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Sheran Babcock
September 22, 2025
Loving you and remembering you always. You were a great brother! As we get older we keep losing loved ones. Jack just passed. He was the love of my life for 51 years. One day I am hoping to have a reunion with all my family and pets that has left us.
Sheran Babcock
September 22, 2024
Thinking of you now and everyday. 16 years ago you left us. Such a sad day and still just as sad. I miss you everyday. I pray that you and Jody are together. Sadly she left us also.
Sheran
September 22, 2023
Al, Still missing you everyday! Jody leaving us way to soon also. I´m hoping you two are together now. Love and miss you both.
Sheran Babcock
September 22, 2022
Another September 25th. This will always be a sad day. We will always miss and love you Al. Love , your sisters.
Sheran Babcock
September 22, 2021
September 25 th will always be a sad day. You left us to soon. You will always be loved and missed.
Sheran Babcock
September 22, 2020
September 25th is a day I will never forget. I still miss you everyday Al. Love, Sheran
Michelle holmes hough
September 22, 2019
Uncle thinking of you we miss you and love you love Michelle
Sheran Babcock
September 22, 2019
Al, Still missing you after all these years. ❤
Sheran
March 13, 2015
Missing you! Now Barb and Junior have joined you. We will all be together one day. Love and miss all of you.
Michelle Holmes Hough
March 11, 2015
uncle there isn't a day that goes by we don't think about you and now u have aunt barb and uncle Jr along with everyone else so please tell them all I love them and miss them like crazy but please hug and kiss aunt barb and tell her I miss her phone calls every day love always Michelle
Pam Talley
March 10, 2015
Just thinking about you today. Everyone misses you terribly. Love you, Pam
albert brown
August 16, 2014
chicago
jackie
May 31, 2013
Happy Birthday Albert, Can't believe this makes your 5th birthday in Heaven. This year, you get to spend it with my Dad and Uncle. My love for you seems to grow more and more with each passing year.Happy Birthday Sweetheart. I Love You OXOXOX
Karen
October 2, 2011
Al, Just thinking of you today. Death leaves a heartache no one can heal,Love leaves a memory no one can steal. Love and miss you. Karen
Karen
September 25, 2011
Al, I remember September 25th 2008 just like it was yesterday. I still miss visiting and talking to you. We had some good talks. We had some great visits. I hope someday to do it again. I'm thinking of you today and I will never forget you. Love, Karen
Sheran
September 24, 2011
Al,Just to let you know we still miss you everyday.3YRS I can't believe it.I hope Sophie is with you. Love your sisters
Jackie Brown
May 31, 2011
I can't believe today is your 60th birthday. What a celebration we would have had. Just wanted you to know there's not a day that goes by that I don't think about you, miss you any less than I did the day before. YOU WERE MY EVERYTHING and I love you. Happy Birthday
May 31, 2011
Al, To us you were so special, what more is there to say, except we wish with all our hearts that you were here today to celebrate your 60th birthday. With love from all your sisters. Barb, Jean, Karen and Sheran
Karen
May 31, 2011
Today is your birthday, the memories are so sad of a brother that I loved and wish that I still had. They say it's a beautiful journey from the old to the new. Someday I'll make that journey Al just to be with you. I love and miss you more than you know. Love Karen
SHERAN BABCOCK
May 30, 2011
AL, I WILL BE THINKING ABOUT YOU TOMORROW ON YOUR BIRTHDAY. WE, YOUR SISTERS, TALK ABOUT YOU ALL THE TIME. IT SEEMS IMPOSSIBLE THAT YOUR NOT HERE. WE LOVE YOU AND MISS YOU EVERYDAY.
Karen
December 27, 2010
Al, this is our 2nd Christmas without you. I haven't forgotten you and I never will. I think of you every holiday and on your birthday. I think of you whenever a Nascar race comes on.I know how much you liked watching them. I think of you when Joe is watching Cops.When I would visit we watched that channel a lot. I can't forget the food network and the old game shows. I just think of you a lot and how much I still miss you. Love, Karen
sheran babcock
December 25, 2010
remembering you this holiday season and missing you. i miss you everyday.
Jody Ulrich
September 29, 2010
You are missed and loved in so many ways by so many people. I'm sure you had no idea how much you meant to all of us. Your thought of all the time. The things you used to do and say. We miss that so very much.
Love you Dad.
