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Mary Smentek Obituary

Mary Smentek CHARLOTTESVILLE - Mary Smentek, a resident of Golden Living Cedars, died Jan. 30, 2009. She was 91. Born in 1917 in East Chicago, Ind., Mary was the daughter of Magdalena Romanski and Paul Yakemenko and the stepdaughter of Julius Kuliczkowski. She was preceded in death by her husband of 36 years, Walter; sisters, Jean Bucholz, Anne Lekas and Lillian Coolidge; brother, Michael Coolidge; and her friend, Wanda Butera. She is survived by her daughter and son-in-law, Marian and John Anderfuren of Charlottesville; two grandchildren whom she loved dearly, Jay Austin Anderfuren of Norfolk and Cass Marie Anderfuren of Portsmouth; loving nieces, Dolores Farinella of Lincolnshire, Ill., and Joanne Levine of Vernon Hills, Ill.; favorite nephew, Gerald Lekas of Glenview, Ill.; along with great-nieces and -nephews; and her friends at the JC Penney Salon in Chesapeake Square. Mary was a member of Church of the Resurrection in Portsmouth. A Mass of Christian burial will be celebrated there at 11:30 a.m. Tuesday by the Rev. Michael Boehling. Friends may join the family at church Tuesday one hour prior to the Mass and at a reception in the church social hall following the burial. Burial will be next to her husband in Meadowbrook Memorial Gardens, Suffolk. Donations may be made to Oasis Social Ministry, 1020 High St., Portsmouth, VA 23704. Foster Funeral Home, Portsmouth, is handling arrangements.

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Published by The Virginian-Pilot on Feb. 1, 2009.

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Victoria Pattison

February 2, 2009

I have SO many fond memories of Auntie Mary. She was always happy and kept you laughing. I know she is doing the same thing in heaven now as she reunites with all of our dearly departed loved ones. She will be missed and I am so honored to have had her as a "Great Aunt" as she will always be just that!

Cynthia Slotten

February 1, 2009

Aunt Mary was a neat lady. She was also so pleasant and mostly in the kitchen or at the ironing board back when she was in Arlington Heights, Illinois. She was a fantastic cook and baker - the best oatmeal cookies you could ever taste. We're so glad she lived a long, happy life with the people she loved the most.

Debbi Ferguson

February 1, 2009

So many memories. May they surround you and bring comfort to you now and in the days ahead. Love that lives on in our hearts never dies. Holding you close in thought and prayer. Love, Debbi

Joanne & Ron Levine

February 1, 2009

Our Aunt Mary was a dear, sweet and very funny lady. We will all miss her.

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