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Ruth G. Unruh SUFFOLK - Ruth G. Unruh, 60, passed away peacefully Dec. 9, 2008, after a short battle with lung cancer. She was predeceased by her parents, Ludwig and Ursula Barthold and her sister, Monika. Ruth was born in Bamberg, Germany, and came to the U.S. in 1969. In 1985, she became a naturalized citizen. Ruth worked many jobs, but found her calling in real estate with William E. Wood and Associates. In 2002, Hal and Ruth moved from Chesapeake to Guantanamo Bay, Cuba, where they stayed until this year. In Cuba, Ruth was known as the "Insurance Lady." She is survived by her best friend and loving husband of 35 years, Harold M. Unruh Jr.; her four daughters, Jean Rush and her husband Michael, Lilian Kress, Roswitha "Rosy" Carper and her husband Randall, Erika Williams and her husband Greg; and her stepson, Shawn Unruh. She is also survived by her grandchildren, Kristofer A. Kress, Nicole, Jessica and Monica Rush, Katelyn and Zachary Carper, Matthew and Riley Williams and Carol Ann, Jessica and Jamie Unruh; and one great-grandchild. Surviving family in Germany include her brother, Peter Barthold, her brother-in-law, Franz Barthold and many cousins. She will be missed by the many friends made in Cuba, as well as those left behind here and especially her two cats, Teddy Bear and Fluffball. A memorial service will be held Saturday at 3 p.m. in Baker-Foster Funeral Home, Bennett's Creek Chapel, with Pastor Tommy Larson of Nansemond River Baptist Church presiding. The family will receive friends one hour prior to the service. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the American Cancer Society.

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Published by The Virginian-Pilot on Dec. 11, 2008.

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The Carpers

January 4, 2009

Dear Dad,
We love you and are here for you for all your days. We will always miss mom\ meme.
Love Randy, Rosy, Katelyn and Zachary

Marie Cox

January 2, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Ruth you will surely be greatly missed by your GTMO family - although I only saw you when it was time to renew my insurance you were always friendly and always a pleasure to talk too. you will be greatly missed!

Theresa Cahoon

December 15, 2008

Dear Family, My heart goes out to you all, and I pray that God comfort and give you peace knowing Ruth is at rest with the Angels and Him, The Father in Heaven.

May God Bless You!
Love,

Olivia O'Neal

December 15, 2008

How well I remember the two of you while I was in GTMO. Just this week, I let the CNRSE FFSC POC know I was ready to return to GTMO if there was ever a vacancy.
Little did I expect to receive/open this email today to learn of Ruth's death. I am so sorry for you all. It is my prayer that in her short illness all of you were able to say your farewells before she passed. It is always a good thing to end this life with all the loose ends tied.
My thoughts and prayers go to you all. If there is anything I can do for you, please let me know. I am "down the street" now myself--living off Independence and working at Little Creek. I wish I had known sooner that Ruth was ill. I always rest in knowing that God knows best. And best, as far as I am concerned, is to be in the presence of family and close friends upon departure from this life into the next.

God bless you all,

Olivia O'Neal
757-462-8259

Michael & Noeme Spiker

December 15, 2008

Capt. Hal:

You're a very dear friend to us, be it known that our thoughts and prayers go with you and family especially in this very sad moments.

GOD BLESS...

Love & pray,

Jean Marraccini

December 15, 2008

We've just learned of Ruth's passing and want to extend our deepest sympathy to her family. Ruth was part of our GTMO family and we will hold onto our fond memories of her.

Cynthia Miller

December 13, 2008

I am truly sad and sorry for your loss. I send my heartfelt condolences to you and your family. She was a friend during my GTMO years and always kept in touch afterwards. You are all in my prayers.

John & Melody Adams

December 13, 2008

Capt. Hal & Family:

Our hearts are filled with sadness at your loss of Ms. Ruth. We can not imagine the pain you feel now but we wanted to let you know that our loving thoughts are with you.

John & Melody Adams (Moab, UT)

Michael & Noeme Spiker

December 13, 2008

You've been a very good friend to us, we're always in your guest list in all special occasions and holidays we spent in GTMO, you will always be remembered as one very special person in our hearts. Sincerely, our deepest condolences go to your loved ones.

God be with you as you travel in His heavenly kingdom.

Bill Shields

December 12, 2008

Hal, Ida and myself are so sorry to hear of Ruths passing. She was a very nice lady and was very helpful to us when we bought our first home. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Sunny & Rodiemer Morales

December 12, 2008

Our deepest condolence to Capt. Hal and Family. May you rest in peace Ms. Ruth.

Cathy Santos

December 12, 2008

My sincere condolence to Capt. Hal and Family. I know Ms. Ruth will be in peace. I was one of the many lives she has touch. I will remember all the good things she has told me about life. May she rest in peace.

Lynn Miller

December 12, 2008

My deepest condolences to Hal and the family on the loss of Ruth. I was priveleged to have known her and the wonderful warmness and spirit she had.

Rick /Cecilia Goundry

December 12, 2008

We were so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.

