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Ruth Cahoon Obituary

Ruth W. Cahoon CHESAPEAKE - Reva Ruth Wickline Cahoon, 62, passed away peacefully Sept. 5, 2010 at Chesapeake Regional Medical Center after a short battle with cancer. Ruth was born May 10, 1948 in Norfolk to the late Amherst Hampton and Reva Mae Wickline. Ruth graduated from Maury High School in 1966 with honors as a business major. Working in the banking industry for more than 30 years, Ruth finished the last 20 years as a highly esteemed employee of BB&T. Ruth enjoyed many interests in her life such as hiking, photography, and travel. However, the greatest joy in Ruth's life was helping others whether family, friends or strangers by giving to the fullest extent of herself making her beloved by all. Ruth's spiritual life was a joy to her as one of Jehovah's Witnesses, being a faithful servant of God for more than 45 years. She is survived by the love of her life, her husband, Willie J. Cahoon; three brothers and two sisters, Amherst (Butch) Wickline Jr. and spouse Linda of Chesapeake, William Wickline and spouse Elizabeth of Norfolk, Charles Wickline of Benbrook, Texas, Wilma Herman and spouse Timothy of Bergen, N.Y., Jewel Snyder and spouse Donald of Virginia Beach; sister-in-law, Audrey Klotz, spouse John and children of Moyock, N.C.; sister-in-law, Margareite McPherson of Elizabeth City, N.C.; Rayburn Cahoon, and spouse Clara of Cheyenne, Wyo.; stepchildren, Brenda Toscana of Virginia Beach, Christy Adams of Ohio, William Cahoon of Arizona, and Hurbert E. Cahoon of Boca Raton, Fla.; Aunt Lyda Ruth Wickline Simpson, Uncle Elden Wickline, Uncle Homer Wickline, Uncle Harold Wickline, and Uncle Gillett Wickline; nieces and nephews, Jennifer Ines, Amherst (BJ) Wickline II, and Stoney Wickline, Pamela Wickline, Angela Turpen, Sherri Wickline, Tamara Smith, Timothy Herman, II, Caleb Massengill, and Reva Swindell; and many beloved cousins, great-nieces, great-nephews, and a great-great-niece. A memorial service is being held Saturday, Sept. 11 at 1 p.m. at the Kingdom Hall of Jehovah's Witnesses, 681 Oak Grove Road, Chesapeake, with a video hook up at the South Norfolk Kingdom Hall of Jehovah's Witnesses, 2000 Myers Road, Chesapeake. Smith and Williams Funeral Home, Kempsville Chapel, is assisting the family. Please visit the website www.smithandwilliamskempsville.com to view pictures and express any condolences.

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Published by The Virginian-Pilot on Sep. 8, 2010.

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Kathy Hogan

September 2, 2020

I can't believe it has been 10 years since your passing, Ruthie. I think of you all the time and hope that you are at peace. You were a great friend and co-worker. Always thinking of others and always with a smile on your face. You are truly missed.

September 13, 2010

Hello Bill, this is Kelly, your great grandson Kolby's mother. Brenda told me about Ruth and I am truly sorry for your loss. We will keep you and the rest of yours and Kolby's extended family in our prayers.

Frances (Betty Jean Wickline) Blake

September 13, 2010

Ruth and I are cousins, but I only met her a few years ago. We visited and she shared family pictures with me. I wish I could have gotten to know her better. We are the same age and I really liked her. I'm so sorry for this family's loss.

Stephanie Leonard

September 12, 2010

Ruth was an inspiration to us all, we are all better people for knowing her. She was always a bundle of sunshine in the office, her smiling face will truly be missed.

Mishelle Kevitz

September 11, 2010

Bill, I am so, so sorry for your loss. Ruth was such a wonderful, dear friend. I know you're looking forward to seeing her again soon. Remember that Jehovah will help you through this and that time is shorter now than ever. We all love you the same way we loved Ruth, and you're in our prayers and thoughts along with the rest of Ruth's family.

September 9, 2010

Oh Ruthie, how I will miss your "Good Morning" emails just to let me know you were thinking of me at work. You were one of the most inspiring friends that I had, always giving me that special something that I needed to hear. Your were there for me in my move to Raleigh, driving down with me for my first interview. Your devotion to life, family, and religion was and will always be a great example for me and my family. You will always be in my heart and in my prayers.

Kathy Hogan - Raleigh, NC

Jennifer Rossin

September 8, 2010

I will miss a wonderful friend, so will many others. Ruth was loved by all who knew her. Her faith in Jehovah was central to the way she lived her life and worthy of our imitation. My family and I send our love and pray for Jehovah to send comfort and strength to Ruth's many family and friends in this time of sorrow.

Bennie Pierce

September 8, 2010

Bill, You and I have been friends for decades. Now we both know what it is to lose our loves. I hurt for you but we must never forget our hope in Jehovah's promises and we must continue to urge each other onward. Ruth and Christine have their reward guaranteed, now you and I must remain faithful to Jehovah to guarantee ours.

Sarah Dudack

September 8, 2010

"Ruthie"-Ruth was a very special person who touched everyone she met in some way. It was my privilege that I met her and became a friend of hers. A dear friend who would have done anything for me and stood by me whatever came my way. She could always make me laugh and I loved her stories of her travels. Her love and devotion to her husband, her family, her friends, and her unwavering faith were something to behold on a daily basis. She was a wonderful person who made this world a better place by just being in it. I loved her and will miss her terribly. We have all lost a truly special person. She may be gone but she will never be forgotten. My sincere condolences to Bill and her entire family.

Erika Gunbeyi

September 8, 2010

I will always remember Ruth with fondness. She was such a happy person & always told me exciting stories of her many travels & adventures with Bill & other members of her family. I'm so glad I had the chance to work with her & know her. I can still hear her laugh! My sincere condolences to Ruth's family. She will be greatly missed!

carol west

September 8, 2010

I will so miss my dear friend and cousin, for over 50years, we shared our most happy moments together and our very saddest ones,you will always be in my heart and mind. Carol Ann & Dennis

Wendy Palmer

September 8, 2010

Angela and the entire family,

I'm so sorry to hear about your Aunt Ruth, I know that she was very special to you. Please know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. If you need anything, please let me know.

Angie Young

September 8, 2010

Ruthie was a happy happy woman. She never wanted to sit down and take a break...it was always time to walk and see the flowers or the sun rise or something in nature. It was a treat playing Scrabble at lunchtime...actually READING the dictionary. Such a wonderful and sweet woman, that little Ruthie. I loved her and will miss her terribly.

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