Sheran Babcock
September 25, 2010
AL, Two years has passed, i still miss you everyday. You always made me smile.Iknow your in a better place but not seeing you makes me sad. You will always be loved and missed. One day we will all be together again Love, Sheran
Karen
September 25, 2010
Another September 25th, I still remember the time of day and what I was doing when Jackie called me. You know I miss you and always will. I try to remember all the fun times at your house and not dwell on things that make me cry. I always liked visiting on the weekends. You made me feel welcome and at home. I know you would want all of us to laugh and not cry when we think of you. I am doing my best. Our memories of you will never fade, for in our hearts you will always stay. I love and miss you Al. love, Karen
Taken August 2008
Jackie Brown
September 24, 2010
2 years. i can't believe its been 2 years since ours lives was changed forever. it still seems like it was yesterday. I feel like time stopped the day you left us, yet it still moves on. I want you to know you are always on mind and in my heart. I miss you taking care of me when I was sick. I miss you chasing me up the stairs and singing those crazy little songs. I miss the experiemental meals you would make and when you had a winner, couldn't remember what you put in it. I miss you sitting in your recliner and me on the couch and you would reach out and take my hand and hold it. I guess its would be easier just to say I miss our life together. I love you Albert and you are truly missed everyday.
Jody Ulrich
July 11, 2010
Graduation has come and gone. Your first granddaughter is now an adult. Hard to beleive. For the entire day of graduation the thought kept crossing my mind that you should be here to be a part of the celebration. You should have been here. Your presence was missed among us all. That was the first milestone in our lives and you weren't a part of. How I wish I could talk to you. You are missed and loved so much.
Sheran Babcock
May 31, 2010
Al, Thinking of you today on your birthday. It was sad seing Jackie and Jessica here without you.I miss you and think of you everyday. HAPPY BIRTHDAY LOVE, Sheran
Karen
May 31, 2010
On this Memorial Day,I'm thinking of my whole family. Al, Mom, Dad and Nancy. I hope you are all together today. I miss all of you. Happy 59th Birthday Al, Love, Karen
Karen
May 30, 2010
Al, thinking of you on your Birthday, May 31st. I miss talking to you, seeing you,and visiting you. I think of you all the time. I have a lot of good memories and I will never forget you. Love, Karen
Jody Ulrich
February 26, 2010
Miss you soo much. Not a day goes by that I don't think of you. Even in the middle of home depot you come to mind. Of course Brooke had to bring up the time she was with you and granny at home depot and you were fussin with one of the employees about the way he did his job. I just had to laugh. You were so much fun to be around. You always made me laugh. Miss that alot. Very tough to go through holidays and birthdays without you. Brooke asked me today if you could have one hour to do anything in the whole world what would it be. I would choose to spend that hour with you. Talkin, catching up, laughing, and telling you how much I love and miss you.
Love you Dad,
Jody
February 20, 2010
AL,Thinking of you and Jody today on her birthday. I KNOW SHE WILL MISS YOUR CALL.Still missing you every day!!HAPPY BIRTHDAY JODY!!!Love, Sheran
February 17, 2010
Hello Albert just wanted you to know I found the penny today!!!I think of you everyday.We miss you love you Coretta
January 7, 2010
JAN 7 2010
AL,
STILL MISSING YOU EVERY DAY.
LOVE, SHERAN, OHIO
Karen
January 3, 2010
Al, we have gone through another Christmas without you. We have started a new year. Time will heal all of us, but it's still hard to say goodbye to you. I think of you all the time, and I miss you terribly. Love you Karen
Jody Ulrich
November 19, 2009
Lord, please hold on tightly, to my loved on that I lost,
I close my eyes at night, hoping sleep will over come...
Hoping that by morning, my body wont still feel numb.
Oh God, how hard it is at times, even after a year,
The pain just never goes away...nor do the tears.
I can't seem to focus, on the things I know I must,
For I still see the face, of the one I love and trust.
The holidays are rough, Dear God, even though I try my best,
But I can't seem to forget the day I laid my Dad to rest.
I read a book, I watch TV, I try to write a letter,
Hoping and praying, each day will soon get better.
Thanksgiving soon to be here, then Christmas on it's way,
It's so difficult to celebrate, since my Dad has gone away.
Forgive me Lord, for I am weak, and I wish to be strong,
Please take this sadness from my heart, and replace it with a song.
Oh Lord, help me remember, You are only a prayer away,
And when I keep my faith in you, I know I'll be okay.
So as the holidays approach... to my loved one I express,
Not a day on earth goes by,that I don't think of "us".
And now I must be thankful, for God, I love you so,
Just knowing You are there for me, so much to you, I owe.
Now in the quiet of the night, the snow falls from above,
As I look into the Heavens, I still miss my precious love.
Tonite I'll light a candle, for the one I miss so much,
Knowing I will never feel, his loving touch.
Until I leave this world, and join my Dad again,
I know in my heart, he will remain in God's hands.
Love you Dad
Jody Ulrich
November 1, 2009
To Those Whom I Love and Those Who Love Me
When I am gone, release me, let me go
I have so many things to see and do
You must not tie yourself to me with tears
Be happy I have had so many years
I gave you my love, you can only guess
How much you gave me in happiness
I thank you for the love you each have shown
But now it's time I traveled on alone
So grieve a while for me, if grieve you must
Then let your grief be comforted by trust
It is only for a while that we must be apart
So bless the memories in your heart
I will not be far away, for life goes on
So if you need me, call and I will come
Though you cannot see me I will be near
And if you listen with your heart, you will hear
All my love around you soft and clear
Then, when you must come this way alone
I will greet you with a smile and a Welcome Home
Jody Ulrich
October 28, 2009
Jackie has created a memorial website of Dad. If you click on create a memorial website and search his name you will find it. It's very nice it has pictures and includes this guest book.
