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Kevin Clary Obituary

Kevin Lee Clary NEWPORT NEWS - Kevin Lee Clary, 46, died unexpectedly at his home, Friday, Oct. 10, 2008. He was a lifelong Peninsula resident. Kevin graduated from Virginia Wesleyan College. He worked with Virginia Wesleyan as a recruiter and with the Alumni Financial Affairs Department; and also with the Graduate Studies Department at Chowan College. He was formerly a sales associate with Becky's Hallmark and currently associate manager of Coach in Williamsburg. He was a volunteer with the Peninsula Republican Party. A lifelong member of Trinity United Methodist Church, Kevin was active in the Virginia Conference of the United Methodist Church and on the Peninsula District. He served as youth director with Fox Hill United Methodist Church. Survivors include his parents, William E. "Bill" and Elsie Hubbard Clary; brother, Bill Clary and his wife Betsie; nieces and nephew, Emily, Patrick and Caroline Clary; and aunt, Marian and her husband George Ashby, all of Newport News. The family will receive friends Monday from 6 to 8 p.m. at Peninsula Funeral Home. A funeral will be conducted Tuesday at 1 p.m. in Trinity United Methodist Church with the Rev. Sam McPhail and the Rev. Michael Nobles officiating. Interment will follow in Peninsula Memorial Park. Plans are underway to establish a scholarship fund at Virginia Wesleyan College in Kevin's memory.

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Published by The Virginian-Pilot on Oct. 12, 2008.

Memories and Condolences
for Kevin Clary

79 Entries

Allison Marshall

November 10, 2008

I was so saddened to read of Kevin's death. We went to high school together at Ferguson and I can see him so clearly now. Although I hadn't seen Kevin in many, many years I was most fond of him and considered him a friend. I am very sorry for your loss. I know Kevin changed many lives in a positive way. Allison Marshall

Patrick Clary

October 21, 2008

Kevin was an incredidibly, humble man that never seeked recognition for the things he did but did them because he had a profound love for eveyone. It sounds cliche to say that he would give you the shirt off his back if you needed it but it was true in a sense. Whether it was staying up late baking for his employees, giving weekly phone calls just to catch up, or being a shoulder to lean on, he was always there. Kevin was truly a gifted man that didn't just want to meet someone; instead he wanted to get to know them. He took the time to find out what you were really passionate about and turned that into something that he could share with you. Kevin used his creativity often with me. One of the ways he showed his creativity with me is that he already knew that my dad and I shared a special bond not only from being father and son, but through sports as well. Instead of taking the easy route and developing a solid relationship with me through the use of sports, he knew that I, like him had a love for sushi. We would often go out and try different places to see which place was better than the other. This was one of my favorite pastimes with him. Though the sushi was always good, the conversations and time spent with him was even better. Even though our footprints in the sand at the beach are eventually washed away, I know that the footprint Kevin left on all of hearts will never be washed away.

Betsie Clary

October 19, 2008

Kevin Clary or fondly known as "Kev" was my one and only brother in law that never once acted as an "in law" but truly as a brother. I admired our Kevin! Never in the 31 years that I knew Kevin did I hear anyone speak ill of him nor did I ever hear him speak any unkind words towards someone else. My first memory of meeting Kevin was at his home church--Trinity Methodist--as he was in the youth group and was one of the main characters in a dinner theater. He came out to meet me and towered over me with a huge smile and red hair! At first, I thought, "No way, this can't be Bill's younger brother!" But I quickly found out he was. His warm manner and jovial laugh was infectious.
All through the years, Kevin remained very much apart of my life, Bill's, our children--Emily, Patrick, and Caroline. No matter what event was taking place--a sports game, band concert, birthday, graduation, or holiday fun, Kevin was always apart of our celebrations. He made each of us feel so special as he carefully chose presents and cards that were unique for each of us.
I will never forget his kindness on my 50th birthday. Bill and I took our oldest daughter to Florida to relocate for a job. It was her first long stint away from home and it was difficult leaving her 15 hours away. Kevin knew I was having a hard time leaving her and turning the "big 0". He lovingly decorated my kitchen island with a beautiful tablecloth, balloons, cake, flowers, champagne, and cards as a surprise before we got home. He just knew how to lift a girl's spirit.
Kevin also had a way of learning about each of our unique qualities and relished in finding ways to make us happy---Bill has always been a Yankees fanatic with his dad and Kevin. As a surprise for his dad's birthday, Kevin got Yankees tickets for the guys--Bill Sr, Bill Jr, Patrick, and himself. The boys flew to NY for the game and had a grand time. Kevin knew that Emily loved cooking and often they would share recipes and trade secrets. When Kevin found that Emily was working for the Williamsburg Inn, he swelled with pride! He loved to eat Sushi with Patrick and they had a favorite hang out that they frequented quite regularly. He also loved being in the mix with Patrick and his fraternity buddies at ECU. And then there was his love for Caroline--he lovingly called her "Cubby" and he was so proud when she became a teacher and then he took the time to celebrate her recent engagement to Broc.
Kevin modeled and lived like Christ. He was a giving, kind hearted, jovial Christian that others were drawn to. He truly modeled the verse from the Bible in Ephesians, "Be kind one to another, tenderhearted, forgiving to one another." I thank God for every remembrance of Kevin, my brother, and my friend.
With love, Betsie

