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Matthew Kirkbride Obituary
Matthew C. Kirkbride VIRGINIA BEACH - Matthew Charles Kirkbride, 18, of the 3700 block of Forrester Lane, died Nov. 14, 2008, in Virginia Beach. He was born in Virginia Beach Nov. 9, 1990 and was a student at Green Run High School and Vo-Tech. Matthew is survived by his mother, Robyn Kirkbride of New York; his father, Maurice Zanders of Maryland; his maternal grandparents, Bob and Linda Kirkbride of Virginia Beach; and his paternal grandmother, Delores Etheridge of Virginia Beach. He is also survived by five sisters, Jade Smallegan of New York and Aislinn Zanders, Zynia Zanders, Felicia Zanders and Kayliah Zanders, all of Maryland; and two brothers, Bradon Dean and Ricky Dean, both of Virginia Beach. A funeral will be held at 3 p.m. Tuesday in Hollomon- Brown Funeral Home, Lynnhaven Chapel. The family will receive friends at the funeral home one hour prior to the service. Condolences may be offered to the family at www.hollomon-brown.com.
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Memories and Condolences
for Matthew Kirkbride
Carlos Mckinnon Jr.
December 13, 2008
My man Kirkbride i sit here smiling thinking of all the memories we have shared since the 6th grade at Plaza but then reality sets back in and I realize that when i go to school now i can't see you in the hall and say "Kirkbride what up bro?!?!" and you reply with a long "Los!!!" I seen you the day it happend me and Mikhail was chillin at my house when Hakeem gave us the news and spazed out just not wanting to believe it this was the first time i have cried in years but it was all out of love and respect things won't be the same with out you bro trust me your gonna be missed by us all watch over us from up top imma see you again one day bro...one day
peace & love homie
Tiffany Westfield
December 3, 2008
what can i say bout mr. matthew...i met him a green run. it was hilarious how we met. i was sitting on the bench outside of school in my cheerleading uniform waiting for my mom to pick me up. He came out the building and saw some boys obviously irritating me and he came over and pretneded to be my boyfriend. lol. it was so funny becaus he had no clue what my name was and kept calling me tiny. the boys eventually went away and he and i talked for a few. Since that day he's always say hey tiny to me in the halls. He was just a sweet person at heart and you could tell that he was driven and motivated by a love for people and especially his friends. He was an amazing person and a joy to know....and also a great pretend boyfriend.
Melanie Lee
November 24, 2008
I want to extend my heartfelt sadness to Jade and her family on the passing of her brother & son. My prayers and warm thoughts are with you at this time.
Melissa & Steve Dugan
November 20, 2008
We are sorry to hear of your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Jenn and Kenny Blakeney
November 20, 2008
Maurice, we are deeply hurt for you in your time of loss. I hope that God gives you the strength and power you need to get through this tragedy. Matthew will not be forgotten. With all of the joy, love, and happiness he shed on others and what others have for him, he will have enternal life. I am truly sorry that you have to go through such a heartbreaking experience. Just know that you are not alone. If you need anything, you know our doors are open as well as our hearts. Having a family of our own, I can only imagine what you must be feeling. So, I ask the Lord to bless you and your family. May God keep Matthew safe and keep him smiling. Mattew's spirit is still here, it's only his shell that is gone. Please call us if you need anything. We love you like a brother and your pain is our pain.
Kaitlin Stephenson
November 20, 2008
I met Matt when he was going to Bayside, he rode my bus and we were in the same study block. He was always laughing or trying to make someone else laugh. This whole time, over the past four or five days all I've been able to remember is one distinct memory about him. I had brought in three dozen or so cookies to school, I can't remember the exact reason but Matt and his friend Cody, kept asking for one and I kept telling them wait til we were on the bus and he kept making me laugh by doing and saying weird and random things so finally I caved and gave him some cookies. Now, even though we didn't hang out or talk that much anymore since he transferred to Green Run, Matt affected my life in a way I didn't see possible. I didn't realize it either, until I lost him. I'll never forget him and hopefully this happy laughing memory stays this vivid until the day I go to meet him up there.
Johanna Allison
November 20, 2008
Dear Linda,
I was shock to read this in the news paper. I said omg this is Linda's Grandson, Linda my deepest and warm wishes goes out to you and Bob. I knew Matthew was your heart. I remember him when he came into my class in children's world with a big smile and his cute curly hair. He will be missed by all.
