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J. Edward Gatling VIRGINIA BEACH - J. Edward Gatling, Chartered Life Underwriter (CLU), died April 22, 2010 at Sentara Leigh Hospital. Ed was born in Norfolk July 14, 1923, graduated from Maury High School, received a bachelor's degree from Duke University, and was noted in the Who's Who of American Colleges and Universities. As a teenager, Ed survived polio and spent time in an iron lung because of his illness. He pursued a career in life insurance and financial counseling with Jefferson Pilot Life Insurance Company. After retiring 20 years ago because of complications with post polio syndrome, he participated in many community service projects, most recently with the Chesapeake Bay Foundation. He encouraged teachers and students to clean the bay by building oysters reefs. His hobbies included gardening, making "kites for kids," collecting semi-precious stones, and making jewelry. Ed, along with three others, established the Chair of Insurance at Old Dominion College where he taught the Chartered Life Underwriter course. He was a lifetime member of the Epworth United Methodist Church where he served in many capacities. He was also recently honored as a 50- year participant and charter member of the Suburban Kiwanis Club of Norfolk. Ed is survived by his wife of 60 happy years, Ann Manson Gatling and their three children, Jim Gatling, Sallie Gatling Volk and David Gatling, and their respective spouses Donna, Ralph and Holly. He is also survived by eight grandchildren, Rachel Felix, Hannah Gatling, Mary Gatling, Elisabeth Doyle, Virginia Holmstrom, Angela White, Wesley Gatling, and Kiel Gatling; his brother, Myrlon Gatling; and sister, Estelle Gatling Potts. Moreover, Ed is survived by five great-grandchildren, all of whom he spent time with in the last few months. A memorial service will be conducted at 1:30 p.m. Monday, April 26, at Epworth United Methodist Church, 124 West Freemason St., Norfolk VA 23510. A reception will follow the service in the church social hall. In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to the Chesapeake Bay Foundation, 142 West York St., Suite 618, Norfolk ,VA 23510 or Epworth United Methodist Church. Online condolences may be offered to the family through www.hdoliver.com.

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Published by The Virginian-Pilot on Apr. 24, 2010.

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May 9, 2010

Dear Gatling Family, I have fond memories of Uncle Buddy at Grandma Farnham's house and conversations with him on the phone while at my Grandmother's assisted living residence. He was always positive and encouraging in our conversations. He was a very special person. Our prayers are with you all.
Dick and Gail Colberg

April 29, 2010

Mrs Gatling & Family, I am truly sorry for your loss. Mr Gatling sold life insurance to me and my family many years ago, after returning from Japan. He kept in touch with Mom and Dad when I was overseas. When I was in the area he would call to see if there was anything he could do for us. I wish I had called last year when I was in town. I'm sure he will watch over his family from Heaven.
Respectfully, Ted Barwinski, Magnolia, DE

April 26, 2010

I know that we will all miss Ed, but I know that when we think about him we will have home made kites and good memories.

-with much love,

Peter Eckelberry

April 25, 2010

Dearest Ann and Family,
Family means so much to us all. We extend our love and prayers to all of you. We will be thinking of you on Monday. Thanks for your phone calls to keep us informed.

Much Love,

Cousin Peggy, Tim, and Family

Ralph Volk

April 24, 2010

Ann, I did not realize that I would get a lifetime of benefit from knowing you and Ed when I first met you in early 1969 as Sallie's date.

Kevin Potts Lisa Macdonald

April 24, 2010

We love and miss you tons already Uncle Ed. As you said "See you in Heaven!!!"

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