Betsy (Hulick) Pinder

October 17, 2008

Clary Family -
I am saddened to learn of Kevin's passing. Please know that Timothy and I are thinking about you all during this difficult time. God blessed so many people through Kevin's words and actions and I feel privileged to have known him as I grew up!

Please know that you all are being lifted in prayer - even from the Bahamas.

Jennifer Gambill

October 17, 2008

Dear Clary family,

My family and I were so saddened to hear of Kevin's passing. We have been neighbors for the past few years and he was always quick to share a smile and a kind word. He will be truly missed. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Heather Godwin

October 16, 2008

Dear Bill, Betsie and Family~

My deepest sympathies are with you all in this difficult time. I never had the pleasure of meeting your dear Kevin and I feel all the more sorry for not having had the opportunity. From all of the stories that have been shared at school I've come to know what a truly incredible person he was to each and every person he met. I know his loss will be felt for a lifetime, my only hope is that as time goes by the pain will subside and be replaced with smile producing, laugh provoking memories.

Brocdunn Rush

October 16, 2008

To My Family,
While spending this past weekend with you all, I saw something in you, your friends, and even people that you had not seen in years. From the deep condolences to the endless amount of stories and also hearing the phone pretty much ring off of the hook, it all became very apparent to me. Kevin was a great man, a special person, and truly one of a kind. He is proof that God only takes the best. I know coping with all of this will be very tough, but knowing that Kevin was so good that God needed him in Heaven really defines the person he was. Whether you called him a son, a brother, a brother-in-law, an uncle, or a friend…you all should be proud that he has entered the gates of heaven. Kevin touched my life in many ways and I will soon be proud to call him family. I will miss Kevin as will others that got the privilege of having Kevin be a part of their life.
I Love You All,
Brocdunn Rush

Erin Ashby

October 16, 2008

Even though I have not seen Kevin in some years now, I am blessed with the memories I do have of Kevin. He always had a smile on his face and a sweet word to say. He never judged anyone for their mistakes and always found a way to make a bad situation seem ok. To my family I am so sorry for the loss of Kevin. To Emily Patrick, and Caroline I hope you three know how much you meant to him. He bragged about you guys everytime I saw him. To Aunt Elsie and Uncle Bill, I am truly sorry and I know Kevin is watching down over all of us. I love you guys and to Kevin we are going to miss you here with us but I know you are having the time of your life in Heaven. We love you.

Kyle Woodruff

October 15, 2008

The Clary Family,
Over the past couple of years I have had the privilege of getting to know you all, but I will never forget the first time I met Kevin. I have to admit I was a little nervous, because I heard Emily, Patrick, and Caroline speak very highly of their Uncle Kevin. So, Emily and I were just driving around Williamsburg and we were about to pass the Prime Outlet Stores and Emily wanted to stop by and introduce me to Uncle Kevin. So we walked into the Coach Store and I went to go shake his hand and surprisingly he pulled me in and gave me a big hug, like we knew each other for years. That is the type of person Kevin was, very open hearted and was quick to offer advice or help any way he could. Every time I saw Kevin he had a smile on his face and something funny to say. Kevin was someone that I admired and will truly miss him.