Pam St.Martin
October 27, 2009
Hey Al,
There is still so much pain in those who love you, but we all know you are in God's hands. There is still so much healing to do. This Guest Book will stay online forever so that your children, grandchildren, and all of those who love you can express their sorrows, share their joys and tell their memories and stories to you and those who were left behind. I have been pretty silent, not because I have forgotten you, but because I had to deal with my own pain and loss of losing you through keeping very busy. You were not just my uncle, but more like my big brother, and the pain I feel is deep. Your living spirit is here every day among us. I believe we all feel your presence. You will never be gone. Love you, Pam
coretta
October 27, 2009
Hello Jackie I am so glad you kept this another year,now I can talk to Mr.Brown and tell him we still miss him very much and let him know how your doing.I know you miss him more than words will ever say ,but he is always with you especially when I am always finding that penny at my feet.Love you Coretta
Jody Ulrich
October 6, 2009
I have not turned my back on you,
so there is no need to cry.
I'm watching you from heaven,
just beyond the morning sky.
I've seen you almost fall apart,
when you could barely stand.
I asked the Lord to comfort you,
and watched him take your hand.
He told me you were in more pain,
than I could ever be.
He wiped his eyes and swallowed hard,
then gave your hand to me.
Although you may not feel my touch,
or see me by your side.
I've whispered that I love you,
while I've wiped each tear you cried.
So please try not to ache for me,
we'll meet again one day,
beyond the dark and stormy sky,
a rainbow lights the way.
Jody Ulrich
October 1, 2009
If I could have a lifetime wish
a dream that would come true,
I'd pray to God with all my heart
for yesteryear and you.
A thousand words can't bring you back
I know because I've tried.
And neither will a million tears
I know because I've cried.
You left behind my broken heart
and happy memories too.
I never wanted memories
I only wanted you.
Miss you and love you Dad
September 26, 2009
Albert or as I called called you when I opened the door to the house hello Mr.Brown,It has been a year and we still miss you very much every day.We are taking care of Jackie as just as I told you we would.Hope you are enjoying running,walking and being with your Mom and Dad,Well Mr.Brown I love you .Til we meet again.Coretta
September 25, 2009
Baby, It's been a year since you left us. Where has this year gone? I don't remember to much about it,only that you weren't here. I didn't know how I was going to make through this day,but when I think of you as being pain free,cancer free and whole again,it lessens the pain. You will live on forever in our children and grandchildren.You brought so much joy and laughter to all of our lives.I will always cherish the memories that we made through out our lives together and that, my Love, will help me come to terms with your passing.I can hear you say,"get over it,there was nothing you could have done,so move on". That's what you would say. I working on it, but its going to take a little longer. The day you walked into my life was a gift from God. He let us have 24 wonderful years together and a beautiful daughter. I thank him everyday for that. You taught me the meaning of true love. Thank you for loving me so completely. I miss you and will always love you now and forever. I am still ........Your Honey
Jackie
Karen
September 24, 2009
One year has gone by. It's still hard to believe. I think of you everyday. Your life is a beautiful memory that we will always remember. Your smile, your laugh, and the joy you brought to the many lives you touched, will remain in our hearts forever. I love and miss you Al. Love, Karen
Karen
August 28, 2009
Those we love don't go away. They walk beside us every day. Unseen unheard but always near. Still loved still missed but ever dear. I miss you Al. Love, Karen
Jody Ulrich
August 27, 2009
August 27th, one year ago today. The day I found out the cancer had spread to your brain. I remember right where I was and what I was doing when I read that text message. I had to read it over and over, I was completely caught off guard. It was the last thing I was expecting to hear. I somehow always knew you would pass in September. I didn't know what year, but from the time you were diagnosed 4 years ago. I knew September. And when I read your message. I knew. I didn't want to believe it, but I knew.
It's been almost a year since we lost you. And I miss you and love you dearly. Our lives have changed so much without you in it. There's days I think I'm starting to feel at peace with loosing you, and yet there's days my heart won't stop breaking. Today is one of those days.
Love you Dad,
Jody
Jackie Brown
August 20, 2009
In My Pocket
I have memories in my pocket.
They rattle among the change.
My memories of you are treasures I carry wherever I go.
They are stored in bits and pieces, parts of a beautiful whole
They give me comfort when I think I am alone.
Yes, I have memories in my pocket, like so much other stuff I keep there.
But of all the treasures I have, it’s the memories of you that are the most precious.
Jody Ulrich
August 8, 2009
The Broken Chain
We knew little that morning that God
was going to call your name.
