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Shelby Putman Obituary

Shelby Gordon Putman SUFFOLK - Shelby Gordon Putman, 71, passed away July 5, 2009. She was born in Suffolk, the daughter of the late Virginia F. and Walter K. "Mutt" Gordon. She was also predeceased by her brother, Willard Bruce Gordon. For the past 10 years, Shelby was a cosmetology examiner for the State of Virginia. She was a member of Magnolia United Methodist Church and volunteered at Sentara Obici Hospital. She was also an active member of the Zontas International Foundation where she held many board positions. Shelby is survived by her loving husband of 52 years, Harold Jerry Putman; daughter and son-in-law, Donna and Fairren Huneycutt, all of Suffolk; son and daughter-in-law, Jonathan and Patricia Putman of Windsor, Va.; grandchildren, Noah Huneycutt, Joshua Kennedy, Tiffany Barton, Jonathan Putman Jr., Tabitha Putman, Wayne Benson, Nicholas Huneycutt, Sandy Huneycutt, Christopher Lindsay Huneycutt. A celebration of life service will be held Wednesday, July 8, 2009, at 2 p.m. at Parr Funeral Home & Crematory, 3515 Robs Drive, Suffolk, with Glenn Kellam officiating. The family will receive friends following the service at the funeral home for further time of remembrance. Memorial donations may be made to the Zontas International Foundation, 1211 W. 22nd St., Suite 900, Oak Brook, IL 60523. Condolences may be registered online at www.parrfuneralhome.com.

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Published by The Virginian-Pilot on Jul. 7, 2009.

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July 8, 2009

Shelby will be missed by everyone who knew her. She was truly a lovely, positive and cheerful person. I hope that everyone will find peace in the celebration of her life.

Robyn & Mike Stacey

John & Dana Ordemann

July 8, 2009

Jerry & Donna,
We were so sad to hear of Shelby's death. We so enjoyed the time that we were around her and your family. She was such a funny lady. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during your time of sorrow.

Nick and Sandy Huneycutt

July 8, 2009

We loved Shelby very much and will miss her greatly. She was one of the most positive and funniest lady we know. We are blessed to have been a part of her life.

Paulette Moore

July 7, 2009

What a joy to have known such a happy, loving friend. Just laughed and chatted with her a week or so ago. My love and prayers are with the family at this time.

July 7, 2009

I will truly miss my friend very much.
Shelby was a wonderful and caring person. The talks and jokes we shared
as she did my hair was something I looked forward to when I would see her.
My prayers are with the family and I feel blessed to have known her.
Shirley Riddick

Janice Wills Babin

July 7, 2009

Read about Shelby's death on line. My prayers go to the family. I went to Chuckatuck High School with her many many years ago. Shelby always had a smile and a wonderful laugh. Had seen her at several reunions over the years.

Renee Hobbs

July 7, 2009

Sorry to hear about Shelby. She was a very nice person. She did my hair for me before I got married. She came to my wedding twice but I only got married once, but she throught it was August 21, but it was on the 28th of August 1993. We like to joke on that alot. She will be missed loved her so much.
Sincerely yours,
The Hobbs Family
(Ed, Renee, Sarah & Rebecca)

Wanda Alexander

July 7, 2009

Jerry, I have fond memories of Shelby as I am sure everyone that knew her also has. She was a loving and caring person and made her mark while here. I pray that God will comfort you and you are in my prayers. I've never been one for words but had to let you know how much I love you both.

Wanda Alexander

Arlene Dewell

July 7, 2009

... always made me smile (or laugh)

July 7, 2009

So sorry to hear of the passing of a long time friend. My prayers are with the family. Take care and stay strong. Joseph Mansfield

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