Caroline Clary

October 15, 2008

My dearest friend and Uncle Kevin,
I always knew what an outstanding man he was and have been even more blessed hearing all of the stories and love that has been shared with our family this past week. I always knew he treated us like his own children, but I didn’t know he told every person he came in contact with about us. What a special feeling it was to hear of all the wonderful things he shared and how important family was to him.
There are so many memories that come to my mind from when I was a small child crawling all over him like a play toy, all the way to my college graduation and still sitting in his lap. He was the best at whispering jokes in my ear and always making a serious situation more relaxing.
Kevin was the most unique man I will probably ever know and can’t think of a time when he didn’t make me laugh. Not only was he always smiling and laughing, but he was ALWAYS thinking of someone else. What an amazing friend and uncle I had!! I hope to think that he will be my new guardian angel as he is smiling down, laughing, and watching over us all.I love you.

Emily Nicole Clary

October 15, 2008

Even after the funeral yesterday, I still had a hard time grasping the reality that Kevin is now gone. Kevin was an amazing Uncle that words cannot even describe. He always came to every event that my brother, sister, and I had, and loved us like we were his own children. Everyone that we have met over the past few days already knew who we were because of Kevin. He always had a funny joke, huge smile, and something delicious that he whipped up on hand. We had even talked about opening a restaurant together, because his charming personailty would of won over the customers, and his deserts would of probably made us all 10 pounds heavier! Kevin was truely one of my best friends who always put others before himself. A true definition of a model Christian, Kevin's personality, attitude, and lifestyle was contagious. I'll remember all the good times we had together as a family, and cannot wait to see him again in heaven. He will be missed here with us, but I am looking forward to the party that we will be having in heaven! I love you Kevin!

Winslow Carter Carter

October 15, 2008

As director of Admissions at Chowan I hired Kevin as an admissions counselor. He was a wonderful person to work with and a great friend. Everyone with whom he worked knew he was a professional and did things very well. I will miss him and his wit. I regret that we didnot see each other very much since we both left Chowan. He will be greatly missed by those that knew him.

Brenda Morgan

October 15, 2008

To our dear friends, the Clary family,
What a privilege so many years ago to greet you as customers at Becky's Hallmark. What an honor it was to become friends over the years. What a gift the day Kevin came to work with us. His sweet spirit, his smile, his laughter, his friendship, his gentlemanly ways, his love and pride for his family, his love for his past, for his present and his future, the way he made each of us feel like his best friend filled our store and our hearts. He will never be forgotten and will live in our hearts forever. I count it a blessing from the Lord the day I met Kevin Clary. We all smiled when he walked in the room, before he ever said anything. His warmth filled our hearts as will our memories of him. We laughed at his stories of meeting Barbara Streisand, of meeting Dr. Billy Graham on an elevator. He was so proud of meeting the Queen...now he has met the King of Kings. Heaven is sweeter because he is there. I look forward to the time when we will see him again. Thank you Lord for the blessing of Kevin Clary in my life. My love and prayers will continue to be with the Clary family.

Brenda Morgan

Marc Brown

October 15, 2008

May God's blessings be with Kevin's family and friends in this time of sorrow. Please know of the prayers that surround you. Kevin's life was a witness of faith that touched many people in signficant ways. I thank God for God's eternal love that will always hold Kevin.

Deanie Hickman

October 15, 2008

To Kevin's family,

May you find comfort in the knowledge that Kevin was so loved and respected by everyone who knew him. He was such a good and honorable friend. I first met Kevin when he started his job at VWC as a fresh college graduate. He remained my friend throughout the years, and I will always cherish this relationship. He so loved his family, and always shared all of their accomplishments with me. I felt as if I knew his mom, dad, brother, sister-in-law, and nieces and nephew personally. I will always keep in my heart his kindness. I know that Kevin is watching over all of us.

Beth Pile

October 14, 2008

To the Clary family, I was shocked to learn of Kevin's death. I had the pleasure of teaching a Christian Believer's class with him for most of one year and after getting to know him there was able to go with him and a group of teens from our Conference on a mission trip to Russia. We had some challenges while there for 3 weeks but Kevin's flexibility and infectious charm kept us going. I emailed the Russian pastor and his wife about Kevin's death and they immediately responded--in Russian! "Sasha" was very fond of Kevin but then who wasn't?! God created a masterpiece in Kevin. He will be greatly missed. I especially repected the way he honored his parents continually. He talked about you all the time. You raised a very special son. My prayers will be with you. Beth Pile

Toni & Steve Koritnik

October 14, 2008

We were so sorry to hear of Kevin's passing. My nephew worked with him and we met him when we were in Williamsburg for my great-nephews graduation. Although we only knew him a short time we truly liked him and enjoyed the time we got to spend with him. I can still hear his wonderful "southern" accent and remember how he always hugged us hello and goodybye. You are all in our thoughts and prayers.

