Gary L. Gray

Gary Gray Obituary

Gary Gray IVOR - Gary L. Gray, 42, of the 10000 block of New Road, died Feb. 3, 2009, in a Suffolk hospital. He was a native of Norfolk, grew up in Chesapeake and has lived in Ivor for the last 15 years. He was the son of the late Ross C. Gray. He was a hunter, dog lover and friend and was employed with East Coast Fire Protection. Survivors include his wife of 18 years, Cheryl Gray of Ivor; his daughter, Amanda; his mother, Diane Gray; his sisters, Teresa, Lisa, Shelly and Brenda; his brother, Donald; and many nieces and nephews. The family would like to thank all their friends in Ivor including Lewis Coats who was like his father next door and his wife Barbara, his friends at EMC and coworkers for all their support during his illness. A memorial service will be held Friday at 5 p.m. in the Chesapeake Chapel of H.D. Oliver Funeral Apts. The family will receive friends in the funeral home following the service. In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be sent to the American Lung Association, 61 Broadway, New York, New York, 10006. Online condolences may be sent to the family at hdoliver.com.

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Published by The Virginian-Pilot on Feb. 5, 2009.

Memories and Condolences
for Gary Gray

13 Entries

April (Raper) Dail

February 7, 2009

Dear Gray Family,

I am so very sorry for your loss. I know that words along can not diminish the hurt and sorrow you and you family must be suffering. I can only pray that the memories you shared can help you through you time of need.
My brothers and I grow up with Gary in Portsmouth. When ever you wanted to find Gary, you could always do so at the 7-eleven. Gary almost killed me on his scooter once by allowing me to jump on it and not telling me how to stop it. And then instead of helping me after I busted my butt he and Terry Hannen just sat there laughing at me. We used to have so much fun just doing stupid things like that or should I say they did. He was a wonderful person and He will be dearly missed. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

Andi Wyant-Caswell

February 6, 2009

Wow what a sweet heart that man had. Me and my first husband knew Gary back in our late teens. He was a funny, caring, loving person. I remember times at Sleepy Hole Park having a ball on Sundays!
Please accept my condolences and I will keep you in my prayers. He will always be looking over ya'll. Take care.

Brandy White

February 6, 2009

To All Gary's family and friends: I was only truly close to Gary as a child. I remember the love I had for him and how he was my favorite uncle. But, by far the most memorable thing I can tell you is that when Gary was happy his eyes could tell you more than his smile. I know we'll all miss him more than we can ever express, but I hope people remember him for that happiness more than the loss of him. I think he'd want it that way.
Aunt Shelly, I know your loss is more than you will ever be able to find the words for. Please remember that death is not an end, but a new beginning. I love you all and will miss getting to know Gary more.

Donald and Jaclyn Priest

February 6, 2009

Cherly, Amanda:
My prayers are with you. Gary is a great man and he will deeply be missed. May God be with you in this time of need. It has been a great road that Gary,You, and Amanda has shared, Just remember that Gary,You, and Amanda will always be in our hearts. WE LOVE YOU VERY MUCH>

William, Ginger, & Tyler Powell

February 6, 2009

Gary was a wonderful friend to our family. He was always there to lend a helping hand when we needed him. He will be greatly missed by all who knew him! Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Sam,Seth,and Jackson Baker

February 5, 2009

To Cheryl and Amanda. My families thoughts and prayers are with you both. Gary was a great man who touched everyone he knew deeply. He will forever be remembered.

Raven and James Baker-Holland

February 5, 2009

To Cheryl and Amanda our thoughts and prayers are with you both in this time of need,and though it may be hard you both can take comfort in the fact that the two of you got to spend time with a great man, who will forever be in our hearts.

Deannie Fash

February 5, 2009

My deepest condolences to Cheryl and Amanda. Gary was one of my best friends growing up and your best friend and loving husband in adult hood and I want you to know Gary will always be with the people he loved throughout his life. He loved you and Amanda dearly and my prayers are with you.

Dave, Brenda, and Ben Hodgson

February 5, 2009

Gary was a good person and a wonderful friend. We will keep you in our thoughts and prayers. May you find comfort in God's loving arms.

Linwood and Deanna Baker

February 5, 2009

Dear Cheryl and Amanda, Our prayers are with You and Amanda at this time of grieve. We loved Gary as one of our own. We will miss him a great deal. But I will never forget the years of happy times that we all shared. He will never be far away from us. I only have to think of him to bring a smile to my face. We are family and never more than a call away.

Becky Cutchins

February 5, 2009

Dear Cheryl and Amanda,
Please know you can call on me any time - day or night - if you need anything or just want someone to talk to. Hold on to those great memories of Gary to get you through this tough time. I'm so sorry for your loss.

Bear & Mindy Baker

February 5, 2009

In loving memory of a wonderful person, we love you and will miss you always. Our prayers are with you and Amanda in this time of need. Please do not hesitate to call if there is anything we can do.

DEE PARKER-MITCHELL

February 5, 2009

DEAR CHERYL AND AMANDA,
OUR THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU AND YOUR ENTIRE FAMILY DURING THIS TIME. MAY GOD GIVE YOUR THE STRENGTH AND COURAGE YOU NEED AND HOPE HE WILL BLESS YOU ALL.
DEE PARKER-MITCHELL
RUSTBURG VA
(BRENDA'S SISTER)

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