In life we loved you dearly,
in death we do the same.
You did not go alone;
for part of us went with you the day God called you home.
You left us peaceful memories,
your love is still our guide, and althought we cannot see you,
you are always at our side.
Our family chain is broken,
and nothing seems the same,
but as God calls us one by one, the
chain will link again.
Jody Ulrich
August 8, 2009
Music, when soft voices die
Music, when soft voices die,
Vibrates in the memory—
Odours, when sweet violets sicken,
Live within the sense they quicken.
Rose leaves, when the rose is dead,
Are heaped for the beloved's bed;
And so thy thoughts, when thou art gone,
Love itself shall slumber on.
By Percy Bysshe Shelley
The Poetry Foundation
Jody Ulrich
August 8, 2009
I went to the family reunion today for the Brown's. I thought of you the whole time I was there. Looking at pictures of past reunions with you there. I know you always enjoyed going and seeing distant relatives. Wish you were here. Love You Dad,
Jody
Karen
August 2, 2009
Al, I heard a song that told a story about a person dying and how they are in heaven with all their loved ones. One of the lyrics was "Don't worry 'bout me" It just felt like it was being sent by you to all of us. I miss you very much. Love, Karen
KAREN GUINTHER
July 19, 2009
Al, I think of you often. I also think of Jackie and your girls. We all miss you and will never forget you, ever. Love, Karen
June 1, 2009
Al, I wanted to wish you a happy birthday. I hope you are enjoying being your Mom and Dad again.I can see you fishing,running,walking, doing all the things you couldn't do here. I can't believe it's been 8 months since God called you home.I relive that day every day.I keep asking myself if I did everything you wanted me to do,if you were comfortable enought,if I ask the Doctors the right questions. I still can't believe you're gone. It's like I'm living a nightmare and no one will wake me up.I love you and miss you so very much.Happy Birthday
Love you always
Jackie
KAREN GUINTHER
May 31, 2009
Al, we are thinking of you today on your 58th birthday.The time will come when we will all be together again.You have been gone for 8 months, but we think of you everyday. We still miss those Sunday afternoon phone calls. You are always in our thoughts when a Nascar race starts. With summer starting, we think of all our visits and just sitting with you watching TV and talking about old times when we were kids. You always had the fridge stocked with plenty of food,and made us some of your favorite recipes. You were in our thoughts on Memorial Day. This first year without you has been tough. We have Jackie, Jessica, Jody and even Sophie in our prayers. We all miss you and will never forget you. With love from your sisters. Karen, Sheran, Jean and Barb
Coretta
May 28, 2009
Hello sister I know this is a hard week for you I just wanted to let you know I love you and always am here for you.Albert is always with you.I love you sis
KAREN GUINTHER
May 7, 2009
I miss you Al, I think about you everyday. I also think of Jackie and wonder how she is doing without you. I am hoping I will hear or see something to let me know you are happy.I will never forget you. Love, Karen
shelly hough(holmes)
April 13, 2009
jackie and jess even though uncle is gone he will alway in our heart and you all we be in our thoughs always
Karen
March 20, 2009
Miss you Al. Love Always, Karen
Jody Ulrich
March 19, 2009
Warm Summer Sun
Warm summer sun,
Shine kindly here,
Warm southern wind,
Blow softly here.
Green sod above,
Lie light, lie light.
Good night, dear heart,
Good night, good night.
By Mark Twain (Samuel Langhorne Clemens)
The Poetry Foundation
March 10, 2009
Jackie, Jessica & Jody, I think of you everyday and hope everyone is doing well. I hope things are getting back to normal. I know Al would want all of us to go on without him. I plan on visiting the cemetery this summer to see his new headstone. Just know you are all in my prayers. Love, Karen
KAREN GUINTHER
February 15, 2009
Thinking of you Al as Nascar season is starting. I know how much you enjoyed watching it. I hope you can still watch your favorite driver from heaven.( Even though he will embarrass you almost every race!!!) Miss you Al, Love Karen
KAREN GUINTHER
January 25, 2009
I haven't written for a while, but that doesn't mean I have forgotten Al. I miss him so much. I miss having him answer the phone when I call his number. It was hard for me to call Jackie for a while after he died. I would just start to cry when she answered.She has the same greeting that Al had.
Sheran still hasn't been able to call. It's not that she doesn't want to, she just can't. It has been four months ago today that we had to say good-bye. It still makes me cry, but it's getting a little easier as time goes by. I think of Jackie, Jody and Jessica all the time.I hope you are getting along OK. I just wanted to let my family know I still think of Al and I will never forget him. I love you Al. Love, Karen
jody ulrich
January 18, 2009
DO YOU HEAR ME CRYING?
Sitting here remembering,
the smile upon your face.
And how it made the room light up
you were full of heavenly grace.
No longer can I see your face
For you are with God above
But your loving smile will always be
Tucked in my heart with love.