Rahe Insley

October 14, 2008

To the Clary family, I would just like to say how sad I am that Kevin has pass.To know him was to love him. He never met a stranger, to him all were friends and family. I have had the great honor and privledge to work with him at Becky's Hallmark. I will never forget all the good times we had at the store. Just know that he is with the Lord having a grand time. He will be there waiting on us, with his arms open and that silly smile on his face. You all are in my prayers.

Dawn Heckler

October 14, 2008

My sympathy to Kevin's family everywhere.
I had only known Kevin for a year. We both took a leap of faith to join the COACH family.I admired his energy, drive and never ending work ethic. He ran circles around the rest of us and still found the time to cook all the comfort foods that made the day alittle easier. His kindness and endless patience inspires me to be a better person, to touch one persons life with as much unconditional love, support and warmth as he touched all of ours.
Thank you Kevin.

Laurie Volz

October 14, 2008

I met Kevin was I was out visiting my son Timothy this summer. My son always spoke highly of him and after meeting him I know why, he was one in a million. I feel blessed to have known him even if it was for a very short time. You are all in my prayers.

Louise Nolff

October 14, 2008

I had the wonderful pleasure of working for and with Kevin in the Alumni Office at Virginia Wesleyan. Kevin was more than just a boss, he was friend. Someone I could confide in. Though Kevin may not have know it, he played a very important role in my two of my children lives in more ways than I can count. He was an inspiration to all he came in contact with. I know Kevin will never truely be gone. His spirit will live forever in a Norfolk Island Pine that he gave me to celebrate my first anniv with him at VWC.

Louise

Alison Schoew

October 14, 2008

Kevin would have been humbly (as always) honored by the kind words said at Trinity, today. I remember him as my "birthday benefactor." My birthday is the day after his, and the convention in our department was that the person with the LAST birthday made the cake for the one with the NEXT birthday. Well, I don't much like cake, and Kevin knew that....so he spent HIS birthday making an amazing trifle for MINE! A dear man, and one that I will always miss...and remember most fondly.

Mike Mayton

October 14, 2008

Bill and Elsie,
Kevin will be truly missed. He was one of the very good friends a person could have on earth.
I remember when I first met Kevin, sneaking around the balcony of the sanctuary at Trinity with with Tommy John during Sunday night services. Kevin was the conscience of the trio. Kevin and I continued our experiences of church and Christian service as a part of this Virginia Annaul Conference.
He is fondly remembered as one wonderfully made by our Creator, God,
May God's peace bless you in all ways.

Joni Harrison Foster

October 14, 2008

I am so sorry for your loss. I have known Kevin my whole life and I don't remember a time that he wasn't smiling and happy. He had a way of making everyone around him happy as well. He was a beautiful person that made this world a more beautiful place. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers.

Sharon Isley

October 14, 2008

To the Clary family:
I worked in college admissions for a North Carolina school when Kevin was working for Virginia Weselyn, so I would see him at college programs occasionally. Kevin always was gracious, wore a smile on his face, and possessed a quick wit and a sense of humor! He was truly one of a kind! Your family will be in my prayers in the coming days.

Doug Murrow

October 14, 2008

Dear Clary Family, I am so sorry for your loss. You raised a wonderful son. Having grown up with two sisters, Kevin probably was the closest to a brother that I have ever had in my life. He was a gifted gentleman being able to strike up a friendly conversation with any stranger. It was evident that Kevin loved the Lord, and his family, and spoke very proudly of you often especially Emily, Patrick and Caroline. May the Lord Bless you during this time.

Dawn Winters

October 14, 2008

To the Clary Family,

I am so sorry to hear of the death of Kevin. He was such a creative and amazing person. I truly enjoyed working with him at Virginia Wesleyan. I know so many will miss his smile and contagious laugh. My heart really goes out to you. What a good and kindhearted man he was.

With deepest sympathy,
Dawn and Gene Winters

Bob Downs

October 14, 2008

To the Clary Family,
I was sadly shocked to hear about Kevin's passing. i had enjoyed many wonderful times in Emmaus teaming and in working in the district. I will always remember his constant smile and his sharing of his faith through his actions. He was a friend and an brother and will be missed. My thoughts and prayers are with you in this difficult time. As others have said, he is right where he wants to be and will welcome us there one day.

