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Judy Gay Webster VIRGINIA BEACH - Judy Gay Webster, formerly of Richmond, passed away June 12, 2009, after a short illness. She was preceded in death by her parents, Lt. Col. Garland and Virginia Mullen Webster; and brothers, George Garland Webster Jr. and David Gary Webster. She is survived by three daughters, Lora Samuels Diaz and husband Jeffrey Diaz of Houston, Mary Gail Samuels of New Orleans and Cara Ann Hamm and husband Justin Hamm of Richmond, Va.; three sisters, Bonnie Webster Hodges, Patricia Webster Taylor, Robin Ginger Richardson; and one surviving brother, Paul Gregory Webster. She is also survived by four grandchildren, Virginia Payton and Christian, Daniel and Elizabeth Diaz. Also surviving is James Edward Bonner, her longtime companion. She was a devoted registered nurse for more than 30 years working at VCU Medical Center in Richmond and Children's Hospital of The King's Daughters in Norfolk. Her nursing career was dedicated to the care of critically ill children. Because of her love of gardening, a celebration of her life will be held at Norfolk Botanical Gardens, 6700 Azalea Garden Road, Norfolk, Monday, June 22, at 11 a.m. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to CHKD at http://www.chkd.org/Giving/Tribute or Christian Children's Fund at http://www.christianchildrensfund.org/donate/donate.aspx.

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Published by The Virginian-Pilot on Jun. 17, 2009.

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Dede Pinero

May 10, 2010

Hey Jude,
Every day it gets a little better to cope but i could never trust anyone to talk like we used to. I am glad summer is taking a little time to get here because it is helping me a lot. I
don't feel like I am missing our trips because it's been so cold. I miss you so much. My flowers you planted are huge this year. They were not like that last year. I love the purple leaves. Well, it's quiet today at work so I am going home early to eat some pizza and have a cold beer. I hope your family did ok yesterday for Mother's Day. I love ya girl and I must try to talk to you at home because people are going to think I am crazy..hahaha....I miss you so much
Dede
PS- I forgot to tell you I opened a soft serve ice cream shop right near the Arcade & Lamp Shop so I am done now...I promise....

Dede Pinero

August 30, 2009

well Jude, today is a horrible day. I just can't stop crying. I am at work and I cannot help myself. Luckily, it's a quiet day because everyone would think I was loosing my mind. But I am so sad today. Not a good day so I will sleep it off and hopefully tomorrow will be better. I love you and talk to you often. I hope I get better soon. The pain is enormous....

Dede Pinero

August 3, 2009

well Jude, we were supposed to be in Myrtle Beach but there's no vacation without you & I have no girlfriends so Myrtle beach is OFF. I miss you terribly. I wish I knew you were not going to be here because we would have crammed quite a few trips into a few weeks. I would have took the time off for you. Anyway some days are harder than others but I go a day at a time. I love you & miss you terribly and my life is so much different without my best friend in it... You rest, and you are now my guardian angel so please make this a little easier on me ok. I also hope your family is doing ok. I know they are having a hard time as much time as you spent with each of them I pray God will help them thru too. Love ya Girl I am still mad but I understand.God Bless....Your friend forever Dede

Carolynne Parker

July 16, 2009

I had the extreme pleasure of meeting Judy when she came to New York with my sister, DeDe for a visit.She came out to New Jersey to see me and then we met again in the City to go to the Feast of San Gennaro and then again to B. Smith's restaurant.What a wonderful woman; most pleasant, eager to enjoy life amongst all people, and always with a smile.My sister will surely miss her and I send my sincerest sympathy to her family.May God bless Judy with eternal life.

Our New York visit with entrepreneur Bea Smith , her Hubby, my sister Carol and you & I

Dede Pinero

July 15, 2009

Hey Jude,
I had a very difficult week because as you know we always have lunch either on tues or weds. whenever you are not working overtime so I decided I was going anyway but could not do it so those days of lunch are over. I guess I will fill our time in with a quick walk on the beach, we used to do that too but I will feel better i'm sure. I will miss you always & no one will be able to fill this void in my life. I do not have many friends and when I do I treasure them , as you know!!! I miss you and will have great memories forever in my heart. Keep watch over me and my sincere love to your family. Rest in Peace my dearest friend..

Kay Moore

June 24, 2009

June 24,2009
I met Judy in 2006.She had such a beautiful smile & a joyous laugh.she had so much love for those children@CHKD and flowers.She was a very good dancer(smile) and always a pleasure to be around.I will miss Judy but knowing that she's in God's arms puts a smile on my face.To the family,I will keep you in prayer.
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Julie Shotwell

June 22, 2009

Judy was there for me at MCVH when I started my career in the NICU. It was her encouragement and guidance that helped shaped my career. She was thoughtful, sweet and calm. I loved when she would help feed our babies on nightshift. She will be missed. My deepest sympathies go out to Judy's family.

Rosa Robinson

June 18, 2009

i had fhe pleasure of working with Judy at MCVH IN Richmond for many years. She were a nice and kind person to be around. She will be missed. May God bless all her family and friends'

Dave Searles

June 18, 2009

Dave said he will miss you. You were the only one that could sit at our table. You know how he feels. (LOL) When we got the news, Dave was heading back to Richmond but he decided not to leave me. I (Dede)closed the shop & went for a ride. The next morning I went to one of our favorite places. NORFOLK BOTANICAL GARDENS where we smelled the beautiful roses & watched the butterflies. It was peaceful. How did I get me in FREE????? It was only free when you were with me & had your membership card but I thought I was alone, so how did I get in FREE???? I know it was YOU.... I enjoyed a few hours at ROSE HALL and then I was able to go back to work. Dave & I will miss you sitting with us chatting. Your friends forever....

Neil Stillman

June 18, 2009

I was just a baby when she was one of my nurses that helped me when i was 3 months premature. I am sorry to here that she is gone. My thoughts are with her family at this time.

Devonne Moore

June 17, 2009

I had the honor of working with Judy at CHKD. She always was so calm even when things were "frantic." I will miss her and your family is in my prayers.

Lauren Ochalek, RN

June 17, 2009

I had the distinct pleasure of working alongside Judy at CHKD. She was a caring and compassionate nurse who loved caring for children and loved life! What I’ll miss most about Judy is her joyous laugh. She will be remembered by everyone on TCU and will be so greatly missed. I’d like to extend my heartfelt thoughts and deepest condolences to Judy’s family during this time of suffering. May the strength of the Lord be with you and bring you peace.

June 17, 2009

May God Continue to Bless the Family! I just lost my father and there are no words that can describe what you are feeling. May your faith bring you comfort..for God is always with you, always watching over you, and always loving you.

With my deepest Sympathy,

Vernita Kidwell-Chesapeake, Va

June 17, 2009

June 17, 2009
I had the honor of working with Judy @ CHKD. She was such a wonderful person and a great nurse. May you each find comfort and peace during this sorrowful time. My prayers are with you. GOD BLESS YOU!
Carolyn Garry

Marti Bevan

June 17, 2009

I had the honor of working with Judy at CHKD. She was a respected nurse who cared deeply for her patients. She was certainly admired for outlook on life and will surely continue to bring a smile to our faces when we remember her. You are in our thoughts.

June 17, 2009

I met Judy when I had the honor of sharing her daughter, Cara, and becoming the "other mom". Judy displayed a love of life, a sense of adventure, and a devotion to her field of nursing. Her daughters have grown up to be caring and confident women with inner strength. I'm sure she's whispering to them, "remember me by thinking of others, laughing at yourself, and don't count your time-make your time count"
with love,
Stephanie Hamm

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