I know you wouldn't want to see
Me crying the way I do,
But losing you was a part of me
And some days, I can't make it through.
Do you hear me crying?
It's because somedays I'm down
I look around for you
But your nowhere to be found.
Only pictures now remain of you;
Special songs that meant so much
So if you hear me crying,
It's because I can't feel your touch.
My heart still aches in sadness
And tears, oh how they flow!
What it meant to lose you
Hurts more than you will ever know.
So if you hear me crying,
It's something I can't control.
Just understand I love you so.
Jody Ulrich
December 19, 2008
Christmas Memories As A Kid
I remember every Christmas you would come to town and stay at Grandma Brown's house. On Christmas Eve everyone came for food and gifts. It was always a house full of Aunts, Uncles, Cousins. You would usually stay for about a week. I remember Kelly and Charlie always got to open their presents on Christmas Eve and you would always make me wait till Christmas Day. One year I got Atari and we played that thing the whole time you were home. I would get board games and you would always play them with me. Your presents were always the best.
As time went by and you met and married Jackie, I spent a couple of Christmas's with you in Virginia. I remember you took me Buckroe Beach on Christmas Eve and it was so strange to me to be walking on the Beach on Christmas Eve. We then went to Jackie's moms house and it was like grandma Brown's house (full of people). But always a good time Then once I was on my own you would usualy come to my house the week before Christmas. I would always look forward to having you here with me. My house and heart would always feel so empty when you left to go back home. I wished I could keep you here with me always.
I cherish my Christmas memories with you and how I wish I could have more. I hope you have a beautiful Christmas in Heaven with your Mom and Dad it's been a long time coming. Love you Dad.
Jody
Kim
December 15, 2008
Every Christmas Al and Jackie would have a Christmas Eve buffet lunch set up. We would all stop by at different times to grab a bite and chat in between our shopping even when Al wasn't feeling good. It is going to be hard this year without Al and his buffet but we will always have the memories. I tell Jackie and Jess all the time that if they need anything David and I are there for them. The same goes for you Jodie and the girls. I know this is especially hard for you guys so if you need to talk give us a call.
shelly hough
December 12, 2008
jackie and jess just wanted you all to known we are still thinking of you and if we get down that way ill stop by to say hey love shelly mikey billy and rayvin lilly
Jody Ulrich
December 11, 2008
Since Heaven has become your home
I sometimes feel I'm so alone:
and though we now are far apart
you hold a big piece of my heart.
I never knew how much I'd grieve
when it was time for you to leave.
or just how much my heart would ache
from that one fragment you would take.
God lets this tender hole remain
reminding me we'll meet again,
and one day all the pain will cease
when He restores this missing piece.
He'll turn to joy my every tear
with thoughts of you I hold so dear,
and they'll become my special way
to treasure our Reunion Day.
I miss you more everyday. Love you Dad,
Jody
KAREN GUINTHER
November 22, 2008
Hi Jackie, I just wanted to let you know I'll be thinking of all of you this Thanksgiving. I know we all have so much to be thankful for, but it's not going to be the same without Al. I am still praying for you everyday that you will have the strength to get through the holidays. We all miss him so much. I miss talking to him every weekend. Please know I really care about you and hope you will keep in touch. Love, Karen
November 13, 2008
Hello Jackie just wanted to say I love you and jess and I know I don't get over there every day I think of yall everyday.I do try to call everyday when our schedules permit.I know you miss your Al so very much and we can only offer our shoulder to you but remember we are always here for you and Jess.Love you very much Coretta
Jackie Brown
November 12, 2008
Thank you Jody for the poems and web site. They are beautiful. The poem titled WHEN I GET TO HEAVEN is so true. I feel as if it could have been written by me. I loved your dad so much. Thanks for sharing the site with me. Love ya Jackie
Jody Ulrich
November 8, 2008
Jackie- the last poem I submitted was written by Ruth Ann Mahaffey. At the end of the poem you will see her web site. Well I went to her site and it is beautiful. I found a poem that I wanted you to read. Love ya
WHEN I GET TO HEAVEN
When I get to Heaven, will he welcome me above? Will I be reunited with the one I shared my love? Our life on earth was happy, contented and so real. No unkind words were spoken, just a love that was ideal.
God brought us together, I know this in my heart. But my love developed cancer, and soon we had to part. I never knew on earth, the reason why this was. God must have had plans though, for this I'm sure He does.
I question why it happens, I was filled with so much woe. The answers I shall find someday, then I'll feel I know. It's not for me to know right now, untill my life is o'er. But when I get to heaven I won't wonder anymore.
My love was only worried, that I would be alone. He wasn't afraid of dying, just me being on my own. But as I feel his presence, with God right by his side, knowing he's with Jesus, makes my heart swell with pride.
