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Fred Reed
August 23, 2025
I served With Captain Barr onboard USS Saipan has his Senior Yeoman. He was a wealth of knowledge and is greatly missed. Rest in Peace XO.
Larry Larmeu,Jr.
March 16, 2009
To the family of Captain Barr, I was sorry to learn of your loss. Served with him on the USS Plymouth Rock. May he forever have fair winds and following seas.
Susan Creeden
February 26, 2009
We always enjoyed the visits from you and Bob at my parents (Martha Lamond and the late Tim O'Keefe) home. Always so much fun to visit with you! You were warm and true friend of our family. Please accept our deepest condolences. -Susan O'Keefe Creeden and Family: Bill, Brad, Mikey and Billy
Alma Casanova
February 21, 2009
Kathy, my deepest condolences on your loss. He was a wonderful person, witty, and kind but always "the Officer and Gentleman"
Letha Gilliam-Brandon
February 20, 2009
It was truly a shock to see in the paper that Capt Barr had died. My heartfelt sympathy goes to his family. Capt Barr, has and always will be a true Sea Warrior. Having had the opportunity to work in the Ship Survivability Office as his Admin Person and seeing first hand the work that he personified was a great joy and accomplishment. Capt Barr was a true American Hero.
Fred Williams
February 19, 2009
Bob in my mind will always be a personal friend and the father of modern day Damage Control! The existance of SHADWELL has Capt Barr's foresite to thank.
Patricia Tatem, Ph.D.
February 19, 2009
The Shadwell will forever be indebted to him for his support.
William Casanova, USN, Ret
February 18, 2009
The, shipmate of shipmates. I miss him dearly.
Kelly Bryant-Oster
February 18, 2009
He will be missed
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