma in 1967 when "Skip a Rope" hit the charts. To this very day, it remains the greatest C&W song ever recorded. Thanks Henson. You will always skip your rope in our hearts.

Billy (Cargill) Lash

March 29, 2007

I want to Thank all the people who signed the gust book Honoring my favorite Uncle and mentor Henson. He touched so many people with his gift of music. He will be missed. God bless you all for your well wishes and sharing your memories with us.

Chasity Collier

March 29, 2007

I'm sorry to hear for your loss, Henson was one of the nicest people I have ever met. He always had a smile on his face. He will be deeply missed.

T.R. Jones

March 29, 2007

My memories go as far back of Henson to the middle 70's and early 80's at the Depot Club when I was a waitress there. Henson always had a big smile and lots of charm along with many friends who adored his humor. My thoughts are with the family at this difficult time. Skip On.....T.R. Jones Tulsa, Oklahoma

Johnny Lane and Rita Hale

March 29, 2007

We are so sorry for your loss. Henson was a dear friend and a "TRUE GENTLEMEN". One of our favorite memories of Henson is a road trip we took with him to Schofield, Colorado. He will be truly missed but his music will live on forever. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you.

Joe Royer

March 29, 2007

I have many great memories from the time I spent playing drums on the road with Henson. He was truly a great performer and always brought the house down. I will miss him but I know he is in a much better place.

Marilyn Hamill

March 28, 2007

I was so sorry to learn of Henson's death. He was a very special person. I fondly remember good times my husband Joe and I shared with Henson and Marta. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Bob & Janice Boyle

March 28, 2007

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Mike Boyle

March 28, 2007

Marta, Nikki, Clay and Cash:

My thoughts and prayers are with you during this time of sorrow. I remember Henson from the 60's and enjoyed knowing he and Marta. I regret not staying in touch and knowing the children.

With Warm Regards,

Sharie (Cargill) Biggs

March 28, 2007

Clayton, Cash & Nikki: I love your father very much. What a GREAT man with a huge heart & awesome talent! He was always there for Jason, Tara, Stephen & myself. I feel fortunate to have him in our lives for 23 years. He will be greatly missed. But remember we WILL see him again when Jesus comes! My thoughts & prayers are with you. With all my love, Sharie

Hal [saddle face] Little

March 28, 2007

What wonderful memories my wife and I have of Henson,playing drums with He and the Kimberlys in the 80's.in northern nevada. We'll miss him.

Lisa

March 28, 2007

Nikki, Clay, Cash & Marta,
I send this message to you through tear-filled eyes. My heart is broken that Henson is gone. My memories are much fewer than yours, so I can only imagine your grief. Henson, along with each of you, are such a prevelant part of my childhood and I truly cherish every memory of the time I was blessed to spend with you and your family. I was always made to feel at home. This is only possible in a home where there is love. That is what I remember; love and being loved. I also remember crazy moments and much laughter, as well as a few tears, and for that I am grateful. Nikki, I still laugh outloud when I think of your dad's consistently-generous hand as he gave you and I "coke money" before we would go out. In all our time, I don't think we ever found a coke that cost as much as he gave. Of course, we always took the money anyway. Bless each and every one of you. Henson, rest peacefully, and I will look foward to seeing you again where there are no songs of sorrow, but only songs of joy. Until then, I will miss you.

Stan Moffat

March 28, 2007

I would like to take this opportunity to express my deepest sympathy to the Cargill family. Henson is one of the greats of Oklahoma Music and the fans of Oklahoma artists today realize this. Henson was voted into the 4th Annual Payne County Line Oklahoma Music Hall Of Fame in early March 2007 by over 1 million votes, second highest ever recorded for an artist. He was loved, is loved and will be with us forever. He was truly one who left the ruts to guide other young artists to the top. He and that awesome smile, will be missed. You all are in our prayers.

Don Liles

March 28, 2007

Nicki, Clay & Cash, we were so sorry to here about the death of your father, Henson. Our sympathy goes to you and your families. Our prayer is now for Henson to skip his rope with his Lord. Many thanks to Henson for his concert at the OKC Civic Center in the late 70's to aid us in starting the High School football program in Deer Creek.
The Don Liles family, Don, Patsy, Tammy, Greg and Keith

Paul Garcia

March 27, 2007

I have known Henson for many years. He was a friend to my father and Brother as well as to me. I have a lot
of good memories of Henson and will miss him singing with our band.
My deepest condolences to his family
Paul Garcia OKC

Diana Bowen

March 27, 2007

Deepest Sympathy's to the Family, I had the pleasure of seeing him and hearing him perform Skip a Rope @ the Purcell Expo Center, I'm glad I got to that opportunity, I pray that God will give you strength in the days and weeks to come, Sincerely Diana Bowen Maysville, Okla

Nick Brinkley

March 27, 2007

Nikki, Cash and Clayton,
We were so sad to here about the loss of Henson. We will miss his laughter and songs. We will cherish the times we spent with him. Only through him we were able to get to know you guys.

