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Frederick Barker Obituary

Frederick N. Barker Jr. COURTLAND - Frederick Nichlson "Ticky" Barker, 78, died Nov. 21, 2009, at Sentara Norfolk General Hospital. A native of Franklin, he was the son of the late Frederick Nichlson and Susie Parker Barker and was predeceased by his sister, Betty Anne Fraser. He was a retired weight enforcement officer for the Virginia State Police and a member of the Virginia Fraternal Order of Police Robert A. Hill Lodge No. 56. Fred was also a member of the Founders and Patriots of America, a member of the Sons of the Confederate Veterans, a member of the Southampton County Historical Society, a 50-year Mason with the Courtland Masonic Lodge No. 85, and a member of the Manry Hunt Club. Left to cherish his memory are his wife of 51 years, Jean Allen Barker; his daughter, Holly Barker Dawson (Joseph); his son, Frederick Nichlson "Nicky" Barker III; and two grandchildren, Thomas and Jade Dawson. The funeral will be conducted at 3 p.m. Tuesday in Courtland United Methodist Church with the Rev. Richard Gordon officiating. Interment will follow in Riverside Cemetery. The Virginia State Police will serve as pallbearers and Honor Guard. The family will receive friends from 7 to 8:30 p.m. today at Wright Funeral Home with Masonic rites being held at 6:30 p.m. Memorials may be made to Robert A. Hill Fraternal Order of Police Lodge No. 56, 22227 Main St., Courtland, VA 23837 or American Heart Association, 500 Plume St. East, Suite 110, Norfolk, VA 23510. www.wrightfuneralhome.org.

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Published by The Virginian-Pilot on Nov. 23, 2009.

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Employees of Edwards Hardware

November 24, 2009

We will miss him coming to Edwards Hardware and saying "Good Morning and welcome to Edwardses Hardware, what can I help you with today?" Our thought and prayers are with you in your time of grief.

Harold & Debby Owen

November 24, 2009

Our sincere condolences to the Barker family. We will miss seeing Ticky in Franklin, especially hearing his latest "bag" of jokes.

Darrell Mayo

November 23, 2009

I am truly sorry to hear of Fred's passing. He was a true friend. I pray that God gives you the strength and courage to get you through your time of sorrow. May God bless and keep you in this time of need.

Roy&Lynn Richards

November 23, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Steve Jones

November 23, 2009

Ticky will be missed by everyone in the community especially the law enforcement community. He was a fellow law enforcement officer, a Brother Mason, and a dear friend of me. He would give you his shirt off his back if needed. He loved all children. He made everyone smile when he told you a joke. My prayers and thoughts go out to his family. God Bless you Ticky.

Gene Drewery

November 23, 2009

Tiki will missed so much by everyone in our community. I will miss him calling out "Mean Gene" across the parking lot or wherever he saw me. His loss was so sudden and my prayers and thoughts go out to the family.

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