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Freddie James Obituary


Freddie Lee James
of Endicott
Surrounded by loved ones at home, the spirit of Freddie Lee James of Endicott was released to his heavenly mansion early Sunday, September 14, after a long-suffering stance against prostate cancer. He was predeceased by his mother, Sarah Kilpatrick James; and by brothers, Rumell and Herbert James, all of Tallahassee, Florida. Fred was born there in 1938 and often recalled the simplistic joy and love of his extended family household on the beautiful farmland of his youth in Leon County. Fred was an exceptional father and dedicated family man, an attentive son, sibling, grandfather, uncle, husband and friend. While we rejoice in his being with the Lord, he leaves behind to mourn his sweetheart of ten and adoring wife of five years, Brenda Cave-James; three children from his previous marriage to Shirley Monroe, daughter, Ursula N. James (Chubasco) with children, Nyhiim, Amir and Asani, College Park, Ga.; daughter, Joycelyn R. James (David), Washington D.C.; son, Jarrard K. James (Michelle) with children, Justice, Marquise and Adrianna, Endicott. "Daddy James" received with open arms the adult children of Brenda: Andre, now in Kuwait; Regina (Damon), Phoenix; Robin (Anwar Sr.), Binghamton; and Phillip, Ithaca. Freddie was a wonderful "Grandpa James" to Robin's Aliyah, Nafisah, Anwar Jr. and little "Shazee-Bear." Fred also leaves grieving his dear father, Tony James Sr.; and sister, Delores (Lawrence) Roberts and family, all of Tallahassee; sister, Lillie Ruth (Pelman) Blackshear and family, Atlanta; and brother, Leroy (Runette) James and family, Houston. There are many, many dear cousins and relatives, in-laws, church family, and the best of friends and neighbors (especially Charlie) who love Fred and will miss him greatly. Freddie Lee James graduated from Tallahasse's Lincoln High School in 1958. He felt so blessed, despite his illness, to have recently returned to celebrate his 50th class reunion. He attended Florida A&M University for one year before his required U.S. Army service in the Panama Canal zone. Freddie later earned a Bachelor of Science degree in Industrial Technology from Alabama's historical Tuskegee Institute. He relocated to Endicott in 1969 upon recruitment by IBM, from where he retired an engineering career spanning 25 years. In 1978, while establishing life here, Fred pledged into the fraternal brotherhood of Kappa Alpha Psi, desiring to mentor young men of color through college and career endeavors. In his post retirement years, Freddie was until very recently employed by NYS DOT as an Inspector. Of more importance to Brother Freddie James was the work of his heavenly Father. Reared in a God fearing family, his spiritual and selfless nature evolved at an early age. In 1979 he chose Trinity African Methodist Episcopal (AME) Zion for his new church home in Binghamton, serving diligently in numerous positions, including Director of Christian Education and Leader of Class Leaders. Fred traveled far and wide to support any AME Zion Connectional service, conference or program. He faithfully opened the doors of church for early Sunday School and mid week Bible study lest one soul arrive for worship or prayer. Fred was a strong voice in the Trinity Singers Choir, Trinity Men's Choir, and was currently Pastor's Steward and Lay Council President for the AME Zion Albany District. He loved visiting the ill or home bound for spiritual uplifting. Singing in the choir and exploring the great abolitionist history of the AME Zion Church is what brought Freddie and Brenda together. He found a new joy in his last years discovering and teaching that aspect of his beloved church by dramatic impersonation and by the sharing of sacred spirituals. Freddie loved the theater, "Old School" Blues and Gospel music. He loved his vegetable garden and was also gifted in building or repairing with his hands. Fred enjoyed traveling, which he and Brenda did often for the church, their historical research and for the mere pleasure of viewing God's beautiful earth. We want to thank so many for the absolutely overwhelming outpouring of love in these last weeks and since Fred's passing. We are grateful to Dr. S. Kahn and company at Broome Oncology, the kind staff of Wilson's South Tower 5 and of course, Lourdes Hospice.
Fred's service and burial is Saturday, September 20, at 11a.m. at Fountain AME Chapel in Tallahassee, Florida. The local memorial service of music and celebration will be at 3 p.m., Saturday, September 27, at Trinity AME Zion Church, Oak and Lydia Streets in Binghamton, Reverends Ruby J. Smith and Ellis Perry officiating. Inquiries may be directed 722-9419. Arrangements are by MacPherson Funeral Home, Inc., 5 Whig St., Newark Valley, N.Y. 13811.
"Well done thou good and faithful servant."