With my deepest sympathy,
Johanna & Ralph Allison
Tiffany Milton
November 20, 2008
Matt was my friend every since middle school. we never had any disagreements about anything. he kept me smiling and laughing all the time. he was really bright and im going to miss him so much. it's hard for me to wake up, come to school, and not see him anymore. i love you matt. rest in paradise my dear friend.
Johanna Allison
November 20, 2008
Dear Linda,
MY heart goes out to you, cause i know Matthew was your heart,I can still see him comming in children's world comming into my class with his smile and curly hair. He will be missed by you and Bob dearly.My prayers go out to you and your family.
MY deepest sympathy,
Johanna & Ralph Allison
Amy
November 19, 2008
To the parents and family of Matthew Kirkbride:
I am a distant friend of a family member, and offer my condolences during this time of grief. May God Bless Matthew, his friends, and all the family and friends that are dealing here on earth. I pray that God's graces protect and heal your hearts, and that Matthew's life may be remembered and honored in every way possible.
Be most blessed.
Debbie Burton
November 19, 2008
Dear Linda and Family, I remember
your beautiful Grandson Matthew as a baby when I worked at Childrens world many years ago. I am deeply saddened by your tragic loss.
My thoughts and prayers are with
you and your Family at this time.
God Bless. Debbie Burton and
Family.
Lorin Dawley
November 19, 2008
I lived across the street from matt for a year. My fisrt day walking to the bus stop he introduced himself to me. From that point on we were really good friends. One day walking home from the bus stop he said we were going to build a bridge from my roof top to his so we could walk over it to see eachother when ever we wanted. We called each other bridge buddies. We were also in summer school together, I dont think it would have been barable without him. I lost touch with matt for about a month after i graduated GreenRun. i saw him monday before he died he was driving past my job we talked for a minute exchanged numbers again, and said we needed to hang out again. then i found he had pas away. i fell to the ground crying, i could not believe my bridge buddy was gone. It is the hardest thing ever to lose a friend like matt. I am sorry for your loss. He will be carried in my heart forever and always.
Melodie
November 19, 2008
Our hearts are saddened by the tragic loss of your son Matt. We do not know your family but as parents of a senior we cannot imagine your grief. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. God Bless You.
Cindy Eckley(Lentz)
November 19, 2008
Matt was one of my best friends, I met him on his very first day of high school, which was at Bayside before he transferred to Green Run. He was the nicest person you would ever meet and the best friend you could ever wish to have. Back when I first met him we made a nickname for him that still sticks with the people who met him then, it was Smiley and it fits him well I don't ever think I have seen him without a smile he is going to be greatly missed I love you man I always will save a spot for us.
Carmen Garcia
November 19, 2008
I have attended the same school as Matt since elementary school! i wasn't bestfriends with him,but i knew him well! i wish i could of got to know him much more.! he was a great,funny, kind boy! Everytime i saw him he either had me smiling or laughing! i just want to let you know im very sorry for your loss but he will never be forgotten!
Tina Salley
November 19, 2008
To the Parents and Family of Matthew Kirkbride,
As a parent my heart mourns with you. I pray that God will carry you through and beyond this time and grant you all you need to press forward. Hold on to the memories and keep his spirit alive.
Tina Salley, Norfolk
Michele Bryan NaCoal Ryder
November 18, 2008
We send our deepest condolences during your time of sorrow and
ask that God blankets family and friends with comfort and understanding during this very difficult time. Matthew will truly be missed by all who knew
him. God Bless.
Sam Frazier
November 18, 2008
Matt was one of my best friends. I've known him since we were 10 o 11 Its so sad to see him go. But i will always remeber everything i've learned over the years of hanging out with him. He was such an upbeat person. Im going to miss him and all his jokes he had for everything. Rest In Peace. Much Love homie
J Hopson
November 18, 2008
Never had the pleasure of meeting Matthew, however I am sorry to hear of your loss. You and your family are in my prayers.
Andrew Brower
November 18, 2008
R.I.P: Matthew has been my boy since we were in daycare and i never got a chance to just chill with him until like two weeks ago. Im so glad that i got that opportunity. R.I.P my dude, much love.
