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Pamela Gross Obituary

Pamela V. Gross PORTSMOUTH - Pamela V. Gross of St. Augustine, Fla., passed quietly at her home Saturday, April 3, 2010. She was 57 years old. She was born in Newport, R.I., to Kenneth and Charlotte Atkins while her father was stationed there in the Navy. She became a certified nurse aide and worked and volunteered helping others for much of her life. In Lancaster, Pa., she volunteered with the Contact Lancaster Help Line, and Hope House and in Florida she also helped many organizations. She was a member of the Philoptochos Society and was honored with the Archangel Michael Award in 2009 for her dedication to her faith. She and her husband moved to St. Augustine to stay in 2007. Pamela loved to spend time on the beach, walking in the sand and the surf, but her favorite thing was to spend time with all of her family. No matter what time of the year it was, it was always "like Christmas" when they all got together. She leaves behind her beloved husband of 34 years, Tom. She also leaves her sons, Kenneth (Kathy) and Matthew (Stephanie) Gross; her grandchildren, Ashley and Aiden; her parents, Kenneth and Charlotte Atkins; and her siblings, Billie Sue Beauregard and Marvin Atkins; as well as many other family and friends. There will be a visitation Friday, April 9, from 5 to 7 p.m. followed by the funeral Saturday at 10 a.m., both at Holy Trinity Greek Orthodox Church followed by burial at San Lorenzo Cemetery. Craig Funeral Home-Crematory- Memorial Park is in charge of arrangements.

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Published by The Virginian-Pilot on Apr. 7, 2010.

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May 29, 2010

dear tom, so sad to hear of pam's passing. you were both a big help to me at the shrine. sorry we never made it to the beach. prayers are with you now. nicole,

Rob and Lisa Nutt

April 14, 2010

Tom,
My sympathy and support to you and your family during this difficult time. I always have good memories of Pam, during your time in Tampa. Please call me if you need anything. Your family is in our prayers.

Lynn Hamil, George Yarborough

April 12, 2010

Dear Tom, we are so sorry to hear about Pam. The two of you made our visits to St. Augustine so much fun and I loved her yoga class. You are certainly in our thoughts and prayers.

Kathy & Bill Mendez

April 9, 2010

Dear Tom and Family: Our deepest sympathy on Pam's passing. She had such a wonderful love for her church, family & friends. It was a pleasure to know her.

Mark and Effie Lasoff

April 8, 2010

Dear Tom and Family: Pam was truly a wonderful and loving person. I'll miss working along side of her at church. I know she was at peace because of her faith in the Lord. May her memory be eternal

Bette Jo Shook Brock

April 8, 2010

Tom, Kenneth and Matthew. I worked with your mother in the 70's at the tunnel. I remember how much she loved her little boys. She was a wonderful person as I remember her fondly and see that she continued to live her life in a loving and giving way. I am sorry for your loss, but know your mother/wife was loved and appreciated by many.

Bill Lindsey

April 7, 2010

to PAMS family very sorry for your loss Will remember her yoga class at the club house and her great help

Dan & Marianne Griffin

April 6, 2010

Tom and family,

We were so sorry to hear of your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Phil & Mary Jacobs

April 6, 2010

We are so sorry for your loss. Your family is in our thoughts and prayers. We regret that we will be unable to attend the services.

From all your friends at St Augustine Ocean and Racquet...

Tina and Rob Kraybill

April 6, 2010

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

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