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Published by Press & Sun-Bulletin from Sep. 18 to Sep. 19, 2008.

Memories and Condolences
for Freddie James

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Amy Schwab

October 16, 2009

Dear Brenda,
Though we knew Fred for only a short time, Ben and I always enjoyed being around him. He had a warm, loving nature, and his positive, easygoing attitude was infectious. When Fred came to Atlanta, we looked forward to our lunches with him. Though it meant driving across the city, it was definitely worth the trip.
We'll miss him.

October 7, 2009

Dear Brenda and family,
I to think of Fred daily as I drive past the house. He was a true example of how to live the Christian life. I thank God that I had the chance to know him and love him. Not only did Mike and I appreciate his gentle soul but our three sons have the greatest respect for him. May you find peace in your wonderful memories.

Janet Gilligan

Chubasco Spivey

October 5, 2009

Freddie J,

What can I say? I mean, you have shown me the true meaning of fatherhood; loyalty, dedication, resourcefullness, honor and love. I have so many fond memories from the many moments we shared throughout my life. I am grateful for your daughter, my soulmate, wife and the mother our our four children; the person that introduced me to you. You welcomed me into your family with open arms and supported me and our family in everything we strived to achieve for ourselves. It brings tears to my eyes, as I type this message, as I never got the chance to tell you how much I truly appreciate you and how thankful our children are; to be able to call you "Grandpa"! The Great Freddie James...shall live forever through your children, grandchilden, friends, family and me, Chubasco Spivey. When we see each other again, you have to show me how to play Suduko! I love you.

September 16, 2009

Dearest Fred, It has been a year and two days since you left this earth and we miss you as much now as then. You are in my thoughts more days than I ever knew you would be...and you are in George's and my conversations over and over again...so many wonderful times we all shared in Albany (we miss Tony too), in Poestenkill, in Endicott, Vestal, Trinity, and Phoenix... You are sorely missed by everyone who knew you; and to know you was to love you. You are not only Brenda's sweetheart, but mine too, because you made her so very very happy. We love you forever. Charmaine

Michelle Berry

November 8, 2008

Dear Brenda and Family,

My sweet Aquarian sister friend Brenda, I send you love and comfort at this time. You are in our whole family's prayers. Robert and I watched you and Freddie in our wedding video and wept silently with great sadness and love for the true love you two shared with one another and the world. We were honored to come to your wedding and are deeply saddened that your time together on earth was interrupted. May we all look forward to dancing with your sweetie in Heaven. All our love, Michelle Berry, Robert Lofthouse and Nina Berry-Lofthouse

Eurydice Mack

October 25, 2008

Dear Ursula,
I am so very sorry for your lose. It has been awhile but I'm glad I had the pleasure of meeting such a great man. My prayers go out to you and your family.

Sharon Carson

October 22, 2008

I never had the priviledge of meeting Mr. James, however, I feel like I know him as Ursula over the last 2 years has spoken of her father often. Ursula has shared with me what a good man he was and I know he has left a legacy that has touched many lives across the map. If Mr. James is anything like his daughter, he was a wonderful person and I am sorry I never met him. My condolences and prayers are for the James' family. Mr. James has not left as he still lives through each of you. Finally, one of the most comforting scriptures that God promises is in 1 Thessalonians 4: "...absent from the body present with the Lord." God bless each of you during this time.

