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Ronald Montanari Obituary
Ronald R. Montanari
of Endicott
8/12/1936 - 7/7/2008
A Funeral Service for Ronald R. Montanari will be held 10 a.m., Saturday, July 12, 2008 at Our Lady of Good Counsel Church, 701 W. Main St., Endicott, where a Funeral Mass will be offered. Interment will be at the family's convenience. The family will receive friends at the Coleman & Daniels Funeral Home, Inc., 300 E. Main St., Endicott, Friday from 5 to 8 p.m. Endicott Lodge #1977 BPOE will conduct a Lodge of Sorrow at the funeral home at 7:45 p.m. Those wishing may make contributions in Ron's memory to the American Cancer Society, Broome County Chapter, 13 Beech St., Johnson City, NY 13790 or to the American Heart Association, Broome County Chapter, 59 Court St., Binghamton, NY 13901.
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Memories and Condolences
for Ronald Montanari
Ernest Hamilton
August 9, 2008
Lorraine,
Ron was a simple man for all to admire for the ability to be a father, husband, and a true gentle man. My words can never flow from my tongue to express the loss of all. The world was at a stand still in reverence for a father whose love was foremost in his children. The husband who's love for the woman that captured his heart and was able to hold in her hand with his blessing. The gentle man will never be forgotten in simplicity, honesty, and the stories that everyone took away some quote or memory from.
My prayers are with you along with my love!
Adrien & (Monique) Mercure xoxoxo
August 9, 2008
Dear Aunt Lorraine, Debbie & Mike,
Adrien is presently hospitalized in Quebec but he wanted us to send you his sincere sympathy. He will always remember your visits to Saint Basile, the happy times we all spent in the basement either playing pool, singing or dancing. May the memories of the love and laughter shared in those moments remain close to your hearts.
Adrien's thoughts and prayers are with you.
Sending you his love,
Francine, Rino & Sébastien Bossé xoxox
August 9, 2008
Dear Aunt Lorraine, Debbie & Mike,
It is always sad to lose someone we love but Uncle Ron will always be with you. Keep the happy memories alive and smile when you think of him. Sending you our love and prayers.
Love
Lynne Levesque
August 9, 2008
Dear Aunt Lorraine, Mike, Debbie and the Montanari Family.
We were so sorry to hear of Uncle Ron's passing away so suddenly.
May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well-lived.
All our Love.
Lynne, Martin, Jean-François and Nicolas
sherry palmer
August 9, 2008
Dear Lorraine, Mike and Debbie,
So sorry to hear about the loss of Ron. I will never forget our little chats either in person or by phone. I can still hear his voice today calling your name . He was a very kind caring friend, who will be sadly missed, but in my heart forever..
Bonnie Fortini
August 9, 2008
Dear Lorraine and family,
We were so saddened to hear of Ron's passing. Distance and time never dulled the good memories Jim had of his cousin Ron. I join him in sending you our deepest sympathies and love at this most difficult of times.
Jim and Bonnie Fortini
Roque Bluffs, Maine
Rob Montanari
August 9, 2008
It was a privelage to have him as an uncle. I wish I could have spent more time with him over the years but am thankful for the time I did spend with him.
Jane Salata
August 9, 2008
Dear Lorraine, Mike and Debbie,
I know the loss of Ron will leave an empty place in your hearts than none will ever fill. I will always remember Ron's humor, his compassion, his active mind and his depth of soul. It was a privilege to walk this earth with him for a time, and to be able to say that we were family.
love, Cousin Jane
Yvette Martin
August 8, 2008
My Dear Sister,
Nothing can ever prepare us for the loss of a loved one. Ron was a kind man who will be greatly missed by all who loved him.
"A special person remembered and a beautiful life honoured".
Thinking of you Lorraine, Mike and Debbie.
With Love,
Yvette and family
Lise McClure
August 8, 2008
Chere Tante Lorraine, Mike & Debbie
Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time. We are sorry for your loss...
Jacques , Lise and family xoxo
Bobby Montanari
August 8, 2008
Dear Lorraine, Mike, & Debbie …
Ron gave me a gift that I will never be able to repay – the gift of great optimism in the face of adversity – the ability to make the best of every situation. I will forever remember his ready smile and his hearty laugh … and especially, his uncanny talent for being able to pull a story from his past to fit every occasion. I never tired from listening to them … even the repeats got better each time. ;)
Not a day … not a day has passed since late June that Ron has not been in my thoughts and prayers. I feel so guilty for not having spent more time with all of you … we never seem to realize it until the time has slipped away forever.
