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Andrew H. Gilmer VIRGINIA BEACH - Andrew H. "Drew" Gilmer of Virginia Beach died Sept. 28, 2008. He was born in Roanoke, Va., Feb. 28, 1979. Drew graduated from First Colonial High School in 1997. He attended James Madison University and graduated from Old Dominion University in 2005. Drew was an avid soccer player and fisherman. He played high school and select soccer and fished year round in the Chesapeake Bay. He worked for Bank of America after graduation from ODU in the financial services division. Drew later moved to the premier banking and investments area where he was an Assistant Vice President Client Manager. Drew is survived by his parents, Brenda (Ikie) and Perry Gilmer of Virginia Beach; his brother, Thad and Thad's wife, Courtney, and their two daughters, Parker and Caroline, all of whom live in Midlothian, Va. Drew was predeceased by his grandparents, Guy and Betty Gilmer and Eddie and Mary Jane Duke. A memorial service will be held Thursday, Oct. 2, 2008, at 1 p.m. at The Spring Branch Community Church in Virginia Beach and will be officiated by the Rev. Rick Eschenburg. The family requests in lieu of flowers that donations in Drew's name be made to the Spring Branch Youth Ministry Scholarship Fund, 1500 Great Neck Road, Virginia Beach, VA 23454. Hollomon-Brown Funeral Home, Lynnhaven Chapel, is handling the arrangements. Condolences may be offered to the family at www.hollomon-brown.com.
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Fran Barker Horne
October 20, 2008
Dear Ikie,
I was so sorry to hear of your loss.
Ann Sparger shared this with me over the weekend,and I was so saddened by the news.
Even though we have not seen each other in years,please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.
May God give you peace and comfort during this time of sorrow.
K B
October 2, 2008
Drew was a high school friend of mine. I have so many fond memories that include his friendship. He was a wonderful friend, a comedian, a "big brother" type, a safe place, and a big part of my growing up in high school. What a great friend he was. He will be missed!
I have photos with Drew during fun times in High School- dances, Busch Gardens, etc. If the family is interested, feel free to contact me for them.
Caren Chamberlain
October 1, 2008
I met Drew 5.5 years ago in a church small group. Two years later, we became roomates and I lived in his condo for a year and a half. He was funny, a great handyman, had a huge heart for animals, and always put others first before himself.
I am SO saddened to hear this news. Drew was a special young man and always so kind, helpful and generous. He was everyone's friend and loved and respected by so many.
My deepest prayers and thoughts are with you during this time. May the Lord's peace and comfort surround you now and always.
T.W.
October 1, 2008
Drew, You are someone that I will never forget. Your sense of humor and kindness were one in a million. You will be so very deeply missed by many.
October 1, 2008
Dear Gilmer family,
I am so sorry for your loss. Drew touched all of our lives in different ways. Now those memories are more precious than ever. Each of us carry a small piece of his life with us in our hearts. You should be proud of the man that you raised and while none of us are ready to say goodbye, it was truly a blessing to have known him at all. He is certainly missed.
In the three years we worked together, Drew became more than a co-worker, he was my friend. He had a great sense of humor and is truly one of the most kind and gentle people I have ever known. Always very supportive and encouraging, he always knew what to say to cheer me up at just the right time; I only wish he was here now to cheer me up.
There are no words that can ease the pain and sorrow you're feeling right now, but please know how much Drew meant to everyone he met. I pray that God's peace comforts your family now and always.
Those of us who love Drew are also sharing your grief. He will never be far from thought, or far from my heart.
With great love and deepest sympathy,
Somer Parker
Somer Parker
October 1, 2008
Dear Gilmer family,
I am so sorry for your loss. Drew touched all of our lives in different ways. Now those memories are more precious than ever. Each of us carry a small piece of his life with us in our hearts. You should be proud of the man that you raised and while none of us are ready to say goodbye, it was truly a blessing to have known him at all. He is certainly missed.
In the three years we worked together, Drew became more than a co-worker, he was my friend. He had a great sense of humor and is truly one of the most kind and gentle people I have ever known. Always very supportive and encouraging, he always knew what to say to cheer me up at just the right time; I only wish he was here now to cheer me up.
There are no words that can ease the pain and sorrow you're feeling right now, but please know how much Drew meant to everyone he met. I pray that God's peace comforts your family now and always.
Those of us who love Drew are also sharing your grief. He will never be far from thought, or far from my heart.
With great love and deepest sympathy,
Somer Parker
David Hall
October 1, 2008
Drew and I became fast friends in the short time we knew each other. I got the feeling that was the way it was for most people he met. His kindness, sense of humor and genuine humility were so attractive. I will cherish his memory. My thoughts and prayers are with his family. We will miss him greatly.
Meg Phillips
October 1, 2008
Dear Brenda, Perry, Thad, and Courtney,
Words cannot express how deeply sorry we are to hear about Drew. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Love, Meg & Barton Phillips
Denise and Lisle Bean
September 30, 2008
Dear Ikie and Perry,
Our deepest sympathy and prayers go out to you and your family.
Lauren
September 30, 2008
I am so sorry for the loss of Drew. I hope that his family will find comfort in that they raised a kind and generous man who is and will be missed.
Robert Lennor
September 30, 2008
I am so sorry to hear about Andrew.
Please accept my condolences
John 5:28, 29
Patricia, A Nurses' Aide
September 30, 2008
Dear family and friends:
I leave my deep condolences with you. Psalms 46:1 reads: "God is for us a refuge and strength a help that can readily be found during distresses."
Teri Doudna
September 30, 2008
While I only knew Drew a short while I was touched by his warmth, gentle ways, and quiet dignity. I am thankful to have known Drew. To his family and others who loved him I extend my sincere sorrow for your loss. Know that as you mourn you will be held in the hearts of many who were touched by Drews life. Blessed Be.
September 30, 2008
Ikie and Perry,
We want you to know that you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.
Angie and Wade Johnson
Williamsburg, Va.
Cindy Scott
September 30, 2008
As a parent I cannot imagine the pain you must be experiencing. I worked with Drew when he first came to the bank. Drew was a great person to know and I will miss him greatly. May God's love and peace be with you and your family as you heal.
September 30, 2008
I am so sorry to here about your loss.I'm sure he wasa good person.
Blake Poore
September 30, 2008
We're very sad to hear about your loss. Our thoughts and prayers will be with you. God Bless. Emily & Blake
Laura Sylvester
September 30, 2008
You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
Laura Sylvester
(Joyner Fine Properties)
Judith Teague
September 30, 2008
Drew became a friend about four months ago. He was a "gentle soul" who walked "softly" in our circle of friends. I am very saddened by his passing, but have good memories. I pray that his family will have less pain as they grieve for him.
Marianne/Doc Shane
September 30, 2008
with the deepest sympathy --- God bless you all
Marianne and Doc shane
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