Kelly Etrata
November 18, 2008
Linda & Family-I have not seen Matthew since he was in Elementary School and attending Children's World. Matthew will never be forgotten. I will keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers. Let me know if there is anything I can do for you and your family durnig this difficult time.
"Skee"
November 18, 2008
matt was the most awesomest dude he mad every class great. I had him in at least one class since 9th grade and he was great. R.I.P Bro
Connie
November 18, 2008
I did not know your son personally, but like others in the community am so sorry to know of your loss. Please know you and your families are in our prayers.
David Loop
November 18, 2008
Maurice Zanders its been almost 20 years since ive seen you im sorrry for your loss brotha your eternal freind David Loop 757-589-8379
Idelle Suarez
November 17, 2008
I am so sorry to hear that it was your Matthew that passed away. I heard the name when it was said and it did not dawn on me until later on. You are in my thoughts and prayers. May god bless you and your family in your time of need.
Nursing Program Tech Center
November 17, 2008
You are in our prayers. Psalms 119 says "Precious in the sight of God is the death of one of His saints." We do not always understand God's ways but we know He is always with us even unto the ends of the earth and He will be with you through this sorrow.
Hakeem Williams
November 17, 2008
I mean that friday I was talking to matt and its crazy how you are just talking to some one and the next minute there gone here is my condolences to the kirkbride family I'm sorry for your son's lost
Shannon Moe
November 17, 2008
I am deeply saddened to hear of your loss. My son is deeply moved as well as they were friends. My family is praying for you as you go through this time of loss.
Julie Bailey (CWLC) West
November 17, 2008
Linda, I am so saddened to hear of one of my favorite former "students." He brought such light to the day with his smile and laughter. Please know I am thinking of you and your family and pray that you have strength through this time.
Janine Ruberti
November 17, 2008
I have known Matt (or Moses as we called him) for years, my nephew Michael Lewis was his best friend. I can remember a halloween a few years back, gosh they must of been 14 and I talked them into letting me dress them up! It was so funny. Matt was a great young man he always seemed to have a smile on his face! My thoughts and prayer are with his family and friends! His work here on earth is done, but the lessons that he has taught us will last forever. I have learned from him that you should always smile! :) Cause even though at times life will get you down, a smile just helps lift your spirits.... God of faithfulness, in Your wisdom You have called Your son Matthew out of this world; release him from the bonds of sin, and welcome him into Your Presence, so that he may enjoy eternal light and peace and be raised up in glory with all Your saints. Amen. I am sure that Matt has received his wings and will be watching over all of us for years to come. You will be missed RIP Matt/Moses keep smiling down on us!
keith allen
November 16, 2008
thank you for sharing your son,grandson,and brother with the world.we are grateful
Peggy, Bruce and Laura Fenstermaker
November 16, 2008
Linda and Family - we were so saddened to hear about Matthew's passing. I am so sorry for your loss - Matthew was such a great kid - I always remember him smiling and happy and I know he loved you dearly. Our prayers are with you and your family
Brittany Hevey
November 16, 2008
I am a Green Run High School student that went to Matthews school. I was in the 12th grade with your son Matthew. I knew your son very little through out our years at Green Run. I have spoken to him a few times. Matthew was a gentlemen and very kind and sweet. I remeber one time he helped me with math homework because i didnt understand it. He helped me understand a lot better. I thanked him. I want to send condoulences to the family and friends of Matthew from GRHS and outside of school. May you live and love your family through out the years. God Bless Matthew Kirkbride and may God and Jesus keep you safe and healthy up in heaven. I know God has a place for him as Beautiful as he was and may he love his family and friends. Rest In Peace and God Bless you Matthew Kirkbride. We love you forever. You will never be forgotten.
Donna Schucker
November 16, 2008
I did not know Matt, but as a teacher at Green Run I know many of his friends. My thoughts and prayers go out to them and to your entire family during this time of sorrow and grief. Your family, the Green Run family, and community have suffered a profound loss and tragedy.
Sincerely,
Donna Schucker
Michele Castner
November 16, 2008
God Bless you all! I lost my only child, Jason, to a car accident when he was 20 years old. Time and prayers (a lot of TIME and PRAYER) will help carry you through this intense journey of grief that lies ahead. It has been 11 years and the pain has eased somewhat. Unless you've buried your own child it's difficult to understand the "Grief Journey". Matthew is in Heaven now and he is a very special angel to you all!
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