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Lillian Vlasis "Lily" Carson

Lillian Carson Obituary

Lillian V. Carson NORFOLK - Lillian Vlasis "Lily" Carson passed away Tuesday, July 6, 2009, in a local hospital. Born in Manhattan, New York City, she was the daughter of the late Jefferies Vlasis of Greece and Ida Keller Vlasis of Switzerland. She was the widow of Edward G. Carson, a landscape architect and an artist. She loved life and all that God has put before us and made the most of that in every way that was possible. Lily was educated in music, languages, and early childhood education at Hunter College in New York City and at Old Dominion University. Mrs. Carson was an active member of Sacred Heart Catholic Church, the Tidewater Music Teacher Forum, Music Teacher's National Association, National Guild of Music Teachers, Virginia Symphony, Norfolk Society of Arts, Hellenic Women's Club and the Ghent Garden Club. As a teacher for more than 40 years, she taught kindergarten for 15 years and gave private piano lessons for more than 44 years. Left to cherish her memory are her sons, Richard B. Franklin and his wife Kathleen of Midlothian, Va., James Franklin of West Palm Beach, Fla., and Jeffrey J. Franklin and his wife Dorinda of Norfolk; her stepchildren, Becky and Jacques Gagne of Blue Hill, Maine, Tracy and Patty Carson of Portland, Maine, Cindy and Bruce Paxon of Gratis, Ohio, and Kathleen Carson and Susan Long of Belfast, Maine; a brother, John Vlasis and his wife Yolanda of Charlottesville, Va.; 17 grandchildren and two great-grandchildren. A Mass of the Resurrection will be conducted at 11 a.m. Saturday, July 11, in Sacred Heart Catholic Church by Father Daniel Klem. A Christian wake will be conducted Friday at 7 p.m. in the H.D. Oliver Funeral Apts., Norfolk Chapel. Memorial contributions may be made to Sacred Heart Catholic Church. Online condolences may be offered to the family through hdoliver.com.

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Published by The Virginian-Pilot from Jul. 8 to Jul. 9, 2009.

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Tori Knapp

July 29, 2009

Lily we will always remember you and never ever forget you. You are in our prayers. You know you did a wonderful job teaching my brother piano and you tried to teach my Dad! We will miss your great humor and certainly miss seeing you on Sundays at church. Our deepest sympathy to your children and grandchildren and great grandchildren.
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Rick, Janice, Tori, and John your star
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Ashley Gagne

July 13, 2009

My love and prayers are with you who feel her absence.

"Omah", as I know she liked to be called by her grandchildren, was a spirited, talented woman. I hope she feels at peace.

Donna Halleck

July 11, 2009

Lily Carson was a great asset to the Tidewater Music Teachers Forum and we will miss her very much. Please accept our condolences and prayers for her family.

Donna Halleck
President
Tidewater Music Teachers Forum

Cindy Paxson

July 9, 2009

So sorry for your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers. Cindy, Wilson & Carson

Cathy Walsh

July 8, 2009

Lily Carson was an intensely memorable woman. We met only a handful of times through our mutual support of the Virginia Symphony, but she has left an indelible imprint on my soul. A beautiful and vivacious woman even in her latter years, she possessed a keen awareness of the transcendency of life. I shall miss her. My sympathies go out to her family and loved ones.

Cathy Walsh,
Past President
Virginia Symphony League

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