Kay (Croft) Potter

October 21, 2008

Dear Brenda, I have just learned of your husband's passing from Charmaine. My deepest sympathy to you and your family. Hold tight to your memories and may they strength you. God bless.

Reggie Google Jr - Cousin

October 14, 2008

Ursula,

I just want to let you know that I love you cuz and that you all will always be in my prayers.

Gwen Google-Cousin

October 11, 2008

To Ursula and family,
I remember the special times we shared with your father at Ronnie's house. He was a special man and loved you very much. I know you will miss him. Treasure the time you had and know that all is well. Please call If you need to talk and know that I am praying for you all. Love to all the family.

Stephanie Files

October 9, 2008

Dear Ursula,
You and your family will continue to be in my thoughts and prayers. Just know that God alone is able to carry you through this most difficult time.
Love,
Your cousin Step

Regina Google

October 9, 2008

Ursula, try hard to allow God to BE in your life during this time. He knows every thing that you are facing (physically, emotionally, mentally, etc.) and he will be exactly what you need, if you let Him. It's not always easy to do that, b/c you want your Daddy to be your Daddy...no one else. But God has, and always will be your "Heavely Father"...the one who placed you in the trusting care of your father. I pray that His Loving Arms carry you through these hard times! He Truly is an Awesome God who gave you an awesome man to be your father!
BE FREE to laugh, cry, smile, fuss :), or just "be" in the moment. In doing this, Celebrate the life of the magnifisent man you called father. I'm praying for you and the rest of your family.
I love you cousin.

Brice Google

October 9, 2008

Ursula, I pray that God shows himself Mightily to you and your family during these hard times letting you know that his Grace is still sufficient and that you can always look to the hills from whence cometh your help because your help is in Him. Your dad was an awesome man of God and now resides forever where we should strive to be daily...In His Presence!!! I love you much.

Dwayne D'Avilar

September 30, 2008

Celebrating a life well lived. You have reached that Golden Shore.

Donna Mariotti

September 23, 2008

Dear Brenda - may you and your family find peace and comfort in the thought that Fred is in God's arms now. Although I never met him, he sounds like a wonderful man who had a positive influence on many lives. Our prayers are with you.

florence wolfe

September 21, 2008

I was so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.

Charlotte Sherman

September 21, 2008

Dearest Brenda, We are so sorry to hear of your loss but we also rejoice, knowing where Freddie is. We know he looked forward to being with the Lord from the time he asked Him into his heart. So, we pray for you at this time. But, we know you have the best of beautiful memories. Tears are a precious gift from the Lord.
Love, Jack and Charlotte Sherman

Marisa Fargnoli

September 20, 2008

I also played for the DebbStars on Mr. James softball team. I will never forget what a wonderful coach he was. Whenever life throws a curve ball, I know that I will have a chance to hit a homerun...even if I strike out first! We all Loved Mr James.

Desi zuHone (Fargnoli)

September 20, 2008

To The James Family,
Mr. James was an incredibly special man who impacted my life by being a part of my childhood. After all of these years I can still remember his positive energy and good natured personality. He coached our softball team year after year and always had something good to say to us whether we won the game or lost. He was the kind of person who truly knew the meaning of life and although I had not seen him since I was a child I never forgot him and never will. I am so sorry for your loss. Sincerely, Desi

Karol Brown

September 20, 2008

Dear Brenda and family, After reading your kind, sweet husbands' obituary ending with "Well done thou good and faithful servant", I imagined the joy Fred spread during his life-time. Then, I realized I had spent less than an hour with Fred and maybe three with you!! Isn't it amazing , how proficiently Gods light shown through Fred and you, to touch me with your kindness!! How impressive!! My heart goes out to you and yours, with great respect, Karol

Carly Eckler & Family

September 19, 2008

To the James Family: I just heard of the passing of Mr. James, and my condolences and heartfelt prayers go to the family. I grew up and graduated from UEHS with Joy. We were good friends and neighbors within the development so we spent a lot of time together. I have fond memories of spending time in their home and Mr. James making us girls laugh and smile. My thoughts and prayers are with your family and friends at this difficult time. God Bless.

jim , p dempsey

September 19, 2008

Freddie was a real gentleman, always courteous and respectful to everyone. He was always upbeat and was an inspiration to others. He was highly respected by his peers. He will always be in my thoughts and fondly remembered by all who knew him.