Warmest thoughts,

Bob Downs

Michelle Hurst (Superczynski) VWC Class of 2001

October 13, 2008

I am so saddened to hear of your loss today. Kevin recruited me for Virginia Wesleyan College way back in 1987 and I owe my college career to him. Althought I left VWC to get married, I returned in 2000 and am very proud to be a VWC graduate.

Kevin was a wonderful, caring, intelligent man and I am blessed to have known him. I am stunned by his early departure. My prayers are with the entire Clary family.

Keith and Opal Brown

October 13, 2008

We sincerely extend our heartfelt sorrow to Bill and Elsie and all of Kevin's family. We came to know Kevin for his devout faith and warmth. We truly treasured his friendship. We shall all miss him. Keith and Opal

Ed and Joyce Fly

October 13, 2008

We shared a lot of time with Kevin in Emmaus and at First United Methodist Church Fox Hill. He was an inspiration to us and everyone he met.
May God bless your family as you grieve his loss.

Ed and Joyce Fly

Kristi Lafoon

October 13, 2008

I'm sorry to hear of Kevin's untimely passing. I had the honor of working with him on the Alumni Relations committee at Virginia Wesleyan, planning our senior dinner. He was a kind, sweet and open person. He had much to give and did so with every smile and every kind word. I greatly appreciated those smiles and those kind words. He will be missed.

Cynthia Lawson Harding

October 13, 2008

I am shocked and saddened to learn of Kevin's death. He and I began our careers in college admissions in the same year. Although we worked for different institutions, we traveled the same territory. Later, for a number of years, we worked together at Chowan College. We enjoyed so many fun times together with all our friends in Murfreesboro. Although we lost contact a long time ago, I remember Kevin as someone with a vibrant personality who loved to laugh. I also remember his love for his family. My thoughts and prayers go out to you at this difficult time.

Chuck Root

October 13, 2008

Hi Bill and Elsie and the Clary family,
We certainly admired Kevin for the zeal he had for the Lord, Jesus Christ, and The United Methodist Church. His short life was one of quality as he witnessed his faith in so many wonderful and loving ways. Kevin touched many lives as we discovered Monday evening at the funeral home. May God bless you with the comfort found only in Him.
Serving a Living Lord,
Pastor Chuck and Ginger Root

Don Nash

October 13, 2008

It's been nearly 20 years since I last spoke with Kevin. He was a cherished friend during my time at Chowan. I know I don't know many of the friends and family he has left, but my thoughts are with you.

We should take great comfort in the fact all of us here had the privilege of calling him "friend". He has gone too soon but has left us richer because of his friendship.

Tim McDermott

October 13, 2008

Kevin made the day shine even on the most rainy days. He found inspiration among days he considered to the worst, like the election of a Democrat! He was creative and made more lemonade from life’s lemons than anyone I knew. He loved life and everyone in his life. My life is enriched by my memories of Kevin and because he called me friend.

Doe & Martin Breen

October 13, 2008

Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Kevin will be missed by many people. He was one of the kindest sweetest people we knew. We had many opportunities to fellowship with Kevin in Emmaus and 1st Fox Hill UMC. He made people smile & laugh like like no one else!
May God bring you comfort and peace.

Christopher Weaver

October 13, 2008

To the family of Kevin Clary, my name is Chris Weaver, and Kevin was my youth group coordinator at Fox Hill Methodist Church. Kevin meant alot to me and I want you to know how very sorry I am and also stunned...I love Kevin and regret never being able to tell him so...He touched my life in a very special way and I will never forget him...My thoughts and prayers are with you. I share in your loss and wish there was something I could do to make it easier for you...Sincerely, Chris

Gene Webb, Jr

October 13, 2008

Uncle Bill , Aunt Elsie and Cousin Bill Jr,
Our deepest thoughts and prayers go out with your family today. Never a dull moment was spent with Kevin. God must have needed his kindness and his gentle nature in heaven more then he was needed here among us. I can bet he is with Aunt Dolly, and the Hubbard Clan smiling and telling jokes.
Kevin's positive influence on others is shaking up the Angels right and making sure they are always smiling and staying focused.
Those many days and nights at the Briarpatch will always be remembered as days spent with our closest cousins and aunt and uncle.
Thanks Kevin for being a friend in Jesus.

