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Debra Ten Eyck
February 7, 2023
I miss you buddy. My heart still aches it will never be whole again. Gone but not forgotten. Love you.
Robin Puty
December 28, 2020
Thinking of you today ♡
Kayla Phillips
December 28, 2020
I love you, cousin. Forever and ever. I tell my kids of you and speak and think of you all the time. You may not be here, but your memory and spirit are very much alive. Until we meet again.
Debra Ten Eyck
December 28, 2020
I went to the cemetery on Christmas Eve to leave a candle at your grave site. I thought it would help but it was still painful, I still miss you terribly. You were the light in so many lives and our days are darker without you. Love you bunches.
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Deb Ten Eyck
July 6, 2018
We just got through the 4th and I know I am late but been thinking a lot about you daily and I miss you so very much. Love you my Hero.
April 27, 2017
Happy Birthday Steve. Love and miss you so very much. Until we meet again.....
Flags of Valor St Louis
John
September 12, 2016
Lance Cpl. Phillips, Phillips family and friends; We placed over 7,000 full size flags on a hill in Forest Park inside the City of St. Louis, MO. The flags went up Sept 6, 2016 and came down today Sept 12, 2016. I wanted to randomly select one flag and the service member who had their picture and dog tag attached to that flag to honor individually. Sorry I could not do this for the more than 100 flags I took down today but I hope at least one family, a group of friends and perhaps some fellow Marines will know that we never forget your sacrifice and your service. It was my privilege to carry your flag of honor and I hope you felt the respect, admiration and love of the thousands who walked among the Flags of Valor for these past 6 days. Thank you for your service and God Bless you!
Debra Ten Eyck
April 27, 2016
Happy Birthday HERO... WE all miss you.. WE all love you... Heaven has to be celebrating today....
Debra Ten Eyck
February 7, 2016
Today is 10 years you have been gone and yet it feels like yesterday. I just got back from the cemetery had a nice long talk and it was beautiful out there today. I looked around and thought how you would have loved to drive around with the t-tops off today. Fitz walks by your pictures and says Teve, Teve.. We miss you and love you very much. RIP till we meet again my HERO..
Debra Ten Eyck
June 9, 2015
Thinking of you so much all the time. I miss you so very much.
May 25, 2015
Thinking of you today this MemorialDay. No words can say how much you touched our lives. Thank you for keeping us free.
The Bargers
Debra Ten Eyck
February 7, 2015
It has been 9 years and it still feels like yesterday. You are missed and loved by so many people family and friends. Until we meet up yonder.. Someday we will all be together until then you will be Our Hero..
Debra Ten Eyck
December 26, 2014
Well I am late at this but Merry Christmas Steve..
I have been watching little Mister Fitzwilliam your new nephew. I have already told him all about you and have moved your picture so he can see it when setting with Nana. He watches it all the time like he knows you are watching over him.
Love you and miss you so much!
Autumn D'Eletto
April 27, 2014
Happy Birthday Stevie!! I think of you everyday and miss you more then I ever say!! Loved you like a brother!!
Fly with the Eagles
Debra Ten Eyck
April 27, 2014
Once again I have tried to come up with just the right words then I realized we love you and miss you very much Happy Birthday Steve. Are the right words... You are our HERO and will never be forgotten.....
February 16, 2014
I am late this year but the thoughts are the same you are remembered with great fondness and missed more than we can say.
Thank you for the memories and for keeping us free.
Thinking of you,
The Bargers
Kenny Riggs
February 7, 2014
As your Soul Flies Clear and So Free, Know that you are Loved and Missed.
We will wait upon the forever sands, of the sea, oh How you are LOVED and MISSED. Remember Love never ever Dies.....Carry on Devil Dog Carry on
Chiquila Ross
February 7, 2014
I will always love and miss you
Debra Ten Eyck
February 7, 2014
After 8 years it still hurts the same and we miss even more. Though we can smile at most of the memories we share today brings the ones we can not smile at. Love and miss you forever till we meet again.
Paulette Phillips
February 7, 2014
Eight years ago it was today,
Three Marines had come to say,
Your earthly life had gone away,
Friends and neighbors joined me to pray.
Life was changed forever more,
To loose the son that I adore,
A loss felt by many, I am sure,
We all shared our hearts that tore.
I know you're in a better place,
Though you are missed in this earthly space,
God wraps us with his sweet embrace,
Until we meet again.