As Ron’s youngest brother, I will ALWAYS look up to him – his cheerfulness has been, and will always be, an inspiration to all who knew him. In an age stress, Ron was as refreshing as an ocean breeze on a hot summer's night. In an age of outrageous behavior, Ron was a man of virtue, honesty, and class. I miss him ...
Love you all,
Nancy Bellefleur
August 8, 2008
Tante Lorraine, Mike, Debbie and family
I was sorry to hear the loss of uncle Ron. When I stop to think, I remember the big smile on uncle face to see the satisfaction of winning our game of pool together. He will be missed. My thoughts and prayer's are with you.
Nancy, Manon and André
Jorma. Norma, Krysta & Khalia Lappi
August 8, 2008
Aunt Lorraine, Mike & Debbie
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories with us bring you comfort.
Jorma Norma Krysta & Khalia Lappi
August 8, 2008
Dear Aunt Lorraine, Mike & Debbie
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Colette Turnbull
August 8, 2008
Dear Aunt Lorraine, Mike & Debbie,
We were so sad to hear of Uncle Ron's passing. Nothing makes sense at a time like this. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you Mike and Debbie in these difficult times. He will be remembered fondly.
With Sincere Sympathy,
Colette, John, Shawn & Trevor
Diane Levesque
August 8, 2008
Tante Lorraine, Debbie and Mike,
So sorry to hear the lost of Uncle Ron. I heard the news from Mom last week and want to let you know my thoughts and prayers are with all of you. My deepest Sympathy
Solange Smart
August 7, 2008
Tante Lorraine, Mike & Debbie,
We were so sorry to hear about your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. Please remember that fond memories live on forever. We love you very much.
Solange, Ray, Jamey, Kim
Roger Levesque
August 7, 2008
Our deepest sympathies Aunt Lorraine. I was not aware of his passing until I received this email. My family and my thought's are with you and your family. It's unfortunate that I did not visit you the last time we were down east. Again please accept our sympathies to you and your Family.
Roger "junior" Levesque and family
Aline Mercure
August 7, 2008
Tante Lorraine, Mike and Debbie,
We were all very sad to be informed of uncle Ron's passing. He was a very cheerfull uncle, always eager to make us smile. He will be missed and we understand your feelings of loss and sadness having lost our Dad so quickly. Know that our thoughts and prayers are with you ....Lorraine ma petite soeur je prie pour toi et ta famille..bon courage, Love you Joyce , Diane, Maurice, Aline, Yvon, Nancy and our respective families
Nicole, Reneild, Manon & Josée Deschênes xoxoxoxo
August 7, 2008
Dear Aunt Lorraine, Debbie & Mike,
Let each tear that falls
be a gentle reminder
that you and Uncle Ron
truly loved each other,
and made such a meaningful difference
in each other's lives -
and that, is a gift
that no loss or sorrow,
or time or distance
can ever take away.
Tante Lorraine,
"Un être cher, même s'il nous quitte, continue de vivre dans les pensées des gens qui l'ont aimé."
Uncle Ron is watching out for you - he's your angel. May you always have love, comfort and courage.
Thinking of you,
Our prayers are with you,
All our love,
Lenora, Albert & the Mercure family xoxxox
August 7, 2008
Dear Lorraine, Debbie, Mike & Montanari family,
When the joys
are still remembered
But the sorrow
has quietly gone,
There will always be
a special place
In the heart —
where love lives on.
May your
special memories
be a comfort to you
at this time.
Thinking of you, Lorraine & family,
and wishing there were words
that could take away your sadness.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
We will miss you, Ron.......there will always be a special place for you in our hearts.
Love
Mary Montanari
July 30, 2008
Lorraine, Mike and Debbie,
It is still so hard to believe that Ron is no longer walking among us. He will always be my big brother…the brother who loved to tell me of the day I was born, and of our Dad being told that he had a daughter. He was grown and about to join the Air Force by the time I started elementary school, and married, working for IBM in NY and about to start a family as I entered junior high school. Yet, somehow, even though distance and life’s circumstances kept us from seeing each other as often as we would have liked, it was wonderful knowing that he was always ‘there’, just a phone call away, or in more recent years, an e-mail, away…my big, teddy-bear-hug-giving brother. I will always love him so much...and I will miss him terribly. Please know that he and all of you are in my thoughts and prayers. My own comfort comes from knowing that he is with our Mom and Dad now, giving them the smile and hugs that I will ALWAYS remember…maybe dancing with Mom…and watching over all of us. I love you….always know that I am here for you. Love Always….Mary
Larry Corsini
July 27, 2008
Jerry and family:
I was sad to hear of the loss of your brother.