Bob and Kay Crofoot

September 19, 2008

We're so sorry to hear the sad news. Freddie was one of the first people Bob met when he moved to Endicott in 1969; they lived in the same apartment building. Then in 1986 we moved to Simon Drive and became neighbors again. Fred was a great neighbor and an enjoyable companion to all of us on the street. Much sympathy to Brenda and the kids.

Janet Gilligan

September 19, 2008

May God's tender loving care, give you strength and support during this difficult time. Freddie was a wonderful neighbor. We have been neighbors for almost 30 years. One could never have asked for a better one. He was always there with a helping hand or ear...as neighbors we have all been through life's up and downs and Fred was always there for us. My sympathies to "JK", Urusala, Joy and my newer friend Brenda...don't hestiate to ask if you need ANYTHING....love and blessings, The Gilligan Family

Patricia Campbell-Hills

September 18, 2008

To the Family: I am so very sorry to learn of Fred's passing. Several years ago,I met him at Frederick Douglass Mem.AMEZion Church in Elmira where I was a member. As a fellow Tallahassean,we learned that we knew some of the same people. As a matter of fact, Lillie Ruth and I were classmates at Lincoln High. Needless to say,great conversations ensued whenever I saw him. I actually expected to see him at a service held for another friend at Frederick Douglass this summer. I moved to Charlotte in 2001, so it's been awhile since I've seen him. It was a delight and pleasure to meet him(someone from home). He exuded such a warm,Christian spirit. My heart rejoices for the brief time I knew him! May you all be blessed and find peace and strength from the many memories and love that you shared with him. Sincere sympathy to all of you.

Kate Mcpherson (Zenzel)

September 18, 2008

Dear Brenda & Family,

I am very sorry for your loss. I worked with Fred at DOT when I first started in the summer of 1995 as a TCI. I have many fond memories of him he was a wonderful person. Please know my thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.

GLORIA GREEN-PATTERSON

September 18, 2008

LILLIE RUTH, GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY DURING THIS TIME .

Valerie Zehl

September 18, 2008

Dear Brenda and family,
Freddie's obituary is such a beautiful tribute and testament to a life well-lived and filled with love. We can want nothing more out of life than to leave such a legacy!
May your hearts be filled with peace at his passing ...
Love,
Valerie Zehl

Juanita Jefferson Cook

September 18, 2008

Whenever darkness grips your soul
And you are tempted to despair,
Remember Christ's unfailing love,
And trust His faithful, tender care.

Jesus provides an oasis of grace in the desert of grief.

A. Miriam Beale

September 18, 2008

Dear Brenda & Family, My thoughts and Prayers are with you for the Peace of the Lord to be with you in the memory of Fred. Above all, his service through Our Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ is an eternal testimony in his Homegoing. We thank the Lord for Fred's life. Well lived. Be encouraged in God's Word. John3:16 With Love, Miriam Beale

Lincoln Class of 1958

September 18, 2008

With Sympathy may it comfort you to know others are thinking of you at this difficult time. In memory of your Loved One ...One of the most treasured possessions a Loved One leaves is a Heart full of loving memories.

Olivia Jefferson Skinner[Class of 1958

September 18, 2008

Brenda May God Be With you In the loss of your love one, Tenderly may God's love heal your sorrow Gently may the prayers of friends ease your hurting, Softly...may God's peace replace your heartache with warm and loving memories.

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