Love you always and forever.
Mom
Paulette Phillips
May 28, 2013
Hey Bud,
Busy and Emotional Day yesterday. Met a lady from Mt. Morris who wrote a poem for you and we were honored to have the encounter with her. Mrs. Montgomery honored you well with her comments and invitation to the parade. We feel so blessed that sooooo very many people still remember and honor your sacrifice for our family, our community and our nation. You were always "one of a kind" special. So proud to your were a part of my life. Till we meet again. Love you always and forever.
Mom
David Ten Eyck
May 27, 2013
Though we may not have really known each other cousin i wanted to say thank you for your service and sacrifice for our nation. You will never be forgotten!
Paula Gump Herman
May 27, 2013
Saluting your veteran this Memorial Day.
For our HERO..
Debra Ten Eyck
May 26, 2013
Thank you Steve for giving your everything for our FREEDOM. It really is not FREE as we know by our loss of you and our broken hearts. You are remembered daily and will never be forgotten and will always be LOVED and MISSED.
April 27, 2013
Thoughts of you this week. Happy Bbirthday Steve.
Love and miss you,
The Barger Bunch
Debra Ten Eyck
April 27, 2013
Happy 35th Birthday Marine.. We love and miss you. Till we met again..........
April 26, 2013
happy bday to a true hero!
Debra Ten Eyck
April 26, 2013
Happy Birthday Steve!
35 years ago you were born, the bright spot in so many lives. 7 years ago you were taken from us. A life to shortly lived. We should be celebrating with you, your wife, and kids but instead we are celebrating with out you. We love and miss you so very much. I hope they celebrate in Heaven and that your day was AWESOME. You may be gone from us but we will always remember April 27th is your day.. Happy Birthday Marine.
April 26, 2013
Hey Bud,
Wish you were here to celebrate your 35th. I sometimes wonder where you would be and what you would be doing. No doubt flying something somewhere. I am thankful for the many birthdays we did celebrate together. Thanks for the many, many wonderful memories. Happy Birthday Son, Love you Always!
MOM
Robin Putt
February 8, 2013
Steven,
You will always remain in all of ours hearts.. We will continue to miss you until we meet again in Heaven.
Thank you from the bottom of my heart for defending my Freedom.. You are a True hero..
Till we meet again,
Will much love and thanks,
Your cousin,
Robin
February 8, 2013
Steven,
Well forgive my previous greeting. I was thinking of the times we had spent together and the up coming birthday of someone in the family that like the rest of us carries your memory with her. We will always remember the smile, the trips to visit us at the beach, the way you became such an important part of our lives. We know that you are celebrating in heaven as one of the special angels and keeping watch over those who loved you so much. There is a snow storm coming much like the weather when you made that final trip home. You are forever a part of the good times in our lives.
I watch those around me who serve in the military and as always thoughts come back to you and all you have given for us to have a better life.
Thinking of you,and thanking you and your mom and dad for all you did to make our lives richer.
WIth love, respect, gratitude and sweet memories,
The Bargers
February 8, 2013
Hey Steven,
I am sorry that I am a day late but I want you to know that you are thought of often. Happy Birthday Steve.
Love from the Bargers
February 8, 2013
I never met you Marine, but thank you for serving this nation so my children will have a bright future, Semper Fidelis.
Nikki
February 7, 2013
Missing you.
Missie Maloy
February 7, 2013
Love you.
Mellissa Maloy
February 7, 2013
Steve,
You are remembered with love and pride. I know that you are in Heaven gracing God and all of your fellow angels with your infectious smile. Till we meet again, my friend, I love you.
We loved you when.....
Debra Ten Eyck
February 7, 2013
Well it has been 7 years but for those of us whom love you dearly it seems like yesterday still. Today is a tough one to get through with out tears and I am not saying it will happen but I will try. We will carry you in our hearts forever, we will love and honor you and never ever forget you.
February 7, 2013
Good Morning Bud,
I think this day weighs heavy on many minds. So many love and miss you. The wonderful memories you left behind are a great comfort but we still miss you. Today will be difficult, but I know you wouldn't want us to be sad and grumpy. I'll try to keep the tears to a minimum (notice I said "try"). You know me. I love you so very, very much.