Cecilia /Rick Goundry

December 12, 2008

Hal& Family

Ruth will be greatly missed from all of us here at GTMO.
Everyone knew her as a nice and one hard working lady.
Rest & Peace my friend.

Jim and Ann Upton

December 12, 2008

Jean,
Our condolences to you and your family at this very difficult time. You are in our thoughts and prayers daily.

Taylor Edwards

December 12, 2008

Each of us brings to the world unique talents, gifts and abilities. Thank you Ruth for sharing yours with the Edwards Family. Our thought and prayers were with the family from the beginning and will continue. Ruth was missed the moment she left the island. God Bless and keep you all. Taylor, Laniye, Langston.( Both sons received their first auto insurance from Ruth). Our insurance Lady and friend.

Larry & Monique Casper

December 12, 2008

Ruth is forever in our thoughts, hearts and prayers. She is truely
missed.

Dan & Ava Ciemny

December 12, 2008

Hal & Family
Our condolences on the demise of Ruth. She will be dearly missed and our prayers and thoughts go out to you and your family

Robert Horton

December 12, 2008

Hal And Family,
My heart goes to you all for your loss. Ruth was a great friend and the best secretary I ever had.
I personally know what you are going through as my family loss our son Robbie this week also.
Our prayers go out to your family that God will keep you strong through it all.

Paul & Pam Reed

December 11, 2008

Though we're saddened about Ms. Ruth's passing, we are also joining Capt. Hal, Erika and their family in celebration of her joining with our Creator. Capt. Hal, Ms. Ruth might not be with us here on earth but she will be in our hearts forever. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Ellis and Reena Voivedich

December 11, 2008

Our deepest sympathy to you, Cpt Hal, and your family. Ms. Ruth is in a better place now, no more suffering and pain but of course we will miss her so much.

God Bless.

Wendy Carbaugh

December 11, 2008

We are so sorry to hear of Ruth's passing. Ruth sold us our first home in Western Branch. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. She will truly be missed.

Leslie

December 11, 2008

I'll include you and your family on my prayers... May you rest in peace Ms. Ruth.

CAPT and Mrs. Peter Husta

December 11, 2008

Please accept our condolences. We knew Ruth through her selfless work for the elderly Cuban population here on base. She was happy to give her time and knowledge to help those who could not help themselves. She left many friends who will miss her, and we will pray so that the rest of the family finds peace.

Debbie & Tom Davis

December 11, 2008

Hal and Family,
We are so sorry for your loss. Hal, you and Ruth were great neighbors, she will be missed.

Denise Clark

December 11, 2008

The American Red Cross extends our deep condolences. Ruth contributed many years as a distinguished Red Cross Volunteer, helping make life better for service members of the Naval Station Guantanamo Bay. We greatly appreciate your humanitarian service.

JoAnn & Don King

December 11, 2008

Unruh Family,
Our deepest sympathy on the passing of Ruth, a truly lovely lady who always had a smile for her friends and insurance customers alike in GTMO.

William Tinker

December 11, 2008

Ruth and Hal opened their home and hearts to many of us in GTMO. She was my Thanksgiving and Christmas savior. She will be greatly missed. She and her family are in my heart and my prayers.

Lilian Kress

December 11, 2008

Dear Mom: Im going to miss you dearly and wish we had more time together but I am thankful for what we shared. Love Lilian

Tek Roque

December 11, 2008

I will always remember the very accomodating insurance lady of GTMO. May your soul rest in peace.

Ed, Edwin & Donna Ballesteros

December 11, 2008

our depeest condolences

Ron & Jackie Weldon

December 11, 2008

Please accept our sincere condolences from Ron & Jackie.

Austin & Becky Nash

December 11, 2008

Hal and Family, May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
We enjoyed the good times in Gitmo with you and Ruth. You and Ruth had many friends in Gitmo that won't forget.

Dan Vershay

December 11, 2008

Please accept my condolences to Hal and Family.
Ruth was a real friend and a professional in many fields of work.
I will miss her.
Good luck Hal.

Beverly & Kenny Buonviri

December 11, 2008

Hal and family,
We are so sadden by the passing of Ruth. She will be missed here in GTMO! We pray that your cherished memories bring you peace in the coming days.
Beverly & Kenny Buonviri

FABIAN EVANS

December 11, 2008

Mrs Ruth Unruh you will be sadly missed by my Son Quwaine Hall and myself. You will always be in our thoughts and prayers. You are gone but not forgotten.
Love you Mrs Ruth Unruh

Darkias (Dar) Berry

December 11, 2008

I will surely miss Ruth and hope that she knew what a special and lovely lady she was. There is definitely a hole left in many of the hearts here in Guantanamo Bay. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Jack Welch

December 11, 2008

Ruth in a short period of time touched Judy and I. Judy talked of getting close to her when she came to GTMO permantetly. She told me she enjoyed her outgoing personality. As for me, I don't think I will ever pay another insurance premium or take a pet to a Vet without thinking of her. God bless and keep her in his care.

Marty & Nelly Bryant

December 11, 2008

In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always.

Maria French

December 11, 2008

our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Ruth was always a happy lady.

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