I have fond memories of our school years in Plymouth together.
My thoughts are with you and your entire extended family at this time.
Larry Corsini
Idaho Falls, Idaho
(formerly of Plymouth)
Linda Côté
July 23, 2008
Lorraine, I was deeply saddened to hear of Ron’s passing. Please accept my profound sympathy to you and your family. The two of you were poetry in motion when you danced together. I remember Ron as a kind, gracious, and charming man. He will be in my thoughts always.
"I know for certain that we never lose the people we love, even to death. They continue to participate in every act, thought and decision we make. Their love leaves an indelible imprint in our memories. We find comfort in knowing that our lives have been enriched by having shared their love." - Leo Buscaglia
Fernand Cote
July 23, 2008
Deepest sympathies go out to you aunt Lorraine, Mike and Debbie. Uncle Ron was a very kind and giving man. We enjoyed your trips to Komoka when you came to visit us and mom (Anita). I remember uncle Ron sitting in mom's chair watching the football games. I especially liked the time when we sat on my backyard deck, barbecuing T-Bone steaks and sipping on a nice fine wine. Still remember the times when you uncle Ron, Debbie & Mike came to visit us in Inverhuron Ontario, that was allot of fun. One of the happiest times I can recall was when we were all dancing in my house and you and uncle Ron danced the waltz. I lit a candle for uncle Ron along with my thoughts and prayer at the Coleman & Daniels Funeral Home at www.colemananddaniels.com in Endicott. He will be missed dearly by me, my daughters Stephanie & Melissa. Uncle Ron is in our prayers. Love Fern, Stephanie & Melissa.
Carol Montanari
July 21, 2008
Lorraine, Mike, & Deb, I still can't believe Ron is gone, Every day when I open my email, I expect to see a note from him - something about the military, or a joke I already sent to HIM. I didn't see him as much as I would've liked but I always knew he was there. He was always supportive and an optimist. I loved him even though he was Yankees fan. That was the best - watching the Red Sox/Yankees playoff games with him in '04. I've never seen him so speechless. I will truly miss him. He had a great smile but his hugs are what will live on forever. Know that I'm here for you guys. Love, Carol
Jeanne Baker
July 20, 2008
Lorraine, Michael, & Debbie After all these years of knowing all of you, where do we begin to express our shared loss and grief. We have so many great memories to cherish always. Ron was a beloved friend to all , and will be missed dearly. May our thoughts and prayers be with you daily. Jeanne , Jesse Jr. , & Joel Baker
Pat Kelly
July 20, 2008
Dear Lorraine & Family: Jim and I are deeply saddened about Ron's passing. Though we are so far removed, you and Ron always held a special place in our hearts. Our most sincere condolences and our thoughts and prayers are with you and the children during this difficult time.
Denise Levesque
July 18, 2008
Tante Lorraine, Mike and Debbie,
I'm so sorry to hear that uncle Ron past away. I was away for a few weeks so I just heard about it today. My toughts and prayers are with you.
Denise, (The nice) Paul, Vincent and Dominic
Karin Montanari
July 16, 2008
Aunt Lorraine, Mike, Debbie....
I saw this poem, and I saw Uncle Ron in many of the words. I hope you will too. He will be missed by all of us so much. My love, thoughts, and prayers are with you all.
XO Love Karin
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To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man."
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2008
gerald Sharon DiRienzo
July 15, 2008
To Lorraine and family
Ron was a great brother Elk and friend. He will be missed by all.
Matt & Barbara Intrieri
July 14, 2008
Ron was a giant of a man, an American citizen who loved his fellow man. He will be missed by all who knew him. We will not forget...
mike maione
July 13, 2008
well now that time has past and the shock is easing up its time to say somthing about the loss of ron..when i think of ron and lorriane all i do is smile..what a super couple..ron will be missed by all of us.a piece of us was taken away and now we go on...to his family you were very lucky to have had him..there is not too many rons around...our hearts and prayers go out to all his loved ones
Tom and Jeanne Maini
July 13, 2008
Our condolences to all the family on your loss.