MOM
Peggy Childers
February 6, 2013
To the family and friends of Lance Cpl. Steven L. Phillips:
It has truly been my honor to sign Steven's guest book these past few years. Unfortunately, due to complications from my Multiple Sclerosis, this may be the last message I'm able to write. Please forgive me and know that Steven will always be remembered in my home.
With love and respect ~ Peggy
michele pinkney
December 31, 2012
i have heard so much about you steven from your wonderful mom how proud she was of you and i am sure she still is you are a true hero and a angel now i am proud to know your mother
Debra Ten Eyck
December 31, 2012
It is New Years eve and we are setting at home thinking of you. And wondering what you would be doing this year.. We love you and miss you.. I will have a Captain and ginger ale for you. I know I know Crown but I have none.
November 13, 2012
Steven, Bought a poppy from an elder lye vet this Veteran's Day and my thoughts went to you and my dad. We all thought of you this week. Tanks so much for keeping us free. Miss that smile!
Thinking of you. Missing you.
The Barger Bunch.
Pulette Phillips
November 11, 2012
Hey Bud,
As the day winds down, you have been in everyone's thoughts. It's a day to honor and remember and you made that so easy for so many. You are loved and missed by people from 8 to 80. Your smile, your witty one liners, your compassion linger with us. So proud and honored to have been a part of your life.
Love,
MOM
Debra Ten Eyck
November 11, 2012
Here it is Veterans Day.. Here I am missin' you...
Debra Ten Eyck
November 5, 2012
I set at your grave and weep
But you are not there to hear
You are the wind that blows
You are of the snow that blows in the wind
You are the stars that glint like diamonds in the sky
You are the grain that sways in the sun
You are the quiet gentle rain that falls
You are the breeze that brushes my cheek
You are there both day and night
Still I come to you grave to cry
You are not there
Why did you have to die
My heart is broken
I can't lie it will be till the day I die
I miss you so much. It is almost Veterans Day and I will be really busy and i was afraid I would miss it so i decided to be early..
Debra Ten Eyck
May 28, 2012
I visited you today and one of your friends was there with some others. He was a very nice young Marine. They played Taps and put a wreath on you grave. I had someone with me that really misses you as well. It was so hot and the Marine stood there at attention in full dress uniform. Then when I left the radio station started playing patriotic songs. It was a very fitting day to your memory. Thank You My Marine..
April 28, 2012
Steve,
Thinking of you this week. We were all together recently Ness, Andrew, Jim and I and we were talking about you. A little late but Happy Birthday. Miss you and that ornery grin.
The Bargers
michele pinkney
April 27, 2012
HAPPY BIRTHDAY STEVE YOU ARE A ANGEL IN HEAVEN THANK YOU FOR YOUR SERVICE FOR OUR FREEDOM
Deb & Trav Ten Eyck
April 27, 2012
Happy Birthday Steve... We miss you more then words can express. Words escape me as to how I feel today. Love you so much..
Paulette Phillips
April 24, 2012
Hey Bud,
Just a few days till your birthday. Been on my mind alot these days. Raising this second child has made me appreciate you even more. She has many of your wonderful characteristics. Know that you will always be in our thoughts as we continue to celebrate your life today, tomorrow and always.
Love you whole bunches,
Dad, Mom and Selena
Deb Ten Eyck
March 23, 2012
I am missing you in the extreme lately. Not a day goes by that I don't think of you and your infectous grin...
Peggy Childers
February 9, 2012
February 7, 2012
To the family and friends of Lance Cpl. Steven L. Phillips:
Always remembering Steven. "Some gave all."
February 9, 2012
Always in our hearts.
Love and memories,
The Bargers
Jim & Paulette Phillips
February 8, 2012
Hey Bud,
It is so weird how this year's weather has repeated that of the year we lost you. The snow arrived a little earlier and not quite as much. The day of the week even fell the same. We are thankful for our memories and for those around us who continue to celebrate your life. You impacted more people than you could have ever realized. What a wonderful gift you were to us.
Love you always and forever,
Mom and Dad
Deb & Trav Ten Eyck
February 7, 2012
Good Morning Steve,
It has been 6 years and yet it stil feels like yesterday. We miss you, love you and will always remmember. Thank you for our Freedom.
All our Love and Respect.
November 10, 2011
Steven,
Always in our hearts and forever thankful for the times we spent with you.
The Barger Bunch
Paulette Phillips
August 16, 2011
Hey Bud,
Thinking of you a bunch this week. Six years ago we hugged and said goodbye as you headed back to LeJune. We knew Iraq was just a few weeks away. Our memories of you sustain us until we meet again.
