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Brian St. Onge Obituary

ST. ONGE, BRIAN, age 37, of 93 Bayview Avenue, Bristol, died Saturday, July 12, 2008 at the Miriam Hospital, he was the husband of Maria (Mendonca) St. Onge.

Born in Providence a son of Roland and Martha (Huftalen) St. Onge of Bristol.

Brian worked as a machinist for ATP in Bristol. He was a communicant of St. Elizabeth's Church. A member of Tiverton Rod & Gun Club, he also loved fishing and football.

Besides his wife of 17 years and parents he is survived by two sons Daniel and Troy St. Onge, two daughters Tiffany and Victoria St. Onge; three sisters Debbie Ross, Darlene St. Onge, Pauline Vargas all of Bristol; two brothers Scott St. Onge of Bristol, James St. Onge of Fall River, MA; grandson of Ida Wagstaff. He was preceded in death by his grandparents Mr. & Mrs. Floyd Huftalen and Arthur St. Onge.

Funeral services from the Sansone Funeral Home, 192 Wood St., Bristol, Wednesday at 9 AM with a Mass of Christian Burial at 10:00 AM in St. Elizabeth's Church, Wood Street. Burial will follow in St. Mary's Cemetery. Visiting hours Tuesday 4-8 PM. For online condolences shared memory books, information, directions go to www.sansonefuneralhome.com

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Published by The Providence Journal on Jul. 14, 2008.

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We love you Brian.

November 6, 2008

Butch Houlker

September 5, 2008

Brian and
I were good friends and in
high school. I had been
trying to get in touch with
Brian for months, and I just
found out tonight about his
passing. I am blown away by
this. Brian was a great guy.
I am so, so sorry for your
loss. I will miss him.

Tiffany

September 3, 2008

Daddy,
Sometimes it's hard to breathe when I think about how you're not here. You're always on my mind 24/7. It doesn't even feel real, still. Sometimes I hear certain noises and I think it's you, I wake up and still think you'll be sitting in your chair smoking your cigars or playing a game. But you never are. I find ways to distract myself from thinking about all of this, and when I let myself feel it it's so overwhelming and I get so angry. You weren't even here to see me turn 18. You weren't here for Danny's birthday. You weren't there to go to New Hampshire with us. You won't be here for Thanksgiving, Halloween, or Christmas. You won't be here someday to see me graduate college or get my own apartment, you won't be here to scare the crap out of my boyfriends like Dads are supposed to do. And you won't be here to walk me down the aisle or hold your grandkids. You won't be here to see Troy start school, to see Danny and Toria graduate high school. You won't be here for anything and that's when I realize how unfair life really is. Other kids have their Dads and I'm jealous. I get so freaking jealous when someone mentions their Dad. I get jealous of little kids and babies even who have their Dads. Isn't that ridiculous?! I get so angry. God had no right to take you away from us. He had no right to take you away from Mom. You two loved each other so much, you were each other's everything. The only example of true love I know is real. I can't understand why someone would just rip that away from someone. I'm happy you're not suffering anymore but I still wish you were here or that I could have one more chance to just talk to you. I miss you with every fiber and cell of my being. I always will, there will always be a big hole in my heart that will never be filled, no matter who comes in my life, you will always occupy that space.

I love you. Please come back.

darlene

August 8, 2008

hi brian, it's been almost 4 weeks since you've been gone and it hasn't gotten any easier, I miss you so, so much! I can't stop thinking of you, it consumes my mind constantly! I would give anything for just one more hug from you! Ill never understand why it had to be you, never . Sometimes I'm filled with so much anger because you are gone. I just miss you and it hurts so much.
talk to you soon
love, darlene

dot desmarais

August 5, 2008

dear st. onge family,
my deepest sympathy to you all at this sad time, just to let you know that I share your grief and my heart is with every one of you. they say in time the sadness goes away and the many memories fill the void.
Martha, Roland, Deb, Darlene, Pauline, Jimmy, and Scott - remember that love lives forever
Maria, Tiffany, Danny, Victoria, and Troy - wrapped in every memory is the love you shared with your husband/dad.

Gina

July 31, 2008

hi jimmy, you probably dont remember me, but I knew you years ago from Riverside. I met you and Brian winchell. I am sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Wendy (Arel) Vento

July 22, 2008

Your family is in my thoughts and prayers. I am so very sorry for your loss of a loved one.

pauline vargas ( St.Onge)

July 20, 2008

Hey, little brother, I miss you so much, when I close my eyes you are there, when I take a walk , you are there, when I look up at the moon, you are still there. I know you are where you needed to be and someday we will meet again, until then, you are still here beside me . I Love You Brian with all my heart. Rest lil' brother rest. pauline

Edmund& Shirley Durand

July 19, 2008

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

toria St.onge

July 18, 2008

I love you so much daddy!Life dosen't seem the same with out
you.I know im not ready to let you go.I also know that youve come back a white butterfly,bright yellow on special occasions.Im wondering if you still remember the pizza that you dropped and took pictures of.I LOVE YOU SO MUCH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!I miss you.Wishing you'll come back someday.Wishing you the best in heaven!You are the strongest and bravest person i will ever know.I have never seen someone go through so much in my whole life.I LOVE AND MISS YOU SO MUCH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

darlene st.onge

July 17, 2008

Brian
I miss you so much! Not a day will pass when I will not think of you, you are definetely one of the strongest and bravest person that will ever walk on this earth! I know you are gone, but for some reason it just doesn't feel real or maybe I"m not ready to let go yet! Brian you were a very lucky man in life, you married a woman that loved you unconditionally, through sickness and in health as they say. Not once did I hear Maria ever complain about having to take care of you, you married one heck of a woman Brian! You have 4 wondeful children, and a family that loves you so, so much! You were lucky, most people don't get all that in a life time. I love you you little brother! Some day we will all be together again, then you'll be stuck with this crazy family again!
p.s. I see the white butterfly

love forever and ever
your sister darlene

cheryl stancil

July 14, 2008

another angel up in heaven to watch over all of your family. i know you are all sad but brian would want you to be at peace and know that he is watching over you.he is up there dancing with the angels knowing when it is your time you will be there to join him. he says no hurry he has all the time in the world now because he is at peace. when it is yours and gods time he will be there at the gates with welcome arms but until then. he wants you to have a heart full of sweet memories and kindness and to give the world as a whole everything you have to give. and maybe just maybe when you feel you have no more to give god will be ready to take you home. but until then you live life to the fullest. once in a while think of brian and what he may be thinking about something you are going through or even how he would deal with every day life that in all would be a contribute to him as the man he was raised to be and was. god bless all and old friend of the family sissy

rosemary andrade

July 14, 2008

may you rest in peace brian...
my deepest condolences to brians family... love rosie ,tesha and dylan

Mary E Viera-Moniz

July 14, 2008

To Pauline and Family --
I am so sorry for your loss. There are no words that can express what your family is going through. Just remember, he's at complete peace now, and the suffering he did through this horrible disease is over. God Bless all of you, and I truly believe he will take care of Brian's wife and the children.

Diane Ribeiro

July 14, 2008

Auntie Martha, Uncle Roland, Debbie, Darlene, Pauline, Jimmy & Scott.
Be proud of the man that Brian became. You all showed him the way to becoming the strong, courageous person that he was.
Maria, Tiffany, Danny, Victoria & Troy. My deepest sympathy goes out to all of you.
Please let me know if I can be of any help to you during this time of sorrow.
Love,
Brian's cousin

Tiffany

July 14, 2008

I miss you Dad and I love you more than life itself. Rest in peace. I'll see you one day...

All my love,
Tiffany

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