So when I get to heaven, I'll see my loved one there. With Jesus inside my heart, I speak to Him through prayer. Now when it's time for me to go....from my body to be free, I know with arms spread wide, He'll be there to welcome me.
Author Ruth Ann Mahaffey
Copyright Oct, 2003
Jody Ulrich
November 5, 2008
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2008
KAREN GUINTHER
November 2, 2008
Memorial Service : Today my church had a memorial service for all members who have lost loved ones this year. I knew it would be sad for us, but I still wanted Al to be remembered in the service. All his sisters were able to come. I was especially happy Barb could be there since she wasn't able to make the trip to Virginia for the funeral.I want to thank Jody and her girls for coming. I know it wasn't easy for you. As each person's name was called, their family was invited to go forward lighting a candle in honor of their loved one and placed before the alter. Their name was then entered into the Book of New Life, and will be kept in the church throughout November. I thought it was a very nice memorial service. A closing thought from the service, Concerning those who are asleep, do not be sad like those who have no hope; do not weep for the dead, do not mourn them with tears, for if we believe that Jesus died and rose again, God will bring forth with Jesus all who have fallen asleep believing in Him. Al I miss you. Love, Karen
Pam StMartin
October 25, 2008
Thank you to all for your continued entries. Because of the emotions that surface, I know sometimes it is very difficult to write entries and to read them as well. I hope this will get easier as time goes on. Karen, thank you for all of your responses, I know bringing up old memories can hurt sometimes when the one your used to sharing them with has passed on. Jody, I know your dad is so proud of you for what you have written as it has to be difficult. Jackie, when Albert moved to Virginia 1979-to keep me company and to start a new life, I always hoped he would find the soulmate I knew he longed for- thank God he found you. Jess, I'm so proud of you, I know things are not easy as you continue to pursue your dreams; however, please know that all of us are here for you. Over time, this memorial will evolve into what all of you want it to be. As I read, I see the movement towards pictures and old memories, and I will continue to find poems, scriptures, etc to post in the direction that you going, (right now I'm looking for poems on racing and fishing). If you have ANYTHING you would like to see added, please let me know. I will do whatever I can to try to make this memorial fitting for Albert and one that really reflects him and the ones he loved. On a final note, the last time I saw Albert, his foot was hurting and as I rose to leave, he started to stand to hug me good-bye. I told him, he didn't have to get up, and he said, "Oh, yes, I do. I don't know if I'll be here the next time you come." He then, stood up, hugged me and squeezed me extra hard. I think I've always known that was our last goodbye. I say "last goodbye", because when I go to heaven, I will see Albert once again, and there won't be anymore "good-byes". I miss you Al until we meet again:
May the road rise up to meet you.
May the wind always be at your back.
May the sun shine warm upon your face,
and rains fall soft upon your fields.
And until we meet again,
May God hold you in the palm of His hand.
Love,
Pam
Pam StMartin
October 25, 2008
Jody, the pictures are an excellent idea. I have a scanner, but live to far away. However, you can use the photo machine at Wal Mart and use the save to disc option. Then upload the pictures to the memorial. I have have received your emails and I have responded, I hope you have received my responses. Please call me if I can do anything at all. If you need more help getting pictures up, I will help you, just let me know. Call my mom - she has my phone number.
Love you,
Pam
October 24, 2008
Hello sister ,just wanted to say I love you and I have found at least 3 pennies on the floor so I know Al (or Mr Brown as you always know I called him when I came over)is with you always.I love you and will talk to you and Jess soon.Coretta
KAREN GUINTHER
October 23, 2008
Jackie, Jody and Jessica, Our loved ones leave the world, But never leave our hearts. Four weeks have gone by, but it still doesn't seem real. I hope all of you are doing Ok. I think of you often. Love, Karen
Jody Ulrich
October 23, 2008
I would really like to see some pictures downloaded onto this album if any of you have a scanner, I'm still trying to figure out how to work mine, but soon as I do I will load some pictures. Thanks, Jody
Jody Ulrich
October 23, 2008
Four weeks ago today I lost more than my dad, I lost a great friend. I always called you and talked to you about all my issues, I always valued your advice. I looked up to you in soo many ways. I miss talking to you. You have only been gone a month and I'm not sure how I am supposed to go through the rest of my life without you in it to talk to and to do things with. I miss you soo much already. There has not been a morning or a nite go bye that I havn't thought about what you went through when you were in the hospital. I remember you would say you just block things out of your mind. "Just block it out" is what you would say. I have tried but I remember every single detail of the day we lost you. I try to tell myself remember the good, forget the bad. But, I hurts soo bad and I keep seeing it over and over again. I still can't beleive you are gone, it doesn't seem real, my mind just won't accept it. Maybe in time it will. I have had a few dreams of you since you passed. Maybe it's my way of working through this (but I hope it was a visit from you). I love you soo much. I pray that god will give us the strength we need to go on without you. You went through so much that you didn't deserve. You are a beautiful soul and we love you dearly. I hope you are at peace in heaven. Watch over us and let us feel your love.
