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William M. Cole II VIRGINIA BEACH - Cmdr. William Marchant Cole II, 75, departed this life to be with his Lord Sept., 26, 2009. He died peacefully at home. Born in 1934, he was the son of the late Rear Adm. William M. Cole and Emily Lampe Cole of Virginia Beach. He was a Navy junior, and spent much of his childhood and youth in Virginia Beach and Alexandria. A lifelong sailor, he graduated from the United States Naval Academy in 1957, and served for 24 years as a U.S. Naval officer on both coasts, as well as in Italy and Vietnam. He was an accomplished bluegrass musician, playing the guitar, banjo and mandolin. He was an advocate for Civil War battlefield preservation, a commitment that emerged from his deep interest in military history. In recent years, he and his wife Jane wintered on Kauai, where he made many good friends who shared his interests in golf, local music, and the island's history. Left to cherish his memory are his wife, Jane; son, William M. Cole III; daughter, Laura C. Hedrick and her husband Steve; daughter, Margaret C. Frankovich and her fiancé Joseph Sampler; daughter, Susan S. Lawrence; and grandsons, Steven D. Hedrick Jr., Tyler B. Hedrick and Robert F. Hedrick. A celebration of his life will be held Saturday, Oct. 3, at 11 a.m. at Spring Branch Community Church, 1500 Great Neck Road, Virginia Beach. Cmdr. Cole will be buried at a later date in Arlington National Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to Heartland Hospice Care, whose nurses and aids provided loving, compassionate care. Contributions may be sent to Heartland Hospice Care, 5029 Corporate Woods Lane Suite 200, Virginia Beach, VA 23462 Attn. Sue Jobe and/or to ORPHANetwork, which so lovingly supports at risk children in their orphanages in Nicaragua; mailing address: 1500 N. Great Neck Road, Virginia Beach, VA 23454. Online condolences may be made to the family at www.hdoliver.com.

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Published by The Virginian-Pilot on Sep. 29, 2009.

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October 3, 2009

Dear Jane,
A few years ago, you were a welcoming spirit for me to Spring Branch. You introduced me to the importance and beauty and comfort of prayer and trust in our loving Lord. I now pray that such comfort with envelope you and your family. You remain in my prayers.
Dee Paske

Exie Cowan

October 1, 2009

Dear Jane, In the six years that I have known you, I have come to regard you as a wonderful woman of great Christian Faith. You are a true believer in the importance of Prayer. I know that you will be strengthened in the days to come by your close walk with your Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. His constant presence will surely sustain you and your family. Dear friend, you and your family will all be in my daily prayers. With Christian Love, Exie Cowan

Karen Sanchez

October 1, 2009

Mrs. Cole, Laura, Bill, Maggie, & Susan, and family,

My family and I are deeply sorry for your loss, and am keeping you all in thought and prayer. Many blessings to each of you for comfort and healing.

With love ...

Joe & Margaret

September 29, 2009

We will miss you so much! You taught us so much about life and how to live each day to the best of our ability. I know you and Joe only knew each other for a short time, however, you guys became the best of friends and he "cherished" that friendship like no other! He loved you like a dad, or as you liked to put it, like "his little brother"! You will live in our hearts forever! We love you......

Margaret Schlegel

September 29, 2009

Dearest Jane and family -

I've signed the guest book at the H. D. Oliver site, so I'll not repeat myself here, but I do want each of you to know that you're all being thought about and prayed for constantly during this sad and busy time.

Blessings and love go out to each of you. May you find your peace and rest in Him, the One who loves you most.

Love,

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