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James B. Stanley NORFOLK - Dr. James B. Stanley, 60, went to be with the Lord on April 8, 2010. He was born in Indiana to Thomas and Beverly Stanley. He was predeceased by his father and daughter, Jennifer. Jim graduated from Frederick Military Academy in 1968, Old Dominion University in 1976 and Eastern Virginia Medical School in 1979. He served in the U.S. Army from 1971 until 1984 as captain. He completed his OB/ GYN residency in El Paso, Texas. Dr. Stanley practiced in Tidewater from 1985-1996 and Pulaski, Va., from 1996- 2002, when he retired. He was known for his love of his profession and his caring relationships with his parents. The family would like to acknowledge their appreciation to the following for their love and support: Dr. Ted Hughes and wife LouAnn, Sue Clark, Dr. Mark Skees, and Jay at the Atrium Pharmacy. He is survived by his loving and devoted wife, Cynthia; daughter, Laura; mother, Beverly; sisters, Linda and Carolyn; brothers, Jerry and Philip; several nieces and nephews. A celebration of life service will be Monday at 1 p.m. in Aldersgate United Methodist Church, Sellger Drive, Norfolk, with a reception to follow. In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to the American Cancer Society or to Aldersgate UMC. Cremation Society of Virginia is assisting the family.

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Published by The Virginian-Pilot on Apr. 11, 2010.

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Sandi Hunter

April 11, 2010

Dr. Stanley delivered my first two children who are now ages 17 and 14. My husband and I have only the fondest memories of him. I was truly sorry to have read this news today but the wording of him being known for his caring relationships of his patients was a perfect description. He was a part of the most precious moments we've had and was a joy to have as a doctor. We loved seeing him show, up as I went into labor both times, in his jeans and carrying a six pack of Diet Coke. Our thoughts are with his family as they go through this difficult time.
Tom & Sandi Hunter
(daughters: Cori, Dani & Kodi)

Wanda Cross

April 11, 2010

Dr Stanley was my OB/GYN doctor when my last two children were born. He was a wonderful and knowledgeable physician who helped me bring two beautiful, healthy children into the world even though I was approaching an age that could have had an impact on my pregnancies. I will always be grateful for his wisdom and the care he gave to me and my children. My prayers are with you during this time.

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