Love You Dad,
Jody
KAREN GUINTHER
October 21, 2008
When someone you love becomes a memory, the memory becomes a treasure. Jackie I think of you everyday. I pray each day will get a little easier. We all loved Al so much. He will always be in our hearts. Love, Karen
shelly holmes hough
October 19, 2008
jackie and jessical you are in are thoughts evereday uncle was a woundlful man i may not got to see him much i i tryed tosee him when he came home uncle we love you and miss you alot i known that your in heaven now no more pian and your they with grandma brown and my dad too we love you all and will miss you always shelly
Pam StMartin
October 18, 2008
John 3:16 "For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life."
Pam StMartin
October 18, 2008
Albert was always interested in his family history and always wanted to know where his family originated from before they came to the United States, and before they went to Ohio. I was so glad to be able to tell him he was Irish through and through, and came right from Virginia, the place that he loved. He literally took the Brown name full circle. He always smiled about that.
KAREN GUINTHER
October 17, 2008
A heart of gold stopped beating, two shining eyes at rest. God broke our hearts to prove, He only takes the best. We love and miss you Al. Love Karen
Jody Ulrich
October 17, 2008
Jackie, Jess and Sophie
Sending you a hug.
Love You, Jody Beth Brooke
Jackie Brown
October 16, 2008
To my babydoll, That's what I always called you and I was your honey.You would always ask me "are you my honey?" and I would always say "yes,I'm your honey". You would call me at work 2 and 3 times a day just to tell me you loved and miss me. You would call me at 10.30pm everynight just to tell me it was bedtime and to go to bed and then give me a wake call the next morning at 5.30am and tell me it was time to get up. God, how I miss those calls.I can't believe you been gone 3 weeks. I don't know what I'm going to do without you. You were the other half of me.You were my best friend,my soulmate. I would give anything to hear you tell me you love me just one more time. Thank you for being a wonderful husband. I love you.........................more than you will ever know.
Your Honey
J
KAREN GUINTHER
October 16, 2008
OUR BROTHER, On September 25,2008 we lost our sweet brother. We knew it would happen, but how can you really be ready? It was so painful and still is. He was the youngest of six, with five older sisters. Our sister Nancy died many years ago.
The rest of us who love and cared about him still can't believe he is gone. We will miss him so much. He had a great sense of humor and always had something funny to say, even through all of this. He was a hard worker. No matter how bad he felt, he still went to work. He was a great dad to Jody and Jessica. A good husband to his wonderful wife Jackie,who was by his side through out his illness. Thank you Jackie, we love you. All the grandkids loved him even though he would tease them. That was just his way. Even though we live in Ohio and he lived in Virginia we still stayed in touch. We all would call or visit as often as we could. We liked to reminisce about things that happened when we were kids. Some good and some not so good.One story we always laughed about was as a young kid Al would get dropped off at the river to fish and camp all my himself until someone would go back to pick him up. No cell phones back then!!! We wondered sometimes how we ever made it. He was a big nascar fan, but he said his favorite driver would embarrass him almost every race. We can hold on to all our memories. Someday one by one we will all join him in heaven. We will miss those weekly phone calls and going to visit him in Virginia. Time has a way of healing our pain. What a privilege it was having him as a brother and friend for 57 years. We will miss him, but have comfort knowing he is at peace. We love you Al! With love from your sisters, Barb, Jean, Karen and Sheran
Pam St.Martin
October 14, 2008
Albert, I smile to think of the reunion that you must be having with Grandma. I love her and miss her so much. I know that you are getting to know Grandpa who passed away when you were still fairly young. You are having the chance to see Nancy who is now well, and is no longer suffering. Not to mention seeing all of the friends, aunts, uncles, grandparents, that passed before you. I miss you here, there is no doubt about that, but I rejoice in the new life you are able to continue in Gods Kingdom. What a wonderous place it must be! I have faith that the Lord has you watching out for us. I pray every day that the Lord helps me find the words, poems, scriptures etc. that you would want in your memorial. In recent days, I have felt very strongly that I need to add more peaceful and uplifting words to help those who are sorrowful and grieving as you would want us to smile at the thought of you and not cry. This is easier said than done as grieving takes time. May God smile down upon everyone left here so that all can heal and find peace. Love to You and Love to All Reading Your Memorial, Pam
Jody Urlcih
October 13, 2008
Missing you Dad. Love you dearly.
Pam St.Martin
October 12, 2008
Safely Home
by Unknown
I am home in Heaven, dear ones;
Oh, so happy and so bright!
There is perfect joy and beauty
In this everlasting light.
All the pain and grief is over,
Every restless tossing passed;
I am now at peace forever,
Safely home in Heaven at last.
Did you wonder I so calmly
Trod the valley of the shade?
Oh! but Jesus' arm to lean on,
Could I have one doubt or dread?
