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Frances Jackvony Obituary

JACKVONY, FRANCES M. (FRATTARELLI), 92, of Warwick passed away peacefully on July 21, 2008. She was the wife of the late Alfred Jackvony, Sr. and daughter of the late Esterino and Antonetta (DeLuca) Frattarelli.

Her sons, Alfred Jackvony, Jr. and Bernard A. Jackvony, were at her side. She loved her two sons greatly but equally, always reminding them that she didn't play favorites.

She adored her two daughters-in-law, Claire Jackvony and the late Sharon Jackvony, referring to them as the daughters she never had. Frances was a talented, resilient woman who handled adversity with grace. She impressed people with her positive attitude and charming nature. During her time at Scandinavian Home in Cranston, she became a beloved member of their community. She loved the staff and appreciated the care she received. A skilled seamstress, Frances taught sewing for over 20 years. She also sewed for family, friends and others her entire life.

Besides sewing, Frances loved to sing. She was a founding member of Rhode Island's chapter of Harmony Incorporated, a barbershop singing group. As a member for over 50 years, she traveled throughout the U.S. and Canada, and often made the costumes for their competitions.

Frances had two brothers, the late Anthony A. Frattarelli and the late Angelo A. Frattarelli. Besides her sons, she is survived by her sisters-in-law, Eleanor Judge and Marie Frattarelli, and her grandchildren, Kevin Jackvony, Dina Santos, Natalie Jackvony, Bradford Jackvony and Randall Jackvony. She is also survived by 10 great-grandchildren.

Calling hours Thursday 4-8 PM. Funeral Friday at 9:45 AM from A.A. MARIANI & SON Funeral Home, 200 Hawkins St., Providence, with a Mass of Christian Burial at 11 AM in St. Ann Church, Hawkins St., Providence. Burial in St. Francis Cemetery, Pawtucket. In lieu of flowers, Frances' family asks that donations be sent to The Marrow Foundation, Sharon A. Jackvony Patient Assistance Fund, 400 Seventh Street NW, Suite 206, Washington, DC 20004. WWW.MARIANIANDSON.COM

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Published by The Providence Journal on Jul. 23, 2008.

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Cathy Finelli

July 28, 2008

Bernie,

My deepest sympathy on the loss of your mother. From the beautiful notes you have received, she sounds like a wonderful person.
I first met you through your cousin, Marilyn, (who I still miss very much!) and through my late husband, Joe. Marilyn spoke so highly of you and Sharon. I am also very sorry about your loss of Sharon. Although it is inevitable that we will experience the loss of our loved ones, we are never quite prepared for the grief that we feel. May time help to ease all of the sorrow that is in your heart.

In sympathy,

Louise and Lou Frattarelli

July 25, 2008

Dear "Cousin" Bernie and Family . . .

Loving memories of a lovely lady, Cousin Frances.The gatherings with the "girls", her close cousins, Margaret, Helen, Lena, Mary, Frances, Catherine, Flora, are so vivid. They so enjoyed each other and we them. Their legacy of "family" is their gift to us...one we will always treasure.
Our sympathy and prayers to all of Frances's family and friends.

Most sincerely,
Louise & Lou Frattarelli

stella mc gonigle

July 25, 2008

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man."

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2008

Linda Castaldi

July 25, 2008

Dear Bernie,

I was so sorry to hear of your mom's passing. May your memories of your mom bring you comfort. Please know you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Sincerely,

John and Mary Cheryl Hargrove

July 24, 2008

Dear Bernie...We are very sorry to hear about your mom's passing. As your good friends we feel that with each loss you have suffered, we too have lost a dear member of your family as well. Your mom was of a special generation -- one that is part of our wonderful legacy and will never be forgotten. John and Mary Cheryl

Diane Valerien

July 23, 2008

Dear Bernie, I am so sorry to hear of your mothers passing. I know you know where she is now and God will bring you comfort. I think of you and Sharon so many times and all the strength that the Lord gave you. May the Lord continue to comfort and keep you. You are in my prayers.

Thomas & Linda Iannitti

July 23, 2008

Dear Bernie:

Sincere sympathy on the loss of your Mother. We wish you the best.

Ray Skiera

July 23, 2008

To Bernard & Alfred; With Deepest sympathy. Your Mom often had tasty foods and deserts,and she was a real sweet person. I worked with your dad for several years,and had occasion to meet both of you. Sincerly Ray Skiera

Maureen & Wayne Chastain

July 23, 2008

Dear Bernie,

I'm so sorry to hear about your mother. Our prayers are with you.

Louis Ferretti

July 23, 2008

Dear Bernie,
I was so sorry to hear of the loss of your Mom, May you and your family be bless by God, I know that your Mom will rest in internal peace in heaven.

Louis Ferretti

July 23, 2008

Dear Bernie, I was so sorry to hear of the loss of your Mom, May you and your family be bless by God, I know that your Mom will rest in internal peace in heaven.

wally pickford

July 23, 2008

Dear Bern and Al and Families: I will not even attempt to list the many ways your mother touched the Bub and me. Suffice it to say that she was one of the most optimistic and uplifting people in the world. I did, however, guesstimate the cost of feeding me from my courtship with Marilyn in 1959 to her passing in 1992. The sum exceeds $250,000. From pepper biscuits to apple pie. . .Auntie Frances helped to transform my digestive complexion from Irish delicacies like one-slice bologna sandwiches on white bread to savory and succulent Italian favorites. I may be Irish on the outside, but I have become Italian on the inside. My x-rays, thanks to Auntie Fran's culinary gifts, will no doubt confound the coroner as to my exact ethnicity. In all seriousness, I am sorry I can't be there to wish her well on her Heavenly adventure. She lived a good life. Take heart. Wally

Angelo D'Ercole

July 23, 2008

My heart felt sorrow for your
grave loss, and time of great grief!!!

Saul & Jackie Feinstein

July 23, 2008

Our condolences. Frances was a fine & family loving woman. We will pray for her soul.

Paul Jones

July 23, 2008

Dear Bernie,
Our deepest sympathy to you and your family.

Sincerely,
Linda and Paul Jones

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