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Robert L. Reckling VIRGINIA BEACH - Robert Leonard Reckling, 72, died peacefully at home in Virginia Beach with his wife and family by his side Sept. 4, 2008. Bob was born in Norfolk April 25, 1936. He worked for Virginia Power for 11 years before opening Thalia Exxon in 1965 which he operated for more than 40 years. Bob was preceded in death by his parents, Ernest Henry and Sarah Reckling; and two brothers, Ernest Jr. and Bill Reckling. He is survived by his wife of almost 50 years, Jo Nancy DeHart Reckling; three children, Bobby Reckling and wife Nancy, Cindy Kalasinsky and husband Alex and Chris Reckling and wife Cathy, all of Virginia Beach; and six grandchildren, Jackie and Mallory Reckling, Sarah and Anna Kalasinsky and Cameron and Casey Reckling, whom he loved very much. He is also survived by three loving sisters-in-law and their husbands, Agnes and Bob Whitfield, Linda and Henry Giese and Debra and Sam Clay, as well as many nephews and nieces from Virginia and Newfoundland, Canada, whom he thought a great deal of. Bob leaves behind a legacy of love and devotion for his family and many friends, especially his Circle from Norfolk Catholic, his RV Club members, and his Sunday Breakfast Club. He will forever be remembered for his generosity, love of BMW motorcycles and NASCAR, extensive traveling and meticulous yard work. The family will receive friends from 5 to 8 p.m. today at Smith & Williams Funeral Home, Kempsville Chapel. A Mass of Christian burial will be held at 10 a.m. Monday at St. Gregory the Great Catholic Church celebrated by Father Luke Policicchio, OSB. Burial will follow in Forest Lawn Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to the American Cancer Society, 4416 Expressway Drive, Virginia Beach, VA 23452 or to a charity of one's choice. You may leave condolences to the family at www.mem.com.

Published by The Virginian-Pilot from Sep. 6 to Sep. 7, 2008.

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Bob & Pat Leggett

September 15, 2008

So very sorry to hear of your loss. You & Bob have been through a lot with us, although we have not stayed in touch since our move to Florida. Please know our heart aches for you and the family.
God Bless and prayers.
Love,

Sam Scarborough

September 9, 2008

Chris and Bobby,
I'm sorry to hear about the passing of your dad. I know you thought a lot of him and he of you.
God Bless

Art Kohn

September 8, 2008

To Chris, Bobby and the entire Reckling family, I am so sorry to learn of your loss. MY thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Donald Wizeman, Jr.

September 7, 2008

On behalf of the Wizeman family I want to send our heart-felt condolences to the Reckling family.

Bob was a treasured friend and trusted businessman to all of us since the early 60's. I will always remember his dry sarcasm, and my parents have always considered him a valued member of the Wizeman family.

Bob was always there for everyone, and made sure that we were always treated honorably and fairly. He leaves a wonderful mark on the Thalia community, and his amazing family will surly continue his fine legacy.

Sheila, Riley & Shannon Smith

September 7, 2008

To Bobby & the Reckling family~ we are very sorry to hear of your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time

James, Phyllis, and Ursula Haas

September 7, 2008

Mr Reckling's years of mechanical support and Thalia presence are a memory, for us, that will never leave. Thank you for sharing your husband/father with our neighborhood.

We wish you peace during this very difficult time.

Jeanie McLees

September 7, 2008

My prayers for you, and your famiy during this time of grief.

Jeanie McLees

Cindy Reckling Kalasinsky

September 7, 2008

On behalf of the entire Reckling family, I would like to thank you all for your years of fun, friendship, and love. My Dad loved each and everyone of you who passed through his life. Cindy

Nikki Hodges

September 6, 2008

I am sorry for your loss.my prayers to all of the family.

William Williams

September 6, 2008

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Sam, Nancy & Allison garrett

September 6, 2008

Our prayers and love go out to all the family

Tom and Joan Crockett

September 6, 2008

Our sincere sympathy to all the family.For many years Bob has been a true friend---many memories....

God bless you.

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