South Morrison Fifth Grade Team

October 13, 2008

To Bill and Betsie,
We are so sorry to hear of your loss. You are in our prayers. May God keep you and your family safe in his arms. Know that we love you.

Becky Felix

October 13, 2008

Kevin was such a sincere and loving part of our lives when he served as the youth director at First United Methodist Church Fox Hill. Our children were a part of the youth program at that time and they enjoyed many youth activities and retreats with Kevin. Our son, Corey, was in Kevin's Sunday school class and he always enjoyed attending for the spiritual guidance, fellowship and donuts Kevin provided.
We are sad and shocked to know that he is gone from us on earth, but we know we will see Kevin again for eternity in heaven.
We continue to keep Kevin's family and friends in our thoughts and prayers at this difficult time.
Ken, Becky, Corey and Rachel Felix

Chuck Leavines

October 13, 2008

Bill and Elsie, your son was a great brother and friend to many and Kevin was always loving and caring with my family. He was always happy and I enjoyed many teaming opportunities we had together. We laughed, cried, and cracked a few jokes along the way. My lasting memories of Kevin will be holding my son Colby at church, they were buddies. God Bless you and your family in this sad time. Remember Kevin is with Jesus and he is just waiting for the rest of us to get there.

Betsy Hnath

October 13, 2008

As were all on this list, I was shocked and saddened to hear of Kevin's passing. He was such a bright light; a man who always had a big smile, firm handshake, and a crisp white shirt. He brought so much love and life to this world and will be sorely missed. Our prayers and thoughts are with the rest of the Clary family.
I was lucky to work with Kevin at Virginia Wesleyan College and to have him as my office neighbor.
I am sure he is now blessing those in heaven with his laugh, his easy spirit, and his fantastic baking skills!

Please accept our deepest sympathies,

Betsy, George, Emily, Liam, and Jackson Hnath

John and Ann Maninga

October 13, 2008

Bill and Elsie, John and I are so shocked by the sad news of Kevn's passing. We can only take comfort in the knowledge that Kevin is right where he wants to be, with his Lord and Savior! John served on many Emmaus teams with Kevin and they shared many wonderful times together. Kevin was a wonderful leader and mentor and he will be truly missed!

Risa Spradling

October 13, 2008

I am shocked to hear the news of Kevin's passing. I worked with Kevin eighteen years ago at Chowan College in the Admissions Office. Kevin had a wonderful heart and a wonderful sense of humor. He literally saved my life during the biggest ice storm in the history of Hertford County! While that was a most serious moment, it has brought just loads of laughter from the memory of that day! And there are many, many memories---Walter's Grill, Kevin's mashed potatoes (the BEST), parking the house on the Chowan driving range! What fun.
What a kind and generous person he was. Even after all these years I still remember his deep love for his family, especially his parents. May God surround you all with His comfort and love in the hours, days, and years to come.
Thanks for all the memories and laughter, Kevin! We will see you soon.
Risa Pless Spradling

Krista Vicich

October 13, 2008

My sincerest condolences for your terrible loss. Though I knew Kevin only a short while, I know that the world was a better place because he was in it.

Pat Gainer

October 13, 2008

I will miss Kevin dearly. He was a friend to me and to Virginia Wesleyan College. I know Kevin is with his beloved Savior, now. Go in Love, Kevin my brother.

Susan Stack Class of '84

October 13, 2008

Mr and Mrs. Clary, I was shocked and stunned and having a hard time hearing about Kevin's passing. Kevin was a big brother to me in many ways. He was a Big Brother through Sigma Nu and in the dorm. Kevin always kept us on task when it was time to study and knew when it was time for a break. Kevin made those breaks the best times ever. There isn't a memory I have of Virginia Wesleyan that Kevin is not a part of. His cheerful emails will be missed.

