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Timothy Barber Obituary

Timothy A. Barber VIRGINIA BEACH - Retired U.S. Navy STSCM/SS Timothy Aaron Barber died peacefully in his sleep July 17, 2009, surrounded by his loved ones. He was born in Buffalo, N.Y., on Jan. 14, 1960. He is survived by his wife, Pamela French Barber; and three sons, Nathan, Jason and Justin. He is also survived by his parents, Eileen E. Smith of Virginia Beach and Harvey H. Barber of Erie, Pa.; a brother, Gregory A. Barber, M.D., and his wife Kari of Virginia Beach; a sister, Amy B. Burns of Lockport, N.Y.; and several aunts, uncles, nieces, nephews and cousins. Mr. Barber was a 22-year highly decorated Navy veteran who served aboard the USS Haddock (SSN 621), USS Pogy (SSN647), USS Tinosa (SSN 606), USS Miami (SSN 755) and lastly, USS Boise (SSN764), where he was the chief of the boat. He served during the Iranian Hostage Crisis and Desert Storm. He was truly a "sailor's sailor", having sailed all of the Seven Seas. Among numerous awards received by Mr. Barber in his service to his country, were four Meritorious Unit Commendation medals, two Navy "E" ribbons, two Navy Expeditionary medals and five Good Conduct medals. After retiring from the Navy, Mr. Barber was employed by L-3 Systems and WR Systems in Norfolk. Mr. Barber was an avid motorcyclist and a past commander of American Legion Post 280 in Chesapeake. A funeral will be conducted at 4 p.m. Sunday at Hollomon- Brown Funeral Home, Great Neck Chapel. The family will receive friends at the funeral home today from 1 to 3 p.m. and 6 to 8 p.m. as well as two hours prior to the service on Sunday. Burial will be in Arlington National Cemetery at a later date. Memorial donations may be made to St. Jude Children's Research Hospital. Condolences may be offered to the family at www.hollomon-brown.com.

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Published by The Virginian-Pilot on Jul. 18, 2009.

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Tony Saha

July 27, 2009

Pam, Nathan, Jason, Justin,
Tim was a great friend from the day we went and looked at that basketcase Harley and on through the San Diego and Connecticut years. I am sad that we drifted apart after we moved to the Seattle area. Time does not erase the fun and memories we shared. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Connie Croom

July 22, 2009

Justin, I am sorry to hear of your Dad's passing. Please extend my sincere condolences to your entire family. I pray God will give you and your family a peace that passes all understanding during this most difficult time.

rick hudgins

July 20, 2009

Tim was a good friend and biker buddy. I rode to Myrtle Beach with him and his son. It was great ride down and back. I'll never forget the friendship and fun we always shared during our rides together. Ride hard and ride fast Tim. Your friend,

Rick

July 19, 2009

Pam and boys. I lived at the apts. in San Diego many years ago, and i am so sorry to hear of Tim's passing. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and all of the family. I will always remembrer the motorcycle being rebuilt in the bedroom, and those twins being brougth home from the hospital and Nathans blond hair blowing in the wind. My heart goes out to you, many memories are there. Jean Fay Patacsil

Walter C Heal

July 18, 2009

Our thoughts & prayers are with you .Walter & Christa

July 18, 2009

Pam, Nate and family, I am so deeply sorry for your loss. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. Please let me know if there is anything I can do.

Robert Neider

July 18, 2009

To Tim's Family, I'm at at loss for words to hear of Tim's passing. I've thoroughly enjoyed knowing Tim through the years and greatly respected him as fellow Submariner. I'll miss his humor. We've lost too many "young" Submariners within the last few years. May God bless him and his family for his years of service and dedication to the United States of America. I'll miss Tim.
V/R, Bob Neider

kevin and kathy burns

July 18, 2009

The Barber Family will be in our prayers.

Ben Poteat

July 18, 2009

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

July 18, 2009

Harvey,
I am at a loss of words after reading the news of the passing of Tim. I will always have wonderful memories the youthful smile, humor, laughter and joyful times of a young man starting off in a quest for life. My deepest sympathies, condolences are with you and the family at this time of sorrow. You will remain in my thoughts and prayers.
Jim Burke

Anonymous Veteran

July 18, 2009

Thank you for your service to which your part helped make it the greatest country in the world.

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