Nick and Judy Brinkley and Cliff Wood

Curt Thompson

March 27, 2007

Dear Nikki and Johnny,

I just heard today about your tragic loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time. May he rest in peace.

Ken Cook

March 27, 2007

I have a lot of fond memories of Henson. He was a good friend. My thoughts are with his family.

John Paul Spearman

March 27, 2007

Clayton, Nikki and Cash,

The loss of a great man in your life is tough. The loss of a father whom you looked up to for advice and direction is even tougher. I can't tell you how much I hate hospitals after the loss of my father two years ago after a simple surgery. I miss the times going out to your house in the early 80's for a good party. My prayers are with you.

Katie Moore

March 27, 2007

No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.

DeAnn Briscoe

March 27, 2007

Nikki, Cash, and Clayton,
We are so very sorry to hear of Henson's death. May you be filled with wonderful, sweet memories of your Dad. You are all in our thoughts and prayers.
Love, DeAnn(Benton) & Brian Briscoe

Aletha

March 27, 2007

My thoughts and prayers are with the family and friends of Henson Cargill. May god be with you in this time of sorrow.

Jana McElyea

March 27, 2007

I didn't know Henson personally, enjoyed his song skip a rope. Now all the angels in heaven are hearing some sweet music. The family is in my thoughts and prayers.

Roy & Leanna Jones

March 27, 2007

With deepest sympathy to all family and friends. We are so sorry for your loss. We loved him and will miss him deeply.
Sincerly

Debra Gist

March 27, 2007

Im sorry for the loss of a good man, When I was little I remember being in the studio when he was making skip a rope, I am the Kimberleys neice Debra
also Carl, and Verna Gay from the kimberleys send there condolences

Carolyn (Douglass) Baldwin

March 27, 2007

He was one of the best, and it's sad to know he's moved on so soon.

Toni Buck

March 27, 2007

Nicki, Clay and Cash, I was so sorry to hear about Henson. I will be in OKC on Thursday, but will not be able to get there in time for the service. My love goes out to you all...Toni Buck

K.C. Broyles

March 27, 2007

Nikki,
David and I are praying for you this week. I know how much you loved your sweet Dad, and you should remember that you were a cherished and generous daughter to him.

Love you,
KC and David

Beth & Jerry Casselman

March 27, 2007

Clayton,
We are so very sorry to hear about your dad. We always enjoyed listening to him sing. Please know we are thinking of you.

Amy (Bruce) Andersen

March 27, 2007

Cash, Clayton and Nikki,
I'm sorry to hear about your dad. I have nothing but great memories of my time with your family. There are many memories but the one that stands out the most of him was riding by myself with him and your mother from OKC to Roswell, NM in the spring of 1978. That was so long ago.
Just last week I downloaded "Skip A Rope" from iTunes for my iPod...
My thoughts and prayers go out to all of you.

GAYLE BROWN

March 27, 2007

WHEN I HEARD ABOUT THE DEATH OF HENSON CARGILL, I WAS SHOCKED. WHAT A BEAUTIFUL VOICE. MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY.

Russell Neese

March 27, 2007

I was sorry to see the passing of one of our own. I remember listening to him on the radio when I lived in Norman, growing up as a boy. I'll never forget his smooth voice and real lyrics. Heavenly Father comfort his family today, as Henson sleeps in Jesus.

Michelle Casselman (Cargill)

March 27, 2007

To Henson's family..I'm truely sorry for your loss. Henson was the most caring, compassionate man I have ever met! I loved to hear him perform and sing. I miss watching him on stage. It was on honor to carry his last name! My thoughts and prayers are with all of you!! (Ecspecailly Clayton) Henson will be truely missed!

Pam Holliday

March 27, 2007

My prayers are with the family. I remember all the good times we had together. Take care.

Don and Audrey Barker

March 27, 2007

We will miss Henson. He was a good friend and was loved very much. His family is in our prays.

Sue (Hamill) Reiser

March 27, 2007

We are so very sorry for your loss. Henson was a very special cousin to me and always devoted to his family. We send our love to you all and our prayers.

Amy & Charles Pritchett

March 27, 2007

We are deeply saddened at the loss of such a kind yet very fiesty gentleman. We celebrate the fact that we were able to come to know him in such a way that he will be remembered fondly and for years to come. Henson, 'Skip A Rope' with the Angels. . . .

Speedy and Kristen West

March 27, 2007

We will miss Henson! We always loved to hear him perform! Our thoughts and prayers will be with you.

Shelly Taft

March 27, 2007

Nikki, We are thinking of you and your family at this time of loss. The Taft Family and The Bickle Family.

Rita Page

March 27, 2007

Clayton:
I am so sorry for your loss. I know your Dad was an important part of your life. I treasure the memories I have of meeting him and hearing him sing. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.

Marla (Trammell) Hankins

March 27, 2007

My prayers are with the family! Henson was a very tender hearted man and arnery too.He will be missed by many and always hold a special place in my heart. God bless you Henson, I know your pickin strings with Grandpa Cargill and Buck and Nadine too.

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