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Theodore Schetzel Obituary
Theodore F. Schetzel III VIRGINIA BEACH - Ted, aka "Superman," 39, of Opal Avenue, died Nov. 25, 2008, surrounded by his family. This ended his 5-year battle with cancer. He was our Superman; he never gave up and battled with courage, strength and love till the very end. Ted was born in Albany, N.Y., and graduated from Columbia High School, Class of 1987. He moved his family to Virginia Beach to expand his business and spend more time with his family. He never wanted to stop and worked in his woodshop, creating gifts and memories for family and friends. Ted will be missed by many who loved and looked up to him. Ted is survived by his wife, Karen; son, Kyle, 18; daughter, Samantha, 15; two sisters, Jodie Carusone and husband Leo and son Johnny of Delmar, N.Y., Kelly Schetzel and her daughter Nicole and son Mikey of Clifton Park, N.Y.; one brother, Nick Schetzel and wife Melissa and daughter Isabella of Virginia Beach. Ted is also survived by his parents, Rosemary and Ted Schetzel of Norfolk. A celebration of life service will be held at 11 a.m. Saturday in the Church of Ascension, 405 Talbot Hall Road, Norfolk. In lieu of flowers, please consider a donation for the kid's college education or a charity of your choice. The Cremation Society of Virginia is in charge.
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Memories and Condolences
for Theodore Schetzel
Kim Carlock
December 18, 2009
Karen, Kyle and Sam,
I have tried to write in this book so many times. I just end up erasing it and thinking I would try again later. I just wanted to let you know what an impact Ted made in our lives. I remember smacking him as much as I laughed at him. He could always make you laugh. My boys will always remember their Uncle Ted. It makes Chris very sad to talk about him still. He has a hard time understanding why things like that happen. As do the rest of us. He draws Superman a lot, and he never did before.
Jason has the true innocense of a 6 year old. He constantly talks about his uncle Ted. He still rubs his rock and says that he can see him. I truly believe that sometimes he can. Jeff and I lost a brother. We too have not figured out how to deal with that yet.
Ok. I did it and I will not erase it this time.
We love you all so much. Our thoughts and prayers are with you always and especialy this time of year.
Suzanne & Greg Carlock
November 29, 2009
We remember your wedding and wondering if such a young man could make a good husband. He looked like he still had a lot of partying left in him. We remember seeing you at Jeff's wedding and watching Ted play with a very young Kyle and thought how happy he looked. At Chris and Rona's wedding it was so beautiful to see how happy you all were and what a devoted husband and father Ted was. His spirit and zest for life will live on in our memories.
Holly Warner
November 25, 2009
Karen, I cant believe its been a year already. I miss you and I hope all is well with you and the kids. Call me sometime.
Dawn Hilbert
November 25, 2009
Karen, i cant beleive its been a year already! I havnt seen you guys in a few years but i will never forget the laughter that ted always brought with him. weather it be just hanging out or at a birthday party he alwasy lit up the room and put a smile on everyones face!
Jamie Lynn Zocchi
December 30, 2008
Karen, Kyle & Samantha: His love for family, friends, life and laughter, I will always keep with me.
John Questore
December 12, 2008
Karen, Kyle & Sam,
They say you can't judge a book by it's cover - I say that isn't true. I only met Ted once (and it was fairly recent), but I couldn't help thinking what a "cool guy" he must have been. Then hearing the stories at the service, I knew my first impression was right.
I know it's hard to not have him in your life anymore - I want you to know that after hearing more about him I find it hard to have NOT had him in mine. I think we would have been good friends.
Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Donovan Ayotte
December 9, 2008
we miss you teddy
terri&leighanne, walsh& truelove
December 9, 2008
KAREN,KYLE,SAMANTHA,
you are in our thoughts and prayers always. Ted has been promoted to a better place.I know he is up there watching over you all.It has been our honor to have known him.
Michelle Kahler
December 8, 2008
Karen,
I knew Ted when he was a young boy... I tried to keep up with all that was happening through his sister Kelly... I just want to send my prayer's your way, and knowing him as a boy, it dont surprise me the man he turned into!!!
Rest Ted, you earned it beyond words!
Cathy Tanguay
December 8, 2008
Karen, Kyle & Samantha,
Bobby and I are so sorry for your loss. Ted was a truely awesome guy who always made you laugh until you cried. He will be missed by all.
Love Cathy
Colleen Winklarek
December 8, 2008
Karen, Kyle & Sam, We are so very sorry for your loss. Ted was such a good guy and we will miss him. Love, Colleen, Frank, Nicoleen & Jeff
Pat Duzey
December 8, 2008
To Ted's family,
I would have wished a different journey for you this past five years, and that Ted still graced this planet today. But I have been inspired by the courage and faith each of you has shown in the short time I've known you. I am grateful to have had time with Ted during dive classes, to know that the love between each of you and Ted is strong and can transcend physical boundaries. Ted's spirit is stronger still; keep your hearts open to his presence and feel his love.
Pat Duzey
Roger Mahar
December 4, 2008
To the Schetzel Family,
Words cannot express the sorrow we all feel at this time, we are very sorry for your loss and hope time will heal your hearts.
Cousin Roger Mahar, Carol Mahar, Dawn Preissler and Jenna Mahar
LIZ, CHUCK, JACOB and JOSHUA HERNDON
December 4, 2008
Karen, Kyle and Samantha,
We are so truly sorry for your loss. What a wonderful human being Ted was - we will always remember how welcome you all made our son Jacob feel when he would come over to visit with Kyle. You are all in our prayers.
Elaine & John Questore
December 4, 2008
Dear Karen, Kyle & Samantha,
Our thoughts & prayers are with you.
Lori Hirsch
December 3, 2008
Karen, Kyle and Samantha, I am so sorry for your loss. Ted is my cousin that I lost touch with some years ago. I have been told of what a wonderful husband and dad he turned out to be. I viewed recent photos on-line and it was very emotional to see everyone again. I will be seeing all of you this weekend for Ted's service. Lori and family.
Linda Seeberger
December 3, 2008
Ted Schetzel Family,
It is with great sadness we extend our sympathy, our thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
The Snyder and Seeberger Family
Jerry Wallace
December 2, 2008
Ted was a good friend and neighbor, and I am so thankful to have known him. Karen, Kyle, and Sam our thoughts and prayes are with you all.
Pete Allison Jr
December 2, 2008
I was very sorry to hear about your loss. He was a very Brave individual, and I know He will truly be missed. If there is any thing that I can do, please don't hessitate to ask.
Michelle Durfee
December 2, 2008
Karen, Kyle, & Samantha:
I am truly sorry for your loss. Ted was an absolutely amazing man and displayed courage like no other. He is certainly going to be missed. I hope that the support from your family and friends will help you get through this difficult time. Talk to you soon. Love, Michelle Durfee
elaine nistle
December 2, 2008
dear karen ,kyle,sam and family our thoughts are with you .if you need anything just ask . we will miss ted .
george and elaine nistle
Darel Cramer
December 2, 2008
Ted, Rosie, Nick and Missy--
Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Ed and Darel Cramer
Christine Eriole Bugbee
December 2, 2008
Jodie, Kelly, Mr. and Mrs. Schetzel and family, I was so sorry to see this in the paper this morning. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you,take care
Love, Chrissy Eriole Bugbee
Carrie Mehl
December 2, 2008
I am glad that I got to visit with him before he passed away. He will be truly missed. He was a wonderful man and fought until the very end. He was a true "superman". Love to all and find strength in God. He will pull you through. Love Carrie
Karen & Art Downey
December 2, 2008
Rose, Ted & family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
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