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Mary Stanfield Obituary

Mary Louise Stanfield NORFOLK - Mary Louise Tebault Stanfield, 99, went to be with her Lord Sunday, Aug. 30, 2009. Born in Elizabeth City, N.C., she was the daughter of the late Nora Haskett Tebault and George Tebault and the widow of Charles Stanfield. Mrs. Stanfield was a longtime and active member of Ghent United Methodist Church and its Women's Society of Christian Service. Left to cherish her memory are her four daughters, Fannie Steinfield, Laura Griffin and her husband Peter, Doris Weddle and her husband Ed, and Sarah Forbes, all of Norfolk; two sons, Lawrence Stanfield and his wife Anne of Norfolk and Phillip Steinfield and his wife Betty of Virginia Beach; 10 grandchildren, 15 great-grandchildren; and two nieces, Shirley Myers and Ann Marie Young. Mrs. Stanfield's family would like to express their appreciation to Dr. Charles Lisner for his dedicated care, and also to the staff at Harbor's Edge for their love and compassion for their mother. A celebration of her life will be conducted at 11 a.m. today in Ghent United Methodist Church by the Rev. Bill McClung. Burial will be private in Forest Lawn Cemetery. Following the service at the church, the family will host a reception at the Norfolk Yacht and Country Club. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to Ghent United Methodist Church, 531 Raleigh Ave., Norfolk, VA 23507. H.D. Oliver Funeral Apts, Norfolk Chapel, is handling arrangements. Online condolences may be offered to the family through hdoliver.com.

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Published by The Virginian-Pilot on Sep. 2, 2009.

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Patti Anderson-Gandy

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Dear Family,
Mother and I extend our deepest condolences to all of you. We visited Aunt Louise in May and found her as she always was to us. Warm, funny, with impeccable manners and most of all loving. At times when all of us didn't see each other for some time, when we did again it always felt like it was just a day or so ago. All of you always made us feel that way and it all came from Aunt Louise. It was about family to her and that is something she understood and all of you understood. Again Mother, Dad, my husband John and myself send our condolences. We miss you most at times like these.
Shirley A. Myers & husband Larry
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