Patti Scheiwe
July 11, 2008
Lorraine,
We were shocked and saddened with the news that Ron had passed away. He was a wonderful man. We are very glad we had the opportunity to have known him.
Patti and Kurt Scheiwe
Formerly of Endicott, NY
Carla & Mike Martin
July 11, 2008
We would like to extend our sincere sympathy to the entire family. Please know that we are thinking of you at this time of extreme sadness.
Katrina
July 11, 2008
To all of you, I am very sorry for your loss, Ron was a wonderful man.
Gerald Levesque
July 11, 2008
Ma tante Loraine, Mike and Debbie,
We are shocked by the sudden turn of events and are deeply saddened for your loss. It is hard to comprehend and we are never prepared for such an happening. It is written "Il viendra comme un voleur dans la nuit..." Our thoughts are with you during this period of mourning. All our love.
Pauline, Gerald & Fred.
JOE MCKAY
July 11, 2008
LORRAINE&FAMILY: AT YOUR TIME OF GREAT LOSS,MY CONDOLENCES TO ALL.
Oscar Levesque
July 10, 2008
Dear Aunt Lorraine, Cousin Mike & Cousin Debbie:
So sorry to hear about Uncle Ron. Our deepest sympathies are with you all. Even though our lives were not always together are heart and thoughts are always with you.
Love
Oscar, Denise & Nicole Levesque
Kendra Watkins
July 10, 2008
Lorraine, Mike and Debbie,
Our deepest condolenses. Please know that we are thinking of you all and sending our tightest hugs over the miles.
Our love,
Kendra, Rob and Emily
Ronald Levesque
July 10, 2008
Dear Lorraine &Family
We were so sorry to hear about the loss of Ron,he was such a nice brother-in law.We are all going to miss him very much.We feel so sad for you and Debbie & Mike Our prayers and thoughts are with you. All our love Therese &Ronald
Gene & Laura Pastrick
July 10, 2008
It is at times like this that make the miles between us seem even further. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Ron was one of those rare individuals that evoked respect just by being among us.
Karyn & John Koutsaris
July 10, 2008
A wonderful man who loved to help others, who spoke kindly, and loved life will truely be missed at the lodge. Our thoughts are with you.
Barbara Smith
July 10, 2008
Lorraine, Mike and Debbie,
Our heartfelt sympathy goes out to you and your family. Ron will be missed by all who had the pleasure of knowing him. He was surely a gentleman whose life was built on integrity and honor and who had a unique sense of humor.
In prayers, love and friendship,
Barb Smith and George Midwinter
Betty Woodhouse
July 10, 2008
Dear Aunt Lorraine, Mike, & Debbie
Although there is very little anyone can say or do to make things easier for you at this sad time, please know that mom (Anita -Komoka, Ont.) and I love you and keep you close in our thoughts, in our hearts, and in our prayers.
Deb Tristan
July 10, 2008
Debbie & Family,
Please know you are all in our thoughts & prayers. Our deepest sympathies go out to your family. If you need anything please let my parents know.
Our Love,
Deb (G.) & Jerry Tristan
Lew & Arlene Gargiulo (Little River, SC)
James and Andrea Olevano
July 10, 2008
We are both deeply saddened by your loss. Ron was a great guy and a dear friend.
Cheryl Tiffany
July 10, 2008
We will truly miss this gentle and caring friend, our thoughts and prayers are with the family in this very difficult time. God bless you, Cheryl and Bill Tiffany
Maureen Monteiro
July 10, 2008
Lori-
I am so sorry for your loss! I had no idea that your husband was ill.
Please take care and be assured of my prayers.
Maureen.
The Laplante family Lucille Laplante
July 10, 2008
Aunt Lorraine, Mike and Debbie,
So sorry to hear of Uncle Ron's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your special memories bring you comfort.
All our love,
Lucille, Rick, Erica and Brianna
Cathy Massie
July 10, 2008
Lorraine,
My most sincere and deepest sympathies. I was so shocked!!
Ron was such a caring and wonderful man. I am just so sorry.
Cathy Massie and Mike DiPietro
Clare Montanari
July 10, 2008
Lorraine, prayers and thoughts are being sent from me and my Mom, Ida Banzi......
Shannon Bambara
July 10, 2008
A wonderful, kind, soft spoken man that will surely be missed.
The Bambara Family
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