All of our love
Mom & Dad
Debra Ten Eyck
July 17, 2011
Love you and think about you all the time, really miss you...
margaret` zollars
May 31, 2011
steven i only seen you a couple of times, but the sacrifice you made for your family and friends was astronomical RIP Steven and rest assured you are remembered fondly. Glenn and Peggy Zollars
Carole Hardesty
May 31, 2011
Steven, I did not know you, but I do thank you for all that you have done. You will never be forgotten your mom talks about you all the time and makes all of us feel as if we knew you. So from me to you Happy Birthday and Happy Memorial Day. Thank you again for your sacrafice and dedication.
Michelle DeWitt
May 31, 2011
Your momma is so proud of you Steven!! Thank you for your sacrifices!
I'll never forget the time your mom wanted me to play a joke on you at the airport, when you flew in...."strip search"!!!
You may be gone but NEVER forgotten!
Debra Ten Eyck
May 31, 2011
I know I missed Memoral Day we went to Arlington and DC for the weekend to Honor and Remember you this year. We love and miss you so much. Thank you for the sacrafice you made for us... RIP Steve
Paulette Phillips
May 4, 2011
Hey Bud,
Keyboard on the blink, so birthday greeting a little late. Visited your memorial & as usual found cards, flowers & momentos. Just another testiment to the wonderful person you shared with us for a short time. Love & Miss You Every Day. THEY GOT HIM, REST EASY MY BRAVE SOLDIER! Love,MA
Rich
April 27, 2011
Happy Birthday Steven. Thinking of you.
The Bargers
Deb Ten Eyck
April 27, 2011
Good morning Sunshine and Happy Birthday! I'm PROUD of you Love you and miss you everyday.. I wish there was a phone number to Heaven so I could talk to you and tell you haw very much....
Vickie
February 8, 2011
Thank you, Steven, for all you did so that we can be free. Your sacrifice will forever be remembered.
Connie Kent white
February 8, 2011
Gone but never forgotten
February 7, 2011
Steven, Thinking of you today. You are missed and the many memories of your time with us are treasure. Thank you for for your friendship and your service. Always in our hearts, The Barger Bunch.
Paulette Phillips
February 7, 2011
It's snowing bud. Can't help but remember the "outstanding" storms this time of year. Thoughts are always of you but even more so today. Please know you are loved and missed and cherished. It is a priviledge and an honor to have been your mother.
Love,
Mom
Edward & Melissa Phillips
February 7, 2011
Steve, It has been 5 yrs. Man can not believe it has been that long. We all miss you and love you very much. I know we didnt know each other that well but I sure do love and miss you. The girls are growing like weeds. Alexis is 6 now and Kasidee is 5. They know all about you and love you also. Alexis told me the other day that when Halloween come around she wants to be what Steve was. I told her that you would like that very much. We love
Debra Ten Eyck
February 7, 2011
Today makes 5 years and I still miss you so much. Thank you for being my HERO Steve. I'm not poetic like you but really wanted you to know how much you mean to us all and we thank you for being you and loving us so much.... I wish Heaven had a phone number so I could talk to you cause I really need to talk to you....
Peggy Childers
February 7, 2011
To the family and friends of Lance Cpl. Steven L. Phillips:
Please accept my remembrance of Steven on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.
Peggy Childers
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
peggy zollars
November 13, 2010
God Bless you for serving our country, never had the privelege of meeting you but I know you are in heaven, thank you for protecting us.....
Deb Ten Eyck
November 13, 2010
We miss you very much and love you. We went to the Chevy dealer on Veterans day and drove a 2011 Camaro SS 6 speed you would have loved it. It was white and burnt orange. Comcast finally decided to let get to Legacy today. it still won't let me comment on My Space so I'm alittle late but then I know you understand that.... =^}
rich barger
November 11, 2010
Today is Veteran's Day and our thoughts turn to memories of you. Thank you for our freedom. We love and miss you.
The Bargers
michele pinkney
May 29, 2010
thank u for your service to our country may god keep u in his loving arms
Deb Ten Eyck
May 28, 2010
It is Memorial Day weekend and I want to thank you for our Freedom. And tell you I love you and miss you.
Debra & Travis Ten Eyck
April 28, 2010
Happy Birthday Marine!! We visited you yesterday, though windy it was still nice to set awhile with you. We love and miss you.
