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Ethelia Kirkman Obituary

Ethelia G. Kirkman NORFOLK - Ethelia G. Kirkman, 90, of the 5700 block of Cornick Road, entered eternal rest Aug. 12, 2009. She was born in New London, Conn., Sept. 6, 1918, to Horace Robert Gardner and Mary Elizabeth Newcombe Gardner. She was predeceased by her husband of 52 years, Clifton S. Kirkman. Surviving are her three daughters, E.K. "Skip" Sutherland of Jensen Beach, Fla., June E. Keating and her husband Woodrow Keating of Chesapeake, and Carol J. Kirkman of Pembroke Pines, Fla. She is also survived by her five grandchildren, Glenn R. Astles, Steven K. Astles, Todd J. Astles of Jensen Beach, Fla., and Wendy L. McCarson and Michael G. Keating of Chesapeake; and two great-granddaughters, Chelsea R. Keating and Kaitlyn L. Donnelly. Mrs. Kirkman was a member of Burrows Memorial Baptist Church, Norfolk. She was a Past Worthy Matron of Norview Chapter, No. 131, Order of the Eastern Star; a charter member and Past Royal Matron of Mace Court No. 9, Order of Amaranth; Past Guardian of Bethel No. 15, International Order of Job's Daughters and Past Noble Grand of Virginia Rebekah, Lodge No. 13. The funeral will be held at 7 p.m. Monday, Aug. 17, at Smith & Williams Funeral Home, Norview Chapel, with Pastor Don Harris officiating. The family will remain after the service for visitation. Burial will be in Rosewood Memorial Park, Virginia Beach, at 11 a.m. Tuesday, Aug. 18. In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to the Norfolk SPCA or to the charity of your choice. The family would like to express their sincere gratitude to her caregivers from Home Instead, to the staff at Allzwell Assisted Living and Odyssey HealthCare for the kindness, love and support shown to her during the last months.

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Published by The Virginian-Pilot on Aug. 15, 2009.

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Harley and Janet Cook

August 27, 2009

June, I am so sorry to learn of your mother's passing. My love and prayers are with you. Remember I am as close as your phone. Harley sends his love and prayers also.

Doree Richardson

August 21, 2009

We are so sorry for your loss. We will miss your Mother's great sprit all
of our volunteers who served her remember her. Your Friends at Mobile
Meals of Norfolk. Z & Doree

August 17, 2009

Carol, I'm sorry for the loss of your mother. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Nick, Vicki, Nicole and Gabrielle George

Mary Wach

August 17, 2009

My thoughts are with you during this hard time.

Diane Rusbuldt Wymer

August 16, 2009

Carol,

I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your mother. May she rest in peace. My prayers are with you and your family.

Michelle Steitz

August 16, 2009

I'm so sorry for your loss. May you find peace in the wonderful memories you have of her life.
Love,
Michelle Steitz

Kim Corbus

August 16, 2009

My prayers and Love go to you as you grive this loss.

August 15, 2009

We are so sorry for your loss.
Joe & Vicki Hatch

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