Then you must not grieve so sorely,
For I love you dearly still;
Try to look beyond earth's shadows,
Pray to trust our Father's Will.
There is work still waiting for you,
So you must not idly stand;
Do it now, while life remaineth--
You shall rest in Jesus' land.
When that work is all completed,
He will gently call you Home;
Oh, the rapture of that meeting,
Oh, the joy to see you come!
Jody Ulrich
October 12, 2008
In My Pocket
I have memories in my pocket.
They rattle among the change.
My memories of you are treasures I carry wherever I go.
They are stored in bits and pieces, parts of a beautiful whole
They give me comfort when I think I am alone.
Yes, I have memories in my pocket, like so much other stuff I keep there.
But of all the treasures I have, it’s the memories of you that are the most precious.
Pam StMartin
October 9, 2008
An angel walks beside me,
I feel him everyday,
he helps me through lives ups and downs,
and whatever comes my way.
He guides me down the road of life,
and lights the darkest roads,
he picks me up and carries me,
when I can not bear the load.
He helps to ease the pain I feel,
he mends my spirit, too,
he holds my hand, and shelters me,
and gives me courage and strength, too.
He speaks to me with words of love,
and he listens to my pleas,
he was sent here from the lord above,
to guide and comfort me.
I know he's always watching,
though his form I can not see,
its a peace I feel deep in my heart,
that leads me to believe.
An angel walks beside me,
I feel blessed everyday,
that the presence of this angel,
will never go away.
Anonymous
KAREN GUINTHER
October 9, 2008
Jackie, Jessica and Jody, Two weeks ago today I got that dreaded phone call. I knew it was coming, but I still didn't want to hear those words," Karen he's gone." It still breaks my heart. When I saw him in the hospital I knew it was time. He knew I was there even though he could not talk much. He told me he was sorry he couldn't visit. I'm sure he listened to Joe and I visiting with Jackie that day. I went back the next morning to tell him good by. I kissed him on the forehead, he told me thank you and squeezed my hand. He told us to be careful. He went through so much I'm sure he didn't tell us about. I pray to God every day to take care of him , so we can all be together again in heaven. I ask a special blessing for all of you until the pain of losing him is not so great. I hope Sophie is adjusting without him. We can't forget her. She loved him too. Love, Karen
shelly holmes hough
October 8, 2008
jackie and jess just wanted to let you are still in our hearts and in our thoughs love shelly jeremy mikey billy rayvin
Jody Ulrich
October 8, 2008
Jackie,
I think of you often and hope that you are ok. Wish we didn't live so far apart. It's so hard to pick up the peices and get on with life but Dad wouldn't want it any other way. We all cared and loved him soo very much! Thank you for being there for him. He could not of had a better wife than u. I am here for you if you ever need to talk. Love Ya, Jody
P.S. Give Sophie a hug for me :)
Jody Ulrich
October 8, 2008
My Dad,
The man I admire most. You were so hard working, honest and loving. You have given me so many wonderful memories over the years. Everything from mushroom stories to your silly jokes. I love you dearly and it breaks my heart to think of all the pain you went through. I sat by your bed, held your hand and watched you take your last breath. It hurt so bad to let you go, but when I seen the pain on your face I knew it was time. I know you are in a better place and you are watching over us now. So when my time comes, please hold my hand and lead the way. You are the first person I want to see when I get there. Untill we meet again........
Love You Dad,
Jody
KAREN GUINTHER
October 6, 2008
Jody, We are thinking of you.You are in our thoughts and prayers. We all prayed many prayers for Al. I know he is in a better place, but we all miss him and will love him forever. Love,Joe & Karen
KAREN GUINTHER
October 5, 2008
Jackie and Jessica, I am thinking of you everyday. I know Al is in a better place, but it still hurts to lose him. Jackie, the funeral was beautiful. He would have been proud. We had to smile a little going to the cemetery through Hampton and Newport News with all the police escorts. Al definiately had a good send off!! I'm sure he was smiling too. Thank You for being with him through all of this. You have been a wonderful wife and mother. We'll stay in touch. I love you. Karen & Joe
Roc Allen St. Martin
October 2, 2008
Jackie,Jess and everyone in the family. It saddend me last week when I heard about the news. I wanted nothing more than to be there for Uncle Albert And You and Jess. I was going to pack up my vehicle and make way only stopping in Virginia. Uncle Albert was my second uncle but never second in my heart among people I love and have the most undying respect for. When I was in Coast Guard "A" school he welcomed me into your home to spend as much time as i possibly could which i tried to take the advantage of everytime i got. When i came back from the war He was the first real family i saw and welcomed me into your home again making me feel more like I was home again. I am saddend in my heart that I did not get to say goodbye to him. But anyting that you need whether it be someone to talk to or anything please let me know. Because you, jess, and Albert have never denied me that. I am sorry for making this long. I love all of you e-mail me or call me text me anything i will be here.
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