Mary Harris

October 13, 2008

My deepest sympathies to the Clary family. I got to know Kevin when he was employed at Chowan University. He was a wonderful young man. My thoughts and prayers are with each of you.

diane shinault

October 13, 2008

Kevin was a wonderful person,I met Kevin through my daughter who worked with him at Beckys Hallmark and then would visit when we were in williamsburg. He was so plesent and always glad to see you he like my family was drawn into christmas,he was a christ loving man and will be missed on earth but God has other plans in heaven for him and one day we will meet again in the home the Lord has created for us,see you then Kevin. Diane Shinault

Pattie Kitchen

October 13, 2008

Dear Mr.Bill and Mrs.Elsie and Family,
I am so sorry to hear about Kevin.It feels like a dream to me.He was such an awesome friend to have.Our family thinks of him as one of our own.Hope God will heal your hearts soon.My mom Joan who is no longer with us loved Kevin so much so i know she is with him right now.My prayers go out to alll of you.God bless

Susan Bowden

October 13, 2008

I am in shock of Kevin's passing. Kevin was always the life of the party. We grew up together in Trinity United Methodist Church. Kevin was a little older and I always thought of him as the big brother of the youth group. We should all have peace in our hearts as we know Kevin is in heaven looking out for all of us. My prayers are with you and your family. (formally Susan Johnson)

william hall

October 13, 2008

Kevin will be missed by everyone who was lucky enough to know him , his joy of life ,always willing to help ,made murfreesboro a beter place while he was in our community . my deepest sympathy to his family

Rebecca Pettway

October 12, 2008

Kevin was a true gentleman whose warmth, compassion, and consideration for others served as an inspiration to those who knew him. He enjoyed helping people and was highly respected by his peers and colleagues. May God grant the Clary family strength and blessings during this time of mourning. I will miss Kevin deeply and loved him very much.

John/David McGrath/Horwitz

October 12, 2008

We only met Kevin recently at my nephew Christoper Volz's and niece Valerie Holcombe's graduation party last June. In the long weekend we all spent together, we felt as though we had known Kevin forever. He was so warm and welcoming to us all. Kevin meant so much to my sisters' families and he will be missed.

Chana Kostka Ball

October 12, 2008

Dear Mr. and Mrs. Clary and Family,

There are no words which adequately express my heartfelt sympathy in the loss of our dear Kevin. I was shocked and deeply saddened to learn of his unexpected passing. I have so many wonderful memories of Kevin from Virginia Wesleyan during our student days there. He and I also shared many war stories of being "on the road" as Admission Counselors. So many stories; so much laughter! Kevin lit up a room just by walking in the door. His warmth, generosity, kindness and humility will be remembered by all who have had the privilege of knowing him. Kevin truly left the world a better place by just being here. He will be tremendously missed. Please know that my thoughts and prayers remain with you and yours.

With deepest sympathy,
Chana Kostka Ball
VWC Class of 1983

Chris & Debi Davidson

October 12, 2008

A bright-sized life taken way too soon, devastating to all who knew him. An important part of our Virginia Wesleyan Family and our lives, we will miss him dearly. As we get to pick the finest flowers for our occassions, so does God our Father in Heaven. He chose a great one!

John LeGault, Jr.

October 12, 2008

What a great loss Kevin is to our United Methodist Church! He did so much good and was such a great person. He was always full of humor and Christian love. Deepest sympathy to his Mom and Dad and brother.
Rev. John T. LeGault, Jr.

Scott Willett

October 12, 2008

I am shocked by Kevin's passing. he was a great friend and fellow classmate at Virginia Wesleyan. Kevin will be missed in this life and has left us with many great memories of his friendship, wit, humor, and passion for whatever he was doing. My deepest sympathy to his family in this difficult time. I know that Kevin is at peace in heaven now.

Tom Meier

October 12, 2008

Friends and family of Kevin Clary,I was blessed by serving with Kevin on several Emmaus walks, the shining love of Jesus was clearly displayed on his face. I can only think that Kevin and Walter Goode are in heaven at the ultimate gathering with all the saints who now await our arrival. God bless Kevin and those who made Kevin the wonderful person he was towards me and others who talked so fondly of him.

Fred & Dean Townsend

October 12, 2008

Dear Bill and Elsie, please accept our deepest sympathy for your great loss. We all know where Kevin is, and praise God we hope to see him again some day. I personally enjoyed many Emmaus teaming experiences with Kevin and have never know a more dedicated Christian that he.

Doug Wilson

October 12, 2008

Dear Clary Family:
CIndy and I are stunned to hear of Kevin's death. Kevin was such a real person to know. Kevin was often missed as we left college--but never far from our thoughts. Our prayers are for the comfort of his family and friends - I am sure Kevin is rocking the house in his new place....
Doug & Cindy Wilson

Cathy Ellis

October 12, 2008

Dear Clary Family, please accept my sincerest sympathy for your tremendous loss and join you in the shocking surprise of his passing. To all who knew and loved Kevin........he was a son, a brother, a friend, a co-worker, a brother-in-Christ but more than all of these, he was the child of a Sovereign God who welcomed him to his eternal home this weekend! I had the wonderful opportunity to know Kevin as a co-worker at Becky's Hallmark but it didn't take long to realize we were brother and sister in Christ also. His smile and cheerful, uplifting nature will be missed. God has most definitely called home a shinning star ! !

