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Thomas A. Gates Jr. NORFOLK - Thomas A. Gates Jr. died Dec. 7, 2008. He was born Aug. 3, 1927, to the late Thomas A. and Ruby W. Gates and was a native of Norfolk. Tommy graduated from Maury High School where he played football, basketball and baseball. His excellence in baseball propelled him into the minor league farm team for the Pittsburgh Pirates. He continued his baseball interests in the Chesapeake Athletic Club and the Norfolk City Leagues. Tommy also utilized his athletic ability to foster young athletic dreams as a Little League basketball and football coach. In addition to his involvement in community sports, he was also a member of Larchmont United Methodist Church and the Norfolk Yacht and Country Club. At the end of his life, Tommy was an employee of Tycon Medical where he met individuals that helped him complete his last days with a smile. The most important aspect of Tommy's life was his family, which he loved unconditionally and supported without hesitation. He was predeceased by his two loving sons, T. Wayne Gates and Charles "Chuck" L. Gates. He is survived by his loving wife of 59 years, Eugenia W. Gates; daughter, Patricia and her husband William Jones; sister, Coral Lee and her husband Gerald Foster; brother-in-law, Jimmy Willis and his wife Connie; aunt, Dot Odom; grandchildren, Kellie and David Putnam, Jason Gates, Tiffany and Weston Gates, Ryan Jones, Thomas Gates, Brandon Gates, Lauren Gates and Kellyn Hendricks; great-grandchildren, Maddison Gates and Thomas Gates. A church service will be held at 2 p.m. Wednesday in Larchmont United Methodist Church. Burial will follow in Forest Lawn Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be made to Larchmont Methodist United Church, 1101 Jamestown Crescent, Norfolk, VA 23508. H.D. Oliver Funeral Apts., Norfolk Chapel, is handling arrangements. Online condolences may be offered to the family through www.hdoliver.com.

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Published by The Virginian-Pilot on Dec. 9, 2008.

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Kristy Alexander

December 10, 2008

To Mrs. Gates, Tricia, Willy, Kelly, Jay, Weston, Ryan, Brandon, Thomas, and Lauren: Sorry to hear of your loss, my heart goes out to all of my second family. Had I known, I would be there. May the wonderful memories of such a great man bring you comfort in your time of sorrow.
love, Kristy Alexander

Willie Jenkins

December 9, 2008

Tommy you will always be in my prayers. You were a great team mate and a good friend. God Bless.......Willie Jenkins Palm Bay.Fl.

Kathleen and Mike Putnam

December 9, 2008

"G", Tricia, Willie and Kellie: we are so sorry for your loss. I know that Grand Dad was such a special person in your family, and will be dearly missed. Our family will keep yours in our thoughts and prayers. Love, Kathleen and Mike and Family

John Flanagan

December 9, 2008

Dear Eugenia & Family,
We were saddened to hear of your loss. We have known Thommy and the family for many years both through his activity within the community and the family membership at the Larchmont United Methodist Church. May God bless each of you as you cope with your loss and relive your wonderful moments and memories. We also send our special thoughts and condolences to Coral Lee. We will keep you in our prayers.
Love to all,
Betty McIntyre Flanagan & John Flangan

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