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Anita Basnight Obituary

Anita W. Basnight VIRGINIA BEACH- Anita Marie Wigmore Basnight, 90, passed away Jan. 5, 2011. Mrs. Basnight was born in Glenolden, Pa., Oct. 16, 1920 and was preceded in death by her parents, Harry Wigmore and Kathryn Jones Wigmore and husband Leon B. Basnight Jr. She served as a clerk with Luhring Motor Company for 10 years and DMV for 17 years. Survivors include a daughter, Joanne Shupe and husband Bill; a grandson, Tommy Shupe and wife Karen and their beloved daughter, Shelby and son, Jordan of Cedar Park, Texas; a brother, Harry Wigmore Jr. of Raleigh, N.C.; a stepdaughter, Paula Bonocore and husband Peppy of Virginia Beach; and their children, Lisa Bonocore of Virginia Beach and Peppi Bonocore and Mina Tamayo and their child Joey of Charlotte, N.C.; and three nephews. A graveside service will be held in Forest Lawn Cemetery Saturday, Jan. 8, at 1 p.m. In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to the American Cancer Society, SPCA or a charity of one's choice. Friends may offer condolences at www.smithandwilliamskempsville.com.

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Published by The Virginian-Pilot on Jan. 7, 2011.

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Betsy and Joe Garner

January 8, 2011

Joanne and Bill, so sorry to hear of the lost of your mother. She will be greatly missed. We had some great times enjoying fine wine and conversation with her. Our prayers are with you and yours.

Peppi Bonocore

January 8, 2011

Granny, as we called her will be greatly missed. I am so glad she gets to laugh with Gramps (Leon) again. The're laughter was catching...you couldn't help but to laugh with them. Great story tellers they were! My thoughts and prayers are with you Joanne, Bill and Tommy.

Nancy Willits

January 8, 2011

Dear Joanne, How sad Bill and I were to read Anita had died.Altho it had been a while sense we had talked with her,she was always a very special lady to us all.I'm sure her and Eleanor are meeting up once again.I know how much she missed her.Our Thoughts and Prayers are very much with you and your family. Bill & Nancy Willits

Ligeia Goos

January 7, 2011

Anita, I miss you so much. I cannot believe you are gone. I will miss all of our talks that we have had for so many years, my friend. You told me that you would make it to my wedding but you will be there, as you are in my heart! I am happy that we got to share some wedding plans when I saw you last and you loved your warm blue fuzzy socks and your caramel frappe. We had alot of laughs over the years. I will remember you always, think of you often, and miss you forever. Love always, Ligeia...... Joanne, Bill & Tommy, so sorry for your loss. She was a great and wonderful woman. My love and sympathy goes out to you, as I feel like such a big part of the family. Love always, Ligeia

Toaksie W. Honan

January 7, 2011

Joanne, I am sorry for the loss of your wonderful mother. Anita was truly a genuine person of character and charm! I know she will be missed by many.

Brenda Friedman

January 7, 2011

Joanne, Bill & Tommy, So sorry to hear about Mrs. Basnight, she will always be the "Queen of Ocean View" to us and now she will join Leon...the "King of OV". I love my memories of both of them in your kitchen eating crabs and having a ball. I loved the way your Mom loved her puppies and would bring them to your house. She was a very special woman. Love to you all, David & Brenda Friedman

Pam Flanagan

January 7, 2011

I am sorry to hear of your loss. Your mom was one of the best. She had a smile on her face and love in her heart. Always remember she will wait for us all with a big hug. Our sympathy and love to you all.

Stephanie Demma

January 7, 2011

Joanne, I am so sorry to hear about your mother. I have you and everyone else in my prayers. Much love to you all.
Love, Stephanie

Susanne Demma

January 6, 2011

What wonderful memories I have of Mrs. B when we were so young. As teenagers, she had to put up with me on weekends. I always felt like your home was my second home on weekends. Always so many laughs. Your mom will be missed, but we have our memories. Remember when she packed up the bra of the bride that was getting married right after me. Bride was getting dressed and no bra in sight. It was at the club just hanging around. I am so happy that I was able to have Thanksgiving with you, Bill and your mom. She still had her spunk! Love to you and Bill. Susanne

Bill Pollok

January 6, 2011

Joanne,
I was very sad to hear about your mother. I hope things get a little better for you in the near future. Let me know if I can help in anyway. See you soon.
Love, Bill

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