BJ Wilkinson

October 12, 2008

To the Family of Kevin Clary:

Words cannot express the sorrow we feel as a body of brothers and sisters who knew and loved Kevin. He was missed as a friend when our lives took us in different directions, and his passing removes the chance we'll see him again in this life -- but not forever. My wife, Gail, and I send our deepest regrets and condolences during this difficult time.

BJ Wilkinson, Chief
Litchfield, Illinois Police Department
VWC Class of 1984

Mary RITTENBERRY

October 12, 2008

Dear Aunt Elsie & Uncle Bill, My prayers and thoughts are with you at this time. Kevin was a great guy and there was always a laugh when he was around--what great memories I will always have of him. I love you-- Mary (Rittenberry)

Daisy Hess

October 12, 2008

Dear Mr.And Mrs.Clary
I was so sad to hear of Kevins death.
He was such a happy person he will be remembered by many.God has taken another one of his children home.Bless You . Lynnette

Jack and Susan Smith

October 12, 2008

Dear Clary Family,

Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time. Kevin touched both of our hearts. He was such a wonderful person and made you feel special. We wish that we could be there to give you a hug. Our thoughts and prayers will be with you in the upcoming days. Love, Jack and Susan Smith

Mary Beth (Morris) Scruggs

October 12, 2008

Dear Mr. and Mrs. Clary,
My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time. Kevin was such a great guy. He brought a smile to my face and his words and deeds touched my heart.
Sincerely,

Kari George

October 12, 2008

Kevin was one of the first people to welcome me to VWC. It is truly a loss for his family, friends and the community as a whole. My deepest thoughts and prayers go out to the Clary family.

Gail Gulla

October 12, 2008

The Clary Family,

Please know how very sadden we are in the loss of a dear and special man Kevin.
He was our youth director of 1st Church Foxhill and our whole church is at lost of words in his untimely death.

We are ALL praying for you and may your memories bring you peace and joy and especially knowing he is now with Our Lord and Savior.............

Thinking of you,
The Gulla Family

Anthony Busic

October 12, 2008

I am stunned and saddened to hear of Kevin's death. I always enjoyed getting the chance to see him and talk to him. I will miss him greatly. My prayers are with all of you.

Eddie Page

October 12, 2008

I was shocked and saddened to learn of Kevins death. Over the past few years I have been priviledged and blessed to have known him and to serve God and our community together.. He will be missed by all of us, and my prayers will be with his loving family in the difficult days ahead .

Mary Wheat

October 12, 2008

So sorry for your loss. Kevin was a wonderful person and
will be missed by all.

Anita Matson Monroe

October 12, 2008

I am so shocked and saddened to hear of Kevin's passing. What a great friend he was! I will always remember his Southern drawl and enthusiasm for Virginia Wesleyan. My prayers are with his family. May you feel God holding you in the palm of His hand.

Julie LoCicero

October 12, 2008

My prayers are with the Clary family during this time of sorrow. Kevin and I had some wonderful times together and I will greatly miss him. -Julie LoCicero(formerly Julie Fox)

Thomas Carchman

October 12, 2008

We will miss a good brother. Kevin was my Sigma Nu Brother... He will be missed. My thought and prayers are with his family.

Thomas Carchman VWC 86

Derek & Kathy Hulick

October 12, 2008

We were shocked to hear the news. Kevin was always willing to give a smile to all he met. I feel prividged to have kown him. Our thoughts are with you.

Mary Durkovich Canter

October 12, 2008

My deepest sympathies to the Clary family. Kevin and I were friends in college, he was one my Big Brothers in Sigma Nu at VWC, and we kept in contact with each other in the past few years thru my parents at Conference each year. Kevin will be missed. I am so sorry to hear of his passing.

Kathy Fisher

October 11, 2008

I am so sad to hear that Kevin has gone, & my prayers are with his family & the many friends he had. I treasure the fact that I knew him. Kevin gave from his heart & blessed so many of us. He was a gift, & I will rejoice with him again. 1 Corinthians 13

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