February 16, 2010
Hey Bud,
Well the weather is very much like when you left for boot camp and when they brought you home to the states. Both times a winter storm delayed our plans as they did my ability to write on the 7th. Our electric is now back on and I've worked the bugs out of the DSL. We think of you every day with smiles as we remember your funny one liners, your wonderful personality and the many little things that made you the special person you were. Know that you are loved and missed by sooooo many people and we know that you are watching over us.
Love you always,
MOM & DAD
February 11, 2010
We miss you. Thank you for keeping us free.
The Bargers
Peggy Childers
February 7, 2010
To the family and friends of Lance Cpl. Steven L. Phillips:
Remembering Steven on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
cindy ennis
February 7, 2010
keep your hearts filled with those presious memories of him and his light will shine in your hearts..
charolett cozort
February 7, 2010
May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.
Deb
February 7, 2010
Another year has past and it still feels like yesterday. I know the tears are for me not you. For all the things we will miss. Even the snow falling makes me think of you. Know that we are all PROUD of you and Thank you for who you are to us. You are our HERO! We will never forget you and the THINGS YOU HAVE DONE FOR US. We Love You.
Deb
December 24, 2009
Merry Christmas Steve. All I can think about is you. Miss you and love you. I'm very PROUD of you.
November 13, 2009
I miss you so much and am very Proud of you. Yesterday was a rough one for me. Wish you were here.
LUV YA
November 11, 2009
Steven,
I think of you so very often but today on Veterans Day I hope you know how much you are thought of. Thank you for making this country a place of freedom.
Hope you and my dad are sharing some old war stories up there!
Love and Miss you,
Rich
Peggy Mertz
August 19, 2009
To the family of Lance CPL. Steven L. Phillips, my thoughts and prayers are with your family. We, the Military Affairs Committe of Hampton, Va recogize those we have lost on 9-11 and those we have lost on the war on Terror. We invite family members that have lost loved ones to a observance we hold every 9-11 in Hampton, Va. We have read your son's name during our ceremony since 2007. If you are ever interested in attending our observance, you are always welcome.
My name is Peggy Mertz, you can reach me at [email protected]
Bill
May 25, 2009
Rest In Peace. I did not know you in life but from all that I read you were an amazing person and that the world is a darker place with out you. I will never forget and I will always cherish your gift of Freedom.
Kenna Larra
May 1, 2009
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Kenna
April 29, 2009
Good Morning Bud,
Sorry I'm late with the birhtday wishes. I wrote something that morning, but you know me and technology. Monday was a beautiful day and Isa and I spent time at your memorial sight watching the lights come on. I know you are not really there, but I like to visit and talk to you. You are in our thoughts and many of our conversations every day. I think about where you would be and what you would be doing if you were still with us. I try to the visualize the house by the pond you dreamed of building. I wonder if your hand is guiding me when I meet new people in need of assitance, and they turn out to be Military. You are and always will be a huge driving force in our lives. Happy 31 years of touching the world.
Love,
Ma
Robert and Cheri Phillips
April 27, 2009
Happy Birthday Steve.
You are missed by all who had the privlege to know and to love you.
Love,
Junior, Cheri, Abby and Nathan
Deb, & Trav
April 27, 2009
Steve,
We miss you so much. All our love on your birthday.
Don, Deb, And Travis Ten Eyck
February 7, 2009
Never forgotten and always in our hearts. We miss you dearly. ALL OUR LOVE
Richard and Anita Phillips
February 7, 2009
Dear Steven,
The years you were with us
Went by much too fast,
But the time that we shared
Are the memories that last.
It may seem like you're gone,
But it's not true somehow;
Because if we close our eyes,
You are here with us now.
Your handsome physique,
Your warm embrace,
And that big bright smile
That lights up your face.
You accomplished many things,
You always did your best,
But now is the time,
For you to just rest.
We will be together again,
Walking in the sand on the shore,
In a perfect place
Without problems and war.
Until that day comes
When we are no longer apart,
We will see you in our dreams
And feel you in our heart.
Loving you always,
Uncle Rich, Aunt Anita, Tim & Kim
Rich Barger
February 7, 2009
Steve,
You have been on my mine this past week. Miss you and that wonderful smile.
Love, Rich
Guard Duty, Eupr=hrates River, Iraq
February 7, 2009
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